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The author expresses consistent judgment towards the recipient for preferring someone of their age, indicating a lack of understanding.
The author expresses consistent judgment towards the recipient for preferring someone of their age, indicating a lack of understanding.
False (B)
The author was hesitant about the prospect of moving in and starting a new life with the recipient, primarily due to familial obligations.
The author was hesitant about the prospect of moving in and starting a new life with the recipient, primarily due to familial obligations.
False (B)
The author claims that the recipient has never engaged in intentionally unpleasant communication as a tactic to maintain the relationship.
The author claims that the recipient has never engaged in intentionally unpleasant communication as a tactic to maintain the relationship.
False (B)
The author suggests that the recipient's friend was supportive and encouraging regarding the age gap between the author and the recipient.
The author suggests that the recipient's friend was supportive and encouraging regarding the age gap between the author and the recipient.
The author readily agreed to wait until they were older to pursue the relationship to alleviate the recipient's concerns about legality and social perception.
The author readily agreed to wait until they were older to pursue the relationship to alleviate the recipient's concerns about legality and social perception.
The author implies they have been forthcoming and honest with their mother regarding their intentions and plans with the recipient.
The author implies they have been forthcoming and honest with their mother regarding their intentions and plans with the recipient.
The recipient consistently had a well-defined strategy for incorporating the author into their life, demonstrating foresight and planning.
The recipient consistently had a well-defined strategy for incorporating the author into their life, demonstrating foresight and planning.
The author's primary reason for not wanting to wait is due to a diminishing of affection for the recipient.
The author's primary reason for not wanting to wait is due to a diminishing of affection for the recipient.
Flashcards
Relationship Paranoia
Relationship Paranoia
Feeling deeply frightened by the consequences of a relationship, especially regarding age differences.
Trauma Influence
Trauma Influence
Experiencing past emotional harm that continues to affect current decisions and feelings.
Leading On
Leading On
To entice or manipulate someone, especially with the expectation of a future relationship.
Elaborate Plan
Elaborate Plan
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Deep Sadness
Deep Sadness
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Hurtful Language
Hurtful Language
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Punishing by Waiting
Punishing by Waiting
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Being Scared
Being Scared
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Study Notes
- The author feels misunderstood and is not judging the recipient for wanting someone their age.
- They were looking forward to moving in and starting a new life away from their traumatic family situation.
- The author states they have been groomed to be with someone like the recipient, so they don't understand the paranoia.
- The author questions why the recipient would punish them by making them wait, especially since the recipient has been with someone similarly aged before and has many options for partners over 18.
- The author expresses fear of the recipient, who says disgusting things to keep them around, which is driving them away.
- The author suggests this situation started because of the recipient's friend warning them about the author's age, based on a previous relationship.
- The author feels led on because the recipient said things would be fine but never had a solid plan for them to be together.
- The author is now free to live with the recipient but the recipient does not want to.
- The author was willing to lie to their mother, create a plan, and document it.
- Now the recipient wants to do things legally, which is why the author does not want to wait.
- The author says it's not because they don't love the recipient or are scared of their mother, but because they were groomed to marry an older man.
- The author feels they have shown they want the recipient, but the recipient only says it.
- The author is pointing out that how this ends shows how the recipient wanted to do it from the beginning.
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Description
The author feels misunderstood after anticipating a new life with the recipient. They express confusion over the recipient's change of heart, especially given past relationships. The author reveals fear and feeling led on due to unmet expectations and unsettling comments.
