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What are the four opposing needs in relationships according to dialectical theory?
What are the four opposing needs in relationships according to dialectical theory?
In the Peaceful Couples' study, how does the level of conflict compare between satisfied and dissatisfied couples?
In the Peaceful Couples' study, how does the level of conflict compare between satisfied and dissatisfied couples?
Which of the following is NOT one of the top three topics heterosexual couples commonly fight about?
Which of the following is NOT one of the top three topics heterosexual couples commonly fight about?
What is the demand-withdraw interaction pattern most associated with?
What is the demand-withdraw interaction pattern most associated with?
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According to the recommendations for mastering anger, which of the following is least likely to help manage anger?
According to the recommendations for mastering anger, which of the following is least likely to help manage anger?
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What characterizes the physiological response to conflict in individuals with different attachment styles?
What characterizes the physiological response to conflict in individuals with different attachment styles?
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What is meant by attributional conflict?
What is meant by attributional conflict?
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Which of the following is a prominent recommendation experts give for managing expectations in conflicts?
Which of the following is a prominent recommendation experts give for managing expectations in conflicts?
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Study Notes
Interpersonal Psychology 3110 - Chapter 11 Study Guide
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Conflict Definition: One person's opinions, goals, beliefs, and/or behaviors are incompatible with another's.
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Peaceful Couples Study: Conflict was higher among satisfied couples.
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Dialectical Theory: Opposing needs in relationships:
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Autonomy-Connection: Wanting connection versus independence.
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Predictability-Novelty: Desire for routine versus spontaneity.
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Openness-Closeness: Desire to share versus desire for privacy.
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Integration-Separation: Desiring togetherness versus alone time.
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Conflict Classification: Classify conflicts by who is involved (other vs. other people).
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Toddler Conflict Frequency: 7 times per hour.
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Average Dinner Table Arguments: 3.5 times per hour. (average)
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Average Conflict Frequency in Couples:
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Toddlers (4 years old): Every 36 minutes.
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Dating Couples: 2.4 times per week.
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Dissatisfied Couples: 5.4 conflicts per 5 days.
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Correlates of Conflict: Include attachment style, personality, sleep, and stress (pages 338-339).
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Secure attachment style leads to milder, more collaborative responses.
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Conflict Intensity During Adolescence: Lower intensity. More intense during late teens and early 20s in couples.
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Anger Management Recommendations: Gain control of anger, think differently, chill out, use humor.
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Common Conflict Topics in Heterosexual Couples: Children, chores, communication.
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Conflict Instigating Factors:
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Criticism
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Unrealistic/overwhelming demands
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Rebuffs
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Cumulative annoyances
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Heterosexual vs. Same-Sex Couples Conflict Differences: Similar conflicts exist, but heterosexual couples express more social issues.
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Self-Serving Bias Contributing to Conflict: People tend to judge their own actions more favorably than others', leading to blindness to personal biases.
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Attributional Conflict: A conflict of perceptions on why a problem or conflict exists.
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Relationship Interactions and Health: Surly interactions increase heart rate, blood pressure, and stress hormones.
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Attachment Styles and Physiological Responses: Secure attachment styles correlate with less physiological response to conflict.
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Demand-Withdrawal Interaction Pattern: In this pattern, one partner demands, and the other partner withdraws. Women are more likely to be the demanders, and men the withdrawers.
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Conflict Resolution Styles: Voice, loyalty, exit, and neglect.
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Gottman's Couple Types: Four types exist. Different types have varying satisfaction levels.
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Conflict Ending Methods: 5 methods.
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Impact of Unspoken Concerns: Middle-aged women and failing to vocalize concerns are associated with reduced longevity.
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Gottman's Advice to Men: Be supportive of their partners and be open to their partner's feelings. Be cautious about criticizing/interrupting.
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Interacting Style Changes: Research indicates that established interaction styles are relatively resistant to change.
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This quiz covers key concepts from Chapter 11 of Interpersonal Psychology, focusing on conflict in relationships. Learn about the definitions of conflict, its frequency among different demographics, and the dialectical theory's impact on interpersonal dynamics. Test your understanding of how relationships navigate opposing needs and conflicts.