Understanding Criticism
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What is the primary goal of constructive criticism?

  • To humiliate the person being criticized
  • To provide genuine feedback in a helpful and non-threatening way (correct)
  • To reject the person being criticized
  • To embarrass or hurt the person being criticized

    • What type of criticism is designed to provide valid feedback in a helpful way?

  • Harsh criticism
  • Destructive criticism
  • Constructive criticism (correct)
  • Punitive criticism

    • Why do people respond to criticism in different ways?

  • Because of their personality traits
  • Because of their intelligence level
  • Because of their experiences with criticism as a child (correct)
  • Because of their education level

    • What is the outcome of responding passively to criticism?

    <p>Depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the outcome of receiving harsh and punitive criticism as a child?

    <p>We see criticism as hurtful and rejecting</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How do people with aggressive responses to criticism tend to react?

    <p>They become defensive and attack others</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is an example of destructive criticism?

    <p>This report is atrocious, your spelling is appalling</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the result of not experiencing criticism as a child?

    <p>We are devastated when we first experience criticism as an adult</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the key characteristic of an assertive response to criticism?

    <p>Staying calm and accepting criticism without negative emotions</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the significance of accepting criticism assertively?

    <p>It is one of the most important tasks we face on our journey to maturity</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the outcome of responding assertively to criticism?

    <p>Improved relationships and effective communication</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the implication of criticizing a person's whole being rather than just their behavior?

    <p>The person feels hopeless about how to change</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the main difference between passive and aggressive responses to criticism?

    <p>Passive responses lead to depression, while aggressive responses lead to conflict</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What happens when we respond passively to criticism and agree with it?

    <p>We tend to reproach ourselves and feel hurt</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the main difference between assertive and aggressive responses to criticism?

    <p>Assertive responses lead to calmness, while aggressive responses lead to anger</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the outcome of responding to criticism with a laugh and self-criticism?

    <p>Depression and low self-esteem</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Study Notes

    Criticism

    • Criticism is an essential aspect of personal growth and maturity, and being able to accept it assertively is crucial.

    Types of Criticism

    • Constructive criticism:
      • Provides genuine feedback in a helpful and non-threatening way.
      • Designed to help the person being criticized learn and grow.
      • Feedback is typically valid and true.
      • Example: "I really liked the way you wrote your report; I think it could be even better if you focused more on improving your spelling."
    • Destructive criticism:
      • Either not valid or true or delivered in an extremely unhelpful way.
      • Often given without much thought or designed to embarrass or hurt.
      • Example: "This report is atrocious, your spelling is appalling."

    Response to Criticism

    • Our response to criticism is largely based on our experiences with criticism as a child.
    • If we didn't experience criticism as a child, we may be devastated when we first experience it as an adult.
    • If we received constructive criticism as a child, we may cope well with criticism as an adult.
    • If we were criticized harshly and punitively as a child, we may see criticism as hurtful and rejecting.

    Passive Responses to Criticism

    • May lead to feelings of hurt, confusion, and depression.
    • May agree with any criticism, whether valid or not.
    • May see criticism of behavior as a rejection of self.
    • Examples: "Yes you're right I am...., I'm useless, and I've got to stop" or laughing it off and criticizing oneself more.

    Aggressive Responses to Criticism

    • May lead to conflict, increased aggression, depression, and low self-esteem.
    • May hear criticism as a personal attack and become defensive.
    • May go on the attack themselves.
    • Example: "How dare you, I'm not late. You're the one who is always late."

    Assertive Responses to Criticism

    • Able to identify the difference between constructive and destructive criticism.
    • Responds appropriately without negative emotions.
    • Does not get defensive, angry, blaming, hurt, or run away.
    • Stays calm and accepts the criticism.

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