Conversation Skills Quiz

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What are the three conversation strategies discussed in the text?

History, Philosophy, Metaphor

What does HPM stand for?

HPM stands for History, Philosophy, Metaphor

What are the three types of statements in SBR?

Specific, Broad, Related

What is the purpose of the SBR conversation strategy?

To focus primarily on the topics being discussed and dig deeper into them Signup and view all the answers

What does the acronym HPM stand for?

History, Philosophy, and Metaphor Signup and view all the answers

What was the author's favorite television show growing up?

The Late Show with David Letterman Signup and view all the answers

What were some of the tactics David Letterman used to turn dull segments into funny ones?

bantering wittily with his band leader, guests, and even himself in a self-deferential way Signup and view all the answers

What is the purpose of using HPM and SBR in conversations?

to find topics to talk about and ways to respond to people Signup and view all the answers

What are the three techniques mentioned in the text for responding to people?

EDR, HMP, SBR Signup and view all the answers

What can it mean if someone skews too much in one direction?

They can either be a conversational narcissist or someone who provides no value or substance Signup and view all the answers

What is the chapter title of Chapter 2?

Never Speak in Absolutes Signup and view all the answers

Why are absolute questions difficult to answer?

They put people on the spot and require them to come up with a definitive answer Signup and view all the answers

What are the 7 essential components to exceptional interactions and conversations?

The 7 essential components are: making people comfortable, connecting easily in any context, developing killer eye contact, preparing for any social situation, appearing as intuitive as a mind reader, never running out of things to say, and practicing and drilling all of the above. Signup and view all the answers

What is the purpose of the Flawless Interaction Checklist and Better Conversations Worksheet?

The purpose is to provide resources that help improve interactions and conversations by describing the essential components and offering practice exercises. Signup and view all the answers

What is the technique described in Chapter 10 of the book?

The technique described in Chapter 10 is to use fallback stories. Signup and view all the answers

What is the technique described in Chapter 12 of the book?

The technique described in Chapter 12 is to make the other person an expert. Signup and view all the answers

What is the potential consequence of asking too many absolute questions in a conversation?

People might feel like they are being interrogated and the conversation may become tiring. Signup and view all the answers

How can absolute questions be modified to make them easier to answer?

By putting boundaries around the question and making it non-absolute. Signup and view all the answers

Why is it important to avoid absolute questions in a conversation?

It allows for a more relaxed and open dialogue, and prevents arguments or judgments. Signup and view all the answers

What should a good conversationalist do to ensure the other person's comfort?

Make it easier for the other person to answer questions and create a mutual environment of comfort and enjoyment. Signup and view all the answers

What are the three frameworks that make up EDR?

Emotion, Detail, and Restatements Signup and view all the answers

Explain the purpose of using the E framework in a conversation.

To state someone else's emotion or emotional state and appear engaged in their well-being. Signup and view all the answers

What does the D framework in EDR involve?

Asking for details and how they relate to the person you are speaking with. Signup and view all the answers

Why is the R framework in EDR effective in conversation?

It shows that you were listening, validates the other person, and creates a sense of comfort and validation. Signup and view all the answers

What is the importance of reactions in a conversation?

Reactions are important in a conversation as they show that the person is emotionally and intellectually present. Signup and view all the answers

What can happen if someone does not react to your statements multiple times in a conversation?

If someone does not react to your statements multiple times, you may start to feel anxious and as if you've said something wrong. Signup and view all the answers

What are some examples of reactions during a conversation?

Examples of reactions during a conversation can be raising your eyebrow, saying 'Oh', or nodding. Signup and view all the answers

How can you optimize your reactions during a conversation?

You can optimize your reactions by ensuring they are appropriate to the situation and emotion being conveyed. Signup and view all the answers

What is the potential consequence of reacting with the wrong emotion?

Reacting with the wrong emotion may lead to a misunderstanding or misinterpretation of the conversation. Signup and view all the answers

Why is it important to let the other person know you are listening and engaged?

Letting the other person know you are listening and engaged helps build trust and rapport in the conversation. Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Conversation Strategies

Three conversation strategies discussed: HPM, SBR, and EDR

HPM

HPM stands for Honour, Probe, and Mirror
Purpose: to create a safe and engaging conversation

SBR

Three types of statements: Statement, Branch, and Request
Purpose: to encourage the other person to share more information

EDR

Three frameworks: Empathy, Diagnosis, and Response
Purpose: to create a seamless conversation flow
Empathy (E) framework: to show understanding and build rapport
Diagnosis (D) framework: to ask open-ended questions and gather information
Response (R) framework: to react and respond appropriately

Conversation Techniques

Three techniques: HPM, SBR, and EDR
Purpose: to create engaging and effective conversations

Absolute Questions

Difficult to answer because they require a yes or no response
Can be modified to make them easier to answer by asking open-ended questions
Asking too many absolute questions can lead to a stalled conversation
Important to avoid absolute questions to keep the conversation flowing

Interactions and Conversations

7 essential components to exceptional interactions and conversations: not specified
Flawless Interaction Checklist and Better Conversations Worksheet: to ensure a smooth conversation

Chapter Summaries

Chapter 2: title not specified
Chapter 10: technique not specified
Chapter 12: technique not specified

General Conversation Tips

Importance of reactions in a conversation: to show engagement and interest
Examples of reactions: verbal and non-verbal cues
Optimizing reactions: to respond appropriately and avoid the wrong emotion
Importance of letting the other person know you are listening and engaged: to build trust and rapport

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