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What was the initial reaction of the young attorney when he received the compliment?
What was the initial reaction of the young attorney when he received the compliment?
- He was uninterested in the conversation.
- He expressed gratitude immediately.
- He denied any future success.
- He was skeptical and thought it was flattery. (correct)
What impact did the speaker's encouragement have on H. Edgar Barnes's career?
What impact did the speaker's encouragement have on H. Edgar Barnes's career?
- It helped him build a successful law practice. (correct)
- It led him to retire early from law practice.
- It had no significant effect on his career.
- It caused him to change his career path completely.
Which role did H. Edgar Barnes achieve later in his career?
Which role did H. Edgar Barnes achieve later in his career?
- He became a businessman.
- He became a Supreme Court Justice. (correct)
- He opened his own law firm.
- He was elected to the city council.
How did the speaker maintain his relationship with H. Edgar Barnes?
How did the speaker maintain his relationship with H. Edgar Barnes?
Which companies did H. Edgar Barnes become counsel for?
Which companies did H. Edgar Barnes become counsel for?
What is suggested as the first step to win someone to your cause?
What is suggested as the first step to win someone to your cause?
What did Clinton Stiefel do that surprised everyone at the bank meeting?
What did Clinton Stiefel do that surprised everyone at the bank meeting?
How did the speaker help his two friends who were feeling depressed?
How did the speaker help his two friends who were feeling depressed?
What was a notable quality of Morgan Thomas as he progressed in his career?
What was a notable quality of Morgan Thomas as he progressed in his career?
What did the speaker encourage Clinton Stiefel to pursue for his development?
What did the speaker encourage Clinton Stiefel to pursue for his development?
According to the speaker, how do people typically react to being told they have helped someone?
According to the speaker, how do people typically react to being told they have helped someone?
What was the initial response of Clinton Stiefel to the idea of becoming president of the bank?
What was the initial response of Clinton Stiefel to the idea of becoming president of the bank?
What effect did the speaker's pep talk have on his friends?
What effect did the speaker's pep talk have on his friends?
What does the story about Clinton Stiefel demonstrate about the impact of encouragement?
What does the story about Clinton Stiefel demonstrate about the impact of encouragement?
What lesson does the speaker imply about giving sincere praise?
What lesson does the speaker imply about giving sincere praise?
Flashcards
Encouraging Others
Encouraging Others
Expressing belief in someone's potential and expecting great outcomes from them.
Building Relationships
Building Relationships
Establishing and maintaining positive connections with people, often through consistent communication and genuine interest.
Positive Influence
Positive Influence
Acting as a guiding force that motivates and inspires others to achieve their potential, through words of encouragement and belief.
Success Story
Success Story
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Center of Influence
Center of Influence
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Winning people over
Winning people over
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Honest praise and appreciation
Honest praise and appreciation
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Building confidence in others
Building confidence in others
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Motivation through recognition
Motivation through recognition
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Employee suggestions
Employee suggestions
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Mentorship
Mentorship
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Importance of encouragement
Importance of encouragement
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Growth through praise
Growth through praise
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Positive impact of appreciation
Positive impact of appreciation
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Personal example
Personal example
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Study Notes
Building Relationships for Success
- Lincoln's advice: Winning someone to your cause starts with showing you are a sincere friend. This "drop of honey" leads to their reason and judgment.
Encouraging Others' Success
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Edgar Barnes: The author encouraged Barnes, believing in his potential, leading to a strong friendship and business relationship. This encouragement played a part in Barnes's rise to success as a lawyer.
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Clinton Stiefel: The author inspired Stiefel to believe in his abilities to advance in his career. This inspired Stiefel to perform better in meetings leading to his advancement at the bank.
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Pep talks and recognizing accomplishments: Giving praise to promising individuals and emphasizing their accomplishments motivated them and built stronger connections for future business dealings. Demonstrating genuine interest in their past and future helped both parties to be pleased with dealings.
Effective Sales Techniques
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Probing Questions: Asking "How did you happen to get started in this business?" provides insight into a person's journey, and motivates them to share their history, which can lead to strong relationships. This creates an emotional connection with the person. This tactic also works with busy prospects initially resistant to sales efforts.
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Building Trust and Rapport: showing genuine interest in the person's life and career fosters trust allowing them to share their personal stories for mutual benefit
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Positive reinforcement: Expressing genuine appreciation for a person's contribution or influence on your success demonstrates respect and strengthens a business relationship for ongoing benefits.
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Handling resistance: Addressing and understanding someone's obstacles are critical to success. If someone is resistant to a sales pitch, a change in technique may be necessary. For example, focusing on interests rather than sales will open doors. Be a good listener.
Personal Testimonials
- Morgan Thomas: The author's story of appreciating and complimenting Thomas's effort and work ethic. This inspired healthy competition and an ongoing strong friendship and business relationship for the mutual benefit of both.
Long-Term Relationships
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Sustaining Relationships: Maintaining contact and supporting individuals' ambitions with sincere encouragement yields lasting friendships and profitable business relationships.
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Record Keeping: Keeping records of people's details helps remember their stories and interests, reinforcing personal connections and building trust over time, which is often a key determinant for long-term profitable endeavors.
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Description
This quiz explores key techniques for building successful relationships in business. It highlights the importance of sincerity, encouragement, and recognition in fostering connections and advancing careers. Learn how effective communication and genuine interest can lead to success in your professional dealings.
