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RESEDUCTION 2.0 DEREK RAKE Reseduction 2.0™ Copyright © 2018 by Derek Rake and Derek Rake, LLC All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotat...

RESEDUCTION 2.0 DEREK RAKE Reseduction 2.0™ Copyright © 2018 by Derek Rake and Derek Rake, LLC All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews. This book is written to provide definitive information on the subject matter, and is sold with the explicit understanding that the author is not providing professional, legal and/or financial advice. Derek Rake and his publisher are not responsible for the liabilities that may incur from the actions that the reader may take. Copyrighted content cited in this book are reproduced under fair use clauses of the copyright laws of the United States of America. For information contact : Derek Rake ([email protected]) Derek Rake, LLC 402 W Broadway, San Diego, CA 92101 Book and cover design by Stephane Hewitt-Burrows, MCSD (United Kingdom) ISBN: Pending Second Edition: May 2018 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 DEREK RAKE TABLE OF CONTENTS [ 1 ] W h a t Is Re S e duct i on ? 5 What ReSeduction Is For ReSeduction vs The IRAE Model Three Preconditions  Precondition #1: Put Your Jealousy In Check  Precondition #2: Quit appearing To Be Controlling  Precondition #3: Stop Being Needy [ 2 ] T h e VCR D Mo d el 13 Stage One: Validation (“V” Stage) Stage Two: Confirmation (“C” Stage) Stage Three: Restoration (“R” Stage) Stage Four: Dependence (“D” Stage) The Importance of the “Reset” in ReSeduction [ 3 ] Va l i da t i on ( T h e “ V ” St age ) 22 Post-Breakup Validation Strategies  Making Contact With Your Ex  Pacing  Shogun Sequence - “Sonder” Leading  Shogun Sequence – “Listen To Me” 3 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Using “Pacing and Leading” Together Pre-Breakup Validation Strategies  Shogun Sequence – “New Life”  Shogun Sequence – “Listen To Me” (Breakup Variation) [ 4 ] Con f i r ma t i on ( T h e “ C ” St age ) 3 8 Step #1: Set The Bait Step #2: Escalate Step #3: Pull Back Frequently Asked Questions [ 5 ] Res t o r a t i o n ( T h e “ R” St age ) 47 Controlling The Breakup Narrative Starting The Recovery Process Advanced Implanted Commands Restoration Advanced Implanted Commands Getting Stuck In The Restoration Stage [ 6 ] D ep en d en ce ( T h e “ D” St age ) 60 What Are False Memories? How To Create A False Memory Seal The Deal In Two Final Steps  Step 1: Implant The False Memory  Step 2: Echo The Statements As Questions Bridging From Dependence To Enslavement Re S e duct i on P rem iu m Coa ch ing ™ 71 Ab o u t D ere k Ra ke 72 4 DEREK RAKE H ere are some statistics you might find surprising: The average man will sleep with nine different women in his lifetime. He will have six short-term relationships and three long-term relationships. One of those long-term relationships will prematurely end, and then eventually rekindle. Two of those relationships will end and never rekindle despite how hard the guy might try. 5 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Relationships can end for millions of different reasons. If you’ve ever found yourself sitting across from your soon-to-be ex in a coffee shop having a solemn breakup conversation, or if you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a breakup text, you probably ran through all of the imagined scenarios in your head as to why she left you. And you’ve probably heard every breakup excuse under the sun: “I’m just not ready for a long-term relationship.” “It’s not you, it’s me.” “There’s no one else, honestly! I just want to be alone.” “There are so many other things I want to explore.” And if you’re like most guys, you might have tried to convince her to stay. Maybe you thought you said all the right things and did everything you can to salvage the relationship. Maybe you even made genuine promises to “change” for her. But she still didn’t come around for you, did she? If so, the ReSeduction program is the antidote to the problem. It features an extensive set of tools and techniques so that you can: 6 DEREK RAKE 1. Uncover the exact reason why your relationship ended, 2. “ReSeduce” her using techniques based on hard, undetectable psychological principles, and finally, 3. Enslave her emotionally to you for good. Does that sound good to you? Yes? Then, let’s get started by getting an overview of the ReSeduction system and how you can use it in multiple “problematic relationship” scenarios. What ReSeduction Is For ReSeduction can be used in a variety of situations involving problematic relationships, for example: 1. Getting back together with an ex-girlfriend or wife 2. Getting back together with someone you were intimate with when it didn’t progress into a relationship 7 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ 3. Rekindling the fire within an existing relationship While there may be many other similar predicaments that ReSeduction will apply to, most will fall under one of the above three categories. In short, if there’s a relationship you wish to re- ignite, ReSeduction will ensure that it happens. ReSeduction vs The IRAE Model As you will see, the process of ReSeduction differs quite drastically from the standard Shogun Method IRAE Model1. There’s a reason for this. Remember that the IRAE Model assumes you have no previous history with a potential Enslavement target. Everything begins from scratch—no sketchy history, no previous biases, emotional baggage, etc. However, when it comes to ReSeduction, you’ve got a history with the woman that you want to (re)attract. 1Module 2 inside Shogun Method: http://shogunmethod.net/shogun- method/module-2/ 8 DEREK RAKE Also, the way your relationship ended can be a major factor in how much effort you need to apply when using the ReSeduction model. For example, if you’re still on good terms with your ex- girlfriend or wife, you wouldn’t need to apply the ReSeduction model with as much vigor as you would if you haven’t spoken to your ex since you split up. If you’re even worse off because your relationship ended with a screaming argument and a threatening message spray-painted on your car door, then you’ll need to apply ReSeduction with unwavering intensity and faultless execution for it to work. This is a very similar principle to the “SV Gap” theory from the Third Volume of the Shogun Method Black Book. SV, short for Sexual Value, is an imagined score that a woman has assigned to you in her mind (and vice versa). This score differs significantly depending on each individual woman. For example, a woman you met yesterday may assign you an SV score of 7, while you may only be a lowly 2 as far as your disgruntled ex is concerned. Why is this important? Well, the higher your SV score in the mind of your ex, the easier it will be for you to re-seduce. 9 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Three Preconditions You should be familiar with the three Preconditions that formed the prerequisites for the Shogun Method to work. Similarly, the following three Preconditions are the behavioral changes that you must make for ReSeduction to work for you. Precondition #1: Put Your Jealousy In Check Jealousy is one of the major factors that make a man appear less attractive to a woman. Over the course of a relationship, it’s entirely natural for jealousy to ramp up in intensity as you become more emotionally invested in your partner. She might have male friends and male colleagues who you subconsciously deem threatening to your relationship and this will manifest in outbursts of anger or moodiness on your part. You must understand that, unless your partner is bedridden or a hermit, she will talk to (at least) hundreds of other men while you’re with her and there’s nothing wrong with this. Your default mindset should this: “talking to other guys will only make me look better by comparison.” 10 DEREK RAKE Remember: Nothing screams “insecure” more than outbursts of jealous rage. Precondition #2: Quit Appearing To Be Controlling The standard IRAE Model teaches Enslavement, yes, but let’s be clear about what “Enslavement” actually is. Enslavement isn’t about controlling your girlfriend’s likes or dislikes. It’s not about keeping her tied to a bedpost so she can’t get out from the room. It’s not about forcing her from contacting the outside world. The Enslavement aspect of the IRAE Model is solely emotional, not physical. Let her go out with her friends and coworkers and don’t kick up a storm about it. The tighter the leash, the more she’s going to want to escape. Precondition #3: Stop Being Needy To a woman, neediness is the ultimate turn off. Neediness forces her to see you as weak and unworthy. Eventually, she’ll just 11 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ leave you because she feels absolutely nothing for you. As soon as something better comes along, she’ll be gone. Remember the cardinal rule of love and relationships: whoever who can walk away from the relationship will hold the most power. Therefore, if you’re needy, you’ll be less powerful than her in the relationship, and that will significantly hamper your ability to re- seduce her. So, do any of these behaviors sound familiar to you? If so, you can be sure that they have made your problematic relationship even worse. From now, commit to obey those Preconditions strictly if you want ReSeduction to work its magic. In the next chapter, you’ll learn about the “IRAE Model” equivalent for ReSeduction – known as the “VCRD Model” 12 DEREK RAKE T he ReSeduction process follows four distinct stages. And like the IRAE Model, each of these stages comes with its own set of unique strategies, tactics and Shogun Sequences. And as with the IRAE Model, you must rigidly adhere to the order they’re laid out for it to work. Jumping straight into a later stage because you think the earlier stages aren’t relevant would be a rookie mistake that will only work against you. With that in mind, here are the four stages of the ReSeduction process in strict order. 13 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Stage One: Validation (“V” Stage) During the Validation stage, you will make your ex- girlfriend or wife believe that you’re perfectly at ease with the fact that your relationship with her is over. You’re in fact “accepting” that it’s over for both of you, thus allowing the relationship to officially end. Now you may wonder why you would want to “end” a relationship which you’re attempting to rekindle. Know this – everything inside Shogun Method is about being covert; and by seemingly agreeing to terminate the relationship you’ll in fact be disarming her. And as she becomes disarmed, your ability to re- seduce her will increase as you progress along the VCRD path. Therefore, in the Validation stage, you will either: 1. Inform your ex-girlfriend or wife that the decision to break up is the best course of action, or 2. Initiate the breakup of your current relationship yourself. And you will do this using “Pacing & Leading Statements”. You will find out more about this technique in the chapter on the 14 DEREK RAKE Validation stage. Stage Two: Confirmation (“C” Stage) It’s a very revealing statistic that 80% of couples that break up will revive their relationships within one month. There’s a good reason for this. Many women fantasize about leaving their boyfriends or husbands and enjoying a life of blissful freedom. However, the reality never quite matches the fantasy. Why? Here’s the reason. When women mentally project to the future, they focus solely on the positives while conveniently avoiding any of the negatives associated with the fantasy. So when the reality of their situation kicks in, women are usually unprepared, at least from an emotional standpoint. This then results in a hasty and impulsive return to the safety and familiarity of their ex-boyfriends or husbands. Subconsciously, every woman knows this. Intuitively, she knows that she has a “way back” if things don’t turn out like how she imagined. 15 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Therefore, to gain an upper hand, you must squash any possibility of this happening. This is so that she knows that if she leaves you, she will think that the breakup is permanent. This is where the Confirmation stage comes in. Confirmation involves a technique similar to what’s known as “truism” or “Barnum Statements”. You will want to make her believe that you’re perfectly happy with the decision to end the relationship. And there’s no way she can come back to you if she chooses to leave you. I will warn you now: The Confirmation stage will involve you being incredibly cold towards your ex. You will be repelling her with as much brutality as you can conjure up. For example, you will be telling her such things as: You’re much happier without her. She is holding you back from living a meaningful life. You can’t believe you wasted so much time with her. 16 DEREK RAKE You’re already imagining life without her. You’re already seeing another woman, who is superior to her in every way. Pretty harsh, right? Remember: it’s all part of the game plan, and so you’ve got to follow all the way through. Being “cold” and “brutal” at this stage will only deepen her affections for you, making it easy for you to “restore” the relationship (in the next stage). Stage Three: Restoration (“R” Stage) By the time you’re done with the Confirmation stage, all hope of rekindling the relationship has entirely been ruthlessly smashed by you. And as you have just learned in the previous section, you’re doing this on purpose. Indeed, there’s method to your “madness”. Assuming that you’ve completed the Confirmation stage 17 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ properly, you can now effectively “reset” the previous connection between you both. You can begin everything from scratch with minimal emotional baggage and bad history. Using what’s known as Advanced Implanted Commands, you will then restore the relationship back to a healthy state. You’ll learn more about this technique in the Restoration chapter. For now, it’s useful to think of this stage as the equivalent of the Attraction stage in the core IRAE Model. Your relationship will be effectively “reset”; any negative stigmas that were previously attached will be removed and she will see you in a completely different light. And finally, with the relationship restored, you will hit her with the most powerful tool in the book to secure the relationship and make it breakup-proof in the future: Dependence. Stage Four: Dependence (“D” Stage) By the time you completed Validation, Confirmation and Restoration stages, you would have successfully revived the relationship with your ex-partner. 18 DEREK RAKE In the Dependence stage, as its namesake would suggest, you’ll make her Dependent on you. As long as this dependence is maintained, your relationship will be secure. And this is how you do it… First, as she comes back to you, realize that she would have also gone through a period without you in her life. So, she could then easily contrast the experience being with and without you, side by side. This “dual” experience is what you will exploit to hypnotize her. And you will do this by implanting False Memories in her mind. So here’s how you’ll create her Dependence on you - by inserting the belief that life without you is unbearably painful for her. You will force her to think that, throughout your breakup period, she constantly thought about you and wanted you back (no matter if this is true or not). You’ll do this by implanting False Memories in her mind. You will learn how to use the False Memories technique to make your ex dependent on you in the chapter on Dependence. 19 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ The Importance Of The “Reset” In ReSeduction One of the most common questions that my clients at ShogunMethod.net ask me is this: “Derek, how do I know which stage of the IRAE Model I’m at with my woman?” While this can be simple enough to know when she is someone you’ve just met, it gets much more difficult to calibrate when she is a woman with whom you have a lot of history with (for example, an ex-girlfriend or wife). Here’s a good rule of thumb to follow: The more complexities exist in your relationship, the more chance you have of incorrectly calibrating. Therefore, it’s crucial that the relationship with her is reset completely during the Validation stage. You must first make it clear to her that you don’t want a relationship with her anymore if you want to run ReSeduction successfully on her. Validation will begin this process and Confirmation will 20 DEREK RAKE reinforce it. Done correctly, this will revert your relationship with your target back to square one, allowing you to start with a clean slate. Now you might think that telling her that the relationship is over would only make re-seducing her more complicated. However, this isn’t true at all, and here’s why. You see, it’s only after the relationship has been severed that you can begin the healing process. You’ve heard the saying, “whatever doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger,” right? Well, this is true both physically and emotionally. In the same way muscles are broken down during a workout and then repaired to a healthier state afterward, the human brain needs to undergo a healing process after a breakup. The psychology behind this is fully explained in the chapter on Restoration. We’re now ready to go. Next, let’s look at the first ReSeduction stage: Validation 21 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ T he strategies in the Validation stage will depend largely on the status of your relationship, i.e. whether you’ve already broken up with her or otherwise. Therefore, we’re going to group the strategies in the following manner: 1. Validation strategies if you’re no longer in a relationship with your woman (or, the Post-Breakup scenario) 2. Validation strategies if you’re still in a relationship with her (or, the Pre-Breakup scenario) First, let’s take a look at how this would play out if you’re in 22 DEREK RAKE the Post-Breakup scenario. Post-Breakup Validation Strategies Making Contact With Your Ex If you’ve ended the relationship on good terms with your ex then you can skip ahead. The following section will only be relevant to you if you’re not on talking terms with her. Making contact with your ex-girlfriend or wife again after a breakup can indeed be difficult – especially when the separation had ended badly. If you’re not talking to her anymore, here’s a handful of ways you can initiate contact: 1. “Bump into” her in person. This is most effective because face-to-face contact gives you a lot more advantages than, say, texting. In person, she’ll be more likely to succumb to social pressure and talk with you. 2. If there are other communication methods open to you (via work, friends, etc.) then feel free to explore those options. 23 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ 3. Text her. This method can be a little more dangerous because it implies your direct interest in her. While bumping into your ex in person can simply be coincidental, making the effort to message her may make you look a little needy. 4. Message her on Facebook... but only as the last resort. Why? Facebook messaging is by far the riskiest because you may seen to be stalking her. However, if it opens up a communication channel then it’s better than nothing. So, you’ve made contact with your ex. What do you say to her? If it’s someone you’ve just met, you’ll use an Intrigue Ping on her. However, since Intrigue Pings won’t be as effective when used on an ex-girlfriend or wife, you will need to use a different approach. This is where a technique known as “Pacing and Leading” will come in useful. Here’s a quick rundown of what “Pacing and Leading” does: Pacing is a mental trick to draw her attention to 24 DEREK RAKE something that she isn’t consciously aware of on her own. It is designed to distract her conscious mind so that her guard comes down. Leading is, put simply, making a demand. You already know about the female mind’s “Hot” and “Cold” mode from the core Shogun Method program. With “Pacing and Leading” you’ll get her directly into “Hot” mode so that she is primed for the latter stages of the ReSeduction process. Now, let’s look at the “Pacing” part of the technique. Pacing In a minute, I’m going to give you some test questions. I will be asking you about the things around you right now. To prepare, look around you. What is the color of the walls? Are they all the same shade? Is one wall a different color from the rest? What about artwork? Are there any framed paintings or photographs around you? How about a clock or a notice board? 25 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Now, look out of the window. What do you see? Is there a garden out there? A fence? What color? How about your neighbor’s house, a driveway, or maybe a park? How’s the weather? Next, listen to what’s going on. Can you hear any whirring sounds from mechanical devices? Is the TV on? If it is, what’s playing? Can you hear people outside? Can you hear the trees blowing in the wind? What about the things you can smell, taste and feel? If you’re at the computer, maybe you can feel the desk beneath your elbows. Or, the warmth of your phone in your hand. Maybe you can smell the fresh air seeping in through the window, or the scent of your deodorant. So far, so good? Great. Now, time for the test. 26 DEREK RAKE Here’s what I want you to do. First, close your eyes. Then, try to remember every single thing that you noticed around you. Shapes, colors, scales, scents, sounds – everything. Focus on it all at once, and right down to the smallest detail. The more details you can remember, the better. Ready for the test questions? Just kidding. There’s no test. What I’ve wanted to do is to give you an example of Pacing at work. The things around you that I asked you to focus on are things you’d never be consciously aware of on your own. Paying attention to those things had kept your conscious mind occupied, and in the process, opened up your subconscious mind. Similarly, you’ll use Pacing to capture your target’s attention, keep her conscious mind distracted and open up her subconscious mind for you to manipulate next (in the “Leading” step 27 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ of the technique.) Now, let’s look at an example of a Shogun Sequence which makes use of the Pacing technique. Shogun Sequence - “Sonder” The following Shogun Sequence is based on this concept called “sonder”. If you’re not familiar with the term, sonder is: The realization that everyone else lives a life as complex as your own. So, let’s imagine you’ve made contact with your ex. Here’s the Shogun Sequence you can use to Pace her – “First of all, I should just say thanks. It took me a while to realize it, but breaking up was the best thing that could have happened to us. You don’t really think about the everyday lives of other people until it’s too late, you know? Think about all the people you pass by every single day of the week. We usually just picture them as scenery for our own lives but each one of them has troubles, worries and experiences that we just don’t register. You probably haven’t even thought about all the people I’ve met since we broke up. All the dates I’ve had, the dating site messages, the connections 28 DEREK RAKE I’ve made, the midnight texts, the sheer amount of different perfumes on my pillow… but I just want to know that without your decision, all that wouldn’t have been possible.” Understand that Pacing statements don’t need to be about the physical things she can see in front of her. Instead, often the most powerful way to Pace a woman is to involve events that are completely fabricated. (In the Shogun Sequence above, the “different perfumes on my pillow” may well be fake.) The key here is to force her to focus on something she usually wouldn’t so that she opens up her subconscious mind to you. And when that happens, you can then “Lead” her into thinking and doing things that you desire. This is where the “Leading” part of the “Pacing and Leading” technique comes in. Leading Shogun Method is all about leading and making demands, albeit covertly. A Shogun Method technique such as Implanted Commands is powerful because it disguises a command alongside passive language, rendering it undetectable by the conscious mind. 29 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ “Leading” is a variation on this theme. However, it’s different than Implanted Commands in the following ways: 1. Structurally, it’s simpler 2. Its delivery is more forceful and direct A Leading script incorporates simple and forceful phrases such as: “You need to…” “Go out and…” “Listen to me…” “Think about…” Let’s look at an example of a Shogun Sequence utilizing the Leading technique. Shogun Sequence – “Listen To Me” Here’s the Shogun Sequence you can use immediately after “Sonder”: 30 DEREK RAKE “Listen to me. You need to go out and do the same. You have to experience these things while you still can, because you don’t know what’s around the corner. Grab these opportunities and don’t look back – like I have. You’re going to be amazed at what’s possible. I’m having the time of my life right now, and I don’t know if you are too, but you can so long as you get out there and just do it.” See the number of demands inside that Shogun Sequence? “Listen to me…” “You need to go out…” “You don’t know…” “Grab these opportunities…” “You’re going to be amazed…” Notice that the “Listen To Me” Shogun Sequence adapts a comparatively dominant tone when delivered immediately after “Sonder” (which has a rather apologetic tone). This change in dynamic is a form of Fractionation which will get her into a hypnotic trance quickly. 31 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Using “Pacing and Leading” Together Let’s do a quick recap on what we have covered so far: 1. “Sonder” is delivered before “Listen To Me”. 2. As a Pacing sequence, “Sonder” is designed to overload her conscious mind and detracts it so that her subconscious mind opens up for you to deliver your Leading sequence, “Listen To Me”. 3. “Sonder” has an apologetic and conciliatory tone for it to be received well by your target. 4. Assume that the Pacing is done properly, her mind will get into the “Hot” mode as her inhibitions come down. 5. You can be more direct and forceful when she is in “Hot” mode when she is more open to accepting your authority. 6. “Listen To Me” cements your authority, and positions you as the dominant partner in the relationship. 32 DEREK RAKE 7. The change in dynamic from “conciliatory” to “dominant” will get her to Fractionate. Once the Pacing and Leading statements have been delivered, she will think: “Is he having a better time than me now we’re both single?” “Did I make a mistake in letting him go?” “How come he’s such a different person now?” “Maybe now that he’s different, a relationship with him would be completely different.” “Was I holding him back?” Not only will you have forced her into accepting your authority in the relationship, you’ll also have thrown jealousy, insecurity and self-doubt into the mix for good measure. She’ll be in a complete cocktail of emotions (which is good for you). Remember: you can only be strong if she is weak. 33 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Pre-Breakup Validation Strategies So you’re still “officially” in a relationship but it’s heading for the inevitable breakup. What do you do then? Understand that everything you’ve learned in the preceding section still holds. However, there’s one different thing that you must do in the Validation stage, and it’s this: You must first BREAK UP with her. There are two reasons for this: 1. Resetting the relationship gives you the opportunity to start from a clean slate 2. You’ll be in the position of power again, making it easier for you to re-seduce her The following is Shogun Sequence script based on the Pacing technique which you can use to initiate the breakup. Shogun Sequence – “New Life” 34 DEREK RAKE “Look, I’m sorry to have to do this. Please, take my hand. Can you feel my pulse? Look into my eyes – you know it’s going to kill me to do this, right? I think you know where I’m going with this. Me and you have had some good times, but look where we are now. Look at some of the problems we’ve had. We never really think about how our actions affect the lives of others, but I think it’s time that we do. Think about my daily life – I’m constantly worried about you, I hate having to keep arguing, and I hate holding you back from what you’re capable of. I think it’s time we ended things. Don’t you? Sure, it might hurt now, but there’s a lot of life out there for us to live. All the people we can meet, the places we can go, the experiences we can have. Think about all the things that would be possible if we weren’t holding each other back. Neither of us knows what we’re missing. Just think about the possibilities.” Be warned: How she’ll react will largely depend on her personality type, and how much she has invested emotionally in you. To make it easier for her, overload her conscious brain with thoughts and emotions. Mention the new living arrangements that she will need to make once you leave her. Once she’s well and truly inundated with uncontrollable mental strain, back off completely. 35 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ This step will not be easy, but understand that it’s entirely necessary. Seeing the woman you love suffer (especially when it’s your own doing) will take a toll on you. Remind yourself that the suffering is temporary, and she’ll be happier than ever before when you’ve finally re-seduced her. Shogun Sequence – “Listen To Me” (Breakup Variation) Once the fact you’re breaking up with her has sunk in, hit her with the Leading part of the technique. This Shogun Sequence will be similar to that you’ve seen previously, but with some changes: “I’m going to get on with my life and you need to go out and do the same. You have to experience these things while you still can, because you don’t know what’s around the corner. Grab these opportunities and don’t look back – like I’m going to. You’re going to be amazed at what’s possible. I’m planning on having the time of my life over the next few months, and I don’t know if you are too, but you can so long as you get out there and just do it.” This Sequence will soften the blow a little so that you don’t come off as an uncaring asshole. Still, it puts you in the driver’s seat 36 DEREK RAKE as you escalate to the second stage: Confirmation 37 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ O nce you have completed the Validation stage you will be freely single, and more importantly, you will have the upper hand over your ex-girlfriend or wife. So, what are you going to do in the Confirmation stage? As the name implies, you want to confirm to your target that you’re happy with the breakup – but with a twist. As you have learned in Shogun Method, a little bit of repelling2 goes a long way in building attraction. Here, you will in fact be repelling her, and you’ll do it by picking a fight with her. I’ll explain more in a moment. 2 Repelling is part of the ENTICE/REPEL cycle in the Attract stage inside the IRAE Model 38 DEREK RAKE The entire Confirmation stage is executed over text. There’s a good reason for this. Texting your ex instead of taking the time to see her in person tells her she’s not worth your time or energy— another subtle nod to how much you’re enjoying yourself without her in your life. The Confirmation process over text takes three steps:  Step #1: Set The Bait  Step #2: Escalate  Step #3: Pull Back Let’s start with the first step. Step #1: Set The Bait Here’s how to “set the bait” - text her something cryptic. Message her something that you need her to answer but without revealing why you need the answer. For example: 39 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ “What was that Italian restaurant we went to?” “What was that expensive red wine you used to have?” “Do you still have my [item of clothing]?” “How much did we pay for our holiday last year?” All of those questions hint that you’re engaging in these activities (restaurants, wine, date, holidays) with someone else. Now, when she replies, you’re going to “accidentally” reply to her – with a message meant for another woman. Your scenario should play out like this: You: “What was that expensive red wine you used to have?” Her: “Not sure. Saint-Emilion?” You: “Absolutely. Are you sure you want me to stay over? xxx” 40 DEREK RAKE You: “Sorry, ignore that last message. Yes, Saint- Emilion. Thanks!” That will send your ex into emotional overdrive. It will force her to feel inadequate and defeated. Even if she is seeing someone else or if she acted unconcerned with the fact that the relationship is over, it will still eat away at her. When men are coveted by other women, this ramps up their Sexual Value significantly. What you’ve done here is to engineer a scenario in her head to make you appear a lot more desirable, thus boosting your Sexual Value in her eyes. Step #2: Escalate Now, at some point, your ex is going to respond to the “accidental” message you sent her. Don’t be alarmed if it takes her several hours or days to reply. This isn’t because she hasn’t seen your message; it’s because she’s dwelling on it. She’ll be concocting the “perfect” response to you in her head and won’t reply until she’s sure she has it. When she does reply, you’ll receive something like: 41 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ “Sorry, I was busy. Sure, no problem.” She’ll try to disguise her heartache but it will be obvious if her reply is short or perhaps even a little curt. A woman who is genuinely happy that you’re having the time of your life would tell you that directly. On the other hand, a woman who is feeling lost (and regretful) will keep the conversation to a bare minimum. Regardless of the response, this is how you should reply: “I need you to know... I’m doing so much better without you. You’re the kind of girl who plays it safe and you miss out on so many things. You were happy to hold me back all this time so long as you were happy.” Brutal? You bet. Then, get ready for full-on bitch mode, because whoever your ex is, she isn’t going to take this lightly – and trust me, that’s a good thing. The more you can work her up, the easier it will be to get her back. Why does this work so well? I’ll explain the psychology behind this in the next chapter, but for now, you’ll have to text her 42 DEREK RAKE with things you know will cut her deeply. And you’ll do this using cold reading lines (or Barnum Statements). If you have access to the Barnum Manuscript, then you’ll recognize the following phrases; these are “truism modifiers” which will make your cold reading lines more effective: “You possess…” “Other women would…” “Everyone looks at you and…” “In many ways, you…” “You’ve always been…” Here’s an example: “Other women would jump at the chance to be with me, but I guess you just like being alone. In many ways, you’ll probably be alone forever. You’ve always been overly jealous and controlling and I’m so happy I escaped your grasp. Everyone looks at you and knows that you’re struggling without me in your life. But, I’m already seeing someone else, so you’ll never know what you missed 43 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ out on.” Expect a brutal, no-holds-barred reply. She will be harsh and you’re probably going to feel insulted. Brush it off. In fact, the harsher she gets, the better it will be for you. Remember: any intense reaction from a woman is good. The only bad reaction from a woman is indifference. Step #3: Pull Back Once the argument has reached its peak, stop responding to her. By doing that, you’ll: 1. Increase her intrigue levels, thus keeping her in “Hot” mode 2. Retain your upper hand as you escalate to the next stage 44 DEREK RAKE When the dust has somewhat settled, it’ll be time move on to the Restoration stage. Frequently Asked Questions During the trial period of this program, a few questions came up, and here were the answers. “Can I execute the Confirmation stage face-to-face, or does it have to be by text?” You should text her because it gives you an easy way out for damage reduction. After all, it’s easier to stop texting than it is to walk away from a face-to-face argument. “What if she doesn’t respond to my insults?” If your ex doesn’t respond to you, or simply accepts what you say without question, then continue the process as normal. Deliver all of the above scripts while giving her ample time to respond. If she doesn’t, continue anyway. “Can I say anything I want?” 45 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ There are several things you shouldn’t insult her about. As a general rule, don’t touch on things she can’t control. Insult her personality all you want, but don’t make fun of her physical appearance, any mental issues she may have (depression, anxiety, etc.) or anything related to her family. If she’s particularly feisty, she might insult you about those things, and if she does, don’t respond. And with that, let’s now move on to the third stage: Restoration 46 DEREK RAKE B y the time you reached the Restoration stage, you would have achieved two milestones: 1. You would have validated the decision that the relationship needed to end. Or, if it hadn’t ended, you had initiated the breakup yourself 2. You would have (seemingly) removed any possibility of your relationship rekindling by pushing it beyond the point of no return Does this sound rather counter intuitive to you? I mean, why would you “force” the relationship to “end” when your intention obviously is to get her back? 47 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Understand that as with anything inside the Shogun Method universe, everything is rooted in the science of female psychology. To explain the rationale behind our strategy, let’s take a crash course in the psychology of breakups. In Shogun Method, you learned about how to use storytelling to take a woman from one IRAE stage to the next. The storytelling technique can take up the form of the many Shogun Method techniques that you already know - Fractionation, Rollercoastering, Intrigue Pings and Shogun Sequences, for example. Why is storytelling so effective? Well, here’s the reason: it reduces our lives down to simple narratives with structures that can be easily comprehended by the brain. Beginning, middle, end. The human mind’s susceptibility to stories is why Hollywood movies become mega profit-making blockbusters. Movies have perfectly nuanced narratives that are crafted for easy (and mindless) comprehension and consumption by the public. In movies, we are witnessing people’s lives unfold in a way that rarely happens in real life. In movies, nothing happens without a 48 DEREK RAKE reason, and there’s no element of randomness in the plot. And by the time the movie finishes, everything is conveniently wrapped up, usually with a happy ending. Real life, however, is obviously a lot more complex. Our lives are one long middle section. Things that happen to us are rarely resolved properly. Instead, they either fizzle out slowly, or end abruptly with no satisfying resolution. Compared to movies and TV shows, our life story is boring and uneventful. And guess what? We don’t get that many happy endings either. And this is where the problem starts… Because of our brain’s addiction to digestible stories, we introspectively apply such narratives to our own lives to make sense of the events that happen to us3. Here’s what I mean. When we think back to the events in our past, we usually assign them a beginning, middle and end. In the process, we often conveniently omit parts of the story that don’t fit in with our chosen narrative. The result? You’ll construct a memory which at best, incomplete, or at worst, a lie. 3Storytelling as a technique is covered inside the Rollercoastering report which you can download here: http://shogunmethod.net/shogun- method/fractionation/ 49 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Controlling The Breakup Narrative You might be asking what this has to do with breakups. Well, here’s what… One, it helps you understand how your ex-girlfriend or wife thinks and feels during and after the breakup process. “All he did all day was to bitch about his work.” “He was a real pain in the ass to everyone.” “He was pretty bad in the bedroom.” Hyperbolic statements like these are what she uses to retro-fit the narrative to suit her agenda and belief. No, you were the asshole from day one. It was all your fault, not hers. You fucked up, not her. Two, and more importantly, it gives you the opportunity to psychologically reset the relationship. A breakup is the “ending” to your ex-girlfriend or wife’s imagined narrative. Instead of one long, continuous story with 50 DEREK RAKE endless ups and downs, you are forcing her to draw a line in the sand and reach closure in her mind. This is why we favor the complete “severance” of the relationship: because attempting to “fix” a relationship is usually a futile exercise. A clean state is much easier to work with because you’re starting again from the beginning. By giving the breakup narrative a proper closure, you’ll be free to start another narrative in her mind: a new relationship with you, free from emotional baggage associated with the past. Starting The Recovery Process Make no mistake. Your ex will be extremely pissed off with you after that fight at the end of the Confirmation stage. And believe me when I say this: that’s actually a good thing. Why? Well, here’s the reason. Despite being angry at you, she’ll be more open to you than ever before. And here’s why… Your behavior will give her an excuse to vent her pent-up anger at you. And as we have discovered, she needs closure, and an intense “fight” will give her that. 51 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ So, where do you go from here? In a moment, we’ll jump right into the Restoration strategy, but first you need to know when the perfect time is to make your next move. After the fight, do this: ignore her for seven days. Give her time to come to terms with what has happened. She’ll be caught in a whirlwind of emotions. Your sudden change in behavior will startle her… and yet at the same time, she’s excited about the drama. In the back of her mind, she becomes as intrigued as ever. How does the story go from here? And for this reason, she will only be too willing to engage you because her mind yearns for the closure for that intense fight that you’ve had with her. At this point, you’ll start the Restoration process by using an advanced version of the Implanted Command technique that you’ve already learned in Shogun Method. 52 DEREK RAKE Advanced Implanted Commands An Advanced Implanted Command follows the same structure of a regular Implanted Command but with two additional components: 1. A Psychic component. For example: “Very soon, you’re going to start missing me” 2. A Situational component. For example: “You’re sitting at home in that leather chair of yours...” The Psychic component allows you to give the impression you know what she wants better than she does herself. The Situational component, on the other hand, allows a natural, conversational vibe to take hold. Putting both components together in the example above, they form the following sentence: “Very soon, while you’re sitting at home in that leather chair of yours, you’re going to start missing me.” 53 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Notice how this example of an Advanced Implanted Command combines both a covert command and situational awareness in one line. And this is how the sentence is processed in the woman’s subconscious mind: 1. “You’re sitting at home…” (Yes, that’s true) 2. “…in that leather chair…” (Yes, that’s true) 3. “You’re going to start missing me” (This has got to be true, also!) Next, you’ll learn a Shogun Sequence packed with Advanced Implanted Commands that will kickstart the recovery process for you. Restoration Advanced Implanted Commands After the seven-day freeze-out, get in touch with her. Text her the following Advanced Implanted Command: 54 DEREK RAKE “In the next few days, something incredible is going to happen for you. I’m glad we had our little conversation the other night, but I think you actually have a little more to say.” Let’s break the text down into its respective components: “In the next few days…” is the Psychic component “…had our little conversation the other night…” is the Situational component “…you actually have a little more to say” is the Implanted Command. The Implanted Command will prompt a response from her. The moment she does, the Restoration process begins. Your goal at this point is to get her to see you in person. Depending on how well you executed the previous two stages, she might yield to your request immediately, or not. In case she turns you down, here are some more stock Advanced Implanted Command lines which you can use to make her yield: 55 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ “You and I both know what’s going to happen. A woman like you isn’t going to be single long. You might try and look for your next partner in a bar or club, but in your heart, you know exactly who your perfect guy is.” “You said a lot of things you didn’t mean, and you very quickly regretted them. I’m not saying I didn’t do the same. However, I think you want to take this a little further, don’t you?” “A woman in your circumstances might know exactly what she wants, but it takes someone special to see it. Don’t make the mistake of being too stubborn to chase it, and just grab the opportunity in front of you.” Notice that there’s absolutely no direct mention of getting back together. At this point you’ll still want to be covert in your approach. And as such, you’ll be relying on Implanted Commands to speak to her subconscious and make her conclude that she wants to be with you on her own accord. Getting Stuck In The Restoration Stage If you find yourself in the Restoration stage for several days: 56 DEREK RAKE don’t worry. This is perfectly normal. You’re not “stuck”. The truth is that she probably won’t come crawling back to you overnight. However, trust that once the seed of revival has been planted, it will continue to grow until she has no other options but to come back to you. If you don’t get any favorable responses from her, continue to hit her with Advanced Implanted Commands. Do not ask her directly if she wants to restart the relationship. That needs to come from her. She must feel as if she is the one who has decided to do that. You will know for sure when the Restoration process has taken hold when you begin to notice a change in how she texts you. Here are some signs to look out for: She replies to your texts quickly She texts you first She uses text colloquialisms like “LOL”, emojis, exclamation points and otherwise being light-hearted She agrees to meet up with you 57 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ If you don’t see those signs, keep going through the Restoration process by hitting her continually with Advanced Implanted Commands4. Over time, her emotional reliance on you will slowly creep up. And if you’re doing this effectively, she’ll realize that the only way to quell these emotions is to get back together with you. Once this stage has been successfully completed, your relationship status with her will have been fully reset. From that point onwards, you’ll be the one who holds the power in the relationship. Correspondingly, your woman’s position will be somewhat weakened with her subconscious mind reminding her of the entire breakup narrative: “I learned my lesson from last time, so there’s no way I’d let our relationship go down the same path again” She’ll be desperate to start the relationship again, but this time she’ll approach it from a more cautious, subservient position. 4For more examples of Advanced Implanted Commands, see the first module of the Shogun Method Black Book (Vol 1) 58 DEREK RAKE And with this, it’s time to deliver the coup-de-tat and seal the deal in the final stage of the VCRD Model: Dependence 59 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ I n the final stage of ReSeduction, you’ll bulletproof your relationship against the risk of future breakups. Similar to Shogun Method’s Enslavement, you’ll manipulate her subconscious mind so that she becomes dependent on you emotionally – so that leaving you will never be something that she will consider again. You learned in Shogun Method about exploiting a woman’s propensity for drama as you Enslave her to you emotionally. You also know how to strengthen your emotional connection with her by injecting negative elements into the relationship (for example – by creating conflict or stumbling blocks which you then overcome together). 60 DEREK RAKE In the Dependent stage, you’ll do something similar, except that you’re going to create false negative memories in her mind. What Are False Memories? People like to think that their memories are 100% accurate. They will describe events from decades ago down to the smallest detail, recalling specific things someone had said and did. They earnestly believe that everything they’re remembering happened exactly like how they would describe them. Of course, that’s not true at all. The reality is that the human memory is incredibly volatile and hopelessly inaccurate. If you’re recalling something that happened more than a few years ago, chances are you’re remembering it wrong. Here’s why. Our brain has one very hectic job. Every second it gets bombarded by information which needs to be processed meaningfully, and at the same time, it also needs to deal with background tasks like walking, breathing, blinking and swallowing. 61 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ To cope with this avalanche of tasks, the brain relies on shortcuts to function properly. One of these shortcuts involves using previous information already stored in the brain to make sense of new information. Let’s look at an example. Say you try to remember a picnic from twenty years ago. You’re sure you can remember every single detail, right down to the color of the picnic blanket. Well, guess what? Your brain is recalling information from newer events to paint this picture for you in your mind. The truth is that you can’t possibly remember an insignificant detail from an event which happened a long time ago. However, it knows what a picnic basket looks like. It also knows what a green field and the blue sky looks like. You put these three things together and voila, you’ve created a perfectly believable False Memory. How To Create A False Memory So, how do you use this piece of insight to your advantage? Simple, really. You’ll feed her a completely fabricated “memory”, and then reinforce the memory using past information. 62 DEREK RAKE The process takes two steps: Step 1: Implant The False Memory – Feed her the False Memory, followed by two or three true statements. Step 2: Echo The Statements As Questions – Repeat your statements back to her, but phrase them as questions. Let’s look at an example. Imagine a completely different scenario for a second. Pretend that you’re chatting with a girl that you’re interested in. However, she already has a boyfriend. So, let’s say you want to implant a false memory that her boyfriend has been unfaithful to her. You: “Remember when you saw your boyfriend chatting to that girl at the bar, and you got really pissed?” Her: “No, when?” You: “You don’t remember? We were in the Atlantis nightclub. It was freezing cold outside… I think it was around November.” Her: “Hmm, maybe.” 63 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Providing the other statements are true (Atlantis nightclub, freezing cold, November), her subconscious will be filtering this new knowledge through previous information stored in her memory bank and will file it alongside the true statements you made. Then, you simply need to “Echo” this information to her: You: “Remember when you saw your boyfriend chatting to that girl at the bar, and you got really pissed?” (False memory) Her: “No, when?” You: “You don’t remember? We were in Atlantis nightclub. It was freezing cold outside… I think it was around November.” (True statements) Her: “Hmm, maybe.” You: “I’m positive. You don’t remember us standing on the dance floor, and you looking over and seeing him at the bar with that girl? You turned to me and said ‘I can’t believe he’s doing that right in front of me.’ Is it coming back to you yet?” (Echo) Pretty straightforward, right? Next, let’s put this technique in the ReSeduction context and see 64 DEREK RAKE how it pans out. Seal The Deal In Two Final Steps By now, you should have: 1. Validated the end of your relationship 2. Confirmed that you and your ex won’t get back together 3. Restored the connection between you both to a more stable condition Next, you will force her to become entirely Dependent on you. As with Enslavement, this will be an emotional dependence. At the end of the Restoration stage, in her subconscious mind, she realizes that the heartache and pain she’s suffering will only end once both of you have gotten back together. The only thing left to do now is implant the memory in her head that her time without you was entirely filled with grief and suffering. In a sense it genuinely was. The suffering was brought on by you, 65 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ of course, but that’s not what you want her to remember. When she recalls the breakup period, the sense of her being unhappy without you is what should stick out in her mind the most. Next, let’s take a look at the two last steps inside the Dependent stage which will seal the deal for you. Step 1: Implant The False Memory To implant a False Memory, begin with a variation of the following phrases: “Remember when…?” “Weren’t you going to…?” “Didn’t you say…?” “Didn’t you once…?” Next, let’s look at an example. Imagine you’re now face-to-face with her. There’s a sense of rejuvenation between you both. The negative feelings have somewhat subsided and there’s only a faint glimmer of hostility still 66 DEREK RAKE hanging in the air. You’ll say: You: “Didn’t you say that you were struggling without me in your life?” Chances are that she won’t remember for sure whether or not she had said this to you. Also, the fact her emotions were running high will affect her memory and make her doubt herself. Predictably, she’ll respond with something along the lines of: Her: “Did I?” (There’s a possibility that she may well outright admit it, and if she does that – perfect.) Now, this is the point where you will need to add a contextual element to your routine. You need to include two or three true statements to force her subconscious to accept the False Memory as the truth. You: “Yes, remember? You said it over text a few weeks back. We were arguing about that time we went on vacation and I got us lost. You said you were at home watching Netflix at the time.” 67 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Her: “Oh right. Maybe. I forgot.” As simple as that, the False Memory is now implanted in her memory. Once she replies, it’s then a matter of “echoing” your statements back to her. Step 2: Echo The Statements As Questions Let a moment of silence hang in the air for effect. Sit back in your chair and mime a thinking stance. Then repeat your scripts, but this time transposing them into questions. Here’s an example: You: “You definitely did. You don’t remember talking about our vacation and how I screwed up the directions? Then you mentioned you were alone watching TV? After that, you said that life wasn’t so great without me. You said you were struggling emotionally and didn’t know what to do. Can’t you recall it?” With everything she’s been through, she’ll be too much of an emotional mess to rationalize what you’re saying. Instead, her imagination will fuse with reality and she won’t know what’s real and what isn’t. Taking the easy way out, her subconscious will categorize everything you’ve said as true. 68 DEREK RAKE In her mind, it will break down like this: 1. We were talking about being on vacation (True Statement) 2. I mentioned that he got us lost (True Statement) 3. I was at home watching Netflix (True Statement) 4. I said I missed him being in my life (False Memory) The first three statements are true, and therefore, the forth must also be true. Bridging From Dependence To Enslavement Understand that in most cases, the effect won’t kick in immediately. It will most likely be a few days before the False Memory registers as authentic in her mind. And once it does, her dependence on you will reach its highest possible point. How you choose to navigate next is entirely your choice, but the simplest route would be to perform the Enslavement routine on her. By this time, she will be fully primed and ready for the Black Rose Sequence. 69 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ Make no mistake: False Memories are one of the most powerful tools ever created in the Shogun Method knowledge universe. With it, you have the power to insert any memory you desire into any woman’s mind. You’re only limited by your imagination. Mastery of this one technique will give you the ability to truly bulletproof your relationship from future breakups: because you’ll be able to “plant” the pain of leaving you in her mind repeatedly. Whenever you feel that the relationship is on shaky grounds, do this – implant a False Memory about the pain and suffering she endured when she last tried to leave you. As you condition her to avoid that pain, breaking up with you will become absolutely unthinkable in her mind 70 DEREK RAKE Reseduction Premium Coaching™ If you'd like to have specialized, one-on-one advisory service then consider getting coached by one of our certified ReSeduction instructors. We will analyze your situation in depth and recommend to you a step-by-step strategy based on the ReSeduction VCRD model. Coaching is done via email, and turnaround time of each email query is typically 3-4 working days. This is designed so that you can take the time to implement the strategies with your ex- girlfriend or wife before we plan your next move with you. Coaching fee per email is $175, with a minimum of five emails per purchase. To apply for ReSeduction Premium Coaching™, click here. 71 RESEDUCTION 2.0 ™ About DEREK RAKE Derek Rake is a full time dating coach specializing in Mind Control-based seduction systems. Over the years, he has helped more than 17,000 men around the world achieve their relationship goals. At present, Derek leads a team of expert coaches, providing counseling to a small number of clients internationally. He travels regularly from his headquarters in New York City to San Francisco, London, Sydney and Singapore. Derek Rake’s entire knowledge base can be found at this webpage: http://shogunmethod.net/catalog/ 72 DEREK RAKE 73