Turning a Man On Without Touching Him

Study Notes

Turning a Man On Without Touching Him

Key Principle 1: Men are turned on by knowing the effect they have on you. They are not mind readers, so giving them a window into your thoughts and feelings can make a huge difference.
Key Principle 2: The power of future pacing can immerse a man in the experience you're looking forward to sharing with him, releasing dopamine and making him excited for what's to come.

Eight Ways to Turn a Man On Without Touching Him

Future Experience or Feeling Statement: Share a personal feeling statement about something you're looking forward to experiencing with him later. E.g., "I can't wait to feel your lips on my neck tonight."
Future Action Statement: Share something you're looking forward to doing to him or having him do to you later. E.g., "I'm gonna enjoy pushing you up against the wall as soon as you walk in the door tonight."
Present Sensation Statement: Describe a feeling or sensation you're having right now as you think about him. E.g., "It's sending tingles down my spine thinking about you and what we're going to do later."
Present Sensation Question: Ask him how he's feeling, creating a safe space for him to open up and share his desires. E.g., "How does it make you feel to know what I want to do to you?"
Sexy Questions: Ask personal and intimate questions to get him to open up and think about sex. E.g., "What are the craziest places you've had sex?" or "If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be?"
Hypothetical Questions: Ask "would you rather" questions to create a fun and playful conversation about sex. E.g., "Would you rather have sex only in bed or only out of bed?"
Multimedia Messages: Use voice memos, pictures, and videos to create a more intimate and sensual connection. Voice memos can be especially powerful in creating a sense of closeness.
Sexy Memes and Pictures: Send funny and sexy memes or pictures to create a playful and flirtatious atmosphere. E.g., a koala hanging from a tree with the caption "I can't wait to be hanging off of you like this later."

Turning a Man On Without Touching Him

Two key principles to turn a man on without touching him: he needs to know the effect he has on you, and future pacing can create excitement and release dopamine.

Eight Ways to Turn a Man On Without Touching Him

Future Experience or Feeling Statement: Share personal feelings about future experiences with him, e.g., "I can't wait to feel your lips on my neck tonight."
Future Action Statement: Share desired actions to be taken later, e.g., "I'm gonna enjoy pushing you up against the wall as soon as you walk in the door tonight."
Present Sensation Statement: Describe current feelings or sensations while thinking about him, e.g., "It's sending tingles down my spine thinking about you and what we're going to do later."
Present Sensation Question: Ask about his current feelings to create a safe space for opening up, e.g., "How does it make you feel to know what I want to do to you?"
Sexy Questions: Ask personal and intimate questions to encourage openness and sexual thoughts, e.g., "What are the craziest places you've had sex?" or "If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be?"
Hypothetical Questions: Ask "would you rather" questions to create a fun and playful conversation about sex, e.g., "Would you rather have sex only in bed or only out of bed?"
Multimedia Messages: Use voice memos, pictures, and videos to create an intimate and sensual connection.
Sexy Memes and Pictures: Share funny and sexy memes or pictures to create a playful and flirtatious atmosphere, e.g., a koala hanging from a tree with the caption "I can't wait to be hanging off of you like this later."