10 things I wish I knew about High School

Introduction to High School

• High school can be an amazing time but also extremely tough.
• An incoming freshman at Harvard College is the speaker.
• Despite switching schools in junior year, the speaker enjoyed high school.
• The speaker was ASB president, valedictorian, and prom queen.

Friendships

• The people you initially expect to be friends with might not be the ones you ultimately connect with.
• First impressions can be deceiving; be open to giving people a chance.
• Be receptive to meeting new individuals, but avoid oversharing too early on.
• Strong and lasting relationships require time and nurturing to develop.
• The friends you least anticipate becoming close to can often turn into the best ones.

Saying No

• It is important to develop the ability to decline requests and assert yourself.
• Don't allow others to exploit or take advantage of you, especially for academic assistance like homework or test answers.
• Peer pressure is a common experience in high school; prioritize your own well-being and commitments.
• Value yourself and prioritize your own needs and interests.

Time Management

• Effective time management is essential to prevent late nights and maintain a healthy sleep schedule.
• Maximize productivity by completing homework during school hours, utilizing breaks efficiently, and maintaining focus while studying.
• Everyone has the same 24 hours each day, but productivity levels can vary significantly.
• Prioritize tasks and recognize the value of your time.
• Adequate sleep is essential.
• Break the cycle of sleeping late and being unproductive by getting sufficient rest.
• Aim to go to sleep before midnight to optimize brain function.

Difficult Classes

• With determination and the right approach, any subject can be mastered.
• Prioritize asking questions and employing effective study techniques.
• Honors Chemistry and AP Physics were initially challenging but were eventually mastered through self-directed study.
• Make a proactive effort to fully grasp challenging concepts.
• Seek assistance from teachers, classmates, or online resources.
• Ensure a thorough understanding of subjects to build confidence when taking exams.

Relationships

• Cultivate positive relationships with both classmates and adults within the school environment.
• Smiling and demonstrating kindness can have a positive influence on others.
• Avoid severing connections prematurely, as future needs may arise.

Caring About Others' Opinions

• Try not to be overly concerned with the opinions of others.
• Pursue your dreams and goals, regardless of external criticism or judgment.
• The remarks of others will not determine your future; your actions hold the true power.

Teachers

• Strive to create positive relationships with your teachers.
• Positive teacher relationships can impact grades and recommendation letters.
• Show respect to your teachers, regardless of personal feelings towards them.
• There is always something valuable to be learned from teachers.
• Take initiative by smiling, paying attention, asking questions, and completing assignments.

Quantity vs Quality

• Quantity does not guarantee quality.
• Strive for a balance between the amount of activities and the quality of engagement.
• Be involved in activities but also strive for excellence in chosen pursuits.
• A leadership role holds more value than passive membership in numerous clubs.
• If overextended, reduce commitments by cutting back on certain activities.
• Direct efforts toward activities that you enjoy most and excel in.

Having Fun

• High school presents a prime opportunity for enjoyment and memorable experiences.
• Build friendships, embrace enjoyable moments, and be open to new experiences.
• Embrace the present, create memories, and savor this unique period of life.

Tough Times

• Difficult periods are inevitable, but they are temporary.
• Minor setbacks will seem insignificant after graduation.
• High school represents a brief chapter of your entire life.
• Even amid difficulties, resilience is key.
• Work hard, study diligently, have fun, and try not to be overly concerned.