The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness Ch 4
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What is regarded as the greatest gift next to life itself?

  • The capacity for self-awareness
  • The freedom to choose (correct)
  • The power to influence others
  • The ability to respond to situations

    • What determines the size of the space between stimulus and response?

  • The level of education
  • Social and cultural factors
  • Personal relationships
  • Genetic inheritance and upbringing (correct)

    • What happens when individuals fail to notice their ability to choose?

  • They limit their range of thoughts and actions (correct)
  • They are able to change their circumstances easily
  • Their potential for growth accelerates
  • They become more dependent on others

    • How is the concept of choice contrasted with victimism?

    <p>Choice empowers individuals while victimism encourages blame</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What emotional impact does learning about one's freedom to choose have on individuals?

    <p>It can excite a sense of possibility and potential</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is meant by the term 'transition person' as described in the content?

    <p>An individual who fosters positive change across generations.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How did the director of human resources initially handle their relationship with their boss?

    <p>By actively seeking ways to help the boss be more effective.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which outcome was a direct result of the director's conscious effort to change their approach at work?

    <p>They successfully reduced the company's insurance premiums.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the phrase 'yesterday holds tomorrow hostage' imply in the context of the chapter?

    <p>Focusing on past mistakes can hinder future growth.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What key lesson does the example of the human resources director convey about workplace dynamics?

    <p>Proactively influencing others can lead to meaningful change.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What ultimately decides a person's goals in life according to the discussion?

    <p>The set of their soul</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is meant by the 'wise use' of the space between stimulus and response?

    <p>Making choices based on natural laws and principles</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the concept of natural authority imply?

    <p>Natural laws govern all actions and their consequences</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which statement best reflects the idea of moral authority?

    <p>Using freedom and power responsibly follows moral principles</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What belief is reflected in the statement about universal principles?

    <p>They are acknowledged even by those who deny their existence</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How can one enlarge their freedom according to the discussion?

    <p>Through controlled stimuli and responses</p> Signup and view all the answers

    In the example given about crossing the river, what primarily led to the failure of the attempt?

    <p>The individual relied on overconfidence rather than technique</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is referred to as the 'birthgifts' mentioned in the content?

    <p>Talents and potential given to every individual</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which of the following best describes the three important gifts discussed?

    <p>Freedom to choose, Natural laws, Four intelligences/capacities</p> Signup and view all the answers

    According to the content, what is the consequence of adults on children's innate abilities?

    <p>Children rapidly lose their innate genius due to adult influences</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does Marianne Williamson express about the fear of using one's talents?

    <p>The fear stems from the recognition of one's immense power</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What do the four intelligences/capacities symbolize in terms of human nature?

    <p>Body, heart, mind, and spirit</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What primarily governs the consequences of behavior?

    <p>Principles</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which intelligence relates primarily to one's ability to analyze and comprehend?

    <p>Mental Intelligence (IQ)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How is moral authority obtained according to the content?

    <p>By sacrificing short-term interests for principled actions</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What effect does celebrity obsession have on a person's values?

    <p>It makes their values unstable and misplaced</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which capacity corresponds to the physical aspect of our nature?

    <p>Physical Intelligence (PQ)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is implied when it is said that many people live with 'moral mushiness'?

    <p>They lack a clear sense of direction regarding principles.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What must be prioritized to avoid negative consequences in life?

    <p>Principles over social values</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How does emotional intelligence (EQ) manifest in individuals?

    <p>In their self-knowledge and empathy toward others</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is one of the natural laws that guide human relationships as mentioned in the content?

    <p>The law of the harvest</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does emotional intelligence (EQ) primarily enhance in the context of communication and leadership?

    <p>Emotional competence</p> Signup and view all the answers

    According to the content, which of the following intelligences is suggested to be particularly destabilizing to traditional views of success based solely on IQ?

    <p>Emotional Intelligence</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is referred to as the most fundamental of all the intelligences?

    <p>Spiritual Intelligence (SQ)</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How much more productive are top emotional competent individuals in simple jobs compared to their peers?

    <p>Three times more productive</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which statement best describes the relationship between IQ and emotional intelligence according to the content?

    <p>Someone with high IQ may have low emotional intelligence.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does Spiritual Intelligence (SQ) seek to fulfill according to the text?

    <p>Drive for meaning and connection</p> Signup and view all the answers

    In the context provided, how are true principles characterized?

    <p>They are akin to a compass that always points north.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is a potential risk of relying excessively on mental intelligence in social interactions?

    <p>Underestimating interpersonal skills.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which intelligence is acknowledged as being uniquely human among the types discussed?

    <p>Spiritual Intelligence</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Study Notes

    Gifts at Birth

    • Everybody has unique talents and strengths that are given at birth.
    • We are capable of incredible things, even though at times we may feel limited or fearful of the possibilities.
    • We are meant to shine and contribute to the world with our gifts.

    The Power to Choose

    • We have the freedom and power to choose our responses to life.
    • This power to choose is the foundation for personal growth and happiness.
    • The size of the "space" between stimulus and response is affected by our genetics and upbringing, but we can still choose to enlarge it through conscious effort
    • By choosing to respond wisely, we can create the world we want to live in
    • We are not defined by our past or our circumstances.

    Natural Laws vs. Cultural Norms

    • Natural laws or principles are universal and timeless (like gravity, fairness, honesty, etc.)
    • These principles are inarguable and operate regardless of our choices.
    • We can’t escape the consequences of our actions, even if we try to ignore them.
    • The human experience often involves a tension between these universal laws and prevailing cultural norms.

    Natural & Moral Authority

    • Humans have a unique ability to choose, which gives them power over the rest of creation.
    • Natural authority refers to our dominion over the natural world, and moral authority refers to our principled use of our power to choose.
    • Using our freedom to choose wisely allows us to contribute positively to our world.

    Principles vs. Values

    • Principles are natural laws that govern consequences like gravity.
    • Values are social norms and can be argued and changed.
    • To live a principled life aligns your values to principles.

    Moral Authority

    • It requires the sacrifice of self-interest and prioritizes principles over social values.
    • It means having a ‘true north’ to guide your actions.

    The Law of the Harvest

    • It highlights the consequences of our actions.
    • It suggests lasting results are grown from within.

    The Four Intelligences

    • The four intelligences are: Physical (PQ), Mental (IQ), Emotional (EQ) and Spiritual (SQ).
    • They are equally important and should be developed and nurtured.

    Physical Intelligence (PQ)

    • Refers to the body’s ability to function without conscious effort.
    • The body can heal itself, and medicine should encourage a holistic approach.

    Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

    • Relates to self-awareness, empathy, communication, and respecting differences.
    • It is crucial for success in relationships, leadership, and achieving goals.

    Spiritual Intelligence (SQ)

    • Is the most fundamental intelligence and guides the other three.
    • It is the search for meaning and connection with the infinite.

    How Spiritual Intelligence is Superior

    • The text argues that SQ is the highest form of intelligence.
    • Anwar Sadat’s example illustrates how SQ can override EQ and achieve positive outcomes.
    • It highlights the importance of staying true to principles and moral authority.

    Key Figures

    • Daniel Goleman - Author and EQ expert
    • Richard Wolman - Author who defines spirituality as a quest for connection.
    • Anwar Sadat - The former president of Egypt who sought peace with Israel.
    • Jehan Sadat - Sadat’s wife who witnessed his transformation and supported his decision.

    Four Intelligences

    • The human being has 4 intelligences: Body, Mind, Heart, Spirit
    • Developing 4 intelligences will instill: quiet confidence, internal strength, security, courage, consideration, moral authority

    Leading Balanced Life

    • 4 simple assumptions can lead to a more balanced life
    • Body: You have had a heart attack, live accordingly
    • Mind: Your profession's half-life is two years, prepare accordingly
    • Heart: Everything you say about another can be overheard, speak accordingly
    • Spirit: Assume a one-on-one visit with your creator every quarter, live accordingly

    Learning Software

    • The best time to learn software is during childhood, primarily in the early home life
    • Early home life can be negative and impact "software"
    • School can become surrogate parent
    • Partnership between home and school for constant reinforcement is key to alignment between "hardware" and "software"

    A.B. Combs Elementary School

    • A magnet school in Raleigh, North Carolina, with a mission to produce leaders
    • Introduced principle-based character education into the curriculum for K-5 students
    • Used The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People as curriculum
    • Introduced principle-centered software into the lives of students
    • 18 months later, 94% were at or above grade level, academics improved

    Impact of The 7 Habits

    • The 7 Habits framework developed by Covey can be used as the foundation for developing 4 Intelligences
    • The 7 Habits: Be Proactive, Begin with the end in mind, Put First Things First, Think win-win, Seek First to Understand, Synergize, Sharpen the Saw

    Questions & Answers

    • Nature vs Nurture: We are a product of choice, there is space between stimulus and response. We are not solely a product of genetics or environment.
    • Leaders Born or Made?: Leaders are self-made through chosen responses and develop greater discipline, choice increases.
    • Must all 4 capacities be developed?: Yes, to develop any one to mature levels it is necessary to work on all 4, this is what integrity means.
    • Retirement: Retire from jobs but not from meaningful projects. Continuing to contribute to worthy projects and causes promotes life longevity.

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    This quiz explores the unique gifts we are born with and how they shape our responses to life. It delves into the power of choice, emphasizing the role of natural laws and cultural norms in personal development. Test your knowledge on how these concepts influence our growth and happiness.

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