Lesson 3: Understanding Friendship

Lesson 3: Friendship

• This lesson focuses on the concept of friendship.

Objectives

• Identify the positive effects of good friendships.
• Understand that friendships shape identity and character, promoting peaceful relationships based on genuine connection and love.
• Learn ways to strengthen friendships.

What is a Friend?

• A friend is someone you know well, like a lot, but who isn't a member of your family.
• According to Aristotle, a friend is like your "second self," someone close to you who reflects your positive qualities.

Three Types of Friendship (According to Aristotle)

• Friendship of Utility: Based on mutual benefit. This type of friendship is often practical, but it's also temporary; it lasts as long as the benefits exist.
  • Example: Classmates helping each other with schoolwork
• Friendship of Pleasure: Based on shared happiness and enjoyment, usually through shared activities or hobbies. This type of friendship is often temporary.
  • Example: Friends who enjoy playing video games together
• Friendship of Virtue: Based on goodness, respect, trust, and appreciation. This is the longest-lasting and strongest kind of friendship.
  • Example: Best friends who support each other through challenges and celebrate successes

The Importance of Good Friendship (American Psychology Association)

• Boosts mental health
• Reduces stress
• Improves physical health
• Increases longevity

Things to Strengthen Friendship

• Be grateful
• Be kind
• Engage in meaningful conversations
• Be reliable

A True Friend is...

• Loyal
• Understanding
• Patient

Loyalty in Friendship

• Loyalty involves faithfulness, support, and commitment to friends through both good and difficult times.
• It also includes keeping promises, respecting boundaries, defending friends when needed, and celebrating their successes without envy.