Transactional Analysis and Social Graces

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What are the Four Basic Life Positions found in the self-help book "I'm OK, You're OK"?

  • "I'm not OK - You're OK" (correct)
  • "I'm OK-You're not OK" (correct)
  • "I'm OK - You're OK" (correct)
  • "I'm not OK-You're not OK" (correct)

In the "I'm OK - You're not OK" life position, both parties feel good about each other and the relationship is productive.

False (B)

What is the ideal life position in the Four Basic Life Positions?

I'm OK - You're OK

Which of the following social graces is NOT mentioned in the text as being part of Smoking Etiquette?

<p>Smoke only in designated areas. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the main purpose of social graces?

<p>To maintain harmony in relationships by adhering to conventional requirements of social behavior.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text emphasizes that conforming to social roles and norms is unimportant for a healthy society.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What are the three main types of relationships that influence adolescents?

<p>Parental relationships, Peer relationships, Community, society, and culture.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text suggests that adolescents who have good relationships with their parents are more likely to engage in risky behaviors such as substance abuse and juvenile delinquency.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one of the main challenges adolescents face in forming their identities?

<p>A lack of understanding of themselves and the world around them (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Peer groups can have both positive and negative influences on adolescents' social development.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one of the main factors that shapes adolescent development, especially in terms of values and beliefs?

<p>Culture</p> Signup and view all the answers

Early-maturing girls may face teasing or sexual harassment which can increase their risk of depression, anxiety, and even suicide.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to Benjamin B. Wolman, what is one of the key roles played by leaders in adolescent groups?

<p>Relating the group to other groups.</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to self-determination theory, adolescents are more likely to follow leaders who allow them to make their own choices and feel competent in their roles within the group.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the name of the fifth stage of psychosocial development according to Erik Erikson, which occurs during adolescent years?

<p>Identity versus Role Confusion</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the term used to describe adolescents' exploration of different roles and identities before successfully forming their own sense of self?

<p>Identity moratorium (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the term for the concept that a person's self-concept is shaped by how others perceive them?

<p>Looking-glass self</p> Signup and view all the answers

The looking-glass self theory suggests that individuals should solely rely on others' perceptions to develop their self-image.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the goal of self-evaluation in personal development?

<p>To develop a self-image based on one's own evaluations rather than solely on how others perceive them.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text states that the traditional family structure, consisting of two married individuals providing care for their biological offspring, is becoming more prevalent.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which type of family structure is characterized by the presence of grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, who often play a significant role in the lives of the nuclear family members?

<p>Extended family (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the term used to describe a graphical representation of a person's family relationships and medical history?

<p>Genogram</p> Signup and view all the answers

Strong families are characterized by their shared commitment to learning new skills and values.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is NOT one of the five "L's" that Dr. Wayne Matthews identifies as contributing to strong family relationships?

<p>Liberty (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one of the primary roles of parents in influencing an adolescent's career decisions?

<p>To provide their adolescents with work values and work experiences.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text suggests that guidance counselors in school are not as important as teachers in influencing a student's career decisions.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is one of the main benefits of undertaking internships or on-the-job trainings for adolescents?

<p>It can help them gain experience and develop skills. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text emphasizes that personal development only impacts an individual's career choices and not their overall life satisfaction.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the first fundamental step in personal development, according to the text?

<p>Self-awareness</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT one of the core benefits of personal development, as mentioned in the text?

<p>Increased wealth (F)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text suggests that adolescents should focus on developing their communication skills, research and planning skills, human relations skills, organization, management and leadership skills, and work management skills.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the process of career exploration designed to help individuals do?

<p>Identify and explore potentially satisfying occupations based on their identified skills and capabilities.</p> Signup and view all the answers

It is important for adolescents to research and understand the industry they are interested in working for before making career decisions.

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What is the final and crucial step in the career decision-making process?

<p>Making a decision based on the available information and understanding of their own strengths and weaknesses.</p> Signup and view all the answers

The text suggests that career choices should be based solely on what an individual is good at, without considering their own interests and values.

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Flashcards

Self-awareness

The ability to understand our own feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. It's about knowing yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations.

PAC Framework

A framework that describes three internal voices: Parent, Adult, and Child. They influence our thoughts and decisions.

I'm Not OK - You're OK

A life position where we believe we are not okay, but others are okay. This leads to feeling inferior and insecure.

I'm OK - You're Not OK

A life position where we believe we are okay, but others are not okay. This leads to feeling superior and can cause conflict.

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I'm OK - You're OK

The ideal life position where we believe both ourselves and others are okay. This fosters healthy and productive relationships.

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I'm Not OK - You're Not OK

A life position where we believe neither ourselves nor others are okay. This can lead to despair and lack of motivation.

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Social Graces

The unwritten rules that govern our behavior in social situations. They determine what is considered appropriate and cultured.

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Social Roles

The parts we play in society, each with its own set of expected behaviors. We can have multiple social roles at once.

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Social Norms

The expected behaviors within a social role or group. They provide order and predictability in interactions.

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Conformity

The tendency to conform to social norms and expectations. It's a powerful force shaping our actions.

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Peer Influence

A stage of development where teenagers pull away from their parents and look to peers for guidance and validation.

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Parent-Adolescent Conflict

Conflict between parents and teenagers, often around issues of control and independence.

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Community, Society, and Culture

The influence of a larger societal context on adolescent development. This includes cultural norms, values, and expectations.

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Leadership in Peer Groups

The ability to inspire and guide others, often possessing strong organizational and social skills.

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Identity vs. Role Confusion

A stage of adolescent development where they explore their identity and figure out who they are. Failure to do so can lead to role confusion.

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Looking-Glass Self

The idea that our sense of self is shaped by how we believe others perceive us. This can lead to positive or negative self-image.

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Genogram

A graphical representation of a person's family relationships and history. It's used to identify patterns and issues.

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Nuclear Family

A family structure consisting of a married couple and their biological children.

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Single-Parent Family

A family structure where one parent raises children alone.

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Step Family

A family structure formed when one or both partners have children from previous relationships.

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Extended Family

A family structure that includes extended relatives, such as grandparents, aunts, and uncles, living together or providing support.

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Authoritarian Parenting

A parenting style that uses strict rules and punishments to control children.

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Permissive Parenting

A parenting style that is lenient and lacks consistent rules or expectations.

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Authoritative Parenting

A parenting style that combines firm limits with warmth and communication. It encourages independence while providing guidance.

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Rejecting/Neglecting Parenting

A parenting style that is characterized by neglect, lack of support, and minimal involvement in a child's life.

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Aptitude

The current abilities and skills that can influence future career choices. It answers the question, "What am I good at?"

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Interest

The things that interest and motivate you. It helps you choose a career that you will enjoy and find fulfilling.

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National Career Assessment Examination (NCAE)

A standardized test that assesses aptitude in various areas, providing guidance for career planning.

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Strand

A specialized area of study within a track. It provides more focused learning and preparation for specific careers.

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Academic Track

A path of study focused on courses related to higher learning and college preparation.

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Technical-Vocational-Livelihood (TVL) Track

A path of study focused on practical skills and immediate entry into the workforce.

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Career

A pattern of work experience that spans a lifetime, reflecting transitions and changes.

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Goal Setting

The process of setting specific goals with measurable outcomes and timeframes.

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Self-Determination Theory

A theory that suggests individuals are more likely to follow peer leaders who provide them with autonomy, relatedness, and competence.

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Holland's Career Typology

A model that categorizes six personality types to match individuals with appropriate career fields.

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Study Notes

Transactional Analysis

  • Transactional Analysis is a method for solving life problems
  • It helps understand relationships and decision-making
  • It uses the PAC framework: Parent, Adult, and Child
  • The Adult is the reasoning voice
  • The Parent provides guidance and rules
  • The Child represents emotions and prejudices
  • "I'm OK - You're OK" is an ideal relationship where both feel good
  • "I'm not OK - You're OK" is where one feels inferior
  • "I'm OK - You're not OK" is when one feels superior over the other
  • "I'm not OK - You're not OK" is when both parties feel bad

Social Graces

  • Good breeding is a combination of good sense, nature, and self-denial
  • Social graces are a code of social behavior based on contemporary norms and values
  • Etiquette varies by society, social class or group
  • Smoking etiquette includes using ashtrays and not littering
  • Drinking etiquette involves moderation and respect for others
  • Dating etiquette includes consideration and respect

Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescents

  • Social roles are the behaviors expected within a specific group
  • Social norms are unwritten rules about acceptable behavior
  • Adolescents develop through their relationships with parents.
  • Peer relationships are crucial during adolescence.
  • Adolescents are influenced by societal and cultural norms.
  • Parents, peers, and community influence adolescent relationships

Choosing a Potential Course and Career

  • Aptitude refers to skills and abilities for a career
  • Interest is an important factor in career choice
  • The NCAE (National Career Assessment Examination) helps assess aptitude
  • Senior High School tracks include Academic, Technical-Vocational-Livelihood, Sports, and Arts and Design

Family Structures and Legacies

  • Nuclear families consist of a mother, father, and children
  • Extended families include grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins
  • Single-parent families include a single parent raising their children
  • Stepfamilies consist of a second marriage with children from previous relationships
  • Parenting styles include authoritarian, permissive, authoritative, and rejecting/neglecting

Career Choice

  • Career is a pattern of work experience throughout a person's life
  • Goal setting is important for career planning. Setting SMART goals is key
  • Goal setting helps individuals focus attention and effort
  • Motivation is key to achieving goals
  • Self-awareness is crucial for informed decision making
  • Identifying skills and abilities, interests, and learning styles aid in choosing a career

Factors Affecting Personal Development

  • Self-awareness, important in career planning, involves understanding one's skills, values, and limitations
  • Knowing your preferred learning style helps in career choices
  • Experiences with others can influence career choices.
  • Culture and gender can impact career choices.

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