Building Healthy Relationships

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Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of a healthy relationship?

  • Empathy
  • Acceptance and respect
  • Clear communication
  • Dishonesty and mistrust (correct)

All relationships remain the same throughout your life.

False (B)

Besides parents and siblings, what other relationships do people often form as they get older?

friends and adults outside the home like teachers or coaches

Healthy relationships are built on __________ and trust.

<p>honesty</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one way you can create healthier relationships?

<p>By paying attention and giving to others the things you want for yourself (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The qualities of a healthy relationship don't apply to relationships with parents and children.

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What does it mean to have empathy in a relationship?

<p>It means being able to understand, and share the feelings of another person.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Match the following actions with the relationship quality they demonstrate:

<p>Being truthful with someone = Honesty Trying to understand someone's perspective = Empathy Accepting someone for who they are = Acceptance Helping a friend when they are in need = Showing Care and Concern</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT typically considered an unhealthy quality in a relationship?

<p>Occasional disagreements (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Healthy relationships can help individuals manage stress and cope with change.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Aside from negative or unhealthy qualities, what is a common experience that nearly every relationship has?

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In a good relationship, people are open to doing the work it will take to change the relationship or to accept _______ qualities.

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What is a key benefit of having people in your life who treat you with respect and care?

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Match the skill with the intended effect on relationships:

<p>Communicating clearly and honestly = Improves understanding and reduces misunderstandings Listening = Shows respect and value for the other person's perspective Showing care and concern = Strengthens emotional bonds and provides support Taking personal responsibility = Builds trust and accountability</p> Signup and view all the answers

Having healthy relationships can hinder your ability to resolve conflicts.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Name one of the key ingredients for healthy relationships.

<p>communication, trust, respect, or personal responsibility</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of these is NOT a warning sign that a relationship may be in trouble?

<p>Sharing thoughts and feelings openly (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

If a relationship is troubled, it's always best to end it immediately without trying to fix it.

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Besides the relationship being unhealthy, what is another reason a relationship might end?

<p>People's interests, priorities, and desires change in ways that make the relationship hard to sustain.</p> Signup and view all the answers

One should show _________ for their past connection when ending a relationship.

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Which of the following is a guideline for ending a relationship in a healthy way?

<p>Ensure you are sure ending the relationship is what you really want (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

It is possible to feel grief and a sense of loss even when you are the one who initiates the end of a relationship.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is considered an inconsiderate way to end a relationship?

<p>Sending a text message (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Debating the facts with the person you are breaking up with is a recommended way to end a relationship.

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Match the following actions with their descriptions:

<p>Ending a relationship in person = Shows respect for the past connection Working on communication skills = A way to save a troubled relationship Feeling grief or loss = Normal emotions even when you initiate the breakup Making the decision to end a relationship = A necessary first step before separation</p> Signup and view all the answers

What type of messages should you use to avoid blaming the other person when ending a relationship?

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Why is it recommended to end a relationship in person?

<p>To make sure the other person understands the intentions and to show respect for their past connection.</p> Signup and view all the answers

When ending a relationship, it's important to make the end _______ without giving false hope.

<p>final</p> Signup and view all the answers

Match the following feelings with their description:

<p>Sadness = A feeling of sorrow or unhappiness Anger = A strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility Guilt = A feeling of having done something wrong Jealousy = A feeling of envy or resentment towards someone</p> Signup and view all the answers

It is not normal to experience which of these feelings when a relationship ends?

<p>Happiness (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

It is only the person who was broken up with that experiences strong feelings.

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What should your body language and tone of voice match when ending a relationship?

<p>The message</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one way to cope with strong emotions after a break-up?

<p>Practice thought stopping (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Building self-esteem does not help in coping with a break-up.

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What should you do to maintain your health during a stressful break-up?

<p>Take good care of yourself, including getting enough sleep and eating healthy.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Crying can help relieve feelings after a break-up, and it can be done in __________ safe place.

<p>any</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following strategies involves reconnecting with people you may have neglected?

<p>Developing other relationships (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Thinking realistically about a past relationship means only focusing on its positive aspects.

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Name one activity you can do to take your mind off the hurt feelings from a break-up.

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Match the coping strategies with their descriptions:

<p>Thought stopping = Redirecting negative thoughts Building self-esteem = Focusing on positive traits Developing other relationships = Reconnecting with friends Taking good care of yourself = Maintaining physical health</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Healthy Relationship Qualities

The way people interact and communicate with each other in a relationship.

Honesty

Being truthful and open with your partner.

Clear Communication

Expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly and effectively.

Acceptance and Respect

Accepting and valuing your partner for who they are.

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Empathy

Understanding and sharing your partner's feelings.

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Showing Care and Concern

Showing care and concern for your partner's well-being.

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Sharing Experiences

Sharing experiences and creating memories together.

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Getting and Giving Support

Supporting each other through challenges and celebrating successes.

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Trust in a relationship

The ability to believe in someone's reliability and good intentions.

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Resolving Conflicts

A healthy way to handle disagreements, involving active listening and finding common ground.

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Empathy in relationships

Understanding and sharing another person's feelings and experiences.

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Respect in relationships

Behaving in a way that shows you care and value the other person.

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Personal Responsibility in Relationships

Recognizing and taking responsibility for the impact of your actions and words on others.

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Unhealthy Attempt to Change

Trying to change someone's core personality or behavior.

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Abuse in Relationships

A pattern of behavior that seeks to gain power over someone using manipulation, verbal abuse, or isolation.

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Troubled Relationship

A relationship where one or both partners are unhappy, experiencing problems, and might not be able to improve.

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Warning Signs of a Troubled Relationship

These are signs that a relationship is in trouble, such as a lack of communication, constant criticism, or not wanting to spend time together.

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Ending a Relationship

A relationship where one or both partners have decided they no longer want to be in it. This can be due to changing interests, values, or simply realizing the relationship isn't a good fit anymore.

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Be Sure of Your Decision

Be certain that ending the relationship is the right choice for you. Don't rush into a decision without careful consideration.

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Prepare for Emotional Impact

It's normal to experience sadness, grief, and a sense of loss after a relationship ends. Allow yourself to feel these emotions.

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End the Relationship in Person

Having an open and honest conversation face-to-face shows respect for the person you're ending things with. It's often the best way to communicate your intentions clearly.

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Ending with Respect

Even after a relationship ends, it's important to treat the other person with kindness and respect. Remember the good times you shared, but also acknowledge the reasons for ending the relationship.

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Thought Stopping

A coping strategy to stop negative thoughts about an ex-partner or friend by consciously telling yourself to "stop" and shifting your focus to something else.

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Realistic Thinking

Seeing a relationship for what it truly was, acknowledging both its positive and negative aspects, without romanticizing or ignoring past issues.

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Boosting Self-Esteem

Building your confidence by focusing on your strengths, achievements, and positive qualities.

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Developing Relationships

Connecting with new people and rekindling old friendships to provide support and create new connections.

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Looking Ahead

Learning from both the positive and negative experiences of a past relationship to enhance future relationships.

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Time with Trusted People

Sharing feelings and seeking support from trusted friends or family members during difficult times.

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Taking Care of Yourself

Prioritizing self-care by getting enough sleep, eating nutritious meals, and exercising to manage stress and maintain well-being.

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Crying When You Need To

Allowing yourself to cry as a healthy way to release emotions and process grief during break-ups or friendship endings.

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Use "I" messages

Using "I" statements to express your feelings and needs without blaming the other person. Example: "I feel hurt when you don't keep your promises."

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Make the end final

Communicating your decision to end the relationship clearly and directly, without leaving room for confusion or false hope of reconciliation.

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Ending a relationship respectfully

Ending a relationship in a way that minimizes hurt feelings and avoids causing unnecessary drama or conflict.

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Common emotions after a relationship ends

A range of emotions, including sadness, anger, regret, jealousy, guilt, and confusion, that are normal and understandable when a relationship ends.

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End a relationship face-to-face

The act of ending a relationship personally, rather than through text, social media, or avoidance, which can be hurtful and disrespectful.

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Choose a suitable place

Choosing a location for ending a relationship that is private, comfortable, and allows for a safe and respectful conversation.

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Explain your reasons clearly

Expressing the reasons for ending the relationship honestly and clearly, without engaging in arguments or debates.

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Accept the end of the relationship

Accepting the fact that a relationship is over and moving forward without holding onto false hope of getting back together.

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Study Notes

Building Healthy Relationships

  • Relationships impact mental, emotional, and social health. Positive emotional health involves building healthy relationships.
  • Relationships begin early with family and develop with friends, teachers, and coaches as a person ages. Romantic relationships may also emerge.
  • Relationships vary in duration and frequency of interaction. Some last a lifetime, others are short-term. All have an impact on emotional and social well-being.

Healthy Relationship Qualities

  • Honesty and trust: essential traits in healthy relationships.
  • Clear communication: open, honest, and respectful dialogue.
  • Acceptance and respect: understanding and valuing another person's perspective.
  • Empathy: understanding another person's feelings.
  • Care and concern: showing attentiveness and support.
  • Shared experiences: creating common memories and understanding.
  • Support: offering assistance and encouragement.
  • Ability to resolve differences: working through disagreements.
  • Personal responsibility: taking ownership of one's actions and feelings.

Different Relationship Types

  • Qualities of healthy relationships may vary slightly for different types of relationships (e.g. parent-child vs. peer-to-peer)
  • Awareness of these nuances can be invaluable in navigating healthier interactions across different relationship contexts.

Healthy Relationships and Emotional Health

  • Healthy relationships make self-acceptance easier and promote optimism.
  • These relationships provide opportunities to practice conflict resolution and communication.
  • Healthy relationships can help manage stress and cope with changes.
  • Healthy relationships give people someone to rely on for support and advice.

Ending Relationships

  • Relationships can experience positive and negative phases.
  • Unhealthy qualities can persist or escalate, leading to dissatisfaction and unhappiness.
  • Reasons for ending relationships can vary, including fundamental differences and incompatibility.
  • Ending a relationship, when necessary, can be a difficult but potentially beneficial process.

Ending Relationship Guidelines

  • Carefully consider the decision to end a relationship; focus on personal needs.
  • Choose a safe and appropriate place to communicate.
  • Clearly explain reasons for ending and avoid unnecessary debate.
  • Avoid blame and use "I" messages to maintain a respectful tone.
  • Avoid future promises and expectations to finalize the separation.
  • Remember that feelings, like sadness, anger, and confusion, are valid and expected.
  • Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can be helpful and positive.

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