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Which approach is considered destructive during conflict resolution?
What characterizes escalatory behavior in conflicts?
Which statement appropriately embodies constructive communication?
What is a characteristic of high performers in conflict resolution?
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Which statement reflects personal accountability in conflict situations?
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What action should be avoided in order to eliminate conflicts?
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Which of the following is an example of refusing to engage in conflict resolution?
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What represents a constructive method to address differing opinions?
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What was the condition set by the father for taking the son on a foreign trip?
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How did the son express his feelings towards his father's expectations?
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What emotional reaction did the father have towards the son’s academic performance?
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Which strategy focuses on understanding each other's perspectives?
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Which of these is considered a communication blocker in conflict resolution?
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What is implied to strengthen the relationship after a conflict is resolved?
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What is a suggested approach for managing anger in the conflict between the father and son?
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What should the mother aim for to resolve the conflict between the father and son?
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What does Bertrand Russell emphasize in his approach to conflict resolution?
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Which of the following is an example of emphasizing need rather than demanding a solution?
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What type of conflict resolution requires the toughest skills according to the content?
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What is a potential dilemma mentioned that relates to intrapersonal conflicts?
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How does the brother in the example resolve the conflict with his sister?
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What approach is shown by the husband when his wife needs a calm place for yoga?
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In the examples provided, what is a strategy used to resolve conflicts?
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Which statement reflects a common misconception about conflict resolution?
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What is a primary aspect of regulating stress?
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Which of the following is NOT considered a stress-regulating activity?
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How should stress from interpersonal interactions be approached?
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What is an essential personal habit for regulating stress?
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Mindfulness in stress regulation involves which of the following?
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Which conflict resolution type is characterized by assertiveness and cooperation, aiming for a win-win outcome?
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What is the primary focus of the Compromising conflict resolution type?
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What is an outcome of embracing and resolving conflicts effectively?
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Introspection during conflicts can be challenging, particularly in which type of conflict?
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What should individuals focus on when dealing with conflicts, according to conflict resolution strategies?
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Which conflict resolution approach is seen as the most negative, focusing on aggression and dominance?
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Which of the following qualities is important for personal and professional success when resolving conflicts?
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What encourages people to see conflicts in a positive light?
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Study Notes
Resolving Conflict
- A constructive disagreement focuses on approaches and ideas rather than people.
- Low performers typically use destructive conflict resolution strategies, focusing on personal attacks. Attacks fueled by conflicting opinions and personalities are destructive to progress and group cohesion.
- High performers use constructive conflict resolution strategies that focus on the issues while respecting differences. This leads to constructive results for the group.
- Conflict escalates when people show anger, threaten, shout, insult, and refuse to compromise.
- Conflict is eliminated by remaining calm, controlling anger, avoiding personal attacks, being flexible and willing to compromise, and seeking win-win solutions.
Escalating vs. Eliminating Conflicts
- Escalating conflicts include showing anger, threatening, hitting, throwing things, shouting, yelling, using abusive words, insulting, being rigid, refusing to change or compromise, protesting, and walking out.
- Eliminating conflicts includes being calm, controlling anger, avoiding personal attacks, agreeing to the extent possible, being flexible, being willing to change and compromise, seeking win-win solutions, persisting patiently until the conflict is resolved.
What to Say vs. Not to Say in conflict situations
- Instead of saying, "I am right, but you are wrong", try "You are right, but I am not wrong."
- Instead of saying, "What you say is true, BUT..." try "What you say is true, AND..."
- Instead of saying, "I should WIN in this, but you should LOSE", try "Let’s find a WIN-WIN solution."
- Instead of saying, "You are responsible", try "I own responsibility."
Conflict Example 2: Father and Son
- A father promised his son a trip abroad if he achieves a 10-point CPI, but the son only achieved 9.6.
- The son feels the father does not support him.
- The father is angry and resorts to physical abuse.
- The son feels betrayed and leaves home.
- To resolve this conflict, consider these steps:
- Choose a conducive environment (e.g., temple, mall).
- Brainstorm together, planning for a vacation.
- Get the facts of the situation.
- Use active and reflective listening to understand both sides.
- Focus on the problem, not the person (take the kid for a trip).
- Defuse anger by expressing love and concern.
- Avoid communication blockers (e.g., blaming).
- Show empathy to make them feel understood.
- Use cognitive restructuring to reframe the situation.
- Negotiate outcomes (e.g., going out, staying at home; going to Ladakh).
- Find a solution that works for everyone (living at home with understanding, apologizing, hugging).
Win-Win Solutions
- Win-win solutions create a deep feeling of mutual respect.
- Love grows deeper with each resolved conflict when a win-win solution is found.
Other Ways of Resolving Conflicts: Emphasizing Need Instead of Demanding Solutions
- Instead of demanding a solution, emphasize the need.
- For example, instead of saying, "I need a peaceful atmosphere," try "Hey guys! Who is playing music? It's nice music, but I need a quiet atmosphere because I am preparing for my exam tomorrow."
Types of Conflict
- Intrapersonal: Within oneself. The toughest conflict resolution skills are needed for this type.
- Interpersonal: Between two or more individuals.
- Intragroup: Within a group.
- Intergroup: Between different groups.
Resolving Types
- Avoiding: A conflict-resolution strategy used by introverts, peacemakers, or those who are shy.
- Accommodating: A conflict-resolution strategy used by unassertive, cooperative individuals who prioritize relationships.
- Attacking: A conflict-resolution strategy used by aggressive, powerful individuals with a dominating style.
- Collaborating: A conflict-resolution strategy used by assertive and cooperative individuals seeking a win-win situation.
- Competing: A conflict-resolution strategy used by individuals who are non-cooperative and prioritize their own concerns in a win-lose scenario.
- Compromising: A conflict-resolution strategy used by individuals who are willing to sacrifice to find harmony, leading to a lose-lose scenario.
Becoming a Conflict-Resolution Expert
- Embrace conflicts and test your ability to resolve them.
- Help friends and colleagues resolve conflicts.
- Gently intervene in unknown situations to help others resolve conflict.
- Use conflicts as opportunities to develop personality and strengthen human relationships.
Stress Regulation
- Regulating: Not managing or beating stress, but instead governing, modulating, controlling, and directing it.
- Managing Environment: This includes influencing home, office, education, general surroundings, colleagues, lifestyle, and personal health habits.
Regulating Stress
- Personal Health Habits: Keeping fit, sleeping 7-8 hours, exercising for 45 minutes, practicing yoga or meditation, and eating healthy foods at regular times.
- Mindfulness: Fully engaging in what you are doing. This can involve being mindful while bathing or sipping tea.
- Plan the Work, Work the Plan: Breaking down tasks and staying organized.
- Breaks from Work: Regular breaks to reduce stress.
Mastering Stress
- Master the Intrapersonal Level: Maintain healthy habits to manage stress.
- Regulate Inter-personal, Intra-group, and Inter-group Stress: Identify stressful individuals or groups, give suggestions, tell jokes, share your experiences, encourage them to talk, have them laugh.
Stress-Relieving Activities
- Taking a shower (hot or cold)
- Talking to a friend
- Walking in nature
- Listening to favorite or soothing music
- Deep breathing exercises
- Watching a favorite movie
- Reading a favorite novel or motivating book
- Going to a temple
- Shopping at a mall
- Eating favorite food
- Laughing
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Explore the differences between constructive and destructive conflict resolution strategies. This quiz will help you understand how high performers effectively handle disagreements and what behaviors contribute to escalating conflict. Learn techniques for maintaining calm and seeking win-win solutions.
