I Stand Here Ironing Flashcards

Study Notes

Narrator

A mother that reveals the struggles of parenting, particularly in low-income households.
Emphasizes heartbreak, lack of control, and feelings of hopelessness.
Challenges the notion of the "ideal mother" who is self-denying and long-suffering.

Emily

Central character, depicted through the narrator's fractured memories.
Appears as a "forgotten child" with a serious demeanor yet possesses a surprising talent for comedy.
Represents a bleak outcome of neglect and emotional disconnect within the family dynamic.

Susan

Fourteen-year-old daughter of the narrator, described as articulate and confident.
Contrasts with Emily, showcasing clumsiness and self-centeredness, leading to sibling rivalry.
Emily harbors feelings of resentment towards Susan for embodying traits she lacks.

Ronnie

The narrator's infant son and part of a larger family of five children.
His presence interrupts the narrator's reflections on Emily, symbolizing hope and the possibility of redemption.
Represents a chance for the narrator to correct past mistakes in parenting.

Bill

The narrator's second husband, portrayed as a peripheral figure within the family structure.
Mentioned briefly, indicating limited involvement in family matters.

Theme: The Unspoken Burdens of Motherhood

Societal expectations of selflessness hinder personal exploration and fulfillment for mothers.
Narrator critiques the glorified view of motherhood, particularly the child-parent bond.
Recognizes her limitations in understanding Emily's struggles, paralleling a teacher's inability to connect.
Emphasizes her role as a poorly equipped survivor of circumstance rather than an intentional neglecter of her children.

Theme: The Nature of Guilt and Regret

Narrator's meditation on her failures as a mother creates a sense of spiritual defeat.
Acknowledges poverty as a significant influence, while also accepting her role in Emily's hardships.
Reflects on her past decisions, generating feelings of guilt and a painful self-assessment.
Emily elicits deeper regret than her other children, being the first child born into an unstable environment.

Symbols: The Iron

Represents the mundane responsibilities that distract the narrator from meaningful engagement with Emily.
The repetitive action of ironing mirrors the narrator's attempt to process her parenting journey.
Illustrates the emotional distance from Emily, focusing more on physical chores than emotional connection.
Conveys a desire for Emily to develop self-worth beyond superficial appearances.

Symbols: The Convalescent Home

Symbolizes the narrator's failure to affect change in Emily's life, particularly regarding her health.
Reflects the broader themes of abandonment and emotional struggle within the family dynamic.

Description

Explore key concepts from the short story 'I Stand Here Ironing' through flashcards. This quiz focuses on the main characters, their roles, and the themes presented in the narrative. Gain a deeper understanding of motherhood and socio-economic challenges through engaging definitions.