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When a couple demonstrates high levels of mutual disdain, which counseling approach could be beneficial to address the underlying conflict?
When a couple demonstrates high levels of mutual disdain, which counseling approach could be beneficial to address the underlying conflict?
- Counseling Separately (correct)
- Contacting Authorities
- Crisis Intervention
- Contracting with Couples
The 'Contracting with Couples' approach is primarily designed for couples experiencing high levels of mutual disdain.
The 'Contracting with Couples' approach is primarily designed for couples experiencing high levels of mutual disdain.
True (A)
Describe one conflict resolution and communication principle that can be applied in situations of high levels of mutual disdain.
Describe one conflict resolution and communication principle that can be applied in situations of high levels of mutual disdain.
Active listening, where the listener attempts to understand the speaker's perspective without interruption or judgment, can help in situations of high levels of mutual disdain by fostering a more empathetic and understanding environment.
In cases of abuse, it's crucial to ______ if necessary.
In cases of abuse, it's crucial to ______ if necessary.
Match the following counseling approaches to their primary focus:
Match the following counseling approaches to their primary focus:
Which of these is NOT a recommended crisis intervention method for situations of high levels of mutual disdain?
Which of these is NOT a recommended crisis intervention method for situations of high levels of mutual disdain?
Changing patterns in situations of high levels of mutual disdain focuses on the couple's past experiences and childhood influences.
Changing patterns in situations of high levels of mutual disdain focuses on the couple's past experiences and childhood influences.
What is the primary goal of 'Conflict Resolution and Communication Principles' in situations of high levels of mutual disdain?
What is the primary goal of 'Conflict Resolution and Communication Principles' in situations of high levels of mutual disdain?
The ______ approach aims to provide a break from the constant conflict and allow each partner to process their thoughts and emotions individually.
The ______ approach aims to provide a break from the constant conflict and allow each partner to process their thoughts and emotions individually.
The decision to contact authorities in abuse situations should always be made by the counselor, not the couple.
The decision to contact authorities in abuse situations should always be made by the counselor, not the couple.
A stubborn inclination towards self-sufficiency can lead to self-centered relationships.
A stubborn inclination towards self-sufficiency can lead to self-centered relationships.
What is the purpose of care-fronting in marital counseling, as described in the text?
What is the purpose of care-fronting in marital counseling, as described in the text?
Which of the following is NOT a potential benefit of co-counseling, according to the text?
Which of the following is NOT a potential benefit of co-counseling, according to the text?
According to 2 Timothy 2:25-26, counselors can avoid power struggles by approaching their counselees with ______ and ______.
According to 2 Timothy 2:25-26, counselors can avoid power struggles by approaching their counselees with ______ and ______.
In marriage counseling, what is the primary goal for couples who are experiencing abuse?
In marriage counseling, what is the primary goal for couples who are experiencing abuse?
A marriage counselor should primarily focus on teaching principles from Scripture, rather than engaging the couple in a collaborative dialogue.
A marriage counselor should primarily focus on teaching principles from Scripture, rather than engaging the couple in a collaborative dialogue.
When faced with a couple in marital crisis, how could a counselor use 1 Peter 2:23 to help them understand how to imitate Christ in their response to conflict?
When faced with a couple in marital crisis, how could a counselor use 1 Peter 2:23 to help them understand how to imitate Christ in their response to conflict?
In the trialogue vignettes, the counselor's approach emphasizes the importance of ______ and ______ the gospel principles to their lives.
In the trialogue vignettes, the counselor's approach emphasizes the importance of ______ and ______ the gospel principles to their lives.
Which of these approaches reflects a more collaborative style in marriage counseling?
Which of these approaches reflects a more collaborative style in marriage counseling?
In the trialogue vignettes, the counselor primarily focuses on teaching biblical principles without actively engaging the couple in applying those principles to their lives.
In the trialogue vignettes, the counselor primarily focuses on teaching biblical principles without actively engaging the couple in applying those principles to their lives.
Describe a key distinction between a directive counseling approach and a collaborative counseling approach.
Describe a key distinction between a directive counseling approach and a collaborative counseling approach.
The trialogue vignettes model the importance of bringing the ______ conversation back to the couple, encouraging them to ponder, apply, and interact.
The trialogue vignettes model the importance of bringing the ______ conversation back to the couple, encouraging them to ponder, apply, and interact.
Match the following verses with their respective themes related to imitating Christ in marriage:
Match the following verses with their respective themes related to imitating Christ in marriage:
When counseling a couple, how would you compassionately enter their pain and sustain them?
When counseling a couple, how would you compassionately enter their pain and sustain them?
Marital healing involves driving a stake in the heart of Satan's lies by encouraging couples to trust God's ______ heart.
Marital healing involves driving a stake in the heart of Satan's lies by encouraging couples to trust God's ______ heart.
The Biblical Counseling Coalition's confessional statement advocates for using secular programs and theories in addition to biblical principles.
The Biblical Counseling Coalition's confessional statement advocates for using secular programs and theories in addition to biblical principles.
What is the difference between pointing a couple to a program or theory, versus pointing a couple to Jesus as their Redeemer?
What is the difference between pointing a couple to a program or theory, versus pointing a couple to Jesus as their Redeemer?
Match the following descriptions with their corresponding goals in marital healing:
Match the following descriptions with their corresponding goals in marital healing:
When a spouse is dealing with abuse, what does the text suggest?
When a spouse is dealing with abuse, what does the text suggest?
The passage suggests that counseling should always focus on immediate solutions and practical advice.
The passage suggests that counseling should always focus on immediate solutions and practical advice.
What does the text recommend for incorporating Christ's hope into a couple's picture without ignoring their pain?
What does the text recommend for incorporating Christ's hope into a couple's picture without ignoring their pain?
In situations where a spouse is experiencing intense guilt and considering giving up hope, what is a recommended response from a counselor?
In situations where a spouse is experiencing intense guilt and considering giving up hope, what is a recommended response from a counselor?
The passage highlights the importance of care-fronting in marital counseling. What is the primary purpose of this approach?
The passage highlights the importance of care-fronting in marital counseling. What is the primary purpose of this approach?
The passage suggests that in cases of marital counseling involving a couple with high levels of mutual disdain, a counselor should consider using a ______ approach.
The passage suggests that in cases of marital counseling involving a couple with high levels of mutual disdain, a counselor should consider using a ______ approach.
Match the following biblical references with their corresponding themes in the context of marital reconciliation:
Match the following biblical references with their corresponding themes in the context of marital reconciliation:
The text mentions trialogue scriptural explorations or spiritual conversations as a tool for marital counseling. What is the objective of these conversations?
The text mentions trialogue scriptural explorations or spiritual conversations as a tool for marital counseling. What is the objective of these conversations?
Which of the following is a potential benefit of co-counseling, as mentioned in the text?
Which of the following is a potential benefit of co-counseling, as mentioned in the text?
How could a counselor utilize the passage of 2 Timothy 2:25-26 to navigate power struggles in counseling?
How could a counselor utilize the passage of 2 Timothy 2:25-26 to navigate power struggles in counseling?
The text suggests that forgiveness and reconciliation are interchangeable concepts, meaning that a person can forgive their spouse without expecting any behavioral changes.
The text suggests that forgiveness and reconciliation are interchangeable concepts, meaning that a person can forgive their spouse without expecting any behavioral changes.
The text states that we often tend to be resistant to God's conviction due to ______ attitudes that lead to ______ relationships.
The text states that we often tend to be resistant to God's conviction due to ______ attitudes that lead to ______ relationships.
What type of attitudes can lead to self-centered relationships?
What type of attitudes can lead to self-centered relationships?
The text suggests that a counselor should always use a directive approach in situations of high mutual disdain.
The text suggests that a counselor should always use a directive approach in situations of high mutual disdain.
What is the main goal of 'trialogue scriptural explorations' in marital counseling?
What is the main goal of 'trialogue scriptural explorations' in marital counseling?
The text highlights the importance of care-fronting in marital counseling. What is the primary purpose of this approach? Care-fronting helps to ______ sinful relational patterns.
The text highlights the importance of care-fronting in marital counseling. What is the primary purpose of this approach? Care-fronting helps to ______ sinful relational patterns.
What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, as described in the text?
What is the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, as described in the text?
Which of the following is NOT mentioned as a potential benefit of co-counseling?
Which of the following is NOT mentioned as a potential benefit of co-counseling?
In the text, the concept of 'catching spouses red-handed' refers to a counselor's approach to confront couples about their wrongdoings.
In the text, the concept of 'catching spouses red-handed' refers to a counselor's approach to confront couples about their wrongdoings.
What does the text suggest a counselor should focus on when working with a spouse who is overwhelmed with guilt and ready to give up hope?
What does the text suggest a counselor should focus on when working with a spouse who is overwhelmed with guilt and ready to give up hope?
Which of the following statements best reflects the purpose of the trialogue scriptural explorations mentioned in the text?
Which of the following statements best reflects the purpose of the trialogue scriptural explorations mentioned in the text?
Flashcards
Entrustment in Marriage
Entrustment in Marriage
Trusting oneself to Christ while addressing abusive behavior in marriage.
Imitating Christ's Response
Imitating Christ's Response
Using 1 Peter 2:23 to explore non-harmful behavior in conflict.
Healing Choice
Healing Choice
Exploring 1 Peter 2:24 on Christ's decision to heal instead of harm.
Hope and Shepherding
Hope and Shepherding
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Collaborative Counseling Style
Collaborative Counseling Style
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Role of Prayer in Counseling
Role of Prayer in Counseling
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Compassionate Listening
Compassionate Listening
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Hope in Counseling
Hope in Counseling
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Marital Healing Process
Marital Healing Process
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Biblical Counseling Coalition
Biblical Counseling Coalition
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Difference Between Programs and Christ
Difference Between Programs and Christ
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Cling to Christ
Cling to Christ
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Imitating Christ
Imitating Christ
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Trialogue Gospel Conversation
Trialogue Gospel Conversation
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Hyper-condemnation
Hyper-condemnation
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Marks of a Christlike Couple
Marks of a Christlike Couple
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Healing Spiritual Conversations
Healing Spiritual Conversations
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Conflict Resolution Principles
Conflict Resolution Principles
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Crisis Intervention Recommendations
Crisis Intervention Recommendations
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Contracting with Couples
Contracting with Couples
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Changing Patterns
Changing Patterns
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Communication Principles
Communication Principles
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Healing through Christ
Healing through Christ
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Marital Care Goals
Marital Care Goals
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Power Struggles
Power Struggles
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Co-Counseling Benefits
Co-Counseling Benefits
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Fruits of Repentance
Fruits of Repentance
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Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation
Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation
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Unique Counseling Challenges
Unique Counseling Challenges
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Working with Guilt
Working with Guilt
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Scriptural Conversations
Scriptural Conversations
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Stubborn Resistance
Stubborn Resistance
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Grace in Forgiveness
Grace in Forgiveness
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Study Notes
Interpreting Life from a Faith Perspective
- Couples entering counseling often focus on their immediate, personal struggles, overlooking the bigger picture and God's role in their marriage.
- Marital counseling often starts by instilling hope.
- Counselors aim to help couples understand their marital loss, hurt, pain, and suffering through God's perspective.
- Shared sorrow, when understood through a faith perspective, becomes endurable.
- Couples invite Christ into their struggles, recognizing that their hurts are meaningful to Him.
- Mutual empathy is a significant work of Christ.
Introduction: Hoping in God Together
- Couples entering counseling typically focus solely on their individual struggles instead of the bigger picture or God's role and perspective.
- Therapists often begin by instilling hope in couples.
- A faith perspective helps couples recognize and understand the suffering they're facing together.
Introduction: Hoping in Christ Alone
- Angela and Carlos, an example couple, entered counseling with no positive feelings toward each other.
- Counseling focused on shifting their perspectives on their relationship and God.
Maturing as a Biblical Marriage Counselor
- The focus of counseling should be a relationship with God, not a program or theory, to lead the couple in the right direction.
- Counselors should emphasize recognizing God's truth and His ongoing relationship with the couple.
- Relational patterns of struggle should be investigated, and steps to deal with them should be put in place.
- When a couple has entered a "crisis," the counselor should address the concerns of the couple with empathy, care, compassion, and a focus on individual reconciliation.
Applying Christ's Truth and Grace Eternal Narrative
- Counselors need to help couples understand how God's perspective can impact and shape their marital story.
- Counselors should use the Word of God to guide, instruct, and comfort couples throughout the healing and growth process.
Exploring the History of the Earthly Story Interpretation
- Counselors should help couples understand any negative interpretations or patterns they have been accustomed to following.
- Couples should examine the origin of the negative or distorted views of their relationship.
- Counselors should encourage couples to look at their marriage through a Christ-centered perspective.
Taking Every Thought Captive: Collaboratively Exposing Satan's Couple-Specific Smaller Story
- Counselors should understand the "smaller story" of the couples and how their perspective is shaped by Satan's attacks.
- Counselors should explore how couples view their current situation through a different lens, and how to turn to biblical truths.
- Help couples identify the theme of Satan's scheme, condemnation, guilt, and other issues.
Doubting God's Good Heart
- Counselors need to help couples identify when Satan attempts to convince them that God doesn't have a good heart.
- In the Garden of Eden, Satan questioned God's good heart, so counselors should bring up examples similar to this.
Hate Yourself, Crush Your Spouse, Trust Yourself
- Satan plants destructive thoughts that lead to condemnation, making the relationship focus on the shortcomings of the spouse.
- Counselors should help couples see the destructive pattern and realize the importance of trusting God.
Taking Every Thought Captive
- Counselors should help couples identify the patterns of speech, thoughts, and emotions that are hindering their relationship with each other, and with God.
Hoping in God Together
- Counselors can guide couples by helping them find hope in God, rather than relying on their own strength or coping mechanisms.
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