Dealing with Difficult People in the Workplace

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What is a common trigger that can lead people to become difficult in the workplace?

  • Overwhelming success
  • Feelings of insecurity (correct)
  • Strong leadership skills
  • Excessive confidence

Which of the following best describes openly aggressive people in the workplace?

  • Supportive but easily offended
  • Pleasant and cooperative in discussions
  • Quiet and non-confrontational
  • Loud, intimidating, and argumentative (correct)

What characterizes passive-aggressive behavior?

  • Covert hostility along with pleasant behavior (correct)
  • Direct and honest communication
  • Strong emotional vulnerability
  • Immediate conflict resolution

What does the term 'conflict' primarily refer to?

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Why is it important to understand personality differences in the workplace?

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What may passive-aggressive people struggle with?

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How should one approach the behavior of difficult people in the workplace?

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Which personality type tends to display overt hostility and aggression?

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What is a key factor in dealing with difficult personalities?

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How should one manage their emotions when dealing with difficult people?

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Which question should you ask yourself to learn from past encounters with difficult people?

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What is important when interacting with aggressive-difficult individuals?

<p>Being clear about how you wish to be treated (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why is it suggested to meet aggressive individuals in a neutral location?

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What does effective learning in dealing with difficult people require?

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What is a productive way to respond if an aggressive person says something upsetting?

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What behavior should you avoid to effectively deal with difficult personalities?

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What is a common behavior of passive-difficult people when asked to perform a task?

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What strategy is recommended for effectively dealing with passive-difficult people?

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How can you assist a passive-difficult person who is struggling to perform a task?

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Which characteristic defines a 'Timid Mouse' personality?

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What is a coping strategy for dealing with an 'Evil Ruler' type person?

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What effect can regular check-ins have on passive-difficult individuals?

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Which statement is NOT true about passive-difficult individuals?

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What is a consequence of ignoring a passive-difficult person's behavior?

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What is a common characteristic of the Timid Mouse personality?

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Which coping strategy is effective for dealing with The Professor personality?

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What is a characteristic of the Thumbs-up personality type?

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What is an effective coping strategy for the Negative Nelly personality?

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Why might the Thumbs-up personality create resentment among colleagues?

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Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of Negative Nelly?

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What common strategy should be used for a Timid Mouse to ensure performance accountability?

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Which issue is likely to escalate if dealing with Negative Nelly is not handled appropriately?

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Flashcards

Conflict in Workplace

A behavior or threat by one person or group directed at the territory, rights, interests, or privileges of another in the workplace.

Difficult Personalities

People whose behaviors cause conflict, often stemming from insecurity, inadequacy, or a lack of social/personal/technical skills.

Openly Aggressive Person

Individuals who are loud, intimidating, argumentative, and hostile in their actions.

Passive-Aggressive Person

Individuals appearing pleasant but are covertly hostile, using verbal potshots and backhanded compliments, avoiding decisions or completion of tasks.

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Conflict Resolution

The process of finding solutions to disagreements.

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Insecurity and Conflict

Insecure or inadequate individuals may have difficult behaviors at work.

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Personalizing Conflict

Mistaking difficult behavior as a personal attack, instead of recognizing it as stemming from the individual's actions.

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Conflict is Inevitable

Disagreements are natural and normal in workplace interactions.

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Change difficult people?

You can't change or fix difficult people. Their behavior change relies on their own willingness.

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Manage difficult people

Focus on managing your own reactions to difficult people. Change your response pattern.

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Emotion Management

Don't take difficult people's behavior personally. Avoid becoming defensive.

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Dealing with Difficult People: Skill

Mastering how to handle difficult people is a valuable skill that requires practice.

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Assess Past Incidents

Review past incidents and gain insights by asking these questions: Who, What, How Did I Feel, How Did I Respond, How I Wish I Responded.

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Calm Response

Respond calmly when dealing with aggressive difficult people. This helps de-escalate the situation.

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Set Boundaries

Make clear your expectations about how you want to be treated.

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Neutral Meeting

Meet with aggressive people in a neutral location where you feel safe.

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Passive-Difficult People

Individuals who crave approval but feel unqualified, leading to noncommittal behavior, blame-shifting, and seeking validation.

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Addressing Passive-Difficult Behavior

Directly address the misbehavior, encourage open communication, and offer support to address challenges.

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Why Passive-Difficult People Avoid Tasks

They may feel incapable of doing the task assigned and unable to admit it openly.

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Evil Ruler Personality

A type of aggressive-difficult person who bullies, demands, criticizes, and takes credit for others' work.

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Dealing with Evil Ruler

Let them vent, then calmly state your point.

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Timid Mouse Personality

A type of passive-difficult person who avoids offering ideas, expressing opinions, and conflict.

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Dealing with Timid Mouse

Encourage them to share ideas, acknowledge their contributions, and build confidence.

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Avoiding Ignoring Difficult People

Directly addressing the behavior is more effective than ignoring it.

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Timid Mouse

A person hesitant to commit or follow through on promises due to lack of confidence.

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Hold Accountable

To ensure a person is responsible for their actions and commitments.

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Follow Up Regularly

To check in with someone frequently to ensure progress and address any challenges.

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The Professor

A person with extensive knowledge, often arrogant and defensive.

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State Your Point Nonaggressively

To express your opinion calmly and respectfully, avoiding any personal attacks.

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Thumbs-up

A person who agrees to tasks but rarely delivers.

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Establish Clear Goals

To set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound objectives with individuals.

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Negative Nelly

A person who focuses on negatives, discourages change, and exaggerates others' mistakes.

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Study Notes

Dealing with Difficult People in the Workplace

  • Conflict is a behavior or threat by one person or group directed at the territory, rights, interests, or privileges of another party. It is normal, natural, and inevitable in everyday life.
  • Workplace conflict arises from the differences in personalities between individuals in evolving professional relationships.
  • Difficult people can be initially nice but become difficult due to feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, or lack of social, personal, or technical skills.
  • Some difficult people are overtly aggressive, characterized by loudness, intimidation, and hostility.
  • Others can be passively aggressive, exhibiting verbal potshots, backhanded compliments, and an inability to make decisions or complete assignments. They typically blame external factors.
  • Conflict can be resolved.

Dealing with Difficult Personalities

  • Do not take the behavior of difficult people personally.
  • Recognize that you cannot change others. Focus on your own emotional and behavioral responses.
  • Manage your emotions. Avoid becoming defensive as this will worsen situations.
  • Assess past incidents and ask yourself questions like:
  • Who was involved?
  • What happened?
  • How did I feel?
  • How did I respond?
  • How do I wish I had responded?
  • How can I improve my response to similar incidents in the future?

Dealing with Aggressive Difficult People

  • Be clear regarding how you wish to be treated and do not allow them to treat you otherwise.
  • Responding calmly helps de-escalate situations.
  • If upset, respond professionally using comments like: "That wasn't nice/productive/professional. Please do not speak to me like that."

Dealing with Unpleasant Aggressive Difficult People

  • Meet them in a neutral location where you feel safe.

Dealing with Passive Difficult People

  • Passive difficult people often crave approval but feel unqualified, unable to earn it, and therefore may be noncommittal or feign agreement.
  • The best approach is to address misbehavior directly and bring it into the open.
  • For example, if someone misses a deadline:
  • Offer to meet with them to inquire why.
  • Encourage them to share their perspective with open-ended questions.
  • Schedule follow-up meetings to monitor progress and address any new challenges. Regular check-ins can help them feel supported and accountable.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: Evil Ruler

  • Characteristics: Bullies and intimidates, constantly demanding, brutally critical, and often lets others do the work but tries to take all the credit.
  • Coping Strategies: Let them talk until they run out of steam, and state your point nonaggressively.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: Timid Mouse

  • Characteristics: Never offers ideas, won't let you know if they agree or disagree, avoids conflict, and uses emotions and guilt to their advantage.
  • Coping Strategies: Hold them accountable, and specifically describe desired performance and outcomes. Follow up regularly.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: The Professor

  • Characteristics: Long-time employee, may know a lot, can be arrogant, has an opinion about everything, gets defensive if wrong, can become loud and hostile.
  • Coping Strategies: State your point nonaggressively, help them see other perspectives, or offer alternatives. Don't single them out or alienate.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: Thumbs-up

  • Characteristics: Agrees to any commitment but rarely delivers, can't be trusted to follow through, poor time-management, and organizational skills.
  • Coping Strategies: Establish clear weekly, monthly, and quarterly goals within their responsibilities and hold them accountable.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: Negative Nelly

  • Characteristics: Is quick to point out why something won't work, does not like change, exaggerates others' mistakes, and encourages gossip/rumors.
  • Coping Strategies: Do not allow yourself to be sucked into the gossip or let it become personal. Deal with any issues immediately.

Common Aggressive and Passive-Difficult Personalities: Grumpy Cat

  • Characteristics: Nothing is ever right, prefers complaining to finding a solution, and is often unproductive.
  • Coping Strategies: Really listen to what they are saying, offer feedback and possible solutions (if they seem open).

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