Effective Communication in Relationships
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What primarily contributes to family violence according to the Social Stress and Social Learning model?

  • Financial incentives for violent behavior
  • The cultural approval of violence by society
  • Structural stress and cultural norms (correct)
  • Gender inequality and dominance
  • Which of the following best defines emotional abuse?

  • Neglecting a person's emotional needs
  • Using physical force to control a person’s actions
  • Threatening or humiliating a person to instill fear and control (correct)
  • Forcing a person into unwanted sexual activities
  • In the context of intimate partner violence, which of these forms is NOT included?

  • Harassment by co-workers (correct)
  • Sexual violence
  • Physical harm
  • Psychological harm
  • What is the main focus of the Feminist Model in understanding violence?

    <p>Gender inequality and cultural concepts of dominance (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which statement describes stalking correctly?

    <p>It includes repeated and unwanted communication or appearance. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of Gottman's Four Horsemen is considered the greatest indicator of the end of a relationship?

    <p>Contempt (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Effective communication in relationships is characterized by which of the following?

    <p>Agreement between verbal and nonverbal messages (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What type of power in relationships is based on personal attributes or characteristics?

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    Which conflict style involves prioritizing one's own needs over others?

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    Which of the following is NOT considered a healthy way to manage conflict?

    <p>Blaming the partner (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Why do financial conflicts commonly occur between couples?

    <p>Different goals and values regarding money (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    In terms of power dynamics, which type refers to how power shifts based on interaction?

    <p>Relational power (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What common area of conflict might arise from differing expectations about family involvement?

    <p>Family (in-laws) (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What type of intimate partner violence usually occurs during an argument and does not lead to serious injury?

    <p>Situational Couple Violence (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which strategy aims to stop relationship abuse before it occurs?

    <p>Breaking the cycle of violence (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the definition of alimony?

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    Which category of divorce involves managing child custody and visitation issues?

    <p>Co-parental divorce (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Who is more likely to remarry after divorce?

    <p>Initiators (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What defines violent resistance in intimate partner violence?

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    What type of divorce does not assign blame to either party?

    <p>No-Fault Divorce (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of the following is NOT a prevention strategy for relationship abuse?

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    What is the process of separation referred to as?

    <p>Uncoupling (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the economic divorce concerned with?

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    What is a common outcome for children during the initial crisis stage of divorce?

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    Which type of custody arrangement allows both parents to make decisions regarding their child's legal and educational needs?

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    What tends to occur during the transition and short-term aftermath stage post-divorce?

    <p>Family dynamics begin to stabilize (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    In what situation is divorce considered to be best for children?

    <p>In high conflict relationships (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which factor is often significant for adolescents coping with parental separation?

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    How do the divorce rates of first marriages compare to those of subsequent marriages?

    <p>They increase for later marriages (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which emotional response might younger children exhibit during their parent's divorce?

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    What is the rarest custody arrangement among the options listed?

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    What is the primary definition of time poverty?

    <p>Not having enough time to do everything (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How has the division of household labor changed in recent decades?

    <p>Men are doing more and women are doing less, but the burden still falls on women (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the term 'mental load' refer to in household management?

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    What is a benefit of sharing household labor in relationships?

    <p>Higher relationship satisfaction for women (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of the following best describes 'fixed expenses'?

    <p>Regularly occurring expenses that remain constant (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which statement is true regarding relationship violence?

    <p>It is about power and control (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the percentage of income model for managing finances require?

    <p>Each partner pays expenses proportional to their income (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which explanation is associated with the understanding of family violence from an individualistic perspective?

    <p>It may be linked to mental health and substance abuse (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is a characteristic of single-parent families headed by women?

    <p>They are more likely to experience low income or poverty. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of the following describes intentional single-parent families?

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    What defines a binuclear family?

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    During which developmental stage do family members realize their family has changed?

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    Which statement accurately reflects the odds of remarrying for men and women?

    <p>Men are more likely to remarry, while women's odds decrease with age. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is a common experience for preteens in blended families?

    <p>They seek more independence and may resent the stepparent. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which benefit might children gain from being in a blended or stepfamily?

    <p>New siblings and additional extended kin. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What can be expected during the contact stage of stepfamily development?

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    What role does a social father play in a family?

    <p>A male relative or family associate acting like a father. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of the following is NOT a way that single-parent families can be created?

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    Flashcards

    Gottman's Four Horseman

    Four communication patterns that are strong predictors of relationship failure.

    Contempt

    Expressing disgust or disrespect towards one's partner, the most dangerous of the Four Horseman; often the biggest sign of an impending breakup.

    Effective Communication

    Verbal and nonverbal communication styles align; both message content and relationship context match.

    Power in relationships

    Influence within a relationship regarding decisions, behaviors, and dynamics.

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    Relational Power

    The influence that power shifts depending on the circumstances and interactions in the relationship.

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    Conflict Styles

    Different approaches to handling disagreements, ranging from prioritizing one's needs (competing) to fostering collaboration (collaborating).

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    Financial Conflicts

    Disagreements often stemming from differing financial goals, values or lifestyles and economic pressures.

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    Dual-income Households

    Couples where both partners work; the frequency has remained fairly stable in recent decades.

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    Power and Control Wheel

    A tool used to understand different types of abuse and how they work together to control a partner. It includes eight categories: Coercion and Threats, Intimidation, Emotional Abuse, Isolation, Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming, Using Children, Economic Abuse.

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    Emotional Abuse

    A form of abuse that involves attacking a person's self-esteem, isolating them from others, and controlling their behavior. It can include threats, intimidation, humiliation, social isolation, withholding resources, and controlling what a person can and cannot do.

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    Intimate Partner Violence

    Physical, sexual, or emotional harm inflicted by a current or former partner or spouse. It's not just physical violence, but also involves emotional and psychological abuse.

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    Stalking

    Harassing or threatening behavior that makes a person feel afraid or unsafe. It can involve unwanted calls, messages, appearing at the person's home or work, and online harassment.

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    Child Abuse

    Intentional physical or emotional harm to a child. It can include physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, and neglect.

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    Time Poverty

    The feeling of not having enough time to do everything you need or want to do.

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    Mental Load

    The invisible mental work of planning, organizing, and managing household tasks and responsibilities.

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    Shared/Joint Finances

    A financial system where both partners have access to and control over all income and expenses through a single account.

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    Split Finances

    A financial system where each partner manages their own money and expenses separately.

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    Equal Splitting

    A financial system where shared expenses are split equally between partners, while individual expenses are managed separately.

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    Percentage of Income

    A financial system where partners contribute to shared expenses based on their individual income proportions.

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    Fixed Expenses

    Expenses that remain consistent each month, such as rent, mortgage payments, or insurance premiums.

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    Variable Expenses

    Expenses that can fluctuate from month to month, such as groceries, entertainment, or utilities.

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    Situational Couple Violence

    Violence that occurs during an argument and doesn't usually result in serious injury. It's often impulsive and doesn't reflect a pattern of control.

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    Intimate Terrorism

    One partner uses violence and control tactics to dominate and intimidate the other, often creating a pattern of fear and isolation.

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    Violent Resistance

    Violence used by a partner as self-defense against an abusive partner.

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    Mutual Violent Control

    Both partners use violence and control tactics to dominate and intimidate each other.

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    Prevention Strategies

    Actions taken to stop relationship abuse before it occurs.

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    Intervention Strategies

    Actions taken to address and improve a situation of relationship abuse.

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    Mandatory Reporting

    Legal requirement for professionals (teachers, doctors, therapists) to report suspected child/elder abuse.

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    Emotional Divorce

    The first stage of divorce where one or both spouses emotionally detach from the marriage.

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    Legal Divorce

    The official court-ordered termination of a marriage.

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    No-Fault Divorce

    Process of ending a marriage without assigning blame or fault to either spouse.

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    Single-parent family

    A family structure where one parent raises a child or children alone.

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    Single-parent family income level

    Single-parent families are more likely to experience lower income or poverty compared to two-parent families, especially when headed by women.

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    Transitional single-parent family

    A single-parent family structure that exists for a short period of time, often while the parent is transitioning through a life event like divorce or a spouse's death.

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    Intentional single-parent family

    A single-parent family formed by a conscious decision to have and/or raise children on their own.

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    Divorce

    Legal dissolution of a marriage.

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    Remarriage odds

    Men are more likely to remarry than women, and women's odds of remarrying decrease as they age.

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    Social father

    A male figure in a child's life who isn't the biological father but provides fatherly care, support, and guidance.

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    Binuclear family

    Two nuclear families formed after a divorce, one headed by each parent.

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    Blended family benefits

    Blended families provide children with additional role models, diverse values, extra support, and potentially a better economic situation.

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    Stepfamily developmental stages

    Stepfamilies go through a developmental process, taking about seven years to reach a stable state, with stages including fantasy, immersion, awareness, mobilization, action, contact, and resolution.

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    Divorce Impacts

    Both partners in a divorce are likely to experience negative outcomes like lower happiness and less fulfilling sex lives. However, women are often seen to have more positive outcomes like increased self-confidence, career opportunities, and social lives.

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    Children's Divorce Reactions

    Younger children often blame themselves or one parent for a divorce, leading to anger or withdrawal. Adolescents usually blame both parents, struggle with parents dating again, and require strong peer support.

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    When is Divorce Best for Kids?

    Divorce is often better for children when parents are in constant and high conflict. The emotional stress of conflict outweighs the challenges of separation.

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    Divorce Stages for Children

    Divorce unfolds in stages for children: 1) Initial Crisis - a stressful time with lots of conflict, 2) Transition & Short-term Aftermath - a year later, initial emotions subside as families adjust, 3) Restabilization - by year 5, life feels more normal.

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    Sole Custody

    One parent has full responsibility for the child's care, making all decisions about their well-being.

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    Joint Physical Custody

    Both parents share physical custody. The child lives with each parent for significant periods, moving between households.

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    Joint Legal Custody

    Both parents work together on legal decisions regarding the child's education, healthcare, and other aspects.

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    Divorce Rate Trends

    Around 35-45% of first marriages end in divorce. Divorce rates increase for second, third, and subsequent marriages.

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    Study Notes

    Gottman's Four Horsemen

    • Criticism, contempt (greatest indicator), defensiveness, stonewalling are the four horsemen of relationship demise. Gottman videos on D2L provide further details.

    Effective Communication

    • Effective communication includes agreement between verbal (content) and nonverbal (relational) messages.

    Power in Relationships

    • Power in relationships is positional (based on role/status) or personal (based on attributes). Relational power shifts with interactions.

    Common Conflict Areas

    • Common areas of conflict for couples include sex, finances, values, time together, household responsibilities, and in-laws.

    Conflict Styles

    • Competing prioritizes one's needs over collaboration. Accommodating prioritizes others at the cost of personal needs. Avoiding sidesteps conflict temporarily. Compromising seeks a middle ground. Collaborating focuses on full satisfaction for all parties.

    Healthy Conflict Management

    • Understanding partner feelings, calmness, deep breathing, self-soothing, and focused solutions are key in managing conflict.

    Financial Conflicts

    • Financial conflicts stem from differing goals and values regarding money and are often deeper than just money issues.

    Dual-Income Households Over Time

    • The frequency of dual-income households has remained relatively stable from the late 90's to the late 2010's, averaging 52-58%.

    Working Hours for Men vs. Women in Full-Time Jobs

    • Men tend to work more hours than women in full-time jobs across demographics.

    Time Poverty

    • Time poverty is defined as a lack of sufficient time to attend to all tasks.

    Division of Household Labor

    • The division of household labor has changed significantly over the past few decades.

    Mental Load

    • Mental load (invisible work) is often disproportionately carried by women in heterosexual relationships, including cognitive and emotional work overseeing household chores, organization, etc.

    Labor Division's Impact

    • Shared household labor correlates with relationship satisfaction, with women feeling more satisfied when men handle more household chores. Sexual intimacy is more frequent and fulfilling in more egalitarian couples.

    Financial Management

    • Shared finances involve a single account. Split finances use separate ones. Equal splitting divides shared expenses 50/50 based on income.

    Fixed vs. Variable Expenses

    • Fixed expenses remain consistent monthly, while variable expenses fluctuate.

    Relationship Violence

    • Relationship violence worsens over time and is a learned behavior. Survivors are not to blame and seek support systems when escaping.
    • Models of abuse (individualistic, ecological, feminist, social stress etc.) provide varying perspectives on causative factors.
    • Specific acts of violence (physical, intimidation, economic, emotional, sexual, isolation, minimizing, denying, and blaming) are outlined.
    • Definitions of intimate partner violence and sexual violence according to CDC are detailed.
    • Prevention of violence and intervention strategies include efforts to address social stress and provide opportunities for genders.

    Stalking & Neglect

    • Stalking (harassment), and neglect (absence of appropriate care) are forms of violence.

    Types of Intimate Partner Violence

    • Situational Couple Violence, Intimate Terrorism, Violent Resistance, and Mutual Violent Control are various types of abuse that can occur in relationships.

    Prevention/Intervention Strategies

    • Prevention strategies for relationship abuse/neglect/violence include strategies to help eliminate social stress (e.g. poverty, discrimination). This includes promoting appropriate social, sex, and relation education, as well as support networks.
    • Understanding intervention strategies to interrupt relationship violence is vital.

    Break the Family Cycle of Violence

    • Therapy sessions may address cultural norms that legitimize violence. Mandatory reporting of suspected child abuse is significant in intervention efforts.

    Uncoupling

    • Uncoupling is the process of separation, not a single event. Differences exist between those initiating the divorce and those being initiated to in likelihood of remarrying.

    Stations of Divorce

    • Understanding Emotional, Legal, Economic, and Co-parental divorce stages is crucial.

    Community & Psychic Divorce

    • Community divorce refers to the process of emotionally and socially distancing from one's partner. Psychic divorce encompasses the feeling and perception of separation.
    • Different types of divorces and their specifics are outlined.

    Divorce Impact on Men vs. Women

    • Both men and women face potentially negative outcomes (psychological distress, lower happiness, less satisfying sex life), but women might experience potential benefits (self-confidence, career opportunities, social life, happiness).

    Children & Adolescence in Divorce

    • The effects on children and adolescents following divorce often result in varied emotional responses, ranging from blame to increased distance.

    Custody Situations

    • Different forms for custody situations (sole, joint physical, joint legal, combined split) are described and analyzed.

    Divorce Statistics

    • Divorce rates in first, second, third, etc. marriages are explored, highlighting various trends in likelihood of divorce with each marriage.

    Single-Parent Families

    • Impact on income levels, gender-specific differences, and circumstances for single-parent families are investigated.

    Different Types of Single-Parent Families

    • Types of formation of single-parent families (intentional vs. transitional, and accidental), are explored.

    Odds of Remarrying

    • Differences in remarriage likelihoods for men vs. women are explained.

    Binuclear Families

    • Binuclear families describe post-divorce family structures with two homes and two coparents involved.

    Blended/Stepfamilies

    • Benefits and developmental stages for blended/stepfamily children and parents are examined.

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