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The Self from Various MODULE 1: Perspectives Lesson 2: Sociological Perspectives by: Rowena Gaspay - Fernandez INTRODUCTION In this...

The Self from Various MODULE 1: Perspectives Lesson 2: Sociological Perspectives by: Rowena Gaspay - Fernandez INTRODUCTION In this lesson, we will explore the "self" through the lens of sociology. It intends to facilitate the exploration of the issues and concerns regarding self and identity to arrive at a better understanding of one's self. The question of "how the self is being developed in the sociologist's eyes" will be the starting point of our inquiry. A sociological perspective of self starts with the premise that a reciprocal relationship exists between self and society. The self influences society through different activities engaged by individuals like creating groups, organizations, networks, and institutions. On the other hand, society influences the self through its shared cultures during social interactions and engagements of each member. It enables the self to take the role of others. Why do we need a sociological perspective anyway in understanding oneself? There are at least two reasons: (1) to help us to see general social patterns in the behavior of the particular individual, and (2) to offer insights about the social world that extends far beyond explanations that rely on individual quirks and personalities. INTENDED LEARNING OUTCOMES At the end of this lesson, you will be able to: 1. Identify how the SELF developed based on the perspective of Sociology; 2. Make a self-reflection of ones' social self development through creative arts.  MOTIVATION A. LOOKING GLASS SELF ACTIVITY 1. Choose three partners and create a venue (group chat, phone call, and the like) where you can discuss the following topics where you are to choose one topic only: a. When was the last time you had a heart-to-heart talk? Why? How was it? b. As an adolescent, how did you face the challenge of the quarantine period? 2. After your discussion, answer the questions in the box. Write at least three sentences about your partner. What I think of my partner? What my partner thinks of me? B. PROCESSING  After sharing with your partners, what are the common things that you have with your chosen partners? ___________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________  When you answered what your partner might think of you, did your answer match what your partner thinks of you as a person? ___________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________  LESSON PROPER Sociology is best defined as From a sociological perspective, the "self" is a the science of society, social product of social interaction. This perspective also institutions, and social relationships, specifically: the explains how "the self" emerges as a product of social systematic study of the experience. This social experience happens when we development, structure, interaction, and collective start to socialize. In this process of socialization, we behavior of organized groups of acquire our social identities. Also, we tend to internalize human beings. Hence, sociology studies social life, social change, the values and roles expected of us in our social world. and the causes and Conklin (as cited by Lilly, 1984) says that society consequences of human behavior in a social context. transmits its cultural values for us to function properly as its members. Let us try to understand how the self is developed based on the three sociologists' perspectives, namely, George Mead with his social self theory, Charles Cooley in his looking glass self theory, and Erving Goffman with his performed self / dramaturgical approach. 1. SOCIAL SELF THEORY First, let us talk about George Herber Mead's theory. It is considered that George Mead's social self is one of the most important sociological approaches in the development of self. He conceptualizes the role of the mind in a social process. He also believed that the self emerges from the social experience. Self is not part of the body, and it does not exist at birth. Thus, the self starts to develop when we learn to interact with other people. For Mead, existence in a community comes before individual consciousness. The social experience involves communication and the exchange of symbols. It is us, people, who create the meaning of a symbol. This meaning emerges based on our interaction with it. For example, to elaborate on this idea, the symbol '#' means a 'number sign' for the older generation. However, the present generation gave new meaning and called it a 'hashtag.' Another example is when a guy and a lady are always together; different meanings could be attached to their relationship depending on who perceives it. They could be seen as friends, lovers, or siblings. Furthermore, Mead believed that the self is reflective and reflexive. It is evident when in social interaction. An example is when you want to understand the motive of another person. Mead implies that to understand someone's intention, you must imagine the situation from the other person's point of view. By taking the role of the other, the self becomes reflective and reflexive as well. Mead's theory posits stages of self-development.  The first stage is called the preparatory stage, which takes place between 0 – 3 years old. At this point, the children do not have a self because they imitate those people around them. As the children learn the language, they learn the symbols as well. For example, when babies are hungry, they cry. The mother will say "dede," and the one giving it is "mama." In this process, the baby learns that the way to address the hunger is to have "dede" provided by "mama." The "mama" and "dede" are the languages, while the mother and the object "dede" are the symbols.  The second stage is the play stage which occurs between 3 – 5 years old. Role-taking happened in this stage. Children begin to assume the perspective of their significant other mentally. The self is developing and emerges through pretend play. A classic example of this idea is when children play "bahay-bahayan." The boy pretends to be the father, the girl takes the role of the mother, and there is an imaginary baby. The imaginary baby represents the child in his/her family. Children internalized the roles of their parents. The portrayals of the roles of a mother and a father are reflections of their perspectives of how their mother and father perform their functions in the family.  The third stage is the game stage which takes place between 5 – 8/9 years old. At this stage, children consider tasks and relationships simultaneously. They take the perspective of several others and can take the rules of society. It is learned through group games. For example, they play taguan. They establish the rule. For example, one will volunteer as the taya, and others will hide. The last to be found by the taya will be the next taya. Thus, rules and roles are learned in the process. But still, the self is not fully formed in this stage.  The fourth stage is the generalized other stage. According to Mead, self is formed when a person takes the perspective of the generalized others. Generalized others are the general attitude or perspective of a community that a person may take to him/herself. In short, it is the general expectations of society. People tend to use these expectations to shape their behaviors. Examples are the expectations of the society to a mother, or a father, etc. At this point, the person develops a less fragmented sense of self. An example of this is when a woman looks at the mirror; she judges the reflection based on the general perspective dictated by the society (e.g., media, culture) on how the woman should look. Give at least two characteristics of self in each stage. Preparatory stage Play stage Game stage Generalized others stage Moreover, for Mead, self is not a simple reflection of the society around it. Instead, he believes that the self is not a social robot; the self is an active process. He postulates that the self has two existing interactive sides: the "I" and the "Me." It is the dual nature of the self or the belief that we experience the self as both subject and object.  "Me" - the socialized aspect of the self. It contains the learned behaviors, attitudes, and expectations of others and society that the individual assumes. In here, you tend to think beyond yourself. Your concern does not revolve around yourself alone; instead, you think about society's expectations from you. It is the objective self.  "I" – it is the part of the self that is unsocialized, unpredictable, and spontaneous. It is the part of you where you do not mind what society expects from you. You only concern about yourself. It is the individual's identity based on response to the "me." It is the subjective self. 2. LOOKING GLASS SELF THEORY The second concept that we will be discussing is the Looking Glass Self theory of Charles Cooley. According to Charles Cooley, people's self-understanding is constructed, in part, by the perception of how others view them. An example of this is when someone tells you that you dance well, you will internalize it, and in turn, you will say to yourself that you are a good dancer. It is a process called "the looking glass self." The self is built within social settings. The people with whom we interact become the mirror in which we view ourselves. For example, your friends, teachers, classmates, neighbors, parents, and siblings have varying perceptions about you. You tend to collate and internalize these perceptions and develop one description of yourself. What if these people give you opposing views about yourself? For example, your teacher viewed you as a diligent student while your father viewed you as "tamad"? Cooley said that even those opposing views about ourself, are continually internalized. We tend to integrate it into our personal attributes. The theory also explains that favorable views of people around us help us to develop a positive self-concept. On the other hand, if we think that others perceive us negatively, we also develop a negative self-concept or pessimistic view about ourselves. Give at least 5 favorable and 5 unfavorable views of other people about you. Favorable views Unfavorable views 3. PERFORMED SELF Lastly, we have the concept of Erving Goffman with his performed self in self-construction. Constructing situations and drama is rooted in his belief that life is like a theatrical play. According to him, "people routinely behave like actors on a stage. There are roles, scripts, and actions. Daily life is a series of stagecraft rules." He believes that the meaning of life is constructed through interactions. That is why he proposed the concept of interaction order. Interaction order is what we immediately do in the presence of others. For example, you see your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, what do you do? Nagtatago ka ba? Mag-iiba ka ba ng daan? Thus, it is the first thing you do when you see the other person. Moreover, the concept is dramaturgy focuses on how individuals take on roles and act them out to present a favorable impression to their "audience." According to him, we want to control how others view us. He called this process impression management. Depending on the social situation, we put on different masks to control how other people will view us. We adapt what we are depending on whom we are interacting with. Juggling with the masks happened when two people from our different social groups meet. When the presentation of self is too different, the person will be confused about what mask to put on. It is rooted in Goffman's belief that we do not have a true self. Thus, there is no identifiable performer behind the role. Shakespeare also agrees with the concept of comparing life to a theater by saying that "All the world is a stage and all men and women merely player: they have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his plays many parts." Shakespeare also viewed life as a stage, and we are only actors and actresses. We have exits (which can be our death) and entrances (where birth can be considered our entrance) because we are not permanent here. So, there are times that we lose important people, and we come to meet new ones (Parang yung ex mo na pumasok at lumabas lang sa stage ng buhay mo, toink!). And we play many roles; it could be a friend, daughter/son, sibling, boyfriend/girlfriend, mother/father, and many more. In every role, we possess a variety of masks as well. Who are you as: Son/Daughter: ____________________________________________________ Friend: ____________________________________________________ Student: ____________________________________________________ Concerning Goffman's concept of impression management, he proposed the following components on how we control peoples' impressions about us. 1. Front stage - people play different roles throughout their lives and display various behavior depending on where they are and the time of the day. It is where we act. 2. Backstage – when people engage in backstage behavior, they are free of the expectations and norms that dictate front-stage behavior. In short, this is what we do if no one is looking. Goffman added that each definition of a situation lends itself to a different approach, and the consequences are real. He also points out that the self is a social construction dependent on a situation. APPLICATION Which among the theories mentioned above best explain the development of your social self? Please explain. ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________  GENERALIZATION  The SELF is a product of social interaction and social experiences.  The social world influenced the individuals’ internalized values and roles.  The theories of Mead, Cooley, and Goffman’s explains how our SOCIAL SELF developed. LET'S DO SOME ARTWORK Reflect on your process of social self development. Express it by creating any piece of art that you choose (e.g., poem, image collage, songwriting, painting, etc.) Please include a brief explanation of your work. REFERENCES Giddens, A. (2008). Modernity and self-identity: Self and society in the late modern age. 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