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Where does Gogol pursue his undergraduate studies?
Where does Gogol pursue his undergraduate studies?
Yale
What decision does Gogol make about his name before leaving home?
What decision does Gogol make about his name before leaving home?
He is going to change his name to Nikhil
What reasons does Gogol give his parents for his decision to change his name?
What reasons does Gogol give his parents for his decision to change his name?
Gogol tells his parents it would be the same name they'd chosen for him when he was five.
What courses does Gogol take in his first semester at college?
What courses does Gogol take in his first semester at college?
Why doesn't Gogol tell his parents about the fifth course he takes in drawing?
Why doesn't Gogol tell his parents about the fifth course he takes in drawing?
What kind of career are Gogol's parents hoping he will choose?
What kind of career are Gogol's parents hoping he will choose?
To what field does the drawing class lead Gogol?
To what field does the drawing class lead Gogol?
Who does Gogol meet on the train between New Haven and Boston before Thanksgiving in his sophomore year?
Who does Gogol meet on the train between New Haven and Boston before Thanksgiving in his sophomore year?
Why does Gogol find his own upbringing 'bland' in comparison with Ruth's?
Why does Gogol find his own upbringing 'bland' in comparison with Ruth's?
What ensues after Thanksgiving break between Gogol and Ruth?
What ensues after Thanksgiving break between Gogol and Ruth?
How does Sonia seem to be more 'American' than Gogol was at her age?
How does Sonia seem to be more 'American' than Gogol was at her age?
How does Gogol's meeting with his cousin Amit give us a clear view of his conflict with his cultural identity?
How does Gogol's meeting with his cousin Amit give us a clear view of his conflict with his cultural identity?
Why does Gogol spend Thanksgiving of his senior year alone with his father?
Why does Gogol spend Thanksgiving of his senior year alone with his father?
What happens on Gogol's train ride to Boston that causes Ashoke to tell him the full history of his name?
What happens on Gogol's train ride to Boston that causes Ashoke to tell him the full history of his name?
How does Gogol react to the story his father tells him about his name?
How does Gogol react to the story his father tells him about his name?
Where does Nikhil get a graduate degree in architecture?
Where does Nikhil get a graduate degree in architecture?
How does Nikhil meet Maxine Ratliff, and how does their relationship transform his life?
How does Nikhil meet Maxine Ratliff, and how does their relationship transform his life?
What are Maxine's parents like compared to Nikhil's?
What are Maxine's parents like compared to Nikhil's?
Why does Nikhil believe that his immersion into Maxine's family is like a 'betrayal' of his own?
Why does Nikhil believe that his immersion into Maxine's family is like a 'betrayal' of his own?
How does the 'truth' of Nikhil's relationship with Maxine 'seep out'?
How does the 'truth' of Nikhil's relationship with Maxine 'seep out'?
What warnings does Nikhil give Maxine before they go to his parents' house?
What warnings does Nikhil give Maxine before they go to his parents' house?
How does Maxine's visit with Nikhil's parents turn out?
How does Maxine's visit with Nikhil's parents turn out?
Why doesn't Nikhil have nostalgia for the vacations he has been on with his family?
Why doesn't Nikhil have nostalgia for the vacations he has been on with his family?
How does Maxine hear Nikhil's pet name for the first time?
How does Maxine hear Nikhil's pet name for the first time?
How does Nikhil celebrate his 27th birthday?
How does Nikhil celebrate his 27th birthday?
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Study Notes
Gogol's Education and Name Change
- Gogol attends Yale for his undergraduate studies.
- Before leaving home, he decides to change his name to Nikhil.
- He tells his parents that Nikhil is the name they originally chose for him when he was five.
College Courses and Career Aspirations
- In his first semester, Gogol takes art history, medieval history, Spanish, and astronomy.
- He keeps a fifth course in drawing secret from his parents due to their belief that it is frivolous.
- His interest in drawing leads him to consider studying architecture.
Relationships and Cultural Identity
- Gogol meets Ruth, a fellow student with a unique upbringing, leading him to feel his own background is bland in comparison.
- Unlike Gogol, Sonia embraces her independence and American identity by altering her appearance and challenging family traditions.
- Gogol grapples with his cultural identity, realizing he embodies the term "ABCD" (American-Born Confused Deshi).
Family Dynamics and Name Significance
- Gogol spends Thanksgiving alone with his father as Ruth is no longer in his life, and his family is in India for a wedding.
- On a train ride, a suicide incident prompts Ashoke to share the full story behind Gogol's name, evoking feelings of betrayal in Gogol.
Graduate Studies and New Relationships
- Nikhil earns his architecture graduate degree from Columbia University, opting for New York over Boston.
- He meets Maxine Ratliff at a party, and their relationship profoundly impacts his worldview and sense of belonging.
Contrasts in Familial Relationships
- Maxine's family contrasts sharply with Gogol's, as they exhibit affection through material means, while his parents maintain a more traditional approach.
- Nikhil feels that his integration into Maxine's family is a betrayal of his own cultural roots.
Navigating Cultural Expectations and Relationships
- Gogol warns Maxine about the restrictions of visiting his family and their cultural customs.
- Maxine's visit unfolds positively, showcasing her adaptability and respect towards Gogol's family.
Reflection and Identity
- Spending time with Maxine's family, Nikhil realizes he feels no nostalgia for past family vacations, which he deems overwhelming.
- Maxine's discovery of Nikhil's pet name sparks a moment of endearment, highlighting the differences in cultural perceptions of names.
Personal Milestones
- Nikhil celebrates his 27th birthday at a lake with Maxine, reflecting on his father's absence and his mother's solitude at home.
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