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What is one reason why people dump their feelings on others?
What is one reason why people dump their feelings on others?
What is the opposite effect of dumping on others in adulthood compared to adolescence?
What is the opposite effect of dumping on others in adulthood compared to adolescence?
What is the main difference between venting and dumping?
What is the main difference between venting and dumping?
What is the result of dumping on someone else?
What is the result of dumping on someone else?
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What is the recommended approach to overcome dumping?
What is the recommended approach to overcome dumping?
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What was Jennifer's initial intention when speaking with Megan about Diane?
What was Jennifer's initial intention when speaking with Megan about Diane?
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What did Megan's conversation with Jennifer escalate into?
What did Megan's conversation with Jennifer escalate into?
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Why did Jennifer stop asking Megan to lunch after their conversation?
Why did Jennifer stop asking Megan to lunch after their conversation?
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What is the primary difference between venting and dumping?
What is the primary difference between venting and dumping?
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What is the result of dumping on others, according to the passage?
What is the result of dumping on others, according to the passage?
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Dumping is a way to physically express frustration, disappointment, and upset.
Dumping is a way to physically express frustration, disappointment, and upset.
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When you dump, the person to whom you are speaking will feel relieved and motivated to help.
When you dump, the person to whom you are speaking will feel relieved and motivated to help.
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Dumping is an effective way to resolve conflicts and frustrations.
Dumping is an effective way to resolve conflicts and frustrations.
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Venting and dumping are interchangeable terms.
Venting and dumping are interchangeable terms.
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The passage suggests that dumping is a rare behavior that only occurs in certain situations.
The passage suggests that dumping is a rare behavior that only occurs in certain situations.
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Study Notes
Venting vs. Dumping
- Venting is a way to express frustration and is helpful when done with people we trust, whereas dumping is a verbal avalanche that buries others.
- Venting is a healthy way to maintain composure, but dumping is a way to feel better at the expense of others.
Causes of Dumping
- Lack of an effective way to address the person or situation causing upset
- Holding in upset feelings and then wanting to let it all out when given the opportunity
- Habit formed in adolescence, such as in junior high school and high school, as a way to feel better and feel less alone
Effects of Dumping
- Creates a tremendous disconnect between the person dumping and the person being dumped on
- The person being dumped on feels frustrated and put-upon
- Can lead to others turning off or feeling "dumped on"
Differences between Venting and Dumping
- Venting is a way to express frustration, whereas dumping is a way to feel better at the expense of others
- Venting is a healthy way to maintain composure, whereas dumping is a way to create a disconnect between people
Overcoming Dumping
- Find healthier ways to deal with feelings about the person or situation causing frustration
- Learn to forgive and discover ways to overcome frustration
- Develop a more effective approach to the people or situations that frustrate you
Venting vs. Dumping
- Venting is a way to express frustration and is helpful when done with people we trust, whereas dumping is a verbal avalanche that buries others.
- Venting is a healthy way to maintain composure, but dumping is a way to feel better at the expense of others.
Causes of Dumping
- Lack of an effective way to address the person or situation causing upset
- Holding in upset feelings and then wanting to let it all out when given the opportunity
- Habit formed in adolescence, such as in junior high school and high school, as a way to feel better and feel less alone
Effects of Dumping
- Creates a tremendous disconnect between the person dumping and the person being dumped on
- The person being dumped on feels frustrated and put-upon
- Can lead to others turning off or feeling "dumped on"
Differences between Venting and Dumping
- Venting is a way to express frustration, whereas dumping is a way to feel better at the expense of others
- Venting is a healthy way to maintain composure, whereas dumping is a way to create a disconnect between people
Overcoming Dumping
- Find healthier ways to deal with feelings about the person or situation causing frustration
- Learn to forgive and discover ways to overcome frustration
- Develop a more effective approach to the people or situations that frustrate you
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Description
This quiz assesses understanding of workplace conflicts and effective communication among colleagues. It explores emotions and reactions in a professional setting.
