Navigating Teen Challenges

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What feeling did the author experience during their first year of high school?

  • Excitement
  • Confidence
  • Awkwardness (correct)
  • Indifference

The author's closest friends all went to the same high school as them.

False (B)

What did the author miss most about their old school?

Their old teachers

The author understood the _______ in what the old teachers were saying, but took some comfort in it.

<p>psychology</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the author doing when the fire started at their house?

<p>Doing homework (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The cat was rescued by the author as an adult.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the author's mother run back into the burning house to retrieve?

<p>Pictures and letters of her deceased husband (the author's father)</p> Signup and view all the answers

A _______ wrapped a blanket around the author and sat them down in their car.

<p>fireman</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the fireman's reassurance to the author regarding their mother?

<p>&quot;She's going to be okay, she just inhaled a little smoke.&quot; (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author immediately found their cat after the fire was extinguished.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Where did the author and their mother spend the night after the fire?

<p>At the author's grandparents' house</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author had to borrow _______ from their aunt to wear to school.

<p>tennis shoes</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did the author feel going to school the day after the fire?

<p>Embarrassed (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author's schoolmates were unaware of the fire.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the author's schoolmates do to help after learning about the fire?

<p>Took up a collection and bought them school supplies and clothes.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author described the generosity of their schoolmates as feeling like ______.

<p>Christmas</p> Signup and view all the answers

What realization did the author have while watching their house being rebuilt?

<p>Their life was also being rebuilt. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author's cat was never found after the fire.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Who reunited the author with their cat?

<p>A woman (stranger)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author felt gratitude for their life, new friends, the kindness of a _______, and the loud purr of their beloved cat.

<p>stranger</p> Signup and view all the answers

Match each term with its correct definition, as understood from context:

<p>Stoking the fire = Adding fuel to keep a fire burning. Zombie = Describes someone who is dull or apathetic. Surreal = Describes something with a strange or bizarre quality. Milling around = Moving about aimlessly, often in a confused way.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Initially, how does the author react to the encouragement from their old teachers?

<p>They understand the underlying intent but it only offers limited comfort. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Describe the item the mother heroically saved from the fire.

<p>The mother heroically saved a small metal box full of important documents.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The support from schoolmates arrived before the author's visit to the remains of their house.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Prior to the fire, the author's red tabby cat was typically found _______.

<p>lying on top of all my papers</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following best describes the author's emotional state immediately after realizing the cat was missing?

<p>Horror (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author's mother insisted on staying home from school the day after the fire.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the first thing the author noticed about the schoolmates' behavior that seemed strange?

<p>People were milling around, asking the author to hurry up.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author says that all the overwhelming feelings of loss and tragedy seemed to _______.

<p>diminish</p> Signup and view all the answers

Match the character to their defining behaviour.

<p>The Author = Experiences awkwardness and loss, but grows through support and friendship. The Mother = Acts heroically to save precious documents despite the danger. The Fireman = Offers comfort and reassurance during the crisis. The Schoolmates = Show unexpected kindness through their collective generosity.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which event is the greatest contributor to the author's initial sense of isolation?

<p>Starting at a new, larger high school where closest friends did not attend. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author felt they had nothing to do once everything had been rebuilt.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How far away did the house cat travel after being freaked by the house fire?

<p>Over a mile away</p> Signup and view all the answers

The author describes walking around school like a _______.

<p>zombie</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why was the author missing her cat in the mornings?

<p>In the early morning when the author would disturb her and get out of bed, she would tag along after me, climb up my robe and crawl into my pocket to fall asleep. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The woman who returned the cat lived locally.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why did the author stop focusing on feelings of insecurity?

<p>It took a fire for the author to open up to all the wonderful people around me</p> Signup and view all the answers

The school was _______ as big as the author's old school.

<p>twice</p> Signup and view all the answers

Insanely difficult: After the fire, what specific piece of information on the cat’s collar ultimately led to its return, considering the circumstances?

<p>The phone number, even though the author's phones were destroyed and disconnected. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Insanely difficult: The author had a series of losses, from tangible items to feelings of security. Which loss, according to the text, triggered the most immediate and visceral emotional response?

<p>The loss of the cat. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Author's Initial High School Experience

Feeling awkward as a freshman in a much larger high school after being at the top in junior high.

Coping Strategy

Visiting old teachers for encouragement and to get involved in school activities to meet new people.

Initial Sign of Danger

Smoke pouring in through the seams of the ceiling while doing homework.

Extent of Fire

The roof was engulfed in flames and spreading quickly.

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Mother's Actions

Running back into the burning house to save pictures and letters of the deceased father.

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Firefighter's Role

Firefighters prevented the author from running into the house and rescued the mother.

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Immediate Aftermath

The house was almost completely burned down, and the cat was missing.

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Emotional Impact

Suffering loss, big time, and breaking down in tears.

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Next-Day Challenges

Attending school the next day in borrowed clothes and without books, feeling embarrassed.

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Kindness

A big table set up with school supplies and clothes collected by schoolmates.

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Cat's Return

A woman found the cat and returned her to the author.

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Author's Feelings

Gratitude for life, new friends, kindness, and the cat's return.

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Study Notes

  • This story reflects the challenges of being a teenager and the problems of growing up.
  • The story explores how the author overcomes these challenges.

Awkward Beginnings

  • The author felt his first year of high school was awkward.
  • Leaving junior high with seniority to start over as a freshman felt strange.
  • The new school was twice as big as the old one, and his closest friends went to a different high school, leaving him feeling very isolated.
  • He missed his old teachers and would visit them, receiving encouragement to get involved in school activities.
  • The teachers assured him he would adjust and possibly love the new school more than the old one, asking him to promise to still visit.
  • He understood the psychology behind their words, finding some comfort in them.

A Sunday Afternoon Disaster

  • One Sunday afternoon, not long after starting high school, the author was doing homework at the dining-room table.
  • It was a cold and windy fall day, with a fire going in the fireplace.
  • His red tabby cat was lying on his papers, purring and swatting at his pen.
  • He had rescued the cat as a kitten, and she always stayed close.
  • His mother was stoking the fire when they smelled something strange and noticed smoke pouring in through the ceiling.
  • Smoke quickly filled the room, reducing visibility.

Escape and Loss

  • The family groped their way to the front door and ran into the front yard.
  • The roof was engulfed in flames, spreading rapidly.
  • He ran to the neighbors to call the fire department while his mother ran back inside.
  • His mother emerged carrying a small metal box of important documents, dropped it, and ran back in for pictures and letters of his deceased father.
  • He screamed at her not to go back in.
  • A fireman held him back as fire trucks arrived.
  • He tried to free himself, yelling that his mother was inside.
  • Other firefighters ran into the house, and one wrapped him in a blanket.
  • The fireman knew he wasn't acting logically and would run in if released.
  • The fireman said, "It's all right, they'll get her."
  • He wrapped in a blanket and the author sat down in the car.

Aftermath

  • A fireman soon emerged with his mother, who was given an oxygen mask.
  • He ran and hugged her, his anger vanished at the thought of losing her.
  • The fireman said she would be okay, having only inhaled a little smoke, and went back to fight the fire.
  • He watched his house burn, feeling helpless.
  • Five hours later, the fire was out but the house was almost completely burned down.
  • He realized his cat was missing.
  • He broke down in tears, suffering great loss and grief.
  • The firemen wouldn't allow them back in the house that night due to the danger.
  • They piled into the car with only the clothes on their backs and some blankets, heading to his grandparents' house.

Monday at School

  • The next day, Monday, he went to school wearing the dress clothes he wore to church, without shoes.
  • He had to borrow tennis shoes from his aunt because his were lost in the fire.
  • He was embarrassed by his weird clothes, lack of books or homework, and missing backpack.
  • All of his security from his old school, friends, house, and cat had been ripped away.
  • He felt like a zombie and wanted to curl up and die.

Shock and Grief

  • Walking through the remains of his house after school, he was shocked by the damage.
  • What hadn't burned was destroyed by water and chemicals.
  • The only items salvaged were photo albums, documents, and some personal things his mother rescued.
  • His cat was still missing, intensifying his heartache.
  • There was no time to grieve; his mother rushed him to find a place to live and buy school clothes.
  • They had to borrow money from his grandparents because all their credit cards, cash, and identification were gone.
  • The rubble was cleared that week, and he watched in hopes of finding his cat, missing her terribly.

Unexpected Support

  • Everyone at school knew about the fire.
  • He felt embarrassed, as if somehow responsible, disliking the attention.
  • The next day, people acted strangely, hurrying him to gym class.
  • A big table was set up with school supplies and clothes.

Community

  • His schoolmates had taken up a collection and bought him notebooks, clothes.
  • He was overcome with emotion.
  • People who had never spoken to him introduced themselves and invited him to their houses.
  • Their concern touched him, making him feel okay for the first time.

Recovery

  • A month later, he watched his house being rebuilt with two new friends.
  • The fire helped him open up and stop focusing on his insecurities.
  • He realized that through watching his house being rebuilt, he realized his life doing the same thing.
  • Planning his new bedroom, and he heard someone ask, "Does this belong to you?"
  • A woman holding his cat, who had run over a mile away during the fire.

Reunion

  • He grabbed his cat out of the woman's arms, crying into her fur as she purred.
  • His friends hugged him and the cat.
  • The woman had found the cat and worked hard to locate the owners and knew she was loved.
  • The feelings of loss diminished as his cat curled up in his lap.
  • He felt gratitude for his life, new friends, a stranger's kindness, and his beloved cat and he was back.

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