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Define social cognition and briefly explain its importance in interpersonal relationships.
Define social cognition and briefly explain its importance in interpersonal relationships.
Social cognition refers to the processes of perception, interpretation, belief, and memory used to evaluate and understand ourselves and others. It is important because it influences how we perceive and interact with people, including our partners, which impacts relationship satisfaction.
Explain the primacy effect and how it can impact our judgments of others.
Explain the primacy effect and how it can impact our judgments of others.
The primacy effect is the tendency for the first information we receive about others to carry special weight in shaping our overall impression of them. It can lead to biased judgments as initial impressions can overshadow later information.
Describe one way existing beliefs influence relationships.
Describe one way existing beliefs influence relationships.
Existing beliefs influence what we want to see. It can lead to holding confident judgements that are not always right.
What does it mean to "idealize our partners" and how does this relate to positive illusions?
What does it mean to "idealize our partners" and how does this relate to positive illusions?
Name the three categories of attributions we can make to explain a partner's behavior and give an example.
Name the three categories of attributions we can make to explain a partner's behavior and give an example.
Explain the actor/observer effect and how it leads to different explanations for our own behavior versus our partner's behavior.
Explain the actor/observer effect and how it leads to different explanations for our own behavior versus our partner's behavior.
Differentiate between relationship-enhancing and distress-maintaining attributions.
Differentiate between relationship-enhancing and distress-maintaining attributions.
What is reconstructive memory, and how does our current relationship status influence how we remember the past?
What is reconstructive memory, and how does our current relationship status influence how we remember the past?
Compare and contrast destiny and growth beliefs in relationships, and how these beliefs influence reactions to relationship challenges.
Compare and contrast destiny and growth beliefs in relationships, and how these beliefs influence reactions to relationship challenges.
What is a self-fulfilling prophecy and give an example.
What is a self-fulfilling prophecy and give an example.
Explain the difference between self-enhancement and self-verification and in what kind of relationships one is more favored than the other.
Explain the difference between self-enhancement and self-verification and in what kind of relationships one is more favored than the other.
What are implicit attitudes and why are they important?
What are implicit attitudes and why are they important?
Define transference in the context of relationships.
Define transference in the context of relationships.
Briefly describe the concept of impression management and an example.
Briefly describe the concept of impression management and an example.
Give two reasons why we try less hard to make a good impression on close people compared to strangers.
Give two reasons why we try less hard to make a good impression on close people compared to strangers.
Define ingratiation as a strategy of impression management, and why is it mostly used within relationships?
Define ingratiation as a strategy of impression management, and why is it mostly used within relationships?
Explain how high self-monitoring can influence social interactions and relationships.
Explain how high self-monitoring can influence social interactions and relationships.
Describe how our perceptions of our partners can be biased. Explain why this is.
Describe how our perceptions of our partners can be biased. Explain why this is.
What is emotional intelligence and why is it useful in relationships?
What is emotional intelligence and why is it useful in relationships?
Explain the connection between thinking about your relationship in a positive way and relationship-enhancing behavior.
Explain the connection between thinking about your relationship in a positive way and relationship-enhancing behavior.
Flashcards
Social Cognition
Social Cognition
The mental processes we use to understand ourselves and others, including perception, interpretation, belief, and memory.
Primacy Effect
Primacy Effect
The tendency for the first information learned about someone to disproportionately shape our overall impression of them.
Confirmation Bias
Confirmation Bias
The inclination to seek out information that confirms existing beliefs and overlook contradictory evidence.
Overconfidence
Overconfidence
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Idealizing Partners
Idealizing Partners
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Attributions
Attributions
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Actor/Observer Effects
Actor/Observer Effects
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Self-Serving Bias
Self-Serving Bias
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Reconstructive Memory
Reconstructive Memory
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Marital Paradigm
Marital Paradigm
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Destiny Beliefs
Destiny Beliefs
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Growth Beliefs
Growth Beliefs
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Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
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Self-Concept
Self-Concept
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Self-Enhancement
Self-Enhancement
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Self-Verification
Self-Verification
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Implicit Attitudes
Implicit Attitudes
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Transference
Transference
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Impression Management
Impression Management
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Self-Monitoring
Self-Monitoring
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Study Notes
Social Cognition
- Refers to perception, interpretation, belief, and memory when evaluating ourselves and others.
- First impressions matter and can be influential months later.
- Snap judgements are often influenced by stereotypes.
Primacy Effect
- The tendency for initial information received to heavily influence overall impressions.
- People tend to seek information confirming first impressions, leading to confirmation bias.
Confirmation Bias
- Seeking information that confirms existing beliefs, overlooking contradictory evidence.
- Overconfidence leads to incorrect snap judgements.
- Existing beliefs influence every stage of a relationship, affecting judgements of partners.
Power of Perceptions
- Idealizing partners involves positive illusions, viewing their faults as circumstantial.
Attributional Processes
- Delight or distress is affected by how we explain a partner’s behavior.
- Attributions can be:
- Internal vs. external
- Stable vs. unstable
- Controllable vs. uncontrollable
Actor/Observer Effects
- Individuals explain their behavior with external circumstances but attribute others' behavior to internal attributes.
- Trying to understand the other's viewpoint reduces the actor/observer discrepancy.
Self-Serving Bias
- Success is attributed to internal attributes, while failures are blamed on external factors.
Relationship Enhancing
- Happy individuals attribute positive actions to internal, stable, and controllable factors in partners.
- They excuse negative behavior with external, unstable, and uncontrollable causes.
- Unhappy individuals show negative attributions, exaggerating bad and minimizing the good of their partner.
Memories
- Memories are altered and updated, mixing past events with current knowledge.
Reconstructive Memory
- Memories are revised with new information, influencing relationships.
- Happy individuals forget past disappointments.
Relationship Beliefs
- Marital Paradigm: Established beliefs influence relationship expectations.
Destiny Beliefs
- The inflexible view that happiness is immediate and guaranteed for soulmates.
Growth Beliefs
- Successful relationships result from hard work and overcoming challenges.
- Growth beliefs promote commitment during difficulties, while destiny beliefs may lead to breakups.
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
- False predictions become true due to behavioral changes.
- The process involves a perceiver forming expectations, acting accordingly, the target interpreting and responding to the behavior.
Self-Perception
- Self-Concept: Beliefs and feelings about ourselves, including self-esteem and self-knowledge.
- During interactions our self-concepts try to fulfill two different functions:
- Seeking feedback to enhance self-concepts
- Seeking feedback to sustain existing self-concepts
Self-Enhancement
- The desire for positive feedback
Self-Verification
- The desire for feedback consistent with self-concept, more important in marriage.
- Individuals with negative self-concepts prefer partners who verify their low opinions.
Nonconscious Social Cognition
- Implicit Attitudes: Unintentional associations evident when partners come to mind.
- Implicit attitudes predict future happiness.
Transference
- Transferring old feelings to new partners.
Impression Management
- Individuals control information others receive.
- Anything done in the presence of others is strategically regulated.
- Impression management is pervasive and helps achieve interpersonal goals.
Strategies for Impression Management
- Ingratiation: Seeking acceptance through favors and compliments, mostly in relationships.
- Self-promotion: Recounting accomplishments, common in workplaces.
- Intimidation: Portraying oneself as ruthless, undesirable.
- Supplication: Presenting oneself as inept to gain help.
Impression Management in Relationships
- Self-Monitoring: Adjusting behavior to fit different situations.
- High self-monitors adapt, while low self-monitors are more consistent.
- Less effort is put into appearing likable with close partners.
Perceptions of Partners
- Perceptions of partners are often inaccurate.
- Partners are idealized and perceived as more similar than they are.
- Intimate partners understand each other better over time.
Emotional Intelligence
- A set of abilities to perceive, use, understand, and manage emotions.
- People with high emotional intelligence read others' feelings sensitively.
- Women tend to have higher EQ than men.
- Training can improve abilities to understand partners.
- Thinking positively about a relationship enhances it, while negative thinking can cause failure.
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