Personal Reflections on Relationships and Self-Perception
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What assumption do people make about the narrator based on their hairstyle?

  • They are kind and approachable.
  • They are shy and withdrawn.
  • They are rude, scary, and bold. (correct)
  • They are confident and talkative.

How does the narrator feel about their ability to communicate with their crush?

  • They feel unable to talk or even look at him. (correct)
  • They think they have a very bad personality.
  • They feel very confident and open.
  • They believe they can easily approach him.

What does the narrator think about their friend's personality compared to theirs?

  • They believe both have similar personalities.
  • Their friend lacks any good qualities.
  • Their friend is more attractive and charming.
  • Their friend has a great personality, unlike themselves. (correct)

What is the narrator's perception of their crush's behavior?

<p>He is socially outgoing but avoids the narrator. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How long has the narrator had feelings for their crush?

<p>Seven years. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is described as happiness in the narrator's perspective?

<p>Career, hobbies, and family (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What psychological state does the narrator express regarding their appearance and personality?

<p>Embarrassment and self-hatred (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What event triggered a change in social interactions for the narrator?

<p>Changing their hairstyle (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why does the narrator feel invisible in the social setting described?

<p>They do not share common interests with classmates (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What feeling does the narrator express towards the relationship between their friend and the guy they like?

<p>Guilt and shame (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How long has it been since the narrator developed a crush on the boy mentioned?

<p>Seven years (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does the narrator imply as a barrier to forming friendships?

<p>Being introverted (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What characteristic does the narrator feel is unattractive about themself?

<p>Their personality and looks (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What emotions does the narrator experience regarding their feelings for him?

<p>Hopefulness and despair (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What factors does the narrator believe may influence their perception of compatibility with him?

<p>Shared interests in biology and sports (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What prompted the narrator to think he might view her as a human?

<p>His responses to her short film invitation (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does the narrator suggest might be a reason for his indifference towards her?

<p>Her hairstyle (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What realization does the narrator come to regarding their feelings?

<p>They are seeking attention from him. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did the narrator initially feel about him when he first came to the school?

<p>Disgusted and annoyed (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does the narrator conclude about fictional stories related to romance?

<p>They are unrealistic and do not happen in real life. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does the narrator ultimately desire regarding her feelings towards him?

<p>A simple conversation (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What event caused the narrator to feel out of place among their peers?

<p>Their choice of outfit for the farewell. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which personality trait is described for the boy the narrator has a crush on?

<p>Loud and extroverted. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did the narrator change their preferences after learning about the boy's likes?

<p>They began to enjoy blackcurrant ice cream and the color green. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator feel was the reason for the boy's lack of communication with them?

<p>He considered the narrator unworthy of his attention. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What common belief about crushes does the narrator reflect upon?

<p>Both boys and girls may avoid their crushes. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did the narrator perceive their relationship with the boy during their school years?

<p>They thought he was indifferent toward them. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the boy do during the farewell that impressed the narrator?

<p>He sang a song chosen by him. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What emotion does the narrator struggle with regarding their feelings for the boy?

<p>Confusion about their affections. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

What is unrequited love?

Unrequited love occurs when one person has romantic feelings for another, but those feelings aren't reciprocated.

Why did the narrator change her favorite ice cream flavor?

The narrator changed her favorite ice cream flavor to match her crush's preference, blackcurrant.

Who was the narrator's crush?

The narrator was in love with a boy who excelled in many areas - sports, academics, and socializing.

How did the narrator's crush treat her?

The narrator was in love with a boy she barely interacted with. He seemed oblivious to her feelings.

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How did the narrator try to connect with her crush?

The narrator seemed to change her interests and personality to align with her crush's preferences.

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What analogy did the narrator use to describe her own importance to her crush?

The narrator felt unseen and disregarded by her crush, comparing herself to a rock, an inanimate object.

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How did the narrator's feelings manifest in her dreams?

The narrator imagined him frequently in her dreams. This indicates the intensity of her infatuation and her longing for him.

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What song was sung at the farewell?

The narrator imagined that her crush was singing the same song at his farewell that she would have sung if asked.

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Liking someone for who they are

A person's attraction to another person based on their personality, regardless of physical appearance or social status.

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Being acknowledged as a human

When someone's actions suggest they see you as a person with feelings and thoughts, rather than just an acquaintance

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Hopeless for attention

The feeling of hope and anticipation for someone's attention or approval, even if it's not realistic.

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Inconsistency in actions and words

A situation where someone's behavior or actions seem inconsistent with their stated intentions or feelings.

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Letting go of someone

To let go of the desire to be with someone romantically, even if you still have feelings for them.

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Being out of the world with happiness

The feeling of excitement and happiness when you receive a positive or unexpected gesture from someone you like.

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Starting to like someone unexpectedly

When you are drawn to someone, but you don't know why or how it started.

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Delusional thought

When you have a strong belief in something, even if it doesn't have a rational basis or is unlikely to happen.

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Self-Esteem

An individual's self-perception, often influenced by their experiences and social interactions, which can shape their views about themselves and their worth.

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Introversion

The ability to engage in social interactions with others, often marked by comfort and ease in communication and relationships.

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Crush

A strong emotional attachment to a person, often accompanied by admiration and a desire for closeness.

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Feeling Insecure

The tendency for individuals to perceive themselves as less worthy or capable compared to others, often leading to feelings of inadequacy.

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Avoidance

The act of intentionally avoiding interaction or engagement with a specific person, driven by a desire for separation.

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Feeling Invisible

The state of being overlooked or unnoticed, often feeling invisible or insignificant in a social setting.

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Feeling Different

A perception of dissimilarities between oneself and others, particularly in terms of interests, values, or experiences.

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Feeling Guilty

A feeling of regret or remorse for past actions, often accompanied by self-blame or guilt.

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Unrequited Love

The feeling of being unnoticed or neglected by someone you have feelings for, especially when they interact with others around you.

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Social Inhibition

A state of being unable to express feelings due to shyness or social anxiety, leading to silence and a lack of interaction with a desired person.

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Social Exclusion

The act of being treated differently or ignored despite being present, often making someone feel insignificant or invisible.

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Personality Attraction

The tendency for individuals to be attracted to others who share similar personality traits, interests, or communication styles.

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Self-Doubt in Love

Unrequited love, where one person feels strongly for another, but those feelings are not reciprocated, often prompting the individual to question their own personality or worth.

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Study Notes

Personal Reflections on Relationships and Self-Perception

  • The author describes a belief that happiness stems from career, hobbies, and family, not romantic relationships or material possessions
  • The author feels invisible and excluded by their peers due to a perceived lack of social compatibility and unappealing appearance
  • Their introverted personality and appearance are cited as reasons for difficulties in forming friendships
  • Despite past crushes, the author states they have not had an easy time pursuing romantic relationships
  • They struggled with feelings of worthlessness and embarrassment due to their introverted personality
  • The author had a crush on a classmate, but it lasted for years despite never overcoming feelings of anxiety towards them
  • The author had specific interests and friendships not shared with romantic interests, and found this isolating

Relationships with Others

  • The author felt ignored by a crush after a personal change (cutting their hair)
  • This classmate had other interests and friendships, and did not interact with the author
  • The author considered a crush to be a good friend and a compatible partner.
  • The author highlights the compatibility of other couples, and states that they haven't experienced the same for themselves
  • The author expresses frustration at being overlooked by those close to them
  • The author describes feelings of being invisible, unappealing to others, and undeserving of interaction

Appearance and Social Interactions

  • The author discusses how their appearance affects interactions with others
  • They mention being attracted to the personality of a classmate, but noticed the appearance of the person also played into their attraction
  • The author has noticed that other classmates and friends seem to have found partners, but the author states they struggled with feelings of isolation and incompatability with peers and crushes.

Personal Experiences with Emotions

  • The author expressed feelings of frustration when not getting the same attention from their classmate as another person
  • They considered their classmates and friends' behaviors and relationships, and considered why those relationships seemed more fulfilled than their own
  • The author describes an incident where they were ignored by a crush even after expressing openness to a potential relationship, suggesting a lack of reciprocity
  • They expressed emotional longing, or confusion, and how they felt hurt by their crush's behavior

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This quiz explores personal reflections on relationships, social dynamics, and self-perception. It discusses the impact of introversion and appearance on forming friendships and romantic connections. Participants will reflect on their feelings of worthlessness, anxiety, and isolation in relation to their social experiences.

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