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Which of the following does NOT describe a way intimate partners typically interact?
Which of the following does NOT describe a way intimate partners typically interact?
- Maintaining emotional distance to preserve individuality. (correct)
- Sharing extensive personal and confidential knowledge.
- Exhibiting mutuality, recognizing their close connection as 'us'.
- Expressing commitment to the relationship's indefinite continuation.
According to the Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale, how is the perceived closeness in a relationship visually represented?
According to the Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale, how is the perceived closeness in a relationship visually represented?
- Through a series of pie charts showing the distribution of resources.
- Through a series of bar graphs showing the level of dependency.
- Through a series of timelines indicating shared experiences.
- Through a series of Venn-like diagrams with varying degrees of overlap. (correct)
According to the material, why is quality considered more important than quantity in relationships?
According to the material, why is quality considered more important than quantity in relationships?
- Maintaining numerous relationships ensures constant support.
- More relationships lead to a greater exchange of resources and opportunities.
- Establishing just a few close relationships fulfills the need to belong. (correct)
- Having a large number of relationships increases social status.
What effect does holding a partner's hand have on the brain's alarm response?
What effect does holding a partner's hand have on the brain's alarm response?
According to the material, what is one likely outcome for people who are alone or have insufficient intimacy?
According to the material, what is one likely outcome for people who are alone or have insufficient intimacy?
What correlation was detected in the heart failure study?
What correlation was detected in the heart failure study?
According to Bowlby's attachment theory, what is the role of early relationships with caregivers?
According to Bowlby's attachment theory, what is the role of early relationships with caregivers?
A person who is comfortable depending on others and having others depend on them likely has which attachment style?
A person who is comfortable depending on others and having others depend on them likely has which attachment style?
What is the primary characteristic of people with a dismissing attachment style?
What is the primary characteristic of people with a dismissing attachment style?
How does self-esteem relate to our relationships with others, according to the material?
How does self-esteem relate to our relationships with others, according to the material?
What is a likely behavior of someone with low self-esteem?
What is a likely behavior of someone with low self-esteem?
What is Natural Selection most focused on?
What is Natural Selection most focused on?
What is the main emphasis of sexual selection in evolutionary biology?
What is the main emphasis of sexual selection in evolutionary biology?
Which example illustrates intersexual selection?
Which example illustrates intersexual selection?
How does evolutionary psychology explain the differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women?
How does evolutionary psychology explain the differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women?
Why do women tend to focus more on paternal investment when seeking a long-term partner?
Why do women tend to focus more on paternal investment when seeking a long-term partner?
What are the seven specific ways that intimate relationships differ from more casual associations?
What are the seven specific ways that intimate relationships differ from more casual associations?
According to the presented information, what is one result tied to cultural shifts with changes in economic conditions, increasing individualism, and technology?
According to the presented information, what is one result tied to cultural shifts with changes in economic conditions, increasing individualism, and technology?
What factor correlates with more permissible behavior in cultures?
What factor correlates with more permissible behavior in cultures?
According to the material, an androgynous person exhibits which traits?
According to the material, an androgynous person exhibits which traits?
Explain how interdependence functions as a core element of intimacy?
Explain how interdependence functions as a core element of intimacy?
How does the 'Inclusion of Other in the Self' (IOS) Scale measure relationship closeness, and what do the overlapping circles represent?
How does the 'Inclusion of Other in the Self' (IOS) Scale measure relationship closeness, and what do the overlapping circles represent?
Explain the correlation found in the Heart-Failure study regarding marital happiness and survival rates after a heart attack. What does this suggest about the impact of relationships on health?
Explain the correlation found in the Heart-Failure study regarding marital happiness and survival rates after a heart attack. What does this suggest about the impact of relationships on health?
How might evolutionary factors explain the need to belong?
How might evolutionary factors explain the need to belong?
Describe how secure attachment influences behavior in relationships.
Describe how secure attachment influences behavior in relationships.
How does the 'sociometer theory' explain the relationship between self-esteem and social acceptance?
How does the 'sociometer theory' explain the relationship between self-esteem and social acceptance?
How do individuals with dismissing attachment styles typically view intimacy and independence?
How do individuals with dismissing attachment styles typically view intimacy and independence?
Explain how intersexual selection differs from intrasexual selection.
Explain how intersexual selection differs from intrasexual selection.
How does high or low self-esteem affect how people seek support from their partners?
How does high or low self-esteem affect how people seek support from their partners?
What are the two underlying themes behind the adult attachment categories proposed by Kim Bartholomew?
What are the two underlying themes behind the adult attachment categories proposed by Kim Bartholomew?
Explain how the evolutionary perspective accounts for differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women.
Explain how the evolutionary perspective accounts for differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women.
In the context of sexual selection, define 'adaptive value' and give an example.
In the context of sexual selection, define 'adaptive value' and give an example.
How can cultural norms influence relationship patterns, as suggested by the provided text?
How can cultural norms influence relationship patterns, as suggested by the provided text?
Describe how negative emotionality can affect a romantic relationship.
Describe how negative emotionality can affect a romantic relationship.
Explain the concept of 'paternity uncertainty' and its potential impact on relationships.
Explain the concept of 'paternity uncertainty' and its potential impact on relationships.
How might having low self-esteem impact a person's perception of their partner's feelings towards them, and what is a potential outcome of this?
How might having low self-esteem impact a person's perception of their partner's feelings towards them, and what is a potential outcome of this?
What are some of the adverse consequences that may arise if a human's need to belong remains unfulfilled over time?
What are some of the adverse consequences that may arise if a human's need to belong remains unfulfilled over time?
According to Bowlby's Attachment Theory, how do early relationships with caregivers shape an individual's emotional and relational patterns throughout life?
According to Bowlby's Attachment Theory, how do early relationships with caregivers shape an individual's emotional and relational patterns throughout life?
In the context of sexual selection, what are the key differences between the mating choices of women and men?
In the context of sexual selection, what are the key differences between the mating choices of women and men?
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Intimate partners knowledge
Intimate partners knowledge
Partners share extensive, personal, and confidential knowledge, revealing information not shared with most others.
Interdependence in intimacy
Interdependence in intimacy
The degree to which partners frequently, strongly, diversely, and enduringly influence each other.
Qualities of close ties
Qualities of close ties
Caring, trust, and responsiveness are key to long-term, healthy relationships.
Responsiveness in relationships
Responsiveness in relationships
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Mutuality in close ties
Mutuality in close ties
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Commitment of Intimate Partners
Commitment of Intimate Partners
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Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale
Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale
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The Need to Belong
The Need to Belong
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Meeting the need to belong
Meeting the need to belong
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Benefits of a Partner's Support
Benefits of a Partner's Support
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Risks of Insufficient Intimacy
Risks of Insufficient Intimacy
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Attachment Theory
Attachment Theory
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Secure Attachment
Secure Attachment
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Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment
Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment
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Avoidant Attachment
Avoidant Attachment
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Self-Esteem
Self-Esteem
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Sociometer
Sociometer
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Sexual Selection
Sexual Selection
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Intersexual Selection
Intersexual Selection
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Intrasexual Selection
Intrasexual Selection
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Natural Selection
Natural Selection
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Adaptive Value
Adaptive Value
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Parental Investment
Parental Investment
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Paternity Uncertainty
Paternity Uncertainty
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Adult Attachment Styles
Adult Attachment Styles
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Attachment Themes
Attachment Themes
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Study Notes
The Nature of Intimacy
- Intimate partners possess in-depth personal and confidential knowledge about each other
- Intimate partners share histories, desires, and feelings not revealed to most
- The lives of intimate partners are intertwined
- Actions of one partner affect the other's desires and actions
- Interdependence is the degree of influence and need intimate partners have on each other. This is frequent, strong, diverse and enduring
- Qualities that make close ties tolerable include caring, trust and responsiveness
- Feeling that a partner recognizes, understands, and supports is a core ingredient for the best relationships
- Close ties have mutuality with partners recognizing their connection, thinking of themselves as "us"
- Intimate partners are committed with an expectation for the partnership to continue indefinitely
- Intimate partners invest time, effort, and resources needed to achieve their goals
Inclusion of Others in the Self (IOS) Scale
- IOS is a psychological scale measuring perceived closeness between individuals
- Typically used in the context of relationships
- The scale quantifies how people perceive their relationships with significant others like romantic partners, friends, and family
- The IOS scale helps to investigate relationship closeness, intimacy, and relationship quality impact on psychological outcomes
- The scale has Venn-like diagrams of pairs of circles with varying degrees of overlap
- An individual chooses the diagram representing their relationship with another person
- One circle in the diagram represents the self
- The other circle represents the significant other
- Greater circle overlap signifies a greater sense of inclusion and connection
The Need to Belong
- Humans need to belong in close relationships
- Problems arise if this need is unmet
- A drive exists to establish and maintain close relationships with interaction and communication with those that care
- Quality is more important than quantity in relationships
- People in close connection with others are generally live happier, healthier, and longer lives
- Holding a partner's hand reduces the brain's alarm in threatening situations
- Pain reduces when looking at pictures of a partner
- Wounds heal faster when support from others is received
- Those without intimacy have higher risks of health problems, weaker immune systems and psychological problems
- Elderly people have higher mortality rates after the loss of a spouse
- Divorce increases the risk of early death
- Fulfilling the need to belong is a matter of life and death
- Well-being depends on satisfying the need to belong
- Close connection with others is vital to survival
Heart Failure Study
- Coyne et al. conducted a Heart-Failure study on male heart attack patients
- The study explored marriage quality and its affects on recovery
- The study tracked patient survival rates over a four-year period
- Results showed 70% survival rate for men in happy marriages
- Results showed 45% survival rate for men in unhappy marriages
- Marriage happiness correlates to health outcomes and recovery
Evolutionary Basis
- The need to belong originated in early humans
- Loners were less likely to reproduce in a difficult environment
- The tendency to form connections was evolutionary adaptive
- Stable and affectionate connections increased the likelihood of children surviving and thriving
- Human beings need social connections like oxygen, food, and water
Bowlby's Attachment Theory
- Bowlby's Theory explains how early caregiver relationships shape lifelong emotional and relational patterns
- Attachment styles reflect how people connect with others, especially in intimate relationships
Secure Attachment
- Secure attachment means comfort with intimacy, trusting others, with dependency
- Confident in relationships, can seek and provide support
Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment
- Ambivalent/anxious attachment involves fear of abandonment, high insecurity, and need for reassurance
- Behavior includes clinging, being overly dependent, and anxieties about the stability of the relationship for constant attention
Avoidant Attachment
- Avoidant attachment includes difficulty with intimacy, self-reliance, and emotional distance
- Behavior is avoiding closeness, suppressing feelings, and difficulty trusting or depending on others
- These styles influence how individuals manage emotional connections and relationship dynamics
- Kim Bartholomew proposed four attachment styles in adults
Secure Style (Adults)
- It's easy to become emotionally close, comfortable with depending on others, and can be independent
Preoccupied Style (Adults)
- Characterized by a desire for complete emotional intimacy, yet finding others reluctant to get as close
- Uncomfortable without close relationships but worries about not being valued
Fearful Style (Adults)
- People that avoid intimacy due to fears of rejection
- Uncomfortable with closeness, finds it hard to trust others, and dependent due to fear of being hurt
Dismissing Style (Adults)
- Thinks intimacy is not worth the trouble
- Important to feel independent and self-sufficient, prefers not to depend on others
Attachment Themes
- Underlying themes include avoidance of intimacy and anxiety about abandonment
- These themes and attachment styles exist on a continuum, changing over time based on interpersonal experiences
Self-Esteem
- Self-esteem comes from self-evaluation
- Favorable judgements result in high self-esteem
- Doubting oneself results in low self-esteem
- Those with higher self-esteem are happier
Sociometer Theory
- Self-esteem is a subjective gauge of relationship quality with others
- Self-esteem acts like an internal monitor measuring how valued and accepted one feels by others
- High self-esteem is related to stronger relationships and feeling accepted
- Low self-esteem comes from perceived rejection or social exclusion
- Social connections and status influence self-worth
Self-Esteem in Social Context
- The sociometer serves the need to belong
- Self-esteem tracks how well one is doing socially
- Low self-esteem makes one find it hard to believe they are loved, undermining optimism about the relationship
- Relationship sabotage may occur when the the partners' love is underestimated
- Those with low self-esteem tend to overreact
- High self-esteem results in feeling confident about partner's love and regard
- Those with low self-esteem withdraw to protect themselves when things go wrong
Sexual Selection, Reproductiveness, and Adaptive Value
- Natural selection is when traits improve survival and reproduction in a specific environment
- Sexual selection, coined by Charles Darwin, happens when traits increase chances of attracting a mate/reproducing
- Traits for success with sexual selection are not always beneficial for survival
Intersexual Selection
- Intersexual selection is when one sex displays preferences for certain traits in the opposite sex
- This can involve colorful plumage, shows of strength, good genes, and suitability as a mate
Intrasexual Selection
- Intrasexual selection happens when there is competition among individuals of the same sex for access to mates
- Physical contests, dominance, or other behaviors are used to outcompete rivals
Evolution
- The key to evolution is reproduction and not survival of the fittest.
- Adaptive value is a trait that increases an organism’s chances of surviving and reproducing in its specific environment
- Traits with a high adaptive value are more likely to be passed on
- Survival and reproduction improve an organism's fitness
- Evolutionary psychology suggests that men and women differ according to reproductive dilemmas faced
- A man can have sex with 100 different women and create 100 children, whilst, women has one child.
- Parental investment is the time, energy, and resources one must provide to one's offspring to reproduce
- Women choosing mates selectively can reproduce successfully
- Men having more sex may reproduce more successfully
- Women choose sexual partners carefully, choosing smarter, prestigious and more stable partners
- Women are less interested than men in casual, uncommitted sex
- Men have paternity uncertainty, and cannot be certain children are their own
- Women know for sure if a child is theirs
- Men are more preoccupied with their partner's infidelity than women.
- Evolutionary perspective distinguishes between long and short-term mating strategies
- Men prefer brief affairs; ready to have sex sooner
- Men value physically attractive, young women for long-term
- Women focus more on parental investment for long-term, sexy and alpha for short-term
- We are social species that need each other
- Relationships are complex and essential
Main Points
- Intimate relationships involve: knowledge, interdependence, caring, trust, responsiveness, mutuality, and commitment
- Humans maintain regular interaction with intimate partners and suffer the consequences when this need is not fulfilled
- Cultural norms around relationships, economics, individualism all influence relationships
- Children's interactions with their caregivers produce secure, preoccupied, fearful, which influence relationships throughout life
- Men are dominant, women expressive, but a third are androgynous
- Individual differences are usually subtle
- Stable traits are openness, extraversion, agreeableness, and conscientiousness
- Self-esteem comes from interactions with others that shapes intimacy
- Lesbians and gays often experience more equality, and better communication in intimacy
- Cultural norms influence inherited habits
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