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What is splitting?
What is splitting?
What is one of the main symptoms of BPD?
What is one of the main symptoms of BPD?
Why is splitting a form of self-sabotage?
Why is splitting a form of self-sabotage?
What is the purpose of emotion regulation techniques?
What is the purpose of emotion regulation techniques?
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What is the importance of recognizing the urge to split?
What is the importance of recognizing the urge to split?
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What is the importance of being a detective when determining if someone is toxic or if one is splitting?
What is the importance of being a detective when determining if someone is toxic or if one is splitting?
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What can help one become more aware and better manage the defense mechanism of splitting?
What can help one become more aware and better manage the defense mechanism of splitting?
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What is the self-fulfilling prophecy that can occur in relationships with those who use splitting?
What is the self-fulfilling prophecy that can occur in relationships with those who use splitting?
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What can fear of abandonment lead to in people with BPD?
What can fear of abandonment lead to in people with BPD?
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What is the importance of recognizing triggers even if a pattern of harm and mistreatment is observed?
What is the importance of recognizing triggers even if a pattern of harm and mistreatment is observed?
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What is the HALT technique used for?
What is the HALT technique used for?
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What is the importance of recognizing when one is triggered and wants to split someone into all good or all bad?
What is the importance of recognizing when one is triggered and wants to split someone into all good or all bad?
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Study Notes
Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder and Splitting: How to Recognize and Manage It
- People with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) tend to see others as all good or all bad, and relationships are often seen in black or white, all or nothing terms.
- Splitting is a defense mechanism commonly used by people with BPD, where they separate people into either all good or all bad.
- People in relationships with those who use splitting often see the BPD person as hurtful and bad, leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy.
- Splitting can be a form of self-sabotage, as it pushes people away and leads to isolation and loneliness.
- One of the main symptoms of BPD is fear of abandonment, which can lead to splitting as a way to protect oneself from getting hurt or feeling abandoned.
- Recognizing the urge to split and managing it is important to reduce self-harm and hatred towards oneself.
- Emotion regulation techniques, such as check the facts or using HALT (hungry, angry, lonely, tired), can help reduce vulnerability to emotional triggers.
- It is important to learn to recognize when one is triggered and wants to split someone into all good or all bad.
- To determine if someone is toxic or if one is splitting, it is important to be a detective and look for evidence to argue against the thought of always or never.
- If evidence can be found to support another way of thinking, it is possible that one is splitting.
- If a pattern of harm and mistreatment is observed, the person may be toxic, but recognizing triggers is still important.
- Paying attention to what upsets and triggers splitting can help one become more aware and better manage the defense mechanism.
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