Biblical Marriage Counseling Primer

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What is the name of the company mentioned in the text?

Soul-u-lion

Soul-u-lion primarily focuses on providing solutions for personal problems.

False (B)

What kind of solutions does Soul-u-lion specialize in?

  • Business solutions (correct)
  • Software development
  • Marketing consulting
  • Financial planning

Soul-u-lion's approach emphasizes the ______ of solutions.

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What two key aspects does Soul-u-lion highlight in its approach to business solutions?

<p>Collaboration and innovation</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT mentioned as a benefit of working with Soul-u-lion?

<p>Guaranteed success (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Soul-u-lion's services have been proven to be successful for all businesses.

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Match the following terms with their relevant definitions:

<p>Collaboration = Working together towards a common goal. Innovation = Introducing new ideas and methods. Solutions = Answers to problems or challenges.</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one key takeaway from the text about Soul-u-lion's approach to business solutions?

<p>They emphasize a collaborative and innovative approach to delivering focused solutions.</p> Signup and view all the answers

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Marriage Counseling

A form of therapy aimed at improving relationship dynamics between spouses.

Communication Issues

Problems that arise when partners struggle to express thoughts and feelings effectively.

Conflict Resolution

The process of resolving a disagreement to restore harmony in the relationship.

Counseling Sessions

Scheduled meetings between couples and a therapist to address relationship issues.

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Common Themes in Marriages

Recurring issues or patterns identified in relationships, often discussed in counseling.

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Role of Communication Skills

Essential abilities that enable partners to express themselves and listen actively.

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Relationship Dynamics

The way in which partners interact and influence one another within the relationship.

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Marriage Retreat

A special event where couples can focus on their relationship in a structured setting.

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Role and Responsibilities

The expected duties and behaviors of each partner in a marriage.

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Study Notes

A Theological Primer for Biblical Marriage Counseling

  • This is a primer for biblical marriage counseling
  • It focuses on a theological approach to marital issues

Introduction: Solution Focused or Soul-u-tion Focused?

  • It presents a case study of a couple (Travis and Britney) struggling in their marriage
  • Common theme 1: They struggle to communicate effectively due to miscommunication.
  • Common theme 2: They struggle due to misunderstanding about roles and responsibilities in marriage.
  • The couple's issue is more profound than simple communication-there's a heart issue
  • Their training has become an effective tool for manipulation

Having been placed on the witness stand...

  • Britney and Travis have differing perspectives on their marital issues: Travis views marriage through a self-sufficient lens, using communication skills to manipulate, while Britney feels justified in her approach because it's biblical.
  • The notes and analysis reveal flaws in Travis and Britney's understanding of marriage:
    • Miscommunication
    • Misunderstanding each other's roles and responsibilities
    • Their self-diagnoses and self-prescriptions are problematic

Glorifying God: Ephesians 1:1–23

  • The marital narrative should be about glorifying God, not self.
  • Biblical marriage counseling shifts the narrative towards God's purpose, not merely personal satisfaction.

Guilty before God: Ephesians 2:1–3

  • We are totally depraved, self-centered, and objects of God's judgment.
  • Emphasizes the absolute need for God's grace and our helplessness without God.

Seeing the Gospel-Centered Marital Foundation in Ephesians

  • Ephesians 5:21-33 is a common focus in marriage counseling but is not the correct starting point
  • Counsel should begin in Ephesians 1:1–23.
  • Marriage is for glorifying God and His grace.

Shame, Blame, Claim, and Maim

  • These are relational sins in marriage.
  • They all stem from a focus on self rather than God.

Exposing the Marital Log In My Eye

  • Couples often come from a place of hurt and blame, focusing on the log in the other person's eye, instead of the beam in their own.
  • Crucial to self-examination so the focus is not just on their spouse but on their role as well.
  • Counselors need to help couples "look at the plank in their own eye".

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