Communication Strategies Lesson 23

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What is a 'Danger Phrase' in the context of communication?

A phrase that encourages open dialogue.

A phrase that mitigates responsibility. (correct)

A phrase that fosters collaboration.

A phrase that assigns blame to others. (correct)

Which phrase is considered a 'Power Phrase' when taking responsibility?

Because I did not follow up... (correct)

Because the circumstances were challenging...

Because others failed to support me...

Because it was not my responsibility...

When assessing behavior, which statement reflects a neutral observation?

'His behavior is unusual.' (correct)

'His actions are below average.'

'He is acting in a way that is unacceptable.'

'What he does is just not normal.'

Which response indicates a lack of personal accountability?

'The paperwork was submitted late.' Signup and view all the answers

What is the first step in the 10-Step Conflict-Resolver strategy?

When you... Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is a consequence of recognizing what is within one's control?

Taking responsibility for mistakes. Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following statements exemplifies an effective method of concluding a conversation?

'I hope this clarifies my position.' Signup and view all the answers

What phrase should one avoid to maintain constructive communication?

'Because of external circumstances...' Signup and view all the answers

What is the primary purpose of the 'Magic Mirror' strategy?

To address passive-aggressive behavior Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT a step in the 'Magic Mirror' process?

Confront Signup and view all the answers

How should one respond if a person uses sarcasm according to the 'Magic Mirror' strategy?

Ask for confirmation of their intention Signup and view all the answers

What is a danger phrase mentioned in the lesson?

Funny Signup and view all the answers

What is the recommended power phrase to replace derogatory terms?

Unusual Signup and view all the answers

The strategy mentioned for challenging passive-aggressive comments includes what initial action?

Backtracking what was said Signup and view all the answers

What is the key benefit of using power phrases in communication?

To be more precise and sensitive Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following statements exemplifies a danger phrase?

Your idea seems strange. Signup and view all the answers

What should a parent do when their child expresses the desire to drop out of college?

Express disappointment and state consequences for financial support. Signup and view all the answers

What is the suggested approach for a parent when discussing a child's decision to take a year off?

Ask for the child's feelings and perspectives about their decision. Signup and view all the answers

How should one react to patients who don't listen in an administrative office?

Accept that people will listen when they are ready. Signup and view all the answers

What role do difficult people play in personal development?

They provide lessons in patience and forgiveness. Signup and view all the answers

What is one potential consequence a parent may threaten if a child does not finish college?

Withdraw financial support for future education. Signup and view all the answers

What is a key factor in helping resolve a situation between a parent and child regarding education?

Listening to the child's explanation and concerns. Signup and view all the answers

What is the importance of expressing how one feels in a communication scenario?

It helps clarify personal expectations and emotions. Signup and view all the answers

What might be a reason for a student to come back with questions previously answered?

They may not have been ready to listen at the time. Signup and view all the answers

What is the primary purpose of the script mentioned?

To facilitate two-way conversations. Signup and view all the answers

Which lead-in line emphasizes the speaker's feelings?

I feel... Signup and view all the answers

What common issue is highlighted in the example scenario?

Patients misunderstanding medical instructions. Signup and view all the answers

What is the suggested way to deal with difficult conversation partners?

Practice patience and kindness. Signup and view all the answers

What is implied about the recipients of the speaker's communication?

They will eventually listen in their own time. Signup and view all the answers

Which lead-in line suggests a need for assistance?

I need... Signup and view all the answers

What is highlighted as a key factor in effective communication?

Understanding when the other person is ready to listen. Signup and view all the answers

Which phrase implies a consequence of not following through?

Or else... Signup and view all the answers

Which phrase exemplifies a 'Danger' statement according to the examples provided?

Strange Signup and view all the answers

What does the last step of the Magic Mirror process accomplish?

It requires the person to admit their true intention. Signup and view all the answers

In what context is the 10-Step Conflict Resolver designed to be used?

When communication has broken down Signup and view all the answers

What does the communication principle highlighted state about master teachers?

Individuals must agree to receive their lessons. Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT outlined as a way to foster direct communication?

Use sarcasm to lighten the mood. Signup and view all the answers

What type of behavior does the Power phrase encourage?

Direct and respectful communication Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Lesson 23 Summary

This week's lesson focuses on dealing with difficult people, danger and power phrases, free-style scripting, and weekly communication principles.

Dealing with Difficult People Strategy

The "Magic Mirror" strategy addresses passive-aggressive behavior.
It involves a three-step process: backtracking, clarifying the intention, and confirming the intention.
This method is used to determine the real intention of the person being passive-aggressive.

Danger and Power Phrases

At work: Danger phrases include "strange," "weird," "funny." Power phrases include "unusual."
"Unusual" carries no judgment.
At home, danger phrases describe things outside of your influence, and power phrases take accountability for the outcome.

Free-Style Scripting

The 10-Step Conflict Resolver is a strategy to improve communication.
It's designed for two-way conversations.
It uses 10 lead-in lines as a guideline for the conversation.

Communication Principle

Master teachers are everywhere; you have to agree to receive the instruction.
Difficult people can be used as learning opportunities to refine patience, kindness, and forgiveness in communication.

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