Interpersonal Communication 1st Year 2024 PDF
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University of Karbala
2024
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These lecture notes cover interpersonal communication, including principles, objectives, types, and techniques for effective communication
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5/21/2024 INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION ﻣﮭﺎرات اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ اﻟﺸﺨﺼﻲ ا.د ﻋﻠﻲ ﻋﺑد اﻟرﺿﺎ اﺑو طﺣﯾن إﺳﺗﺷﺎري طب اﻷﺳرة ﻛﻠﯾﺔ اﻟطب – ﺟﺎﻣﻌﺔ ﻛرﺑﻼء 1...
5/21/2024 INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION ﻣﮭﺎرات اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ اﻟﺸﺨﺼﻲ ا.د ﻋﻠﻲ ﻋﺑد اﻟرﺿﺎ اﺑو طﺣﯾن إﺳﺗﺷﺎري طب اﻷﺳرة ﻛﻠﯾﺔ اﻟطب – ﺟﺎﻣﻌﺔ ﻛرﺑﻼء 1 Objectives اھﺪاف اﻟﻤﺤﺎﺿﺮة To know the principles, types and procedures of interpersonal communication (IPC). ﻟﻣﻌرﻓﺔ ﻣﺑﺎدئ ﻋﻣﻠﯾﺔ اﻟﺗواﺻل ،اﻻھﻣﯾﺔ ،اﻷﻧواع وﻋﻧﺎﺻر اﻟﺗواﺻل To know factors that affect communication ﻟﺗﺣدﯾد اﻟﻌواﻣل اﻟﺗﻲ ﺗؤﺛر ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﻣﻠﯾﺔ اﻟﺗواﺻل To identify some techniques to improve communication ﻟﻣﻌرﻓﺔ ﺑﻌض اﻟطرق واﻟﻣﮭﺎرات اﻟﺗﻲ ﺗﻌزز اﻟﺗواﺻل 2 1 5/21/2024 3 Definition of Communication The process by which individuals exchange information, ideas, and/or feelings in order to produce an effect or reaction. ھﻲ اﻟﻌﻣﻠﯾﺔ اﻟﺗﻲ ﯾﺗم ﻣن ﺧﻼﻟﮭﺎ ارﺳﺎل:ﻋﻣﻠﯾﺔ اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﺑﮭدف ﺗﺑﺎدل، واﺳﺗﻘﺑﺎل اﻟﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت ﺑﯾن ﺷﺧﺻﯾن او اﻛﺛر ، اﻻﻓﻛﺎر او اﻟﻣﺷﺎﻋر ﻟﻐرض اﺣداث ﻧﺗﯾﺟﺔ، اﻟﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت.او ﺗﺄﺛﯾر 4 2 5/21/2024 ﻣﻜﻮﻧﺎت اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ Elements of the Communication Process ﻋﻨﺎﺻﺮ اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ The sender اﻟﻣرﺳل Idea اﻟﻔﻛرة Coding (Encoding) اﻟﺗﺷﻔﯾر Transmission اﻟﻧﻘل Communication Channels ﻗﻧوات اﻟﺗواﺻل The receiver اﻟﻣﺳﺗﻠم Reception اﻻﺳﺗﻼم Decoding ﻓك اﻟﺷﻔرة Idea/effect اﻟﺗﺄﺛﯾر، اﻟﻔﻛرة Feedback اﻟﺗﻐذﯾﺔ اﻟراﺟﻌﺔ 6 3 5/21/2024 8 4 5/21/2024 9 5 5/21/2024 Exercises Where the message lost (Nonverbal) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D- YHC8b6Hjk 11 Relationship between the elements of the communication process There is a sequential relationship between the elements. Obstacles of effective communication can arise at any of the elements An obstacle in any element will affect the elements that follow, reducing the effectiveness of the communication ﺗوﺟد ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﻣﺗﺗﺎﻟﯾﺔ ﺑﯾن اﻟﻌﻧﺎﺻر إن وﺟود أي ﻣﻌوق ﻓﻲ أي ﻣن اﻟﻌﻧﺎﺻر ﺳﯾؤﺛر ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﺑﻘﯾﺔ.ﻣﻌوﻗﺎت اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻗد ﺗظﮭر ﺑﻌض اﻟﻣﻌوﻗﺎت ﻓﻲ طرﯾﻖ اﻻﺗﺻﺎل اﻟﻔﻌﺎل ﻓﻲ أي وﻗت ﻓﮭذا ﯾﻘﻠل ﻣن ﻓﻌﺎﻟﯾﺔ اﻻﺗﺻﺎل،إذا ﺗﺄﺛر أي ﻣن اﻟﻌﻧﺎﺻر 6 5/21/2024 Feedback reflects whether communication has been effective or not. The process is not static. The original sender becomes the receiver when getting feedback and the receiver becomes the sender when sending feedback The original sender reinforces the message and/or corrects when reacting to the feedback اﻟﺗﻐذﯾﺔ اﻻﺳﺗرﺟﺎﻋﯾﺔ ﺗﻌﻛس إذا ﻛﺎن اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻓﺎﻋﻼ أم ﻻ ﻓﺎﻟﻣرﺳل اﻷﺻﻠﻲ ﯾﺻﺑﺢ ﻣﺳﺗﻘﺑﻼ ﻋﻧدﻣﺎ ﯾﺣﺻل ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﺗﻐذﯾﺔ، ھذه اﻟﻌﻣﻠﯾﺔ ﻟﯾﺳت ﺛﺎﺑﺗﺔ اﻻﺳﺗرﺟﺎﻋﯾﺔ واﻟﻣﺳﺗﻘﺑل ﯾﺻﺑﺢ ﻣرﺳﻼ ﻋﻧدﻣﺎ ﯾرﺳل اﻟﺗﻐذﯾﺔ اﻻﺳﺗرﺟﺎﻋﯾﺔ أو ﯾﺻﺣﺣﮭﺎ ﻋﻧدﻣﺎ ﯾﻛون ھﻧﺎك رد ﻓﻌل ﻟﻠﺗﻐذﯾﺔ/ ﯾﻌزز اﻟﻣرﺳل اﻷﺻﻠﻲ ﻣن اﻟرﺳﺎﻟﺔ و اﻻﺳﺗرﺟﺎﻋﯾﺔ 7 5/21/2024 Types of communication A One way اﻟﺗواﺻل ﺑﺎﺗﺟﺎه واﺣد Two ways اﻟﺗواﺻل ﺑﺎﺗﺟﺎھﯾن اﻟﺗواﺻل اﻟﺟﻣﺎﻋﻲ اﻟﻣﺷﺗرك Collaborative Types of communication B Communication Non Verbal on social media verbal اﻟﺗواﺻل اﻻﻟﻛﺗروﻧﻲ ﻋﺑر ﻣواﻗﻊ اﻟﺗواﺻل ﺗواﺻل ﻏﯾر ﺗواﺻل ﻟﻔظﻲ ﻟﻔظﻲ 8 5/21/2024 Indirect non verbal 9 5/21/2024 ﻣﺎ ھﻲ اﻟﻌﻮاﻣﻞ اﻟﺘﻲ ﺗﺆﺛﺮ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﻤﺎﯾﺔ اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ ؟ 19 اﻟﻌﻮاﻣﻞ اﻟﻤﺆﺛﺮة ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﻤﻠﯿﺔ اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ 1. Process: ﻧوع اﻟﺗواﺻل اﻟﺗواﺻل ﺑﺎﺗﺟﺎھﯾن اﻛﺛر ﻓﺎﻋﻠﯾﺔ ﻣن اﻟﺗواﺻل ﺑﺎﺗﺟﺎه واﺣد اﻟﺗرﻛﯾز 2. Focus اﻟﺗرﻛﯾز ﻟﻛﻲ ﯾﻛون اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻓﻌﺎل ،ﯾﺟب أن ﯾﻌطﻲ اﻟﻣرﺳل واﻟﻣﺳﺗﻘﺑل اﻧﺗﺑﺎھﮭم اﻟﻛﺎﻣل.ﻋدم اﻻﻧﺗﺑﺎه ﻗد ﯾﻛون ﻣﺷﺗﺗﺎ وﯾؤدي إﻟﻰ ﻓﺷل اﻻﺗﺻﺎل اﻻﻧﺗﺑﺎه اﻟﺗﺎم ،اﻻﺻﻐﺎء اﻟﻔﻌﺎل Full attention اﻟﺗﺷﺗﯾت واﻟﻣﻘﺎطﻌﺔ Distractions/ disruptions اﻟﺗواﺻل ﻋﺑر اﻟﻌﯾون Eye to eye contact 20 10 5/21/2024 اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ 3. Verbal and non-verbal اﻟﻠﻔﻈﻲ وﻏﯿﺮ اﻟﻠﻔﻈﻲ اﻟﺗواﺻل اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ :ﺳرﻋﺔ اﻟﻛﻼم ،اﻟﻠﻐﺔ اﻟﻣﺳﺗﺧدﻣﺔ ، اﻟﻠﮭﺟﺔ ، ،ﻣﺳﺗوى اﻟﻛﻼم ،ﻧﺑرة اﻟﺻوت ،اﻟﺻوت اﻻﺣﺎدي او اﻟرﺗﯾب)(monotonus اﻟﺗواﺻل ﻏﯾر اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ :ﻟﻐﺔ اﻟﺟﺳد ،اﻟوﻗوف ،اﻟﺟﻠوس. ، اﻟﺣرﻛﺎت ،اﻻﯾﻣﺎءات .وﺣﺗﻰ اﻟﻣﻼﺑس. وﻗد ﯾﻧﻌﻛس ﻋﻠﻰ ﺣﺟم اﻟﺧط واﻟﻛﻠﻣﺎت اﻟﻣﺳﺗﺧدﻣﺔ او اﻟﺻور و اﻟرﻣوز smileysاﻟﻣﺳﺗﺧدﻣﺔ ﻓﻲ ﻣواﻗﻊ اﻟﺗواﺻل 21 اﻟﺑﯾﺋﺔ /اﻟظروف 4. Environment/conditions: اﻟﺧﺻوﺻﯾﺔ o Privacy ، اﻟﻣﻛﺎن ،اﻟﻣﻘﺎﻋد o Physical (place, seating…) ، اﻻﺿﺎءة ،اﻟﺟو ،اﻟﺿوﺿﺎء ،اﻟﻌدد اﻟوﺿﻊ اﻟﻌﺎم )o Psychological (pressures... واﻟﺿﻐوطﺎت اﻟﻧﻔﺳﯾﺔ واﻟﻣﺟﺗﻣﻌﯾﺔ 5. Personal perceptions/values اﻟﺗﻘﺑﻼت اﻟﺷﺧﺻﯾﺔ /اﻟﻘﯾم ،اﻟﺗﻘﺎﻟﯾد واﻻﻋراف اﻻﺟﺗﻣﺎﻋﯾﺔ اﻟﺳﺎﺋدة ﯾﻌﺗﺑر اﻻﺳﺗﻣﺎع إﻟﻰ اﻻﺳﺗﺟﺎﺑﺎت وﻣراﻗﺑﺔ ردود اﻷﻓﻌﺎل ﻷي ﺷﺧص ﺧﻼل اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻣﺳﺎﻟﺔ ﻣﮭﻣﺔ.ﻛن ﺣﺳﺎﺳﺎ 22 11 5/21/2024 اﻟﻮﻗﺖ واﻟﺘﻮﻗﯿﺖ 6. Time\ Timing اﻟوﻗت اﻟﻣﺗﺎح اﻟﻣﻣﻧوح ﻟﻠﺣدﯾث ﯾؤﺛر ﻋﻠﻰ ﻧﺗﯾﺟﺔ اﻟﺗواﺻل ﻟﻠطﺑﯾب وﻗت وﻟﻠﻣرﯾض وﻗت ﺗوﻗﯾت اﻟﻛﻼم وﺗوﻗﯾت طرح اﻟﺳؤال وﻏﯾره اﻣر ﺣﯾوي وھﺎم ﯾؤﺛر ﺳﻠﺑﺎ او ﻟﯾﺟﺎﺑﺎ ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﺗواﺻل. »ﻛﺛرة اﻟﺣدﯾث ﺷﻲء ،وﺣﺳن ﺗوﻗﯾﺗﮫ ﺷﻲء آﺧر« 7. Distance\ facing اﻟﻤﺴﺎﻓﺔ /اﻟﻤﻮاﺟﮭﺔ 23 ﻗﺎل أﻣﯾر اﻟﻣؤﻣﻧﯾن ﻋﻠﻲ ﻋﻠﯾﮫ اﻟﺳﻼم: ﺳ ُن اﻟﻧِّ َظ ِﺎمَ ،و ﻓَ ِﮭ َﻣﮫُ ﺳ ُن ا ْﻟﻛ ََﻼ ِم َﻣﺎ َزاﻧَﮫُ ُﺣ ْ"أَﺣْ َ ﺎص َو ا ْﻟﻌَﺎ ﱡم“ا ْﻟ َﺧ ﱡ ﻟﻛل ﻣﻘﺎم ﻣﻘﺎل ﺧﯾر اﻟﻛﻼم ﻣﺎ ﻗل ودل ﻛﺛرة اﻟﺣدﯾث ﺷﻲء ،وﺣﺳن ﺗوﻗﯾﺗﮫ ﺷﻲء آﺧر A good Communicator is a good Listener and a good Observer 12 5/21/2024 اﻻﺗﺼﺎل ﻏﯿﺮ اﻟﻠﻔﻈﻲ اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻏﯾر اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ ﯾﺷﻣل اﻷﻓﻌﺎل )وﻓﻲ ﺑﻌض اﻷﺣﯾﺎن ﻏﯾﺎب.اﻷﻓﻌﺎل( ﻓﻲ ﻛل أﺟزاء اﻟﺟﺳم -70 اﻻﺗﺻﺎل ﻏﯾر اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ ﯾﺷﻛل اﻟﺟزء اﻻﻛﺑر ﻣن اﻟﺗواﺻل %90 اﻟﺗﻐﯾر ﻓﻲ اﻟﻣظﮭر، ﺣرﻛﺎت اﻟﯾد، اﻟﺟﻠﺳﺔ، اﻟوﻗﻔﺔ،اﻟﺣرﻛﺎت اﻟﻌﯾون اﻟﺦ، اﻟﻠﻣس، ﻣﺳﺗوى اﻟﻧﺷﺎط،ﻛﺎﺣﻣرار اﻟوﺟﮫ أو اﻟﺗﻌرق ﻋﻠﻰ،ﺑﺈﻣﻛﺎن اﻟﺳﻠوك اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ ﻏﯾر اﻟﻣﺑﺎﺷر أن ﯾرﺳل رﺳﺎﻟﺔ ﻗوﯾﺔ أﻣﺎﻛن ﺗواﺟد، ﻛﯾف ﻧﻌﺗﻧﻲ ﺑﺻﺣﺗﻧﺎ، ﻛﯾف ﻧﻠﺑس،ﺳﺑﯾل اﻟﻣﺛﺎل ھل ﻧﺣن ﻣﻧظﻣﯾن أم ﻻ،ﻋواﺋﻠﻧﺎ. اﻻﻟوان ( وﻏﯾره، اﻻﺛﺎث، اﻟدﯾﻛور، اﻟﺣﺟم،اﻟﻣﻛﺎن )اﻟﻧظﺎﻓﺔ 25 Non-Verbal Communication Non-verbal communication includes the actions (or sometimes the lack of actions) of all parts of the body: for example, facial expressions, posture, hand gestures, changes in appearance such as blushing or sweating, activity level, touch, eyes etc. Indirect non-verbal behavior can also send a strong message, for example, how we dress, how we care for our own health, the spacing of our families, if we are organized or not, etc 13 5/21/2024 Non-Verbal Communication All forms of communications that do not use words: facial expressions, body language, gestures, etc. Plays an important role in interpersonal communication. Is often communicated without a person being aware of what they are communicating. Needs to be congruent with verbal communication. Providers need to be aware of their non-verbal communication and that of clients. Verbal and non-verbal Up to 90 % NV 14 5/21/2024 15 5/21/2024 32 16 5/21/2024 A Failure of communication can be as harmful to the patient as a Missed diagnosis or an Error of treatment. ﺿﺎرا ً اﻟﻔﺷل ﻓﻲ اﻟﺗواﺻل ﯾﻣﻛن أن ﯾﻛون ﻟﻠﻣرﯾض ك اﻟﻔﺷل ﻓﻲ اﻟﺗﺷﺧﯾص أو اﻟﺧطﺄ ﻓﻲ اﻟﻌﻼج. ﻧوﻋﯾﺔ وﺟودة اﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺑﯾن اﻟطﺑﯾب واﻟﻣرﯾض ھﻲ ﻋﻼﺟﯾﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺣد ذاﺗﮭﺎ. وﻧوع ھذه اﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺳﺗﻌزز أو ﺗردع اﻟﺛﻘﺔ ﻓﻲ رﻋﺎﯾﺔ اﻟطﺑﯾب واﻟﺗزام اﻟﻣرﯾض ﺑﺗوﺻﯾﺎت اﻟطﺑﯾب. ٪30واﻛﺛر ﻣن أي ﺗﻐﯾﯾر ﻋﻼﺟﻲ ﯾﻌﺗﻣد ﻋﻠﻰ ﺟودة اﻟﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﺑﯾن اﻟطﺑﯾب واﻟﻣراﺟﻊ اﻟﺗﻌﺎطف) (Rapportاﻟﻼزم ﻟﻠﻌﻼﻗﺔ ﯾﻌﺗﻣد ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﺛﻘﺔ واﻟﺗﻌﺎون ﺑﯾن اﻟطﺑﯾب واﻟﻣرﯾض. 17 5/21/2024 ﻛﯿﻒ ﯾﻤﻜﻨﻨﺎ ﺗﻌﺰﯾﺰ وﺗﻘﻮﯾﺔ ﻣﮭﺎرات اﻟﺘﻮاﺻﻞ ؟ -1اﻻﻧﺻﺎت اﻟﻔﻌﺎل او اﻟﻧﺷط 1- Active Listening )ﻛن ﻣﺳﺗﻣﻌﺎ ﺟﯾدا ﺗﻛن ﻣﺗﺣدﺛﺎ ﻟﺑﻘﺎ( وھﻲ ﺗﻘﻧﯾﺔ اﺗﺻﺎل ﻗوﯾﺔ ﺗﺳﺎﻋدك ﻋﻠﻰ ﺳﻣﺎع اﻟﻣﻘﺎﺑل وﻓﮭﻣﮫ وﺗﻛﯾﯾف إﺟﺎﺑﺎﺗك ﺑﺷﻛل ﻣﻧﺎﺳب. اﻻﺳﺗﻣﺎع ﻋﻧﺻر أﺳﺎﺳﻲ ﻷي ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻠﺔ ﻧﺎﺟﺣﺔ. اﻷطﺑﺎء )ﻣن اﯾﺿﺎ؟( ،ﺑﺷﻛل ﻋﺎم ،ﻟﯾﺳوا ﻣﺳﺗﻣﻌﯾن ﺟﯾدﯾن؟؟. ﻛﺛﯾرا ﻣﺎ ﺗﺗم اﻟﻣﻘﺎطﻌﺔ واﻟﺗرﻛﯾز ﻗﻠﯾل . 36 18 5/21/2024 Active Listening include Maintaining eye contact as culturally appropriate Being attentive (not doing other things at the same time [mobile - laptop]) Not interrupting Showing interest (by nodding, smiling, leaning toward client) Paraphrasing and summarizing 37 19 5/21/2024 ﺗﻜﻤﻠﺔ ﺗﻘﻨﯿﺎت ﺗﻄﻮﯾﺮ ﻣﮭﺎرات اﻻﺗﺼﺎل/ -2ﻛن ﺻﺑورا وﻻ ﺗﺗﺳرع ،وﺗﻘﺑل اﻻراء -3اﺳﺗﺧدم ﻟﻐﺔ ﻣﻔﮭوﻣﺔ ﻣن ﻗﺑل اﻟﻣراﺟﻊ )اﻟﻣﻘﺎﺑل( وﺗﻛﻠم ﺑﺳرﻋﺔ ﻣﻧﺎﺳﺑﺔ -4اﻟﺗواﺻل ﻏﯾر اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ اﻟﻔﻌﺎل -5اﺳﺗﻌﻣﺎل وﺳﺎﺋل اﻹﯾﺿﺎح اﻟﻣرﺋﯾﺔ، وإﻋطﺎء أﻣﺛﻠﺔ إذا أﻣﻛن -6اطﻠب ﻣن اﻟﻣراﺟﻊ )اﻟﻣﻘﺎﺑل( أن ﯾﻘوم ﺑﺈﻋﺎدة اﻹرﺷﺎدات واﻟﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت )Techniques to improve communication (cont. -7اﺟﻌل ﻛﻼﻣك ﻣﻧﺗظﻣﺎ ،ﻣﺗﺳﻠﺳﻼ ،ﻣﺗراﺑط ﻛﺎن ذﻟك ﻣﻣﻛﻧﺎ -8ﺻﻎ ﻛﻼﻣك ﺑﺎﻟﺷﻛل اﻻﯾﺟﺎﺑﻲ ﻛﻠﻣﺎ -9اﺳﺗﺧدم اﻟﻣدح واﻟﺗﻌزﯾز اﻻﯾﺟﺎﺑﻲ )ﻣﻔﺗوﺣﺔ، -10اطرح اﻻﺳﺋﻠﺔ ﺑطرﯾﻘﺔ ﻣؤﺛرة وﻓﻌﺎﻟﺔ. ﻣﻐﻠﻘﺔ ،ﻏﯾر ﻣﺑﺎﺷرة -اﺳﺗﻛﺷﺎﻓﯾﺔ(* -11إﻋﺎدة اﻟﺻﯾﺎﻏﺔ و اﻟﺗﻠﺧﯾص 20 5/21/2024 Techniques to improve communication 1- Active listening 2- Be patient and do not rush 3- Using language client will understand, and proper Pace 4- Use Effective non-verbal communication 5- Use of educational materials and aids and give examples. 6- Asking clients to repeat instructions or information Techniques to improve communication (cont.) 7- Be organized and connected 8- Articulate your words positively as possible, 9- Use Reinforcement (Positive/negative...) 10- Use of effective questioning technique 11- Paraphrasing/summarizing 21 5/21/2024 Paraphrasing/Summarizing Paraphrasing is repeating back to the client what you hear him/her say, using your own words. Summarizing is repeating back to the client what you heard, in shortened form. 22 5/21/2024 Feedback Its very important component. Start with positive point … always Better to start with thanks (as appropriate) Don’t be negative always. Constructive feedback Chose your words carefully. Sometimes its better to be not public (personal, in private). ()رﺣم ﷲ ﻣن أھدى اﻟﻲ ﻋﯾوﺑﻲ «واﺣﭼﻲ واﻛره- »ﺣب واﺣﭼﻲ 45 Feedback اﻟﺘﻐﺬﯾﺔ اﻟﺮاﺟﻌﺔ.ﻋﻧﺻر ﻣﮭم ﺟدا ﻓﻲ اﻟﺗواﺻل. اﺑدأ ﺑﻧﻘطﺔ إﯾﺟﺎﺑﯾﺔ (ﺣﺎول داﺋﻣﺎ أن ﺗﺑدأ ﺑﺎﻟﺷﻛر او اطراء )ﺣﺳب اﻻﻗﺗﺿﺎء **.ﻻ ﺗﻛن ﺳﻠﺑﯾًﺎ داﺋ ًﻣﺎ.اﺧﺗر ﻛﻠﻣﺎﺗك ﺑﻌﻧﺎﯾﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺑﻌض اﻷﺣﯾﺎن ﻣن اﻷﻓﺿل أﻻ ﺗﻛون اﻣﺎم اﻟﻣﻸ )ﺷﺧﺻﻲ ( ﺧﺎص، ()رﺣم ﷲ ﻣن أھدى اﻟﻲ ﻋﯾوﺑﻲ 46 23 5/21/2024 ﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ اﻟﻣﻔﺗوﺣﺔ :ﻣﺛﻼ "ﻛﯾف اﺳﺗطﯾﻊ ﻣﺳﺎﻋدﺗك؟" ·وﺗﻔﯾد ﻓﻲ -ﻟﻠﺗﺷﺟﯾﻊ ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﻣﺣﺎدﺛﺔ -ﻟﺟﻣﻊ ﻟﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت أﻛﺛر -ﻹﻋطﺎء اﻟﻧﺎس ﻓرﺻﺔ أﻛﺛر ﻟﻠﺗﻌﺑﯾر ﻋن ﻣﺷﺎﻋرھم اﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ اﻟﻣﻐﻠﻘﺔ :ﻋﻠﻰ ﻣﺛﻼ "ﻛم طﻔل ﻟدﯾك؟" · وﺗﻔﯾد ﻓﻲ -ﻟﻠﺣﺻول ﻋﻠﻰ ﺟواب ﻣﺧﺗﺻر ﻟﻠﺣﻔﺎظ ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟوﻗت -ﻟﻠﻣﺳﺎﻋدة ﻓﻲ اﻟﺗرﻛﯾز ﻋﻠﻰ اﻻﺳﺗﺟﺎﺑﺔ ﻟﻠﺳؤال -ﻟﺗوﺿﯾﺢ اﻟﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت اﻷﺳﺋﻠﺔ اﻻﺳﺗﻛﺷﺎﻓﯾﺔ وﻏﯾر اﻟﻣﺑﺎﺷرة: ﻣﺛﻼ " :ھل ﺗﺳﺗطﯾﻊ أن ﺗﺧﺑرﻧﻲ أﻛﺛر ﻋن ﻣﺷﺎﻛﻠك؟" · وﺗﺳﺗﻌﻣل -ﻟﻠﺗﺷﺟﯾﻊ ﻋﻠﻰ إﻋطﺎء ﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت ﻣﻔﺻﻠﺔ 47-ﻹﻋطﺎء ﻣﻌﻠوﻣﺎت أﻛﺛر دﻗﺔ ﻋن اﻟﻘﺿﺎﯾﺎ إﻋﺎدة اﻟﺼﯿﺎﻏﺔ /اﻟﺘﻠﺨﯿﺺ إﻋﺎدة اﻟﺻﯾﺎﻏﺔ :ھﻲ إﻋﺎدة ﻣﺎ ﺳﻣﻌﺗﮫ ﻣن اﻟﻣراﺟﻊ إﻟﯾﮫ/إﻟﯾﮭﺎ وذﻟك ﺑﺎﺳﺗﺧدام أﺳﻠوﺑك اﻟﺧﺎص. اﻟﺗﻠﺧﯾص او اﻻﯾﺟﺎز :ھﻲ إﻋﺎدة ﻣﺎ ﺳﻣﻌﺗﮫ ﻣن اﻟﻣراﺟﻊ وﻟﻛن ﺑﺷﻛل ﻣﺧﺗﺻر. وﺗﺳﺎﻋد ھذه اﻟﺗﻘﻧﯾﺎت ﻓﻲ· : -ﻟﻠﺗﺄﻛد ﻣن ﺻﺣﺔ ﻓﮭﻣك -ﺗﺑﯾن ﺑﺄﻧك ﻣﺻﻐﻲ وﻣﮭﺗم -ﺗوﺿﯾﺢ ﻣﺎ ﯾﻘوﻟﮫ اﻟﻣراﺟﻊ ﻟﺗﺣﺿﯾر رد ﻓﻌل ﻣﻧﺎﺳب -إﻋﺎدة اﻟﺗرﻛﯾز ﻋﻠﻰ اﻟﺗﻐﯾﯾر او اﻟﺗﺑدل 48 24 5/21/2024 ﻛل ﻣﺎ ﯾﻣﻛن أن ﯾﻘﺎل ﻗد ﻗﯾل وﻟﻛن ﻷن ﻻ أﺣد ﯾﺳﻣﻊ ﻓﯾﺗوﺟب ﻋﻠﯾﻧﺎ داﺋﻣﺎ أن ﻧﻌود وﻧﻌﯾد ﻣﺎ ﻗﯾل ﻣرات وﻣرات ﻓﻲ اﻹﻋﺎدة اﻓﺎدة ** 49 ان( )إﻧﱠﺎ([ إن ﺷﺎء ﷲ( ) ْ إن« ]) ﱠ»اﻟﺣﻛﺎﯾﺔ ﻓﯾﮭﺎ ﱠ اﻟﺣﺳﭼﺔ ؟؟ اﻟﺗواﺻل ﻓﻲ اﻟﻌراق؟؟ اﻋرف ﻣﺟﺗﻣﻌك .. اﻟذﻛﺎء اﻟﻣﺟﺗﻣﻌﻲ اﻟﻣﺗﺣدث اﻟﺟﯾد ھو ﻣﺳﺗﻣﻊ ﺟﯾد وذو ﻓراﺳﺔ وﻟﯾس ﻣﺗﺣدث ﻓﻘط. اﻟرأي واﻟرأي اﻵﺧر 50 25 5/21/2024 ﻟﻛل ﻣﻘﺎم ﻣﻘﺎل ﻟﺳﺎﻧك ﺣﺻﺎﻧك ان ﺻﻧﺗﮫ ﺻﺎﻧك وان ھﻧﺗﮫ ھﺎﻧك إن ﻣن اﻟﺳﻛوت ﻣﺎ ھو أﺑﻠﻎ ﻣن اﻟﻛﻼم ﺧﯾر اﻟﻛﻼم ﻣﺎ ﻗل ودل إن أھم ﺷﻲء ﻓﻲ اﻻﺗﺻﺎل اﻟﻔ َﻌﺎل ھو أن ﺗﺳﻣﻊ ﻣﺎ ﻟم ﯾﻘﺎل. ﻛن ﻣﺳﺗﻣﻌﺎ ﺟﯾدا ﺗﻛن ﻣﺗﺣدﺛﺎ ﻟﺑﻘﺎ ﻛﺛرة اﻟﺣدﯾث ﺷﻲء ،وﺣﺳن ﺗوﻗﯾﺗﮫ ﺷﻲء آﺧر ﺳﻧَﺔً ب ﱠ ُ ﻟَﮫُ َﺣ َﺳ َم ﻓِﻲ َو ْﺟ ِﮫ أ َ ِﺧﯾ ِﮫ ْاﻟ ُﻣؤْ ِﻣ ِن َﻛﺗ َ َ َﻣ ْن ﺗَﺑَ ﱠ »اﻟﺣﮕوگ ﯾﻧرادﻟﮭﺎ ﺣﻠوگ« 51 ﺗﺬﻛﺮ .1ﻛن ﻣﺳﺗﻣﻌﺎ ً ﺟﯾدا ً .2ﺗﺣدث ﺑوﺿوح وﺑﺳرﻋﺔ ﺟﯾدة. .3ﺗﺟﻧب اﻟﺗﺷﺗت. .4اﺳﺗﻣﻊ دون ﻣﻘﺎطﻌﺔ ﻗدر اﻻﻣﻛﺎن*. .5اﺣﺗرام اﻵﺧرﯾن وآراﺋﮭم. .6ﺗﻧﺑﮫ اﻟﻰ ﺗواﺻﻠك ﻏﯾر اﻟﻠﻔظﻲ .. .7ﻻ ﺗﻘﻠل ﻣن ﻗوة اﻻﺗﺻﺎل اﻟﺑﺻري. .8اﺑﺗﺳم 26 5/21/2024 Thank you [email protected] 27