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Why is changing our habits challenging?
Why is changing our habits challenging?
We try to change the wrong thing and we try to change our habits in the wrong way.
How many layers of change are there?
How many layers of change are there?
Three layers.
Outcomes are about what you get, processes are about what you do, and identity is about what you believe.
Outcomes are about what you get, processes are about what you do, and identity is about what you believe.
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Most people begin changing habits by focusing on what they want to achieve.
Most people begin changing habits by focusing on what they want to achieve.
What is an example of a shift of identity?
What is an example of a shift of identity?
What do most people fail to consider when attempting to improve?
What do most people fail to consider when attempting to improve?
Behavior that is inconsistent with our identity will last.
Behavior that is inconsistent with our identity will last.
What is the ultimate form of intrinsic motivation?
What is the ultimate form of intrinsic motivation?
True long-lasting behavior change is identity change.
True long-lasting behavior change is identity change.
What is the goal in behavior change?
What is the goal in behavior change?
Your behaviors are a reflection of your identity.
Your behaviors are a reflection of your identity.
When your behavior and your identity are fully aligned, you are simply acting like the type of person you believe yourself to be.
When your behavior and your identity are fully aligned, you are simply acting like the type of person you believe yourself to be.
What can happen when you follow the labels attached to your identity?
What can happen when you follow the labels attached to your identity?
What happens when you repeat a 'story' to yourself for years?
What happens when you repeat a 'story' to yourself for years?
Good habits can conflict with your identity, leading to failure in action.
Good habits can conflict with your identity, leading to failure in action.
The real reason you fail to stick with habits is your self-image.
The real reason you fail to stick with habits is your self-image.
Flashcards
Challenges in Habit Change
Challenges in Habit Change
Changing habits is hard because we often focus on the wrong goals or methods.
Layers of Change
Layers of Change
Three layers influence behavior change: Outcomes (goals), Processes (systems), and Identity (beliefs).
What are Outcomes?
What are Outcomes?
Outcomes are what you want to achieve, like losing weight or getting promoted.
What are Processes?
What are Processes?
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What is Identity?
What is Identity?
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Outcome-Based Habits
Outcome-Based Habits
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Identity-Based Habits
Identity-Based Habits
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Shift in Identity Example
Shift in Identity Example
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Importance of Identity
Importance of Identity
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Lasting Behavior Change
Lasting Behavior Change
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Intrinsic Motivation
Intrinsic Motivation
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Goals in Behavior Change
Goals in Behavior Change
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Identity and Actions
Identity and Actions
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Alignment of Behavior and Identity
Alignment of Behavior and Identity
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Negative Identity Labels
Negative Identity Labels
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Challenge of Changing Beliefs
Challenge of Changing Beliefs
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Conflict Between Habits and Identity
Conflict Between Habits and Identity
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Self-Image and Habit Formation
Self-Image and Habit Formation
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Study Notes
Challenges in Habit Change
- Changing habits can be difficult due to focusing on the wrong goals or methods.
- Addressing the wrong aspects leads to ineffective habit transformation.
Layers of Change
- Three layers exist: Outcomes, Processes, and Identity.
- Outcomes (outer layer) represent goals like losing weight or winning a championship.
- Processes (middle layer) involve the systems and routines adopted to achieve goals.
- Identity (center layer) represents the core beliefs about oneself and the desired self-image.
Outcomes, Processes, and Identity
- Outcomes refer to what is achieved.
- Processes focus on the actions taken.
- Identity centers on beliefs and self-perception.
Identity-Based vs. Outcome-Based Habits
- Most people start with outcome-based habits, focusing on what to achieve rather than who to become.
- Identity-based habits emphasize a shift in self-perception, starting from who individuals wish to be.
Shift in Identity Example
- Person #1 identifies themselves as a smoker and struggles with quitting.
- Person #2 sees themselves as "not a smoker," representing a successful identity shift.
Importance of Identity in Habit Change
- Identity change often goes unconsidered, leading to a disconnect between goals, actions, and underlying beliefs.
- Aligning actions with a new identity is crucial for successful habit formation.
Lasting Behavior Change
- Long-term change is rooted in a transformation of identity.
- Behaviors inconsistent with identity are unlikely to endure.
Ultimate Intrinsic Motivation
- True motivation arises when a habit is ingrained within one's identity.
- Self-identification as the habit (e.g., "I am a runner") fosters commitment.
Goals in Behavior Change
- True goals focus on becoming a certain type of person rather than merely achieving a specific task.
- E.g., aspiring to be a reader instead of just reading a book.
Reflection of Identity in Behaviors
- Actions reflect beliefs about the self, consciously or unconsciously.
- Integrating habits into self-identity simplifies the process of maintaining them.
Alignment of Behavior and Identity
- When behaviors align with identity, actions become automatic functioning as the concerned individual.
Perception of Identity Labels
- Identity can shape behavior negatively if one adopts limiting labels (e.g., "I'm terrible at math").
- Labels constrain potential and foster a fixed mindset towards capabilities.
Difficulty of Changing Longheld Beliefs
- Persistent self-stories can establish mental grooves that become resistant to change.
- Embedded beliefs are challenging to alter, making it hard to embrace new habits.
Conflict Between Habits and Identity
- Rational understanding of good habits is only effective when aligned with self-identity.
- Inconsistent beliefs can lead to failure in habit implementation.
Self-Image and Habit Formation
- Many struggle with habit maintenance due to external misconceptions (e.g., feeling busy).
- Ultimately, self-image profoundly influences habit adherence, serving as a barrier to change.
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