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What is the first step to connect with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
What is the first step to connect with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
A change of heart has little value if it is expressed.
A change of heart has little value if it is expressed.
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What should you do every day to motivate and inspire your team members?
What should you do every day to motivate and inspire your team members?
You should only focus on helping others succeed professionally.
You should only focus on helping others succeed professionally.
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What is the ultimate goal of developing the heart of a servant?
What is the ultimate goal of developing the heart of a servant?
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What is the main goal of developing the heart of a servant?
What is the main goal of developing the heart of a servant?
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Measuring your success by how much value you add to others is a selfish approach.
Measuring your success by how much value you add to others is a selfish approach.
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You can develop the heart of a servant without taking action.
You can develop the heart of a servant without taking action.
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What should you do to connect with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
What should you do to connect with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
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Developing the heart of a servant is only about helping others succeed professionally.
Developing the heart of a servant is only about helping others succeed professionally.
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What is the primary focus of developing the heart of a servant?
What is the primary focus of developing the heart of a servant?
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What is the outcome of measuring your success by how much value you add to others?
What is the outcome of measuring your success by how much value you add to others?
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What is the key to developing the heart of a servant?
What is the key to developing the heart of a servant?
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What is the importance of creating an environment of encouragement?
What is the importance of creating an environment of encouragement?
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What is the role of a servant in relation to others?
What is the role of a servant in relation to others?
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What is the relationship between a change of heart and gratitude?
What is the relationship between a change of heart and gratitude?
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What is the primary goal of connecting with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
What is the primary goal of connecting with someone who rubs you the wrong way?
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What is the result of measuring your success by how you make others successful?
What is the result of measuring your success by how you make others successful?
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What is the key to seeing things from the perspective of others?
What is the key to seeing things from the perspective of others?
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What is the importance of starting your day with the intention of helping others?
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Study Notes
Servant Leadership
- The author, a former senior pastor, reflects on their journey from a hierarchical approach to leadership to a servant leadership style.
- The turning point came after hearing Zig Ziglar speak about helping others get what they want, which led to a realization that leadership should focus on serving others, not personal gain.
Inverting the Power Pyramid
- The author began to invert the traditional "power pyramid," putting others at the top and themselves at the bottom.
- This approach is based on serving others, not oneself, and focuses on empowering others to do what the leader does.
The Bible's Influence
- A Bible passage (Ephesians 4:11-12) inspired the author to realize that their responsibility as a pastor was to equip others to do God's work, not to build their own congregation.
- This passage emphasized the importance of serving others and building up the body of Christ.
Influential Thinkers
- Robert Greenleaf's essay "The Servant as Leader" (1970) and his book Servant Leadership (1977) influenced the author's thinking on servant leadership.
- Max De Pree's book Leadership Is an Art and C. William Pollard's book The Soul of the Firm also contributed to the author's understanding of servant leadership.
- Eugene Habecker's book The Other Side of Leadership had a significant impact on the author, emphasizing the importance of adding value to others.
Key Principles of Servant Leadership
- Place the concerns of others above one's own.
- Love people unconditionally.
- Adopt the attitude of a servant leader, seeking to serve rather than be served.
- Focus on helping others succeed.
- Serve others, even when it's not convenient or comfortable.
The Power of Serving Others
- Serving others leads to personal growth, builds stronger relationships, and creates a positive work environment.
- When leaders serve others, their organizations thrive, and their people grow and flourish.
- Serving others is not limited to leaders; anyone can adopt a servant leadership mentality.
Questions for Servant Leaders
- What can I do to help people succeed?
- What do people need from me daily that they may not want to ask for?
- What can I work on to serve people better?
- How will I know that I am serving people well?
Leadership is About Serving
- Leaders live to serve, not to be served.
- Organizations exist to serve, and leaders must prioritize serving others.
- Serving others is not about being a hero; it's about quietly working to transform the world.### Serving Others
- A leader serves the people in the organization they lead and exceeds expectations by continually doing five things:
- Staying close to understand the vision
- Checking to ensure they are on track
- Asking how to exceed expectations for clients and the team
- Taking personal responsibility for delivering
- Believing in others more than they believe in themselves
Evaluating Leadership
- As a leader, it's essential to evaluate how well you serve your people
- Questions to ask yourself:
- What are my people's expectations of me?
- Am I sharing my expectations clearly?
- Am I asking questions to understand what I'm doing well and where I can improve?
Overcoming Blind Spots
- Leaders have blind spots, and it's essential to overcome them
- Questions to ask:
- What is it like for the people who work with me?
- What are my blind spots, and how can I improve?
- It's crucial to assume that you have blind spots and ask for feedback from others
Serving Others
- Serving others is a noble occupation that helps people succeed
- Focus on adding value to others, and personal gain will follow
- Questions to ask:
- How can I add value to others?
- What can I do to serve others?
Using Your Gifts
- Leaders serve others best in areas where they are most gifted
- Questions to ask:
- What are my strengths, and how can I use them to serve others?
- What is my background, and how can I use it to serve others?
- What are my experiences, and how can I use them to serve others?
Setting an Example
- As a leader, it's essential to set an example for others by serving them
- Focus on inspiring others to serve by setting a good example
- Questions to ask:
- How can I serve people in a way that will inspire them to serve others?
- What example am I setting for my team?
Developing the Servant Within
- To become a leader who serves others, you need to focus on making changes in two areas:
- Developing the heart of a servant
- Developing the hands of a servant
- Questions to ask:
- Do I genuinely care about people and want to help them be their best?
- Do I want others to succeed at least as much as I want to succeed myself?
Servant Leadership
- The author, a former senior pastor, reflects on their journey from a hierarchical approach to leadership to a servant leadership style.
- The turning point came after hearing Zig Ziglar speak about helping others get what they want, which led to a realization that leadership should focus on serving others, not personal gain.
Inverting the Power Pyramid
- The author began to invert the traditional "power pyramid," putting others at the top and themselves at the bottom.
- This approach is based on serving others, not oneself, and focuses on empowering others to do what the leader does.
The Bible's Influence
- A Bible passage (Ephesians 4:11-12) inspired the author to realize that their responsibility as a pastor was to equip others to do God's work, not to build their own congregation.
- This passage emphasized the importance of serving others and building up the body of Christ.
Influential Thinkers
- Robert Greenleaf's essay "The Servant as Leader" (1970) and his book Servant Leadership (1977) influenced the author's thinking on servant leadership.
- Max De Pree's book Leadership Is an Art and C. William Pollard's book The Soul of the Firm also contributed to the author's understanding of servant leadership.
- Eugene Habecker's book The Other Side of Leadership had a significant impact on the author, emphasizing the importance of adding value to others.
Key Principles of Servant Leadership
- Place the concerns of others above one's own.
- Love people unconditionally.
- Adopt the attitude of a servant leader, seeking to serve rather than be served.
- Focus on helping others succeed.
- Serve others, even when it's not convenient or comfortable.
The Power of Serving Others
- Serving others leads to personal growth, builds stronger relationships, and creates a positive work environment.
- When leaders serve others, their organizations thrive, and their people grow and flourish.
- Serving others is not limited to leaders; anyone can adopt a servant leadership mentality.
Questions for Servant Leaders
- What can I do to help people succeed?
- What do people need from me daily that they may not want to ask for?
- What can I work on to serve people better?
- How will I know that I am serving people well?
Leadership is About Serving
- Leaders live to serve, not to be served.
- Organizations exist to serve, and leaders must prioritize serving others.
- Serving others is not about being a hero; it's about quietly working to transform the world.### Serving Others
- A leader serves the people in the organization they lead and exceeds expectations by continually doing five things:
- Staying close to understand the vision
- Checking to ensure they are on track
- Asking how to exceed expectations for clients and the team
- Taking personal responsibility for delivering
- Believing in others more than they believe in themselves
Evaluating Leadership
- As a leader, it's essential to evaluate how well you serve your people
- Questions to ask yourself:
- What are my people's expectations of me?
- Am I sharing my expectations clearly?
- Am I asking questions to understand what I'm doing well and where I can improve?
Overcoming Blind Spots
- Leaders have blind spots, and it's essential to overcome them
- Questions to ask:
- What is it like for the people who work with me?
- What are my blind spots, and how can I improve?
- It's crucial to assume that you have blind spots and ask for feedback from others
Serving Others
- Serving others is a noble occupation that helps people succeed
- Focus on adding value to others, and personal gain will follow
- Questions to ask:
- How can I add value to others?
- What can I do to serve others?
Using Your Gifts
- Leaders serve others best in areas where they are most gifted
- Questions to ask:
- What are my strengths, and how can I use them to serve others?
- What is my background, and how can I use it to serve others?
- What are my experiences, and how can I use them to serve others?
Setting an Example
- As a leader, it's essential to set an example for others by serving them
- Focus on inspiring others to serve by setting a good example
- Questions to ask:
- How can I serve people in a way that will inspire them to serve others?
- What example am I setting for my team?
Developing the Servant Within
- To become a leader who serves others, you need to focus on making changes in two areas:
- Developing the heart of a servant
- Developing the hands of a servant
- Questions to ask:
- Do I genuinely care about people and want to help them be their best?
- Do I want others to succeed at least as much as I want to succeed myself?
The Author's Journey to Servant Leadership
- The author spent 26 years as a senior pastor, initially focused on personal success and recognition, but a speech by Zig Ziglar changed their perspective to servant leadership
- The author realized that their attitude towards people was wrong and began to focus on serving others, not themselves
The Heart of Leadership
- The heart of leadership is based on serving others, not oneself
- The author's responsibility as a pastor was to equip God's people to do His work, not to build their own congregation
Guidelines for Servant Leadership
- Don't rely on position or title, but earn respect by delivering on promises and serving others
- Believe in people and their potential, and care about them because it's the right thing to do
- Try to see things from the perspective of others to serve them better
- Work to create an environment of encouragement and cooperation
- Measure success by how much value is added to others
The Power of Serving Others
- Servant leadership is not limited to those with faith, but is a good business practice accessible to anyone
- It's about dedicating oneself to helping others be their best selves
- Examples of servant leaders include George Washington, Benjamin Franklin, Mahatma Gandhi, Albert Schweitzer, Martin Luther King Jr., and Nelson Mandela
Shifting from Hero to Servant
- Ann McGee-Cooper and Duane Trammell suggest that leaders need to shift from heroes to servants
- Servant leaders should listen without judgment, be authentic, build community, share power, and develop people
Questions to Help You Serve People Better
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The Adding-Value Question: What can I do for people to help them succeed?
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The Everyday Question: What do people need from me daily that they may not want to ask for?
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The Improvement Question: What can I work on that will help me serve people better?
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The Evaluation Question: How will I know that I am serving people well?### The Heart of Servant Leadership
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A servant leader serves others and exceeds expectations, asks themselves five key questions:
- Stay close to the leader to understand their vision
- Communicate the leader's vision to the team
- Ask how they can exceed expectations for clients and the team
- Continually ask the team how they can exceed client expectations
- Take personal responsibility for delivering what others need
The Blind Spot Question
- Leaders have blind spots that can hurt them
- Asking "What is it like to be on the other side of the table from me?" can help identify blind spots
- Recognizing blind spots can help leaders become self-correcting
Overcoming Blind Spots
- Leaders must assume they have blind spots that hurt them
- Leaders must recognize that others may be intimidated and not provide honest feedback
- Asking "What am I missing?" and "Can you help me?" can help overcome blind spots
- Leaders should give permission to those around them to speak truth into their life
The Respect Question
- Servant leaders focus on giving value to others while adding value to themselves
- There is no more noble occupation than assisting another human being to help them succeed (Alan Loy McGinnis)
- Serving others purifies motives and gives value to the leader
The Giftedness Question
- Leaders serve others best in areas where they are most gifted
- Using one's gifts to bring out the best in others can help them succeed
- Identifying strengths, background, experiences, opportunities, and what one loves can help determine how to serve others
The Example Question
- Leaders should inspire others to serve by serving as an example
- Senior executives should lead the charge in serving others
- Leaders should be open and vulnerable to set an example for others
Developing the Servant Within
- Servant leadership develops from the inside out
- People can sense a leader's attitude towards them
- Developing a servant's heart requires changing one's heart and actions
- Focus on making changes in two areas: develop the heart of a servant and develop the hands of a servant
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Reflect on the author's journey from a self-focused young leader to a servant leader. Explore the traditional approach to church leadership and the shift in perspective.
