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What realization did the speaker have about their choice to go to the monastery?
What realization did the speaker have about their choice to go to the monastery?
- They felt they had no other options.
- They didn't remember going at all.
- They acknowledged it was their own decision. (correct)
- They believed it was a mistake in hindsight.
What recurring element troubled the speaker during their childhood?
What recurring element troubled the speaker during their childhood?
- An unexplainable fear of heights.
- A fascination with biblical stories.
- A dream of being chased through a cemetery. (correct)
- A dislike of attending church.
What role did the name 'Simeon' play in the speaker's life?
What role did the name 'Simeon' play in the speaker's life?
- It was a name associated with past regrets.
- It was used as a family name throughout generations.
- It was a biblical character tied to their personal experiences. (correct)
- It represented a childhood friend.
During which event did the speaker have another encounter with the name Simeon?
During which event did the speaker have another encounter with the name Simeon?
How did the speaker initially feel about visiting the monastery?
How did the speaker initially feel about visiting the monastery?
What was Rachael's primary motivation for suggesting that John attend the retreat?
What was Rachael's primary motivation for suggesting that John attend the retreat?
Why did John initially agree to attend the retreat at the monastery?
Why did John initially agree to attend the retreat at the monastery?
What does the term 'abbot' refer to in the context of the monastery?
What does the term 'abbot' refer to in the context of the monastery?
How did John feel about the retreat before he arrived?
How did John feel about the retreat before he arrived?
What was one of the main lifestyle practices of the monks at John of the Cross?
What was one of the main lifestyle practices of the monks at John of the Cross?
What significant decision did Rachael make regarding her therapy practice after adopting John Jr.?
What significant decision did Rachael make regarding her therapy practice after adopting John Jr.?
What was a major factor contributing to the narrator's feelings of turmoil and conflict?
What was a major factor contributing to the narrator's feelings of turmoil and conflict?
Which behavior of John Jr. indicated a problematic father-son relationship?
Which behavior of John Jr. indicated a problematic father-son relationship?
How did the narrator perceive his boss's reaction to the plant's union election?
How did the narrator perceive his boss's reaction to the plant's union election?
What emotional changes did the narrator experience despite his outward success?
What emotional changes did the narrator experience despite his outward success?
Flashcards
Infertility struggles
Infertility struggles
The difficulty experienced in conceiving a child.
Adoption
Adoption
Legally taking a child into a family. Becoming the child's legal parent.
Dale Carnegie's ideas
Dale Carnegie's ideas
Dale Carnegie's ideas are not original; he borrowed them from various sources, including Socrates, Chesterfield, and Jesus.
Marital dissatisfaction
Marital dissatisfaction
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Personal choice (Simeon)
Personal choice (Simeon)
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Family relationship issues
Family relationship issues
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Recurring dream (Simeon)
Recurring dream (Simeon)
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Leadership and management challenges
Leadership and management challenges
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Simeon's biblical references
Simeon's biblical references
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Author's embarrassing wedding
Author's embarrassing wedding
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What is John's initial motivation for attending the retreat?
What is John's initial motivation for attending the retreat?
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What are the three priorities of monastic life?
What are the three priorities of monastic life?
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Who is Brother James?
Who is Brother James?
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What is the purpose of the retreat?
What is the purpose of the retreat?
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What is Father Peter's role?
What is Father Peter's role?
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Study Notes
Dale Carnegie's Quote
- Carnegie's ideas were borrowed from Socrates, Chesterfield, and Jesus.
Author's Decision to Attend Monastery
- Author, a general manager of a large manufacturing facility, chose to spend a week at a Northern Michigan monastery.
- He initially resisted the idea but ultimately made the choice.
Recurring Dream and Simeon
- The author had a recurring dream of being chased through a cemetery by a malevolent force.
- A man in a black robe, identified as Simeon, appeared, grabbed him, and commanded him to "Find Simeon—find Simeon and listen to him!"
- The dream, combined with Simeon being referenced in various life events (baptism, confirmation, wedding), left him feeling oddly drawn to the character.
Author's Life Before Retreat
- Successful general manager of a large manufacturing plant (over 500 employees, $100M in annual sales).
- Youngest GM in company history.
- High degree of autonomy in a decentralized company.
- Financial success with a healthy salary and bonuses.
- Married with two children (one adopted), owning a house, boat, and multiple cars.
- Successfully navigated infertility issues.
Author's Life Issues Before Retreat
- Marital unhappiness (wife Rachael expressing unmet needs).
- Difficulty with children (son John's disrespectful behavior, strained relationships with both children)
- Dissatisfaction at work (unionization campaign, disagreements with boss, feeling his leadership style was ineffective).
- Issues in volunteer work (Little League Baseball complaints from parents).
- Overall internal turmoil and unhappiness despite outward appearance of success and security.
- Feeling a lack of fulfillment in life.
- Reserved and withdrawn from others.
Retreat Decision and Experience
- Pastor recommended the John of the Cross Christian monastery to address his issues.
- Author initially reluctant, but eventually agreed.
- Stayed at the monastery.
- Met other guests and experienced daily chapel services and classes.
- Learned about the monastery's structure, monastic life, and the different roles of monks.
- Learned the abbot assigned Len Hoffman the name Brother Simeon.
- Reflecting on his experiences and feeling somewhat overwhelmed.
Room Assignment
- Assigned to a room with another guest, a Baptist minister.
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Description
Explore the transformative ideas of Dale Carnegie as they relate to spiritual journeys and self-discovery. This quiz delves into the author's experiences, including a significant retreat at a monastery and insights from recurring dreams. Gain a deeper understanding of the intersection between personal success and spiritual awakening.
