Communication in Relationships
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What does a meta-analysis reveal about self-disclosure?

  • Predictive outcomes
  • Cause-effect relationships
  • Broad patterns (correct)
  • Individual experiences

Women self-disclose more than men, especially to other women.

True (A)

What term does Gottman use to describe the most destructive communication patterns that predict divorce?

The Four Horsemen

Contempt is characterized by a sense of __________ shown through sarcasm, mocking, or disrespect.

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Match the following communication styles with their descriptions:

<p>Criticism = Attacks on a partner's character Contempt = Sense of superiority through disrespect Defensiveness = Playing the victim in response to blame Stonewalling = Withdrawal from communication</p> Signup and view all the answers

What aspect of communication does Gottman argue is more impactful on relationships?

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The frequency of the Four Horsemen is not important in predicting relationship outcomes.

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What research-based organization was founded by a husband-wife team focused on relationship advice?

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What is self-disclosure in the context of relationships?

<p>The exchange of private and personal information (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Self-disclosure becomes more intimate as relationships develop.

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In the first stage of self-disclosure, what type of information do people typically share?

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In communication, the centripetal force helps to ________ relationships.

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Match the stages of self-disclosure with the type of information shared:

<p>1st stage = Superficial information 2nd stage = Moderate opinions 3rd stage = Intimate information</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to the social penetration theory, self-disclosure progresses through stages. Which stage involves sharing personal opinions?

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Self-disclosure is a one-sided process where only one person reveals information.

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What theory describes the ways in which relationships grow increasingly more intimate through self-disclosure?

<p>Social penetration theory</p> Signup and view all the answers

The ________ forces are viewed as challenges to maintaining relationships.

<p>centrifugal</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following behaviors is an example of stonewalling?

<p>Ignoring a partner and tuning out (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Arguing and fighting in a relationship is considered detrimental regardless of how it is managed.

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What are two potential negative outcomes associated with stonewalling in relationships?

<p>Marital dissatisfaction and unresolved conflict</p> Signup and view all the answers

Gottman's research emphasizes the importance of ______ in relationship health.

<p>communication</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is a major limitation of Gottman's research on communication and relationships?

<p>It primarily studies couples in severe crisis. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Match the following Gottman's Four Horsemen with their descriptions:

<p>Contempt = Feeling superior and disrespecting partner Stonewalling = Shutting down and disengaging Criticism = Attacking the partner's character Defensiveness = Making excuses and deflecting blame</p> Signup and view all the answers

Self-disclosure is a key element in maintaining healthy relationships.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Identify one factor, besides communication, that can affect the quality of a relationship.

<p>Trust</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Communication in Relationships

Communication is essential for healthy relationships; it allows sharing experiences, understanding each other, and building connections.

Self-Disclosure

Sharing personal information with another person in a relationship.

Social Penetration Theory

A theory explaining how relationships become closer and more intimate through gradual self-disclosure.

Initial Self-Disclosure

Sharing superficial information in the early stages of a relationship.

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Intermediate Self-Disclosure

Sharing more personal opinions on less sensitive topics, moving beyond superficial information.

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Intimate Self-Disclosure

Sharing deeply personal information about oneself, reflecting a high level of trust and comfort.

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Gradual Self-Disclosure

Revealing personal information in small steps as trust and the relationship grow.

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Mutual Self-Disclosure

Both partners sharing intimate information in a relationship.

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Gottman Institute's Research

Research-based relationship advice focused on communication patterns in marriages, using observational studies and data analysis.

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Four Horsemen of Relationship Apocalypse

Four negative communication patterns identified by Gottman as strong predictors of relationship failure.

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Criticism

Attacking a partner's character, using phrases like 'you always' or 'you never'.

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Contempt

Showing superiority through sarcasm, mocking, or disrespect. Makes the target feel despised and worthless.

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Defensiveness

Responding to criticism by deflecting blame, playing the victim, or reversing blame.

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Relationship Satisfaction

A measure of a couple's overall happiness in their relationship.

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Communication Style vs. Content

Gottman argues that the how (style/delivery) of communication is more important than the content.

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Stonewalling in Relationships

A communication pattern where one partner shuts down and disengages from a conflict, often as a response to contempt.

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Contempt in Relationships

A communication style involving insults, mockery, and disrespect.

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Gottman's Love Lab

A research study that observes couples in a controlled setting to study their communication patterns.

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Bidirectional Ambiguity

The difficulty in determining if a communication style causes a relationship's quality or if the relationship's quality causes the communication style.

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Marital Dissatisfaction

Unhappiness or discontent within a marriage.

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Predictive Validity (of Research)

How accurately research predicts future events or behavior. In this case it predicts the success or failure of a relationship.

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Study Notes

Communication in Relationships

  • Communication is crucial for relationship formation and maintenance.
  • It acts as a centripetal force, preventing centrifugal forces from pulling relationships apart.
  • Communication style significantly influences relationship quality.
  • Self-disclosure is a key process in close relationships.

Self-Disclosure

  • Self-disclosure involves revealing personal information.
  • It's a gradual process, not immediate.
  • It's a mutual exchange of intimate information.
  • Altman & Taylor's social penetration theory describes how relationships grow more intimate.
  • Self-disclosure progresses through stages (superficial, moderate, intimate, core).

Communication Styles

  • Gottman Institute research shows communication style impacts relationship stability.

  • Their Love Lab studies tracked married couples for decades to analyze communication patterns.

  • Accurate predictions for relationship outcomes (up to 90%) based on couples' communication.

  • Negative communication styles are destructive and major predictors of divorce/separation.

  • The "Four Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse" are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling.

  • Criticism: attacking partner's character.

  • Contempt: expressing superiority.

  • Defensiveness: blaming others, denying responsibility.

  • Stonewalling: withdrawing, avoiding conflict.

  • Communication is about more than just what is said but how it is communicated.

  • Facial expressions and tone contribute to actual message.

  • Gottman's research: crucial to understand patterns of communication to predict relationships.

  • Observing couples in controlled settings, using physiological measurements.

Meta-Analysis of Self-Disclosure on Liking

  • Those who disclose more are more liked.
  • People share more with those they like.
  • Intimacy of disclosure strongly impacts liking.
  • Depth of disclosure influences liking more than breadth of disclosure.
  • Gender differences exist in self-disclosure: Women disclose more than men to other women.

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Explore the vital role of communication in building and maintaining relationships. This quiz delves into self-disclosure, stages of intimacy, and various communication styles that impact relationship quality and stability. Learn how effective communication acts as a centripetal force against relationship challenges.

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