Chapter 1: Key Dimensions of Self-Awareness PDF

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This chapter introduces the concept of self-awareness, highlighting its importance in human behavior and personal success. It discusses different dimensions of self-awareness and links them to self-management skills, including time management and stress management.

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SKILL LEARNING Key Dimensions of Self-Awareness following chapter on stress and time management. Moreover, as Figure 1.1 illustrates, when problems For more than 300 years, knowledge of the self has...

SKILL LEARNING Key Dimensions of Self-Awareness following chapter on stress and time management. Moreover, as Figure 1.1 illustrates, when problems For more than 300 years, knowledge of the self has arise in personal management, the easily recognized been considered to be at the very core of human symptoms are often time pressures or experienced behavior. The ancient dictum “Know thyself” has been stress. However, those symptoms are often linked to variously attributed to Plato, Pythagoras, Thales, and more fundamental problems with self-awareness and Socrates. Plutarch noted that this inscription was out-of-balance priorities so we begin with a focus on carved on the Delphic Oracle, that mystical sanctuary enhancing knowledge of oneself. where kings and generals sought advice on matters of Despite the research cited above, students of human greatest importance to them. As early as 42 B.C., behavior have long known that knowledge of oneself— Publilius Syrus proposed: “It matters not what you are self-awareness, self-insight, self-understanding—is essen- thought to be, but what you are.” Alfred Lord Tennyson tial to one’s productive personal and interpersonal said: “Self-reverence, self-knowledge, self-control, these functioning, and in understanding and empathizing with three alone lead to sovereign power.” Probably the other people. A host of techniques and methods for most oft-quoted passage on the self is Polonius’ advice achieving self-knowledge have long been available— in Hamlet: “To thine own self be true, and it must including group methods, meditation techniques, altered follow as the night the day, thou canst not then be false consciousness procedures, aromatherapy, assorted to any man.” massages, physical exercise regimens, and biofeedback. Messinger reminded us: “He that would govern It is estimated that Americans alone spend between others must first master himself.” Self-awareness lies $30 billion and $50 billion on such therapies. In this at the heart of the ability to master oneself, but it is not chapter we do not summarize those various approaches sufficient. While self-management depends first and to enhanced self-awareness, nor do we espouse any foremost on self-awareness, as illustrated in Figure 1.1, one procedure in par-ticular. Instead, our objective is to other self-management skills are closely linked to and help you understand the importance of self-awareness if build upon self-awareness. Developing self-control, for you are to be a suc-cessful manager—or a successful example, and clarifying priorities and goals, help indi- individual—and to provide you with some powerful viduals create direction in their own lives. Effectively self-assessment instruments that are related to managerial managing time and stress make it possible for individu- success. Our emphasis is on scientifically validated infor- als to adapt to and organize their surroundings. mation linking self-awareness to the behavior of This chapter centers on the core aspects of self- managers, and we try to avoid generalizations that have management and serves as the foundation for the not been tested in research. Figure 1.1 A Hierarchy of Personal Life-Management Skills Symptom Tactical Managing Stress Managing Time Setting Priorities and Goals Self-Awareness Problem Strategic DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 57 The Enigma of Self-Awareness ourselves by repression and similar defenses, which are essentially techniques by which we Erich Fromm (1939) was one of the first behavioral sci- avoid becoming conscious of unpleasantness entists to observe the close connection between one’s or dangerous truths. self-concept and one’s feelings about others: “Hatred against oneself is inseparable from hatred against We avoid personal growth, then, because we fear others.” Carl Rogers (1961) later proposed that self- finding out that we are not all that we would like to be. awareness and self-acceptance are prerequisites for psy- If there is a better way to be, our current state must chological health, personal growth, and the ability to therefore be inadequate or inferior. The realization that know and accept others. In fact, Rogers suggested that one is not totally adequate or knowledgeable is difficult the basic human need is for self-regard, which he for many people to accept. This resistance is the “deny- found to be more powerful in his clinical cases than ing of our best side, of our talents, of our finest impulses, physiological needs. Brouwer (1964, p. 156) asserted: of our highest potentialities, of our creativeness. In brief, this is the struggle against our own greatness” (Maslow, The function of self-examination is to lay the 1962, p. 58). Freud (1956) asserted that to be com- groundwork for insight, without which no pletely honest with oneself is the best effort an individ- growth can occur. Insight is the “Oh, I see now” ual can make, because complete honesty requires a con- feeling which must consciously or unconsciously tinual search for more information about the self and a precede change in behavior. Insights—real, gen- desire for self-improvement. The results of that search uine glimpses of ourselves as we really are—are are usually uncomfortable. reached only with difficulty and sometimes with Seeking knowledge of the self, therefore, seems to real psychic pain. But they are the building be an enigma. It is a prerequisite for and motivator of blocks of growth. Thus, self-examination is a growth and improvement, but it may also inhibit growth preparation for insight, a groundbreaking for the and improvement. It may lead to stagnation because of seeds of self-understanding which gradually fear of knowing more. How, then, can improvement bloom into changed behavior. be accomplished? How can management skills be devel- oped if the self-knowledge necessary for the develop- There is little question that the knowledge we pos- ment of those skills is resisted? sess about ourselves, which makes up our self-concept, is central to improving our management skills. We can- not improve ourselves or develop new capabilities THE SENSITIVE LINE unless and until we know what level of capability we One answer relies on the concept of the sensitive currently possess. Considerable empirical evidence line. This concept refers to the point at which individ- exists that individuals who are more self-aware are uals become defensive or protective when encounter- more healthy, perform better in managerial and leader- ing information about themselves that is inconsistent ship roles, and are more productive at work (Boyatzis, with their self-concept or when encountering pressure 1982; Cervone, 1997; Spencer & Spencer, 1993). to alter their behavior. Most people regularly experi- On the other hand, self-knowledge may inhibit ence information about themselves that doesn’t quite personal improvement rather than facilitate it. The rea- fit or that is marginally inconsistent. For example, a son is that individuals frequently evade personal friend might say, “You look tired today. Are you feeling growth and new self-knowledge. They resist acquiring okay?” If you are feeling fine, the information is incon- additional information in order to protect their self- sistent with your self-awareness. But because the dis- esteem or self-respect. If they acquire new knowledge crepancy is relatively minor, it would not be likely to about themselves, there is always the possibility that it offend you or evoke a strong defensive reaction. That will be negative or that it will lead to feelings of inferi- is, it would probably not require that you reexamine ority, weakness, evilness, or shame. So they avoid new and change your self-concept. self-knowledge. As Maslow (1962, p. 57) notes: On the other hand, the more discrepant the infor- mation or the more serious its implications for your self- We tend to be afraid of any knowledge that concept, the closer it would approach your sensitive would cause us to despise ourselves or to make line, and you would feel a need to defend yourself us feel inferior, weak, worthless, evil, shameful. against it. For example, having a coworker judge you We protect ourselves and our ideal image of incompetent as a manager may cross your sensitive line 58 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS if you think you have done a good job as a manager. A second answer to the problem of overcoming This would be especially true if the coworker was an resistance to self-examination lies in the role other influential person. Your response would probably be to people can play in helping insight to occur. It is almost defend yourself against the information to protect the impossible to increase skill in self-awareness unless we image you hold of yourself. interact with and disclose ourselves to others. Unless This response is known as the threat-rigidity one is willing to open up to others, to discuss aspects response (Staw, Sandelands, & Dutton, 1981; Weick, of the self that seem ambiguous or unknown, little 1993). When individuals are threatened, when they growth can ever occur. Self-disclosure, therefore, is a encounter uncomfortable information, or when uncer- key to improvement in self-awareness. Harris (1981) tainty is created, they tend to become rigid. They hunker points out: down, protect themselves, and become risk averse. Consider what happens when you are startled or sud- In order to know oneself, no amount of intro- denly shocked by something unexpected. Physically, spection or self-examination will suffice. You your body tends to become rigid in order to protect itself. can analyze yourself for weeks, or meditate for It tightens up to safeguard stability. Similarly, individuals months, and you will not get an inch further— also become rigid—psychologically and emotionally— any more than you can smell your own breath when they encounter information that is a threat to their or laugh when you tickle yourself. self-concept. They tend to redouble their efforts to pro- You must first be open to the other per- tect what is comfortable and familiar (Cameron, 1994; son before you catch a glimmering of yourself. Cameron, Kim, & Whetten, 1987; Weick & Sutcliffe, Our self-reflection in a mirror does not tell us 2000). They rely on first-learned or most reinforced what we are like; only our reflection in other behavior patterns and emotions. When discrepancies in people. We are essentially social creatures, the self-image are encountered, in other words, the valid- and our personality resides in association, not ity of the information or its source is denied, or other in isolation. kinds of defense mechanisms are used to ensure that the self-concept remains stable. Crossing the sensitive line As you engage in the practice exercises in this chap- creates rigidity and self-preservation. ter, therefore, you are encouraged to discuss your In light of this defensiveness, then, how can insights with someone else. A lack of self-disclosure increased self-knowledge and personal change ever not only inhibits self-awareness but also may affect occur? There are at least two answers. One is that adversely other aspects of managerial skill development. information that is verifiable, predictable, and control- For example, several studies have shown that low self- lable is less likely to cross the sensitive line than infor- disclosers are less healthy and more self-alienated than mation without those characteristics. That is, if an high self-disclosers. College students give the highest rat- individual can test the validity of the discrepant infor- ings for interpersonal competence to high self-disclosers. mation (for example, if some objective standard exists Individuals who are high self-disclosers are liked best, for evaluating the accuracy of the information), if the and excessive or insufficient self-disclosure results in less information is not unexpected or “out-of-the-blue” liking and acceptance by others (see, for example, Covey, (for example, if it is received at regular intervals), and 1989; Goleman, 1998b; Kelley, 1999). if there is some control over what, when, and how Some of the exercises in this chapter will require much information is received (for example, if it is you to discuss your experiences with others. This is requested), the feedback is more likely to be heard because involving others in the process of self- and accepted. The information you receive about understanding will be a critical aspect of your personal yourself in this chapter possesses those three charac- growth. These interactions, of course, should be sin- teristics. You have already completed several self- cere, honest, and motivated by self-understanding and assessment instruments that have been used exten- self-improvement. Never should the information you sively in research. Their reliability and validity have share or receive be used to judge or wound another been established. Moreover, they have been found to person. Maintaining a trusting relationship with some- be associated with managerial success. Therefore, as one with whom you can share is a critical prerequisite you analyze your scores and seek honestly to to self-understanding. understand more about your underlying attributes, The enigma of self-awareness can be managed, you can gain important insight that will prove to be then, by exercising some control over when and what very useful. kind of information you receive about yourself, and by DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 59 involving others in your pursuit of self-understanding. cess is attributed to charisma, intelligence, or style. We The support and feedback individuals receive from feel we are somehow diminished and less able because others during the process of self-disclosure, besides of what we see in others. Self-knowledge allows us helping to increase feedback and self-awareness, helps to recognize our own special gifts and strengths and to information contribute to greater self-awareness with- capitalize on our talents. out crossing the sensitive line. Diagnosing fundamental differences in others is, similarly, an important part of being an effective Understanding and Appreciating manager. Being aware of, and empathetic toward, the Individual Differences different perspectives, needs, and inclinations of other people is a key part of emotional intelligence and inter- Another important reason for focusing on self- personal maturity. Most people, however, have a awareness is to help you develop the ability to diagnose tendency to interact with individuals who are like important differences among others with whom you themselves, to choose similar people to work with interact. There is considerable evidence that an individ- them, and to exclude others who seem to be different ual’s effectiveness as a manager is closely related to his (Berscheid & Walster, 1978). The history of human or her ability to recognize, appreciate, and ultimately warfare and conflict testifies to the fact that differences utilize key, fundamental differences among others. This are usually interpreted as frightening or threatening. topic is commonly discussed in the management litera- However, although fostering similarity seemingly ture under the subject of “managing diversity.” The makes it easier to interact with other people, especially diversity literature has progressed through a series of in a work setting, it also reduces creativity, complex stages, beginning with a plethora of statistics demon- problem solving, and the likelihood that working col- strating the extent to which, and the specific ways in leagues will challenge the perspective of the authority which, the workforce is becoming more diverse. This figure. Research on organizational failure has repeat- was followed by evidence-based arguments touting the edly demonstrated that a lack of diversity in the merits of a diverse group of workers contributing to the composition of key decision-making bodies makes it dif- performance of a work group (Cox, 1994). The primary ficult for them to recognize changes in their environ- sources of diversity discussed in this literature are ment and to respond in appropriately new and novel gender, age, culture, and ethnicity. ways (Cameron, Kim, & Whetten, 1987). In this chapter, and throughout the book, we use One key to helping individuals feel comfortable broader, more inclusive, and less ambiguous terminol- discussing ways in which they are different is by ogy that is more conducive to skill development. sharing a commitment to focusing on differences not Whereas it is difficult, for example, to understand all the distinctions. We observe differences; we create distinc- ramifications of “managing diversity,” it is not difficult to tions. Differences help us understand potential sources be sensitive to certain important differences that affect of misunderstanding between people and give us clues the way you manage others. In other words, this chap- for how we can work together more effectively. ter has two objectives: (1) to help you better understand Distinctions create social barriers between people for your own uniqueness as an individual—to become bet- the express purpose of creating (or reinforcing) advan- ter equipped to manage yourself—and (2) to help you tages and disadvantages. When someone discounts the diagnose, value, and utilize the differences you find in opinion of a coworker, for example, on the grounds other people. that the person is “a member of the old boys’ club,” Self-knowledge will help you understand your “from marketing,” “a woman,” or “doesn’t have a own taken-for-granted assumptions, trigger points, sen- college degree,” he or she is creating a distinction that sitive line, comfort zone, strengths and weaknesses, is not only potentially hurtful on a personal basis but and so forth. This knowledge is useful for all of us, not ineffective for the organization. because we can or should change fundamental dimen- The creation of such distinctions destroys trust sions of ourselves, but because it helps make our inter- among people, even if the distinctions refer to individu- actions with others more effective and insightful. It also als who are not present. If you were to apply distinctions helps us gain a more complete understanding of our that belittled someone in another group, for example, potential for contributing value in our future career that action plants a seed of mistrust in the minds roles and our special strengths relative to others. It is of people who are present regarding what distinctions not unusual for many of us to feel intimidated at times, you may be privately using to discount them. The point for example, by heroic or luminary figures whose suc- is, recognizing differences is not the same as evaluating 60 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS distinctions. One is helpful; the other is hurtful. Rhee, 2000; Goleman, 1998a). In particular, self- Moreover, when others feel that self-disclosing informa- awareness has been identified as a crucial aspect of tion could be used against them—that is, they could be emotional intelligence, and it is more powerful than placed on the disadvantaged side of a distinction—they IQ in predicting success in life (Goleman, 1995). will be reluctant to participate in any self-discovery One study, for example, tried to identify differences process, especially one that requires them to share infor- between star performers and average managers in mation about their personal characteristics. 40 companies. Emotional intelligence competencies, To repeat, self-awareness and understanding differ- including self-awareness, were twice as important in ences cannot occur without self-disclosure, sharing, and contributing to excellence as cognitive intelligence trusting conversations. Self-knowledge requires an under- (IQ) and expertise (Goleman, 1998a). In a study of a standing and valuing of differences, not the creation of multinational consulting firm, superior performing distinctions. We encourage you, therefore, to use the partners were compared to average performing part- information you discover about yourself and others to ners. Superior performers—who had significantly build, grow, and value both of you in your interactions. higher emotional intelligence and self-awareness scores—contributed more than twice the revenues Important Areas of Self-Awareness to the firm and were four times more likely to be promoted than those with low self-awareness and Of course, an innumerable quantity of personal dimen- emotional intelligence (Boyatzis, 1998). sions is available to explore if one is to develop in-depth Personal values are included here because they self-awareness. For example, numerous aspects of cogni- are “the core of the dynamics of behavior, and play so tive style have been measured; authors have identified large a part in unifying personality” (Allport, Gordon, & more than a dozen “intelligences” (ranging from social Vernon, 1931, p. 2). That is, all other attitudes, orienta- and practical to cognitive and creative); literally hun- tions, and behaviors arise out of an individuals’ values. dreds of personality factors have been investigated in the Two major types of values are considered: instrumental psychological literature; the mapping of the human chro- and terminal (Rokeach, 1973). We present research find- mosome has raised the possibility that hundreds of phys- ings that relate personal development in these two types iological differences may be crucial in understanding of values to successful managerial performance. The behavior; gender, age, cultural, ethnic, and experience assessment instrument that assesses your values develop- differences all develop individually over time. It is impos- ment is discussed, along with information concerning sible, of course, to accurately select the few best or most the scores of other groups of people. You will want to central aspects of self-awareness because the alternatives compare your scores with individuals who are close to are just too numerous. On the other hand, we focus here you, as well as with successful managers. Some compar- on five of the most critical areas of self-awareness that ison data is provided for that purpose. Because this dis- have been found to be key in developing successful cussion of values development is connected to ethical management. They are: emotional intelligence, personal decision making, the implications of managerial ethics values, cognitive style, orientation toward change, and are also discussed in this section. core self-evaluation. These areas represent a limited A third area of self-awareness is cognitive style, set of factors, of course, but they have been found to which refers to the manner in which individuals gather be among the most important predictors of various and process information. Researchers have found that aspects of effective managerial performance—including individual differences in cognitive style influence achieving life success, performing effectively in teams, perception, learning, problem solving, decision making, competent decision making, life-long learning and devel- communication, and creativity (Cools & Van den Broeck, opment, creativity, communication competency, job sat- 2007; Hayes & Allinson, 1994; Kirton, 2003). A large isfaction, and job performance (Allan & Waclawski, number of dimensions of cognitive style have been iden- 1999; Atwater & Yammarino, 1992; Goleman, 1998b; tified, but we have selected an instrument in this chapter Judge et al., 2003; Parker & Kram, 1993; Sosik & that captures the most frequently studied dimensions Megerian, 1999; Cools & Van den Broeck, 2007). (Cools & Van den Broeck, 2007). A discussion of the Research on the concept of emotional critical dimensions of cognitive style is presented, and it intelligence—the ability to manage oneself and to will assist you in learning more about your own style manage relationships with others—has been identified based on the assessment instrument that you have as among the most important factors in accounting for completed. Empirical research linking cognitive style to success in leaders and managers (Boyatzis, Goleman, & successful managerial behavior is also discussed. DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 61 Fourth, a discussion of orientation toward uncovers levels of self-esteem, self-efficacy, emotional change focuses on the methods people use to cope stability, and self-control that have important effects on with change in their environment. In the twenty-first individuals’ happiness as well as managerial effective- century, of course, all of us will be faced with increas- ness. Figure 1.2 summarizes these five aspects of self- ingly fragmented, rapidly changing, tumultuous condi- awareness, along with their functions in defining the tions (Peters, 1987). It is important that you become self-concept. aware of your orientation toward adapting to these con- Again, many other aspects of self-awareness could ditions. Two important dimensions—locus of control be considered in this chapter, but all these aspects of the and intolerance of ambiguity—have been measured by self are related fundamentally to the five core concepts two assessment instruments. Research connecting discussed here. What we value, how we feel about our- these two dimensions to effective management is dis- selves, how we behave toward others, what we want to cussed in the sections that follow. achieve, and what we are attracted to all are strongly Finally, core self-evaluation is a recently devel- influenced by our emotional intelligence, values, cogni- oped construct that captures the essential aspects of tive style, orientation toward change, and core self- personality. More than 50,000 studies have been con- evaluation. These are among the most important build- ducted on what has been referred to as “the Big Five” ing blocks upon which other aspects of the self emerge. personality dimensions—neuroticism, extroversion, On the other hand, if you want to do a more conscientiousness, agreeableness, and openness—but in-depth analysis of multiple aspects of self-awareness, an underlying factor has been found to account for the instruments such as the Strong-Campbell Vocational effects of these personality dimensions. It is referred Inventory, the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality to as core self-evaluation (Judge et al., 2003), and we Inventory, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, the Stanford- provide an instrument that assesses your core self- Binet Intelligence Test, and a host of other instruments evaluation. Some important research on this construct are available in most college counseling centers or test- is explained in this chapter relating to how scores ing centers. Be careful, however, of the multiple assess- correlate with success at work and in life. By analyz- ment instruments you can find on numerous Web ing your scores, you not only learn about your under- sites. Most are not reliable or valid. On the other hand, lying personality dimensions, but you also will learn no one, it should be emphasized, can get too much about how they are associated with other important self-knowledge. behaviors such as motivation, problem solving, cre- ativity, life satisfaction, and work performance. These five areas of self-awareness—emotional intel- EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE ligence, personal values, learning style, orientation Emotional intelligence has become a very popular topic toward change, and core self-evaluation—constitute the that, unfortunately, suffers from the problem that almost very core of the self-concept. Emotional intelligence all trendy concepts encounter. Its meaning and mea- identifies the extent to which people are able to recog- surement have become very confusing and ambiguous. nize and control their own emotions, as well as to Emotional intelligence has come to encompass almost recognize and respond appropriately to the emotions of everything that is noncognitive—including social, emo- others. Values identify an individual’s basic standards tional, behavioral, attitudinal, and personality factors— about what is good and bad, worthwhile and worthless, so the extent to which it can be adequately measured desirable and undesirable, true and false, moral and and predictive of outcomes remains cloudy. Since immoral. Cognitive style identifies individual thought the publication of Daniel Goleman’s book Emotional processes, perceptions, and methods for acquiring and Intelligence in 1995, interest in the concept of emo- storing information. It determines not only what kind of tional intelligence has mushroomed (even though the information is received by an individual, but how that concept was introduced in 1990 by Salovey and individual interprets, judges, and responds to the infor- Mayer). Several thousand books have been published mation. Orientation toward change identifies the on the topic, and scores of consulting companies and adaptability of individuals. It includes the extent to executive coaches now advertise themselves as experts which individuals are tolerant of ambiguous, uncertain in helping others develop emotional intelligence. The conditions, and the extent to which they are inclined to number of instruments available to assess emotional accept personal responsibility for their actions under intelligence is voluminous (more than 100), although changing conditions. Core self-evaluation identifies the only three or four have been scientifically validated and general personality orientation that guides behavior. It used in any systematic investigations. 62 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS Figure 1.2 Five Core Aspects of Self-Awareness Core Self-Evaluation Identifies underlying personality attributes Emotional Values Intelligence Identifies Identifies emotional personal awareness and standards and control moral judgment Attitudes Toward Cognitive Style Change Identifies Identifies information adaptability and acquisition and responsibility evaluation In particular, only Bar-On’s EQ-I measure (Bar-On, described above, the concept of emotional intelligence 1997)—a self-report instrument that defines emotional has been defined as embracing almost everything. intelligence as an array of noncognitive skills; Salovey’s A scan of the scientific and popular writing on emo- Multifactor Emotional Intelligence Scale (Salovey & tional intelligence confirms this conclusion—almost Mayer, 1990)—a behavioral assessment that defines everything and anything is defined as an aspect of emotional intelligence as “a form of social intelligence emotional intelligence. Our colleagues Richard Boyatzis that involves the ability to monitor one’s own and others’ and Daniel Goleman, for example—two of the chief feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them, researchers in the field of emotional intelligence— and to use this information to guide one’s thinking and explicitly include all capabilities that help people action”(p. 185); and Goleman and Boyatzis’ Emotional manage themselves and others. These include, for Competence Inventory (Boyatzis et al., 2000)—a 360- example, leadership, influence, conflict management, degree assessment that defines emotional intelligence as communication, self-confidence, and teamwork. Other “the composite set of capabilities that enable a person to scholars limit emotional intelligence to a much nar- manage himself or herself and others,” (p. 344) have rower set of factors. Mayer, Caruso, and Salovey (1998) been scientifically validated. The trouble is, each of these for example, reduce emotional intelligence to the ability instruments is far too lengthy to be included in this text, to adequately diagnose and react to emotions. and each is protected under copyright. Virtually all other One way to clarify this problem of multiple defini- instruments, including the one included in this book, tions is to differentiate between emotional intelligence are designed merely to provide a general estimate of and emotional competence. Emotional intelligence particular dimensions of emotional intelligence, and refers to the ability to diagnose, understand, and man- extensive research has not yet been published. age emotional cues. Emotional competence refers to As you can tell by the widely differing definitions the noncognitive capabilities and skills—including associated with the three major assessment instruments social skills—that affect human functioning. The first DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 63 definition is the one we have adopted in this chapter blow up and lose control, less likely to experience because the remainder of this book is focused on help- debilitating depression and anxiety, and more likely to ing you develop competency and capability in skills manage their own emotional states than those with that some would include under the emotional compe- less emotional intelligence. Think of how you behave tence umbrella. That is, the management skills cov- in a sporting event, for example, when the officials ered in this text—which have been well-researched make a bad call; when someone gets angry at you and and found to predict the success of managers and berates you; when you are criticized for something you leaders—are sometimes included in discussions of the did; or, alternatively, when you receive special acco- impact of emotional intelligence. In this regard, we lades and recognition. Emotionally intelligent people agree that they are critical. These noncognitive skills remain in control of their emotions, whereas less emo- and abilities are, in fact, among the most important fac- tionally intelligent people lose control. This ability does tors in explaining why some people succeed as leaders not mean being bland or even-tempered all the time— and managers and others do not. emotionally intelligent people may display a wide On the other hand, a much narrower treatment of range of emotions and intensity. Instead, it means that emotional intelligence limits it to emotions, not to social a person can control his or her emotions so that they or interpersonal skills. This is the position we adopt in are not unrestrained. this chapter. We will help you assess, in an in-depth and Emotionally intelligent people are also able to rigorous way, other social and behavioral skills through- accurately diagnose and empathize with the feelings of out the remainder of the book. It is important to point others. They are sensitive to what others are experienc- out that a certain degree of emotional intelligence is ing, and they can share in those feelings. Empathy refers necessary in order for people to develop emotional to the ability to understand and connect with others’ competencies (i.e., social and behavioral competen- feelings. It does not mean sympathizing or adopting the cies), so this aspect of self-awareness is an important pre- same feelings, and it is not based on a memory of having requisite to your developing other management skills. experienced the same emotions. If someone has experi- Emotional intelligence, then, refers to: (1) the ability enced a tragedy or loss, for example, emotionally intelli- to diagnose and recognize your own emotions, (2) the gent people can empathize, share in, and understand ability to control your own emotions, (3) the ability to those feelings even if they have never experienced recognize and diagnose the emotions displayed by something similar. They need not be depressed them- others, and (4) the ability to respond appropriately to selves, for example, in order to understand the depres- those emotional cues. These abilities are not in-born but sion of others. can be developed and improved. Unlike IQ, for example, Emotionally intelligent people also respond appro- which remains relatively constant over a lifetime, emo- priately to the emotions of others. Their responses tional intelligence can be enhanced with practice. With match the intensity of the emotions other people feel, concerted effort, people can change their levels of emo- and they support and encourage emotional expres- tional intelligence. The instrument you completed in the sions. That is, if others are excited and happy, they do Pre-assessment section assesses these four dimensions, not remain aloof and withdrawn. They endorse the and we briefly explain them below. expression of emotions in others, rather than suppress- One of our acquaintances, who now readily ing or censoring those emotions. On the other hand, admits having made progress in developing emotional they are not merely manipulated in their feelings and intelligence, had a great deal of difficulty recognizing responses by the emotions of others. They don’t and diagnosing her own emotions. When something respond merely on the basis of others’ feelings. Rather, seemed to go wrong and she was asked, “Are you they remain in personal control of their responses. They upset?” she would invariably deny her feelings—“No, advance a sense of caring for, and acceptance of, the I’m fine.” She had never learned to accurately diag- other person by means of their emotional responses. nose her own emotional state. This ability is simply the One reason emotional intelligence is so important capacity to identify and label your own emotions. Try, is that general competency levels seem to have dete- for example, to identify the emotion you are feeling riorated over time. Whereas average IQ points have right now. Can you label it? Emotionally intelligent increased almost 25 points over the last 100 years— people are able to get in touch with and accurately people tend to be smarter now than 100 years ago— diagnose their own internal feelings. emotional intelligence scores have actually declined Emotionally intelligent people are also able to reg- (Goleman, 1998a). Think, for example, of the amount ulate and control their emotions. They are less likely to of litigation, conflict, disrespect, and divorce that 64 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS characterizes our society. Less emphasis is placed on emotional intelligence, 41 percent of the high emotional emotional intelligence development now than in the intelligence group had been promoted after two years past. This is a problem because emotional intelligence whereas only 10 percent of the low emotional intelli- has strong predictive power regarding success in man- gence partners had been promoted. More importantly, agement and in work setting—much stronger, in fact, high emotional intelligence partners contributed more than IQ scores. For example, it is estimated that IQ than twice as much revenue to the company as did the accounts for only about 10 percent of the variance in low emotional intelligence partners (Boyatzis, 1982). job performance and in life success (Sternberg, 1996), The point should be clear: effective managers have but by adding emotional intelligence (EQ) to the equa- developed high levels of competency in emotional tion, we can account for four times more variance. intelligence. For example, a study was conducted of 450 boys The Emotional Intelligence Assessment instru- who grew up in a small town in Massachusetts. Two ment that you completed in the Pre-assessment section thirds of the boys lived in welfare families and one third provides an evaluation of your competency in the four had IQ scores below 90. They were followed over general areas of emotional intelligence—emotional 40 years, and it was found that IQ had almost nothing awareness, emotional control or balance, emotional diag- to do with life success. Emotional intelligence, on the nosis or empathy, and emotional response. Of course, other hand, was the most predictive factor (Snarey & a fully accurate and valid measure of these factors Vaillant, 1985). Another study of 80 PhDs in science would require an instrument many times longer than who attended the University of California at Berkeley the one included here, so this assessment merely pro- in the 1950s found that what accounted for life success vides a glimpse or an incomplete evaluation of your 40 years after graduation was mainly emotional intelli- emotional intelligence capability. Your scores should help gence scores. Emotional intelligence was four times you identify areas of strength but also motivate you more important than IQ in determining who had to pursue the development of your emotional intelli- achieved in their careers, were evaluated by experts as gence. This may effectively be done by consciously prac- being highly successful, and were listed in sources such ticing emotional diagnosis, control, and response in as Who’s Who and American Men and Women of yourself and others, but, especially, it may also be signific- Science (Feist & Barron, 1996). A study of workers fol- antly enhanced by learning, and improving the skills lowed over 20 years found that employees who were discussed in this book. They are, according to a variety of better at empathizing with others—that is, demonstrat- writers (e.g., Goleman, 1998b; Boyatzis et al., 2000), ing a key aspect of emotional intelligence—were more critical components of the broad definition of emotional successful in their work, as well as in their social lives intelligence. (Rosenthal, 1977). Emotional intelligence has also been found to be an important predictor of managerial success. In a study of VALUES managers on three continents, for example, 74 percent Values are among the most stable and enduring char- of successful managers had emotional intelligence as acteristics of individuals. They are the foundation upon their most salient characteristic, whereas this was the which attitudes and personal preferences are formed. case in only 24 percent of the failures. A study at They are the basis for crucial decisions, life directions, PepsiCo found that company units headed by managers and personal tastes. They help define our morality and with well-developed emotional intelligence skills outper- our conceptions of what is “good.” Much of what we formed yearly revenue targets by 15 to 20 percent. are is a product of the basic values we have developed Those with underdeveloped skills underperformed their throughout our lives. targets by about the same amount (Goleman, Boyatzis, & The trouble with values, unfortunately, is that they McKee, 2002). A McBer study comparing outstanding are taken for granted, and people are often unaware of managers with average managers found that 90 percent them. Unless a person’s values are challenged, the values of the difference was accounted for by emotional intelli- being held remain largely undetected. People especially gence. In a worldwide study of what companies were are not aware that they hold some values as being more looking for in hiring new employees, 67 percent of the important than others. This unawareness leads to actions most desired attributes were emotional intelligence com- or behaviors that are sometimes contrary to values, or petencies (Goleman et al., 2002). In a study of highly even to confusion about values. Until people encounter emotionally intelligent partners in a consulting firm, in a contradiction or a threat to their basic values, they which they were compared to partners with average seldom articulate their values or seek to clarify them. DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 65 The values held by each of us are affected by a vari- predicting the values each of us hold ourselves. At least ety of factors, and a number of ways have been used to some of our values are affected significantly by the measure and describe values. We point out several country and culture in which we are raised. ways in this chapter—each of which has been widely used in research and in management circles. The first is a framework for describing the broad, general value ori- Cultural Values entations that characterize large groups, such as nation- Trompenaars (1996; Trompenaars & Hampden-Turner, alities, ethnic groups, industries, or organizations. 1998) identified seven value dimensions upon which Much research has been done, for example, on identi- significant differences exist among national cultures. fying the differences in values that arise across cultural Data are based upon 30,000 managers in 55 countries, groups. The point of this research is to identify ways in and results show that certain cultures emphasize some which nationalities differ from one another, since values more than others do. Table 1.1 identifies almost all managers now face the need to manage Trompenaars’ seven dimensions, and we provide across national boundaries. In your own life, it is likely examples of countries that represent each of the value that you will interact more and more with individuals dimensions. No national culture emphasizes one of who do not share your birth country, and knowing these dimensions to the exclusion of another, but there something about their value orientations will help your are clear differences in the amount of emphasis placed interactions be more effective. It has been discovered on each dimension. that values differ systematically across national cul- The first five dimensions of the model refer to how tures, and these differences are a strong influence in individuals relate to other people. For example, some Table 1.1 Cultural Values Dimensions VALUE DIMENSIONS EXPLANATION EXAMPLE OF COUNTRIES WITH DOMINANCE Universalism Societal rules and norms are valued. United States, Switzerland, Norway, Sweden Particularism Individual relationships are valued. Korea, Venezuela, China, Indonesia Individualism Individual contributions are valued. United States, Nigeria, Denmark, Austria Collectivism Team contributions are valued. Mexico, Indonesia, Japan, Philippines Affective Showing emotions is valued. Iran, Spain, France, Switzerland Neutral Unemotional responses are valued. Korea, Ethiopia, China, Japan Specific Segregating life’s roles is valued. Holland, Sweden, Denmark, United Kingdom Diffuse Integrating life’s role is valued. China, Nigeria, Singapore, Korea Achievement Personal accomplishment is valued. United States, Norway, Canada, Austria Ascription Inherent attributes are valued. Egypt, Indonesia, Korea, Czech Republic Past and Present Past is tightly connected to future. France, Japan, United Kingdom Future Future is disconnected but valued. United States, Holland Internal Individual control is valued. United States, Canada, Austria, United Kingdom External Control comes from outside forces. Czech Republic, Japan, Egypt, China SOURCE: C. Hampden-Turner and F. Trompenaars, (1998). “Riding the waves of culture.” Reprinted with the permission of the McGraw-Hill Companies. 66 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS countries (e.g., the United States, Norway, Sweden, slighted, offended, or angry—how likely would you be Switzerland) emphasize a value of universalism, in to display your feelings openly in public? Managers in which other people’s behavior is governed by universal Japan, Ethiopia, and Hong Kong, for example, average standards and rules—e.g., do not lie, do not cheat, do 64 percent, 74 percent, and 81 percent respectively in not run a red light, even if no one is coming the other refusing to show emotions publicly. On the other hand, way. General societal rules govern behavior. Other 15 percent of Kuwait managers, 18 percent of Egyptian countries (e.g., Korea, China, Indonesia, Singapore) managers, and 19 percent of Spanish managers would hold a value of particularism, in which the relationship refuse. (The United States score is 43 percent.) with an individual governs behavior—e.g., is the other A fourth dimension—specific versus diffuse— person a friend, a family member, a relative? To illustrate describes the difference between cultures that segre- the differences, consider your answer to this question: gate the different roles in life so as to maintain privacy You are driving in a car with a close friend who hits a and personal autonomy compared to cultures that inte- pedestrian while going 40 miles an hour in a 25-mile- grate and merge their roles. Cultures with specific val- an-hour zone. There are no witnesses, and your ues separate work relationships from family relation- friend’s lawyer says that if you’ll testify that he was only ships, for example, whereas diffuse cultures entangle traveling 25 miles an hour, he’ll get off. Will you lie for work and home relationships. People with specific val- him? People in universalistic cultures are more likely to ues may seem hard to get to know because they keep a refuse than people in particularistic cultures. For boundary between their personal lives and their work example 97 percent of the Swiss and 93 percent of lives. People with diffuse values may seem too forward North Americans (Canada and the United States) would and too superficial because they seem to share personal refuse to testify, whereas 32 percent of Venezuelans and information freely. Interestingly, diffuse cultures have 37 percent of South Koreans would refuse. lower turnover rates among employees and higher A second value dimension differentiates cultures degrees of loyalty to an employer because work and that value individualism—an emphasis on the self, personal relationships are more intertwined. To illus- on independence, and on uniqueness—versus trate the difference, how would you respond to this collectivism—an emphasis on the group, the com- question: Your boss asks you to come to her home to bined unit, and on joining with others. Individualistic help her paint her house. You don’t want to do it since values hold the contributions of individuals to be most you hate painting. Would you refuse? More than valued, whereas collectivism values team contributions. 90 percent of the Dutch and Swedes would refuse, In general, individual responsibility dominates much whereas only 32 percent of the Chinese and 46 percent more in Western cultures than in Eastern cultures. For of Nigerians would refuse. (In the United States, example, consider your answer to this question: What 82 percent would refuse.) kind of job is found most frequently in your organiza- A fifth value dimension differentiates cultures that tion, one where everyone works together and you do emphasize an achievement orientation versus an not get individual credit, or one where everyone is ascription culture. People tend to acquire high status allowed to work individually and you receive individual based on their personal accomplishments in some cul- recognition? Eastern Europeans (e.g, Russia, Czech tures, whereas in other cultures status and prestige are Republic, Hungary, Poland) average above 80 percent based more on ascribed characteristics such as age, in agreeing that individual credit is received, whereas gender, family heritage, or ethnic background. Who you Asians (e.g., Japan, India, Nepal) average below 45 per- know (ascription) versus what you can do (achievement) cent. (The United States score is 72 percent.) helps identify the difference on this value dimension. For A third value dimension refers to the display of feel- example, the following statement helps highlight ings in public. It identifies an affective versus neutral achievement versus ascription value differences: It is orientation. Cultures with high affective values tend to important to act the way you are, to be consistent with show emotions openly and to deal in emotional ways your true self, even if you do not accomplish the task with problems. Loud laughter, anger, and intense pas- at hand. Only 10 percent of managers from Uruguay, sion may all be displayed in the course of a business 12 percent from Argentina, and 13 percent from Spain negotiation, for example. Cultures with neutral values disagree with the statement, whereas 77 percent of are more rational and stoic in their approach to problem Norwegians and 75 percent of managers from the solving. Instrumental, goal directed behaviors rather United States disagree. than emotions dominate interactions. For example, if A sixth value dimension relates to how people you became very upset at work or in class—say you feel interpret and manage time. It distinguishes the emphasis DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 67 placed on the past, present, or future in various being aware of value differences, and being able to cultures. Some cultures, for example, value past and diagnose and manage those differences, is an impor- tradition more than future; other cultures place more tant prerequisite for success in the twenty-first cen- value on the future than the past. What you have tury. Of course, stereotyping people based on their achieved in the past matters more in some cultures national culture, or overgeneralizing based on trends than where you are headed in the future. Time differ- such as those reported here, can be dangerous and ences also exist regarding short- versus long-time hori- misleading. None of us would like to be pigeonholed zons. For example, some people are oriented toward based on a general country profile. These dimensions, very short time horizons where they think in terms of as you will see, are most useful for increasing sensitiv- minutes and hours (a short-time horizon). Other people ity and helping with diagnosis rather than to place think in terms of months or years (a long-time horizon). people in categories. Complete the following brief exercise, for example, to Like countries, organizations, too, have value sys- get a sense of your own time horizon. Use the follow- tems, referred to as an organizational culture. ing scale and give a number to each of the following Research has found that employees who hold values statements: My past started ______ ago, and ended that are congruent with their organization’s values are ______ ago. My present started ______ ago and more productive and satisfied (Cable & Judge, 1996; ended ______ from now. My future will start ______ Cameron & Quinn, 2006; Nwachukwu & Vitell, 1997; from now and will end ______ from now. Use this rat- Posner & Kouzes, 1993). Holding values that are ing scale: 7 = years, 6 = months, 5 = weeks, 4 = days, inconsistent with company values, on the other hand, 3 = hours, 2 = minutes, 1 = seconds. is a major source of frustration, conflict, and nonpro- By way of comparison, people in the Philippines ductivity. Being aware of your own priorities and val- averaged 3.40 on the scale, Irish managers averaged ues, the values of your organization, and the general 3.82, and Brazilians averaged 3.85. On the other value priorities of your country, are important if you hand, managers in Hong Kong averaged 5.71, Portugal expect to achieve compatibility at work and in a long- averaged 5.62, and Pakistan averaged 5.47. (People in term career (Fisher, Macrosson, & Yusuff, 1996; Lobel, the United States averaged 4.30.) 1992). We will not spend time here discussing the var- The seventh and final value dimension focuses on ious models available for assessing organizational cul- internal and external control. We will discuss this value ture. If you are interested in this topic, see Cameron dimension in more detail later in the chapter. It differen- and Quinn (2006). tiates cultures that presume that individuals are in con- trol of their own destinies from those that presume that nature or external forces control much of what happens. Personal Values For example, some countries emphasize the value of Rokeach (1973) argued that the total number of values individuals inventing or creating things themselves people possess is relatively small and that all individu- (internal control), whereas other countries emphasize als possess the same values, but in different degrees. the value of taking what already exists or has been cre- For example, everyone values peace, but some make it ated elsewhere and then refining or improving it (exter- a higher priority than others. Two general types of val- nal control). Two statements that illustrate this differ- ues were identified by Rokeach, and independent pri- ence are the following: (1) What happens to me is my ority ratings have been found to exist for each type own doing. (2) Sometimes I feel that I do not have (that is, the two sets of values are largely unrelated). enough control over the directions my life is taking. One general type of values is labeled instrumental, or More than 80 percent of managers from Uruguay, means-oriented; the other type is terminal, or ends- Norway, Israel, and the United States agree with the oriented. first statement, whereas less than 40 percent of Instrumental values prescribe desirable standards Venezuelans, Chinese, and Nepalese agree. of conduct or methods for attaining an end. Two types Throughout this book we will refer back to some of instrumental values relate to morality and compe- of the differences that have been discovered among tence. Violating moral values (for example, behaving various cultures. We encourage you to begin using wrongly) causes feelings of guilt, while violating compe- these dimensions to raise your awareness of individ- tence values (for example, behaving incapably) brings ual differences around you. Because virtually every about feelings of shame. manager will be faced with the opportunity to interact Terminal values prescribe desirable ends or goals with and manage individuals born in other cultures, for the individual. There are fewer of them, according 68 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS to Rokeach, than there are instrumental values, so the Compared to the population in general, managers sum total for all individuals in all societies can be identi- place substantially more value on “sense of accomplish- fied. Terminal values are either personal (for example, ment,” “self-respect,” “a comfortable life,” and “indepen- peace of mind) or social (for example, world peace). dence.” The instrumental value managers held highest Rokeach has found that an increase in the priority of for themselves, in fact, was “ambition”; their highest one personal value tends to increase the priority of held terminal value was “sense of accomplishment.” In other personal values and decrease the priority of social other words, personal values (rather than social values) values. Conversely, an increase in the priority of one and those oriented toward achievement predominate social value tends to increase the priority of other social among managers (Bilsky & Schwartz, 1994; Cable & values and decrease the value of personal values. Judge, 1996; Cavanaugh, 1980; Clare & Sanford, 1979). Individuals who increase their priority for “a world at In the population in general, one study found that peace,” for example, would also increase their priority “openness to experience”—that is, a combination of a for “equality” while decreasing their priority for “plea- positive emphasis on broadmindedness, imagination, sure” or “self-respect.” People tend to differ, in other freedom, and self-direction coupled with a negative words, in the extent to which they are self- versus emphasis on recognition, obedience, and conformity— others-orientated in their values. was the dominating value held by most people In one study of 567 managers in 12 nations, the (Dollinger, Leong, & Ulicni, 1996). Interestingly, no gen- instrumental values “broadminded,” “capable,” and der differences have been found on the Rokeach instru- “courageous” were held in the highest esteem by man- ment (Johnston, 1995). agers from all 12 nations, but significant national differ- These value preferences may explain why busi- ences were found on 75 percent of the values (Bigoness & ness students and even managers themselves have Blakely, 1996). Another study of 658 Egyptians, 132 been criticized for being too self-centered and impa- Americans, 43 Africans, and 101 Arabs found significant tient for personal achievement and promotion (see national differences on both instrumental and terminal Introduction). A balance of personal values and social values, with Egyptians being least like Americans values, such as justice and helpfulness, may character- (Elsayed-Elkhouly & Buda, 1997). ize a more adaptable manager in the future. In a national study of 1,460 American managers, Simply esteeming certain personal and achievement- Schmidt and Posner (1982) assessed which of these oriented values does not mean, of course, that one will be values were most important in the workplace. Using a successful manager. On the other hand, it is clear that Rokeach’s instrumental values list, they asked man- values do affect individual behavior. For example, sharing agers to identify those that were most desired in the values among team members, as well as compatibility of workplace. “Responsible” and “honest” were by far the instrumental and terminal values among team members, most desired values in employees (over 85 percent of was found to be associated with significantly more effec- the managers selected them), followed by “capable” tive teams (Fisher et al., 1996). More importantly, several (65 percent), “imaginative” (55 percent), and “logical” authors have argued that the behavior displayed by indi- (49 percent). “Obedient,” “clean,” “polite,” and “forgiving” viduals (that is, the means used to achieve their valued were the least important, being selected by fewer than ends) is a product of their level of values maturity (e.g., 10 percent of the managers. Kohlberg, 1969; Kohlberg & Ryncarz, 1990). Individuals Different groups of people tend to differ in the val- differ in their level of values development, according to ues they hold. For example, in other studies, business these authors, so different sets of instrumental values are school students and professors tend to rate “ambition,” held by individuals at different stages of development. “capability,” “responsibility,” and “freedom” higher People progress from one level of maturity to another, and than people in general. They tend to place lower as they do, their value priorities change. Individuals who importance than people in general on concern and have progressed to more mature levels of values develop- helpfulness to others, aesthetics and cultural values, ment possess a qualitatively different set of instrumental and overcoming social injustice. In a study that com- values than individuals who are at less mature levels. This pared highly successful, moderately successful, and theory of values maturity or moral development has unsuccessful managers, highly successful managers received a great deal of attention from researchers, and gave significantly higher scores to values relating to research findings have some important implications for economic (for example, a comfortable life) and polit- self-awareness and managerial effectiveness. Therefore, ical values (for example, social recognition) than less we shall discuss in some detail this notion of values successful managers. maturity. DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 69 Values Maturity punishment and if the consequences were not negative Kohlberg’s model is the best known and most widely for someone else. Stealing $50,000 is worse than steal- researched approach to values maturity. It focuses on ing $500 in the self-centered level because the conse- the kind of reasoning used to reach a decision about an quences (that is, the losses) are more negative for some- issue that has value or moral connotations. The model one else. consists of three major levels, each of which contains The second level, or conformity level, includes two stages. Table 1.2 summarizes the characteristics of stages 3 and 4. Moral reasoning is based on conforming each stage. In brief, the stages are sequential (for to and upholding the conventions and expectations of example, a person can’t progress to stage 3 before pass- society. This level is sometimes referred to as the “law ing through stage 2), and each stage represents a higher and order” level because the emphasis is on conformity level of maturity. Kohlberg uses the terms preconvent- to laws and norms. Right and wrong are judged on the ional, conventional, and postconventional to describe basis of whether or not behaviors conform to the rules these three levels. In the following discussion, we have of those in authority. Respect from others based on obe- chosen to use different terms that capture the domi- dience is a prized outcome. Stealing $50,000 and steal- nant characteristics of each stage. ing $500 are equally wrong in this level because both The first level of maturity, the self-centered level, violate the law. Most American adults function at this includes the first two stages of values development. level of values maturity. Moral reasoning and instrumental values are based on Third is the principled level. It includes the final personal needs or wants and on the consequences of an two stages of maturity and represents the most act. For example, something could be judged as right or mature level of moral reasoning and the most mature good if it helped an individual obtain a reward or avoid set of instrumental values. Right and wrong are Table 1.2 Classification of Moral Judgment into Stages of Development LEVEL BASIS OF MORAL JUDGMENT STAGE OF DEVELOPMENT A PRECONVENTIONAL LEVEL (SELF-CENTERED) 1. Punishment and Obedience Moral value resides in external factors, and Right is determined by avoiding punishment and not consequences, not persons or relationships. breaking an authority’s rules. 2. Individual Instrumental Purpose and Exchange Right is meeting one’s own immediate interests, and what is fair or equal for others. B CONVENTIONAL LEVEL (CONFORMITY) 3. Mutual Interpersonal Expectations, Relationships, and Conformity Moral value resides in duty, maintaining social contracts, Right is being concerned about others’ feelings and keeping commitments. maintaining trust by keeping expectations and commitments. The Golden Rule is relevant. 4. Social System and Conscience Maintenance Right is doing one’s duty to society and upholding the social order. C POSTCONVENTIONAL (PRINCIPLED) 5. Prior Rights and Social Contract or Utility Moral value resides in commitment to freely selected Right is upholding the rights, values, and contracts standards, rights, and duties. of others in society; moral behavior is freely chosen. 6. Universal Ethical Principles Right is guided by internal, universal ethical principles. When laws violate principles, the laws are ignored. SOURCE: Adapted from Kohlberg (1981). 70 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS judged on the basis of the internalized principles of Now answer the following questions in reaction the individual. That is, judgments are made on the to the story: basis of a set of principles or core values that have YES NO been developed from individual experience. In the ______ ______ 1. Would it be wrong for Heinz highest stage of maturity, this set of principles is com- to break into the store? prehensive (it covers all contingencies), consistent (it is never violated), and universal (it does not change ______ ______ 2. Did the druggist have the with the situation or circumstance). Thus, stealing right to charge that much for $50,000 and stealing $500 are still judged to be the product? wrong, but the basis for the judgment is not the viola- ______ ______ 3. Did Heinz have an obligation tion of laws or rules; rather, it is the violation of a set to steal the drug for his wife? of comprehensive, consistent, universal principles ______ ______ 4. What if Heinz and his wife developed by the individual. Few individuals, accord- did not get along? Should ing to Kohlberg, reach this highest level of maturity Heinz steal the drug for her? on a consistent basis. ______ ______ 5. Suppose Heinz’s best friend In short, self-centered individuals view rules and were dying of cancer, rather laws as outside themselves, but they obey because, by than Heinz’s wife. Should doing so, they may obtain rewards or avoid punish- Heinz steal the drug for his ment. Conformist individuals view rules and laws as friend? outside themselves, but they obey because they have learned and accepted those rules and laws, and they ______ ______ 6. Suppose the person dying was seek the respect of others. Principled individuals not personally close to Heinz. examine the rules and laws and develop a set of inter- Should Heinz steal the drug? nal principles that they believe are morally right. If ______ ______ 7. Suppose Heinz read in the there is a choice to be made between obeying a law or paper about a woman dying obeying a principle, they choose the principle. of cancer. Should he steal the Internalized principles supersede rules and laws in prin- drug for her? cipled individuals. ______ ______ 8. Would you steal the drug to To understand the different levels of values matu- save your own life? rity, consider the following story used by Kohlberg ______ ______ 9. Suppose Heinz was caught (1969): breaking in and brought before a judge. Should he be In Europe a woman was near death from a sentenced to jail? special kind of cancer. There was one drug that the doctors thought might save her. It was For individuals in the self-centered level of matu- a form of radium that a druggist in the same rity, stealing the drug might be justified because Heinz’s town had recently discovered. The drug was wife had instrumental value: she could provide compan- expensive to make, but the druggist was charg- ionship, help rear the children, and so on. A stranger, ing ten times what the drug cost to make. He however, would not have the same instrumental value paid $200 for radium and charged $2,000 for for Heinz, so it would be wrong to steal the drug for a a small dose of the drug. The sick woman’s stranger. Individuals in the conformity level would base husband, Heinz, went to everyone he knew to their judgments on the closeness of the relationship and borrow the money, but he could get together on law and authority. Heinz has an obligation to steal only about $1,000, which was half of what it for family members, according to this reasoning, but cost. He told the druggist that his wife was not for nonfamily members. A governing principle is dying and begged him to sell the drug at a whether or not an action is against the law (or society’s lower price or let him pay later. But the drug- expectations). Principled individuals base their judg- gist said, “No, I discovered the drug and I’m ments on a set of universal, comprehensive, and consis- going to make money from it.” So Heinz grew tent principles. They may answer any question yes or desperate and began to think about breaking no, but their reasoning will be based on their own inter- into the store to steal the drug for his wife. nal principles, not on externally imposed standards or DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CHAPTER 1 71 expectations. (For example, they might feel an obliga- person relies on most. That is, it assumes that individuals tion to steal the drug for anyone because they value use more than one level of maturity (or set of instrumen- human life more than property.) tal values), but that one level generally predominates. By Research on Kohlberg’s model of values develop- completing this instrument, therefore, you will identify ment reveals some interesting findings that have your predominant level of values maturity. To determine relevance to managerial behavior. For example, moral your maturity level, refer to the self-scoring instructions judgment stories were administered to college students in the Appendix at the end of this chapter. An exercise in who had earlier participated in Milgram’s (1963) obedi- the Skill Practice section will help you develop or refine ence study. Under the guise of a reinforcement-learning principles at the stage 5 and stage 6 level of maturity. experiment, Milgram’s subjects had been directed to give increasingly intense electric shocks to a person who was observed to be in great pain. Of the respon- ETHICAL DECISION MAKING dents at the principled level (stages 5 and 6), 75 per- AND VALUES cent refused to administer the shocks (i.e., to hurt In addition to its benefits for self-understanding, aware- someone), while only 12.5 percent of the respondents ness of your own level of values maturity also has at the conformity level refused. Higher levels of values important practical implications for ethical decision development were associated with more humane making. By and large, the American public rates the behavior toward other people. honesty, integrity, and concern for moral values of It should also be noted that Kohlberg’s model has American business executives as abysmal. A large been criticized by Carol Gilligan (1979, 1980, 1982, majority of the public indicates that they think execu- 1988) as containing a male bias. In her investigations of tives are dishonest, overly profit-oriented, and willing to moral dilemmas among women, Gilligan indicated that step on other people to get what they want (Andrews, women tend to value care, relationships, and commit- 1989; Harris & Sutton, 1995; Lozano, 1996). Although ment more highly than do males. The Kohlberg model, 9 out of 10 companies have a written code of ethics, which tends to emphasize justice as the highest moral evidence exists to support public perceptions that these value, is more typical of males than females, she claimed. documents are not influential in assuring high moral Whereas Gilligan’s criticisms are somewhat controversial conduct. among researchers, they are less relevant to our discus- In December 2001, Enron, the seventh largest U.S. sion here because of our emphasis on the development corporation at the time, declared bankruptcy. Tragically, of internalized principles for guiding behavior, whatever a once great company has become a synonym for man- their basis. For our purposes in this chapter, the debate agerial greed and corporate fraud. The Enron debacle about whether justice is a male value and caring is a spawned more than 30 major pieces of legislation female value is largely beside the point. designed to clamp down on financial loopholes exploited Becoming more mature in values development by Enron executives, as well as numerous books and requires that individuals develop a set of internalized articles criticizing Enron-like unethical business practices principles by which they can govern their behavior. (Elliott & Schroth, 2002; Mitchell, 2002). The development of those principles is enhanced and While Enron was arguably one of the largest corpo- values maturity is increased as value-based issues are rate scandals in U.S. history, it is hardly the only lapse of confronted, discussed, and thought about. Lickona ethical judgment staining the image of business. Martha (1976, p. 25) notes, “Simply increasing the amount of Stewart’s insider trading transaction, for example, netted reciprocal communication that occurs among people is her less than $50,000 in personal wealth but cost her likely to enhance moral development.” firm billions of dollars in lost stock value. Ford Motor To help you determine your own level of values Company refused to alter the dangerous gas tank on the maturity, an instrument developed by James Rest at the Pinto in order to save $11 per car. It cost Ford millions of University of Minnesota’s Moral Research Center was dollars in lawsuits and cost many people their lives. included in the Assessment section. It has been used Equity Funding tried to hide 64,000 phony insurance extensively in research because it is easier to adminis- claims, but went bankrupt when the truth came out. ter than Kohlberg’s method for assessing maturity. Firestone denied that its 500-series tire was defective, According to Kohlberg (1976, p. 47), “Rest’s approach but eventually took losses in the millions when the does give a rough estimate of an individual’s moral matu- accident reports were publicized. A. H. Robins knew of rity level.” Rather than placing a person on one single problems with its Dalkon Shield for years before inform- level of values maturity, it identifies the stage that the ing the public. The billion dollars set aside for lawsuits 72 CHAPTER 1 DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS against the company was dwarfed by the actual claims, Would you ship the part or not? Discuss this with and the company filed Chapter 11. E. F. Hutton, General your class members. Generate a recommendation for Al. Dynamics, General Electric, Rockwell, Martin Marietta, This case exemplifies the major values conflict faced Tyco, Lockheed, Bank of Boston, Dow Corning, and a over and over again by managers. It is a conflict between host of other firms have also been in the news for violat- maximizing the economic performance of the organiza- ing ethical principles. One cartoon that seems to summa- tion (as indicated by revenues, costs, profits, and so rize these goings-on shows a group of executives sitting forth) or the social performance of the organization (as at a conference table. The leader remarks, “Of course, indicated by obligations to customers, employees, suppli- honesty is one of the better policies.” ers, and so forth). Most ethical trade-offs are conflicts Corporate behavior that exemplifies unethical deci- between these two desirable ends: economic versus sion making is not our principal concern here. More to social performance (Hosmer, 2003). Making these the point is a study by the American Management kinds of decisions effectively is not merely a matter of Association that included 3,000 managers in the United selecting between right and wrong alternatives or States. It reported that most individual managers felt between good and bad choices. Most of these choices they were under pressure to compromise personal stan- are between right and right or between one good and dards to meet company goals (Harris & Sutton, 1995). another. Individuals who effectively manage these kinds Moreover, most individuals have encountered some- of ethical trade-offs are those who have a clear sense of one else violating ethical standards, but in a majority their own values and who have developed a principled of cases, nothing is reported. For example, in a survey of level of moral maturity. They have articulated and clari- federal employees asked whether they had observed any fied their own internal set of universal, comprehensive, of the following activities in the last year, more than 50 and consistent principles upon which to base their deci- percent answered yes to seeing: stealing funds, stealing sions. It is seldom the case, of course, that a manager property, accepting bribes, sexual harassment, ineligible could choose economic performance goals every time or people receiving funds, deficient goods or services, use of that he or she could choose social performance goals position for personal benefit, taking unfair advantage of a every time. Trade-offs are inevitable. contractor, serious violation of the law. More than two It is not a simple matter, on the other hand, to gen- thirds did not report what they saw. As an illustration, erate a personal set of universal, comprehensive, and consider the following true incident (names have been consistent principles that can guide decision making. changed). How would you respond? Why? According to Kohlberg’s research, most adults have nei- ther constructed, nor do they follow, a well-developed Dale Monson, a top manufacturing manager set of principles in making decisions. One reason is that at Satellite Telecommunications, walked into they have no model or example of what such principles the office of Al Lake, the head of quality con- might be. We offer some standards against which to trol. Dale was carrying an assembled part that test your own principles for making moral or ethical was to be shipped to a customer on the West choices. These standards are neither comprehensive Coast. Dale handed Al the part and said, nor absolute, nor are they independent of one another. “Look Al, this part is in perfect shape elec- They simply serve as reference against which to test the tronically, but the case has a gouge in it. I’ve principles that you include in your personal values seen engineering and they say that the mark statement. doesn’t affect form, fit, or function. Marketing says the customer won’t mind because they ❏ Front page test: Would I be embarrassed if my are just going to bury the unit anyway. We decision became a headline in the local news- can’t rework it, and it would cost $75,000 to paper? Would I feel comfortable describing my make new cases. We will only do 23 units, actions or decision to a customer or stock- and they’re already made. The parts are due holder? to be shipped at the end of the week.” Al ❏ Golden rule test: Would I be willing to be responded, “Well, what do you want from treated in the same manner? me?” “Just sign off so we can move forward,” ❏ Dignity and liberty test: Are the dignity and said Dale. “Since you’re the one who needs to liberty of others preserved by this decision? Is certify acceptable quality, I thought I’d better the basic humanity of the affected parties get this straightened out now rather than enhanced? Are their opportunities expanded or waiting until the last minute before shipping.” curt

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