Questions and Answers
Why does Gogol choose to go to Columbia rather than MIT?
Gogol chose to go to Columbia rather than MIT because after 4 years at Yale, he didn't want to move back home to the only city that his parents knew.
When he visited New York for the first time, why did Gogol have 'no sense of what the city was like'?
He had no sense of what the city was like because when his parents went with him as a kid, they went to eat at an Indian restaurant and buy Indian clothes and gifts for people back in Calcutta. They never did any of the touristy stuff.
What is unusual about Maxine's first dinner invitation to Gogol?
Maxine moved back in with her parents after a love affair gone wrong, which Gogol finds endearingly old-fashioned.
How is the meal at Maxine's family's home different from one Gogol's mother would serve?
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When Lydia asks Gogol about Calcutta, what surprises him?
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Why does Gogol feel 'effortlessly incorporated into their lives'?
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What is the biggest difference between Gogol and Max?
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Why does Gogol feel 'that his immersion in Maxine's family is a betrayal of his own'?
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What are the restrictions Gogol tells Max before they go to his parents' home?
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Why is Gogol embarrassed at the meal his mother prepares?
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What is the last word Ashoke says to his son?
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How is the New Hampshire cabin 'an unknown world' to Gogol?
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How did Gogol's childhood vacations differ from this current vacation?
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What is the first offensive question that Pamela asks?
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Study Notes
Gogol's Choice and Background
- Gogol opts for Columbia over MIT to avoid returning home after spending four years at Yale.
- His childhood visit to New York was limited; his family focused on Indian culture without experiencing tourist attractions.
Maxine's Family Dynamics
- Maxine has moved back in with her parents after a failed relationship, which Gogol finds endearingly traditional.
- The dinner at Maxine's is less abundant than Gogol's mother's meals; her family's conversations are more casual, catching him off guard.
Perceptions of Calcutta
- Lydia surprises Gogol by inquiring if Calcutta is beautiful, contrary to his experiences where people focus on its poverty.
Integration into Maxine’s Family
- Gogol feels a sense of ease within Maxine's family due to their less formal hospitality compared to his parents, who prioritize maximum comfort for guests.
- The key difference between Gogol and Maxine is her acceptance of her life circumstances, while his parents exert pressure on him.
Feelings of Betrayal and Dependence
- Gogol feels that being part of Maxine's secure family is a betrayal to his own heritage and upbringing.
- Alone with Maxine, he feels dependent rather than adult because he lacks ownership over shared possessions in her home.
Conversations and Relationships
- Gogol outlines specific aspects of his family life to Maxine, and feels she loves him regardless of those traits.
- He experiences embarrassment at the effort and traditional dinner his mother prepares, highlighting a cultural divide.
Final Words and Security
- Ashoke’s last word to Gogol is the name 'Gogol,' mistakenly calling him instead of Nikhil.
- The New Hampshire cabin is a new experience for Gogol, contrasting with the constant security and locked doors of his parents' home.
Comparison of Vacations
- Childhood vacations involved trips to India and transient lodging, while this New Hampshire cabin represents a stable getaway visited annually.
Encounter with Racial Assumptions
- Pamela asks an offensive question about Gogol's immigration background, provoking annoyance due to her underlying racist assumptions regarding his identity.
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