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What is the author’s primary reason for seeking to change his hair?
What is the author’s primary reason for seeking to change his hair?
What does the author’s comparison of his hair to ‘stabbing a pitchfork into a bed of crabgrass’ reveal about his hair?
What does the author’s comparison of his hair to ‘stabbing a pitchfork into a bed of crabgrass’ reveal about his hair?
What does the author’s reaction to the suggestion of cornrows reveal about his attitude towards his hair?
What does the author’s reaction to the suggestion of cornrows reveal about his attitude towards his hair?
From the author’s perspective, what is the most significant difference between the first and second salon he visits?
From the author’s perspective, what is the most significant difference between the first and second salon he visits?
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What is the author's primary revelation about the experience of getting his hair relaxed?
What is the author's primary revelation about the experience of getting his hair relaxed?
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What literary function does the setting of the salons, primarily women-occupied spaces, serve in the narrative?
What literary function does the setting of the salons, primarily women-occupied spaces, serve in the narrative?
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Why does the author believe he waited too long for the relaxer to be rinsed out?
Why does the author believe he waited too long for the relaxer to be rinsed out?
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What is the author’s primary purpose for including this personal experience with hair relaxing?
What is the author’s primary purpose for including this personal experience with hair relaxing?
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What may have contributed to the girl's reluctance to go to the dance?
What may have contributed to the girl's reluctance to go to the dance?
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How did the protagonist attempt to communicate with the girl?
How did the protagonist attempt to communicate with the girl?
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What was the result of the protagonist's efforts to find someone who spoke Pedi?
What was the result of the protagonist's efforts to find someone who spoke Pedi?
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What does the kiss at the end of the evening signify for the protagonist?
What does the kiss at the end of the evening signify for the protagonist?
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How did the protagonist feel after the kiss?
How did the protagonist feel after the kiss?
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What was the main setting where the protagonist spent the majority of the evening?
What was the main setting where the protagonist spent the majority of the evening?
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What does the protagonist realize about his ability to hold a conversation?
What does the protagonist realize about his ability to hold a conversation?
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What feeling overcame the protagonist as he drove the girl home after the dance?
What feeling overcame the protagonist as he drove the girl home after the dance?
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What is a significant contrast emphasized in the passage regarding the narrator's appearance?
What is a significant contrast emphasized in the passage regarding the narrator's appearance?
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Which of the following themes is NOT explicitly addressed in the passage?
Which of the following themes is NOT explicitly addressed in the passage?
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Which of the following is NOT explicitly a reason for the narrator’s disappointment?
Which of the following is NOT explicitly a reason for the narrator’s disappointment?
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The imagery of the “ugly duckling” transformation is used to highlight which aspect of the narrator’s experience?
The imagery of the “ugly duckling” transformation is used to highlight which aspect of the narrator’s experience?
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What is the significance of the narrator's purchase of beer for Abel?
What is the significance of the narrator's purchase of beer for Abel?
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Which of the following BEST describes the narrator's emotional state as he begs Abel for the car?
Which of the following BEST describes the narrator's emotional state as he begs Abel for the car?
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Which statement BEST describes the change in the narrative's tone between the beginning and end?
Which statement BEST describes the change in the narrative's tone between the beginning and end?
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What is the most likely reason Abel’s actions disappointed the narrator?
What is the most likely reason Abel’s actions disappointed the narrator?
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Which of the following best describes the narrator's initial reaction to Babiki?
Which of the following best describes the narrator's initial reaction to Babiki?
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What does the narrator suggest about Babiki's family through the phrase "They’re as poor as most other black people"?
What does the narrator suggest about Babiki's family through the phrase "They’re as poor as most other black people"?
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How does the narrator depict Tom's role in the group?
How does the narrator depict Tom's role in the group?
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What is the significance of the narrator's statement "I was like, Yeah, I’ve got a girlfriend. Cool."?
What is the significance of the narrator's statement "I was like, Yeah, I’ve got a girlfriend. Cool."?
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Which of the following best describes the narrator's feelings as the dance approaches?
Which of the following best describes the narrator's feelings as the dance approaches?
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How does the narrator's perspective on himself change throughout the story?
How does the narrator's perspective on himself change throughout the story?
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What is the primary purpose of the narrator's description of Babiki's family and friends?
What is the primary purpose of the narrator's description of Babiki's family and friends?
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What is the most likely reason the narrator feels nervous about the dance?
What is the most likely reason the narrator feels nervous about the dance?
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What was the deal Tom struck with the narrator?
What was the deal Tom struck with the narrator?
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What was Tom's motivation for setting up the narrator with his date?
What was Tom's motivation for setting up the narrator with his date?
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What does the phrase "Tom was never dating them, but he talked a good game, and was always around them." suggest about Tom?
What does the phrase "Tom was never dating them, but he talked a good game, and was always around them." suggest about Tom?
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What does the phrase "I knew Tom was full of shit, but the thing that makes a con man successful is that he never gives you nothing.He delivers just enough to keep you believing." reveal about the narrator's perspective?
What does the phrase "I knew Tom was full of shit, but the thing that makes a con man successful is that he never gives you nothing.He delivers just enough to keep you believing." reveal about the narrator's perspective?
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What is the significance of the narrator's reaction, "Oh, Tom.I see what you’ve done here.Nicely played." ?
What is the significance of the narrator's reaction, "Oh, Tom.I see what you’ve done here.Nicely played." ?
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What does the physical description of the woman in the living room suggest about Tom's actions?
What does the physical description of the woman in the living room suggest about Tom's actions?
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What is the central irony of the story?
What is the central irony of the story?
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What is the main theme of the story?
What is the main theme of the story?
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What is the most likely reason why Babiki was upset at the beginning of the story?
What is the most likely reason why Babiki was upset at the beginning of the story?
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Which statement best characterizes Trevor's feelings throughout the story?
Which statement best characterizes Trevor's feelings throughout the story?
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Which detail most emphasizes the contrast between Trevor's initial expectations and the reality of the date?
Which detail most emphasizes the contrast between Trevor's initial expectations and the reality of the date?
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How does the use of the word "no" by Babiki contribute to the overall tone of the story?
How does the use of the word "no" by Babiki contribute to the overall tone of the story?
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What is the most likely reason for Bongani’s sudden disinterest in helping Trevor with Babiki?
What is the most likely reason for Bongani’s sudden disinterest in helping Trevor with Babiki?
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Given the interaction with Bongani, what is the most probable conclusion regarding the nature of Babiki's attitude towards Trevor?
Given the interaction with Bongani, what is the most probable conclusion regarding the nature of Babiki's attitude towards Trevor?
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What is the main driving force behind the other men's sudden excitement and interest in Babiki?
What is the main driving force behind the other men's sudden excitement and interest in Babiki?
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Which statement most accurately summarizes the author's overall tone in the telling of this story?
Which statement most accurately summarizes the author's overall tone in the telling of this story?
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Flashcards
Tom's Deal
Tom's Deal
An agreement between Tom and the narrator to find a date for the dance in exchange for CD sales.
Con Man Strategies
Con Man Strategies
Tactics used by con men to keep their targets believing in their schemes.
Lerato
Lerato
Tom's intended setup; the sister of the girl the narrator was meant to date.
Babiki
Babiki
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Narrator's Doubt
Narrator's Doubt
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City Adventure
City Adventure
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Run-down flats
Run-down flats
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Beautiful Woman Theme
Beautiful Woman Theme
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Babiki's Appearance
Babiki's Appearance
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Narrator's Insecurity
Narrator's Insecurity
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Group Dates
Group Dates
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Tom's Role
Tom's Role
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Cultural Differences
Cultural Differences
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Amabhujua Lifestyle
Amabhujua Lifestyle
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Nervousness Before the Dance
Nervousness Before the Dance
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Physical Affection
Physical Affection
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Michael Jackson Afro
Michael Jackson Afro
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Cornrows
Cornrows
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Chemical relaxer
Chemical relaxer
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Hair salon experience
Hair salon experience
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Scalp burn
Scalp burn
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Beauty standards
Beauty standards
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Going straight
Going straight
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Physical discomfort for beauty
Physical discomfort for beauty
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Cornrow Hair
Cornrow Hair
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Makeover Scene
Makeover Scene
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Self-Image Change
Self-Image Change
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Mother's Reaction
Mother's Reaction
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Abel's Drunkenness
Abel's Drunkenness
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BMW Promise
BMW Promise
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Crushed Feelings
Crushed Feelings
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Night of the Dance
Night of the Dance
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Panic on the Date
Panic on the Date
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Babiki's Mood
Babiki's Mood
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Getting Lost
Getting Lost
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Convincing Babiki
Convincing Babiki
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Bongani's Reaction
Bongani's Reaction
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Crowd at the Car
Crowd at the Car
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Narrator's Self-Perception
Narrator's Self-Perception
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Gentlemanly Behavior
Gentlemanly Behavior
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Communication Barrier
Communication Barrier
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Cultural Background
Cultural Background
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Social Anxiety at Events
Social Anxiety at Events
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Awkward Silence
Awkward Silence
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First Impressions
First Impressions
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Desire to Connect
Desire to Connect
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Unexpected Affection
Unexpected Affection
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Navigating Relationships
Navigating Relationships
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Study Notes
South African Languages
- South Africa has eleven official languages
- English is the international language and used in business and media
- Afrikaans is also widely spoken, and minority groups didn't want to feel left out
- Zulu has the largest number of native speakers, but other languages also have significant numbers of speakers
- The presence of multiple languages creates challenges in communication
- Many people speak at least some English and Afrikaans in cities
Young Man's Education in Affairs of the Heart
- The author became a "mogul" by running a successful tuck shop and later selling pirated CDs.
- He obtained a computer to surf the internet and play games
- He had little interest in dating while focused on online activities, such as online porn and chat rooms.
- He wanted to go to the matric dance, but was uncertain about how to approach the experience given his existing knowledge of American movies
- He had a business deal with two middlemen named Bongani and Tom to sell CDs copied by him
- He encountered a young woman named Babiki that he wanted to go to the dance with
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Explore the author's insights and experiences regarding hair relaxation in this quiz. Delve into the significance of hair, cultural attitudes, and personal revelations as reflected in various salon visits. Test your understanding of the themes and literary devices used in the narrative.