Personal Development Lesson 25 PDF

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT  LESSON 25 MELC Prepare a Plan on How to Make Family Members Firmer and Gentler with Each Other  OBJECTIVES Discuss types of family relationships Demonstrate family situations Recognize the value of family relationships ...

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT  LESSON 25 MELC Prepare a Plan on How to Make Family Members Firmer and Gentler with Each Other  OBJECTIVES Discuss types of family relationships Demonstrate family situations Recognize the value of family relationships  FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS Are meaningful relationships in life and society. It is the basic relationship people have in life since birth, especially of children born in a biological family. They play a vital role in shaping and developing an individual’s well-being throughout his/her life. Types of Family Relationships TYPES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS Couple relationship –is an intimate connection between partners as husband and wife or two people living together through the bond of marriage or by cohabitation (live-in partner). TYPES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS Parent-child relationship- the connection between parents to the child/children either biological or adopted. TYPES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS Sibling relationship- the connection between or among the brothers or sisters in the family. TYPES OF FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS Extended family relationship – refers to the connection between the nuclear family with other members of the family like aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins, and other relatives. Family Members and Their Roles  FAMILY MEMBERS AND THEIR ROLES FAMILY ROLES MEMBERS Couple To provide the needs of each other physically, emotionally, financially, etc. Parents The provider of the basic needs of the family such as food, clothes, shelter, education, safety needs, love, acceptance, and care  FAMILY MEMBERS AND THEIR ROLES FAMILY ROLES MEMBERS Children Must honor and obey their parents, respect each other, help the household chores, study, etc. Siblings Older siblings assist in taking care of the needs of the siblings, while younger siblings should listen and learn from them  FAMILY MEMBERS AND THEIR ROLES FAMILY ROLES MEMBERS Extended May extend support to the members unmet needs of the family like the grandparents taking care of grandchildren, giving advice to the members of the family if necessary. ACTIVITY Ways on How to Make Family Members Firmer and Gentler with Each Other ACRONYM of FIRMER and GENTLER PLANS Foster unity. There is unity in the family despite the differences in personalities and characteristics of each member by doing its specific roles in the family. Promote unity in the family by building a bond among the members. Involve each other. Every member of the family is important. Include them in significant decision-making in family life. Respect individuality. Give higher regard by appreciating the uniqueness of every member of the family, knowing that everyone has its identity, strengths, and weaknesses. Respect can be earned without comparing one with another. An example is by asking permission whenever one needs another member’s belongings. Model the behavior. Everyone in the family could be a model for each other. Modeling behavior is setting yourself as an example that is worth following to other members of the family. Explain expectations and consequences. Let every family member understand what is expected of them as to their responsibility. Along with this, consequences must be clarified, so they will also know their accountability. Reward good behavior. A reward is an excellent motivation for any family member, so they can keep on doing what is good and right. Always look at the positive behavior rather than focusing and nagging on other family member’s failures. Give love and forgiveness. We all need love, but we also need to give love. Love is the core of relationships to make it stronger and better. When there is love, there is also forgiveness for they go hand in hand together. Express gratitude. Support one another through giving positive words and expressing gratitude. Communicate with constructive words and affirmation. Nurture trust. A trusting relationship promotes dignity and integrity in the relationship. When trust is present, it challenges the person to do better because others are depending on him/her. Take time together. Spending time together helps to know each other better and promote authentic and stronger relationships. Pray, play, eat, solve problems together, etc. Listen attentively. Give your attention to the one who has concerns. It enables you to understand the motives, feelings, and ideas of others. The deeper the understanding between each family member, the stronger the family is. Ensure safety. It is within the family that members should feel safe and secured. Be sure that no abuses and domestic violence are happening among the members of the family. Do not put your family in danger. Remember God. Acknowledge God as the Source, great provider, and the center of the relationship. The God of love, peace, and justice is with us always. If God is the center of the relationships, you will do everything that is pleasing both to God and others. Pray always. Prayer is a necessary ingredient in relationships. Seek strength and help from God in all circumstances. A family that prays together stays stronger. Learn good communication. Good communication promotes knowledge and understanding of the situation in the family. Good communication uses “I” messages expressing one's concerns and feelings, not blaming and condemning others. Nourish each other. To nourish is to provide the necessary things needed in the family. Nourish the family with kindness and gentleness. Stop being rude or harsh toward each other. Serve one another. Serving one another is treating everyone as important to you. When everyone is serving each other, the burden of the family becomes lighter.  Foster unity Involve each other. Respect individuality. Model the behavior. Explain expectations and consequences. Reward good behavior.  Give love and forgiveness. Express gratitude. Nurture trust. Take time together. Listen attentively. Ensure safety. Remember God.  WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO HAVE A FIRMER AND GENTLER RELATIONSHIP IN THE FAMILY? A good family relationship creates a transformative society because whatever happens in the family impacts the society. When the family has a firmer and gentler relationship, it becomes easier to reach dreams and goals; it’s easier to have a healthy and happy life. The family then becomes fruitful in any endeavor. With all these, the God of love, peace, and justice is honored.  Factors in Personal Development: Guide in Making Important CareerDecisions 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 2  The Big Five Personality traits 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 3 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Openness concerns Facets: imagination, with the desire to curiosity, originality, broad- explore and enjoy novel mindedness, and experiences; preference intelligence for change and variety. Career Choice: tour guide, pilot, writers entrepreneurs, artists, actors, musicians 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 4 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Conscientiousness deals Facets: reliability, with high levels of orderliness, impulse effort, motivation, being control, decisiveness, organized, systematic, deliberation, punctuality punctual, and Career Choice: lawyers, dependable. doctors, CEO’s accountant, sales managers, scientists, engineers 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 5 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Extraversion involves Facets: Dominance, traits relating to Sociability, positive sociability and emotions. dominance; concerns Career Choice: manager, on how eager an personal trainer news individual is to have presenter, radio jockey, social interaction and in public speaking, constant contact with entertainment, event the outside world. planner. 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 6 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Extraversion involves Facets: Dominance, traits relating to Sociability, positive sociability and emotions. dominance; concerns Career Choice: manager, on how eager an personal trainer news individual is to have presenter, radio jockey, social interaction and in public speaking, constant contact with entertainment, event the outside world. planner. 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 7 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Agreeableness includes Facets: nurturance, being compassionate trust, modesty, and cooperative toward tolerance, likability, others; shows likability, straightforwardness kindness, and Career Choice: HR courteousness Specialist, Teacher nursing, social work, counseling 2/8/20XX Sample Footer Text 8 Personality Trait Facets and Career Choice Emotional Stability/ Facets: anxiety, hostility, Neuroticism refers to a depression, vulnerability, person’s tendency to low self-esteem. If you can stay calm under become emotionally pressure, career choice upset; proneness to may be: social work, experience psychiatric emotional distress Nursing Sample Footer Text 9 2/8/20XX Factors Affecting Students’ Career Choice  Parent’s Role Parents pre-determine the career for their child and only serve to steer them in that direction. Likewise, that that parent's education has been proven as factor influencing career choice of their child.  Socioeconomic Socioeconomic backgrounds made a wrong decision, and chose professions which required a short of duration of training primarily because of financial constraints  High Paying Job Students prefer a job which will give them better opportunity and high paying salary.  Global Opportunity Some students’ preferences in choosing a career depends on the opportunity abroad.  Academic Performance Career choice may also depend on the academic achievements or performance. A student who did well in school has a better opportunity than those who struggled in their studies.