Biblical Counseling Process PDF
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Advanced Training Institute of America
Ed Welch
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This document discusses the biblical counseling process, emphasizing its personal and adaptable nature. It highlights the importance of connecting with the counselee on a personal level, using biblical principles and applying empathy. It also explores the role of the counselor as an ambassador of Christ.
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