Who You Are When No One's Looking Ch 3

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What is a key characteristic that contributes to the success of many people?

Charisma

Discipline (correct)

Wealth

Luck

According to Proverbs, what happens to those who disregard discipline?

They find happiness

They gain respect from others

They come to poverty and shame (correct)

They achieve freedom

What do many people find confusing about discipline?

The ability to avoid work completely

The exact definition of success

How to develop and practice it (correct)

Its relationship with wealth

What is essential for discipline to be achieved, based on the chapter?

The ability to delay gratification Signup and view all the answers

What is one common reason cited for personal failure among individuals who struggle with discipline?

Neglecting tasks and responsibilities Signup and view all the answers

What is the primary benefit of delaying gratification according to Scott Peck?

It enhances pleasure by experiencing pain first. Signup and view all the answers

Which scenario best exemplifies the principle of delayed gratification in parenting?

Engaging in activities that fulfill children's emotional needs despite personal sacrifice. Signup and view all the answers

What does 'advance decision making' encourage individuals to do?

Plan their actions thoroughly in advance. Signup and view all the answers

How does Bill relate delayed gratification to physical health?

Forgoing pleasures leads to benefits during weigh-ins and improved self-image. Signup and view all the answers

What outcome is likely from couples who fail to address conflicts early in their marriage?

Their unresolved issues will escalate, leading to unbearable discomfort. Signup and view all the answers

What does Bill identify as essential for maintaining discipline in exercise?

Making advance decisions about workout times Signup and view all the answers

In financial management, what is emphasized as a crucial element for success?

Creating a family budget in advance Signup and view all the answers

What does the acronym I.R.A. stand for in the context of spiritual growth?

Input, Reflection, and Abstinence Signup and view all the answers

How does Bill propose to ensure regular attendance at church services?

Making an advance commitment to attend each Sunday Signup and view all the answers

Which activity does the author believe contributes significantly to spiritual growth?

Engaging in daily personal reflection and prayer Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Discipline

People who are successful often have one common quality: discipline.
Discipline is essential for developing all areas of life.
Discipline requires delaying gratification.
Discipline involves advance decision making.

Delaying Gratification

Delaying gratification is the ability to forgo immediate pleasure for a greater reward in the future.
It means scheduling pain before pleasure.
It is a crucial aspect of parenting and personal growth.

Advance Decision Making

Advance decision making involves determining in advance how you will act.
Example: Deciding in advance that you will exercise regularly, regardless of how you feel on any given day.

Discipline in Different Areas of Life

Relationally: Parents need to make sacrifices to provide for their children's needs.
Relationally: Children learn delayed gratification when they finish their chores before enjoying leisure time.
Relationally: Couples who work hard on their marriage early on can reap the rewards of a fulfilling relationship later.
Physically: Achieving good physical health requires forgoing certain pleasures and engaging in strenuous activity.
Financially: Discipline in finances requires making conscious spending choices and sticking to a budget.
Spiritually: Spiritual discipline is crucial for spiritual growth.

Spiritual Discipline

Input: It's important to participate regularly in worship services.
Reflection: Dedicated time for personal interaction with God is essential.
Abstinence: Recognizing and avoiding personal pitfalls that hinder spiritual growth is critical.

Benefits of Discipline

Spiritual Discipline: A stable Christian life characterized by growth, usefulness, and contentment.
Relational Discipline: A flourishing family and strong relationships.
Physical Discipline: A fit body, energy, resistance to illness, and increased self-worth.
Financial Discipline: Freedom from debt and financial security.

Overcoming the Challenge of Discipline

God does not expect us to achieve discipline alone. Seek accountability from trusted friends.
The Holy Spirit provides assistance in developing discipline.

Conclusion

Discipline is essential for living a successful and fulfilling life.
It is a powerful tool that can help us achieve our goals and live a life of purpose.
Embrace the principle of delayed gratification and practice advance decision making to harness the power of discipline.

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This quiz explores the concept of discipline and its significance in various areas of life. It covers delayed gratification, advance decision making, and the impact of discipline on personal growth and relationships. Test your knowledge and understanding of how discipline shapes success.