10 Questions
Why is it advised to walk away from a dangerous situation?
It prevents injury and harm.
What should you do if verbally refusing pressure is not enough?
Physically leave the situation.
Who can you talk to for guidance about refusing sexual pressure?
A trusted adult or community resource.
What might you say to refuse an invitation to a party where alcohol is present?
I'd rather not attend.
Which of these responses shows you are strong and in control of your body?
I care about you, but I’m not ready to have sex.
Which of these is a sign your partner does not truly care about you?
Pressures you into actions you don't want.
Why might practicing refusal skills be beneficial?
It helps you become familiar with words and actions to refuse risky situations.
What can you discuss with a trusted adult if confused about sexual relationships?
Understanding concerns and making well-reasoned decisions.
What should you do if your date pressures you at an unsupervised party?
Refuse and consider leaving or talking to someone you trust.
How should you respond if someone says, 'If you loved me, you would say yes'?
Question their love if they try to pressure you.
Study Notes
Practicing Sexual Abstinence
- Sexual abstinence is a healthy sexual choice for teens, involving the decision to refrain from sexual activity.
- Reasons to choose abstinence include preventing pregnancy, reducing the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and HIV/AIDS, and avoiding emotional consequences of sexual activity.
Benefits of Abstinence
- Prevents pregnancy and STIs
- Increases enjoyment of nonsexual activities in a dating relationship
- Avoids emotional consequences of sexual activity, such as intense bonding and connection, feelings of betrayal, and stress
- Allows time for growth and other parts of life, including education, career, and personal interests
- Encourages emotional growth and maturity
Challenges to Abstinence
- Pressure from a partner, fear of rejection from a partner or peers, societal and commercial media influences, alcohol or drug use, and a desire for intimacy
- Feeling pressured to do something you have not consented to is a sign of an unhealthy relationship
- If a dating partner pressures you to have sex when you have said no, the relationship is unhealthy
Communicating Your Decision About Abstinence
- State your commitment to abstinence clearly and directly
- Express affection and care for your partner, while emphasizing that your decision is about what is best for you
- Give alternatives, such as holding hands, hugging, or kissing, or suggesting other activities to do together
- If your partner pressures you into sexual activity, it is called sexual assault
Refusal Skills
- Planning and practicing skills for refusing sex, drugs, and alcohol can help you become familiar with words and actions to use in risky situations
- Physically leaving or walking away from the situation may be necessary if verbally refusing is not enough
- Talking to a trusted adult, such as a parent, guardian, teacher, or counselor, can provide guidance and support in making decisions about sexual relationships
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