How Attachments Are Developed PDF
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This document discusses attachment theory, focusing on different attachment styles (secure, anxious/ambivalent, avoidant) and how these styles impact interpersonal relationships. It explores attraction, love, and commitment, and the various ways individuals express these within relationships.
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HOW ATTACHMENT S ARE Group 2 DEVELOPED LEARNING OBJECTIVES: To be able to identify the ways of showing attraction, love and commitment. ATTACHMENT ATTACHMENT a strong emotional bond that an infant forms with a caregiver (such as a mother) especially when viewed as...
HOW ATTACHMENT S ARE Group 2 DEVELOPED LEARNING OBJECTIVES: To be able to identify the ways of showing attraction, love and commitment. ATTACHMENT ATTACHMENT a strong emotional bond that an infant forms with a caregiver (such as a mother) especially when viewed as a basis for normal emotional and social development. There are different ways in showing love with our loved ones or partners and are emphasized in Three (3) attachment styles we display when we interact with our AINSWORTH'S ATTACHMENT THEORY SECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE a healthy style wherein the children used to receive care and easily communicate with the parents since they feel that they are always ANXIOUS/ AMBIVALENT ATTACHMENT STYLE when children are lacking or seeking more affection from parents because they are too dependent on them AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT STYLE it is when children are distant to the parent/s, sometimes due to unpleasant experiences. These attachment styles have a big effect or impact on how an individual perceived ATTRACTION ATTRACTION the action or power of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something; and a quality or feature that evokes interest, liking, or desire. Having this definition, it could be said that attraction is a positive connection between two or more people that share something in common, like interests, likes/dislikes, or INTERPERSONAL ATTRACTION when you have a positive attitude or evaluation regarding a particular person in relation to different components There are a lot of key components of attraction that may be the reason for Physical -Attractive people draw out attractive a more positive first ness impression. Initially, people tend to be influenced by what they see. Even the younger ones prefer to look at faces those adults consider - Manyattractive researches rather Similarity support than atthat opposite ones similarity (Langlois, et.al. 1991). causes attraction. Oftentimes, you find it easy to get along with him/her because you share the same Proximity -One of the important aspects of any relationship is distance. Proximity pertains to physical distance with other people and it is related to functional distance how often - we people tend Reciprocity communicate tointeract get alongor with people or with with each someoneother). whom we have the same feelings toward. It is called reciprocity. It is when feelings with someone LOVE LOVE It appears that the word Love has many meanings. Some definitions in the Meriam-Webster dictionary; LOVE 1. (a) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties; (b) traction based on sexual desire: affection and tenderness felt by lovers; (c) affection based on admiration, LOVE 2. An assurance of affection Any discussion about love piques the curiosity and interest of young adults your age. It may differ depending on one's experience and knowledge of love, though. Sometimes, it may affect the emotional and psychological being of a person, thus influencing his/her emotion toward another. COMMITMEN T COMMITMENT It is a long-term relationship between individuals. A more complex relationship that resulted to increasingly turn to each other not only for social support but also for help in coordinating activities, remembering dates and appointments, and accomplishing tasks (Wegner, Erber, & Raymond, 1991). Many people say that for you to be able to have a successful 5 DIFFERENT WAYS TO SHOW ATTRACTION, LOVE AND COMMITMENT WORDS OF AFFIRMATION is about expressing affection through spoken words, praise, or appreciation. When this is someone's primary love language, they enjoy kind words and encouragement, uplifting quotes, love notes, and cute text messages. You can make this person's QUALITY TIME someone with this love language values your full presence when you are together. They feel most loved if you give them your undivided attention and spend time together in meaningful and interactive ways. This means putting down the cell phone, turning off the PHYSICAL TOUCH A person with physical touch as their primary love language feels love through physical affection. Aside from sex, they feel loved when their partner holds their hand, touches their arm, or gives them a ACTS OF SERVICE Acts of service are nice things you do for your partner that make them feel loved and appreciated RECEIVING GIFTS For someone who resonates with this love language, gifts symbolize love, care, and affection. They treasure not only the gift itself but also the time and effort the gift- thank you!