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Which of the following does NOT describe a way intimate partners typically interact?

  • Maintaining emotional distance to preserve individuality. (correct)
  • Sharing extensive personal and confidential knowledge.
  • Exhibiting mutuality, recognizing their close connection as 'us'.
  • Expressing commitment to the relationship's indefinite continuation.

According to the Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale, how is the perceived closeness in a relationship visually represented?

  • Through a series of pie charts showing the distribution of resources.
  • Through a series of bar graphs showing the level of dependency.
  • Through a series of timelines indicating shared experiences.
  • Through a series of Venn-like diagrams with varying degrees of overlap. (correct)

According to the material, why is quality considered more important than quantity in relationships?

  • Maintaining numerous relationships ensures constant support.
  • More relationships lead to a greater exchange of resources and opportunities.
  • Establishing just a few close relationships fulfills the need to belong. (correct)
  • Having a large number of relationships increases social status.

What effect does holding a partner's hand have on the brain's alarm response?

<p>It reduces the brain's alarm response. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to the material, what is one likely outcome for people who are alone or have insufficient intimacy?

<p>An increased risk for a variety of health problems. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What correlation was detected in the heart failure study?

<p>Men in unhappy marriages had lower survival rates after heart failure. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to Bowlby's attachment theory, what is the role of early relationships with caregivers?

<p>They shape an individual's emotional and relational patterns. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

A person who is comfortable depending on others and having others depend on them likely has which attachment style?

<p>Secure (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the primary characteristic of people with a dismissing attachment style?

<p>Finding intimacy not worth the trouble. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does self-esteem relate to our relationships with others, according to the material?

<p>Self-esteem is a subjective measure of how valued and accepted we feel by others. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is a likely behavior of someone with low self-esteem?

<p>Underestimating their partner's love for them. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is Natural Selection most focused on?

<p>Traits that improve survival and reproduction in a specific environment. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the main emphasis of sexual selection in evolutionary biology?

<p>The increase in an individual's chances of attracting a mate and reproducing. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Which example illustrates intersexual selection?

<p>Birds displaying bright colorful plumage to potential partners. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does evolutionary psychology explain the differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women?

<p>It suggests each sex has historically faced different reproductive dilemmas. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why do women tend to focus more on paternal investment when seeking a long-term partner?

<p>Because women are seeking a mate that can offer resources and support. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What are the seven specific ways that intimate relationships differ from more casual associations?

<p>Knowledge, interdependence, caring, trust, responsiveness, mutuality, and commitment. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to the presented information, what is one result tied to cultural shifts with changes in economic conditions, increasing individualism, and technology?

<p>People are routinely delaying marriage, with more choosing cohabitation. (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What factor correlates with more permissible behavior in cultures?

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According to the material, an androgynous person exhibits which traits?

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Explain how interdependence functions as a core element of intimacy?

<p>Interdependence in intimacy means that the actions and decisions of one partner affect the other, creating a mutual influence that is frequent, strong, diverse, and enduring.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does the 'Inclusion of Other in the Self' (IOS) Scale measure relationship closeness, and what do the overlapping circles represent?

<p>The IOS Scale uses a series of Venn-like diagrams with varying degrees of overlap to quantify perceived closeness. More overlap signifies a greater sense of inclusion and connection with the other person.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Explain the correlation found in the Heart-Failure study regarding marital happiness and survival rates after a heart attack. What does this suggest about the impact of relationships on health?

<p>The study showed that men in happy marriages had a 70% survival rate, while those in unhappy marriages had a 45% survival rate. This suggests that marital happiness can play a significant role in health outcomes and recovery.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How might evolutionary factors explain the need to belong?

<p>Early humans who formed stable connections were more likely to survive and reproduce in harsh environments, making the tendency to form relationships an evolutionary advantage that contributed to the survival of their offspring.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Describe how secure attachment influences behavior in relationships.

<p>Securely attached individuals are comfortable with intimacy, trust others, and feel confident in relationships. They seek and provide support effectively, fostering healthy interdependence.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does the 'sociometer theory' explain the relationship between self-esteem and social acceptance?

<p>The sociometer theory suggests that self-esteem acts as an internal gauge of how valued and accepted we feel by others. High self-esteem indicates strong social connections, while low self-esteem signals social exclusion.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How do individuals with dismissing attachment styles typically view intimacy and independence?

<p>Individuals with a dismissing attachment style often value independence and self-sufficiency, viewing intimacy as unnecessary or undesirable. They prefer not to depend on others or have others depend on them.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Explain how intersexual selection differs from intrasexual selection.

<p>Intersexual selection involves preferences of one sex for certain traits in the opposite sex to improve chances for mating. Intrasexual selection involves competition among individuals of the same sex for access to mates.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How does high or low self-esteem affect how people seek support from their partners?

<p>People with high self-esteem often seek support from their partners when facing challenges. People with low self-esteem tend to withdraw from their partner when things go wrong.</p> Signup and view all the answers

What are the two underlying themes behind the adult attachment categories proposed by Kim Bartholomew?

<p>Avoidance of intimacy and anxiety about abandondonment.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Explain how the evolutionary perspective accounts for differences in short-term and long-term mating strategies between men and women.

<p>Men are more interested in brief affairs and value physical attractiveness for long-term mates. Women focus on parental investment for long-term partners and prefer charismatic, dominant men in short-term relationships.</p> Signup and view all the answers

In the context of sexual selection, define 'adaptive value' and give an example.

<p>Adaptive value means a trait increases an organism's chances of surviving and reproducing in its environment; e.g., the long neck of a giraffe helps it reach food in tall trees, increasing its survival chances.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How can cultural norms influence relationship patterns, as suggested by the provided text?

<p>Cultural norms influence relationship patterns as evidenced by how cultures with different sex ratios exhibit varying traditional roles for men and women.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Describe how negative emotionality can affect a romantic relationship.

<p>Negative emotionality undermines commitment and can create turbulence in a romantic relationship.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Explain the concept of 'paternity uncertainty' and its potential impact on relationships.

<p>Paternity uncertainty refers to the fact that a man cannot be 100% certain a child is his, which can lead to concerns about infidelity and impact relationship dynamics.</p> Signup and view all the answers

How might having low self-esteem impact a person's perception of their partner's feelings towards them, and what is a potential outcome of this?

<p>Those with low self-esteem may find it hard to believe their partner truly loves them. As a result, they sometimes tend not to be optimistic that their love will last and sabotage their own relationship by underestimating their partner's love for them.</p> Signup and view all the answers

What are some of the adverse consequences that may arise if a human's need to belong remains unfulfilled over time?

<p>If a human's need to belong remains unfulfilled over time, a variety of health problems may arise, and their immune responses may be weakened.</p> Signup and view all the answers

According to Bowlby's Attachment Theory, how do early relationships with caregivers shape an individual's emotional and relational patterns throughout life?

<p>Bowlby's Attachment Theory explains that these early relationships form patterns that heavily effect how people connect with others, especially in intimate relationships.</p> Signup and view all the answers

In the context of sexual selection, what are the key differences between the mating choices of women and men?

<p>Women choose sexual partners more carefully and insist on smarter, friendlier, more prestigious, and more emotionally stable partners. Men are more interested in brief affairs and value physical attractiveness for long-term mates.</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Intimate partners knowledge

Partners share extensive, personal, and confidential knowledge, revealing information not shared with most others.

Interdependence in intimacy

The degree to which partners frequently, strongly, diversely, and enduringly influence each other.

Qualities of close ties

Caring, trust, and responsiveness are key to long-term, healthy relationships.

Responsiveness in relationships

Feeling recognized, understood, and supported by your partner is a core element of strong relationships.

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Mutuality in close ties

Close ties exhibit a sense of 'us' instead of individuals, recognizing their deep connection.

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Commitment of Intimate Partners

Intimate partner's expectation for the partnership to continue indefinitely, investing time, effort, and resources.

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Inclusion of Other in the Self (IOS) Scale

A scale measuring the perceived closeness between individuals, using overlapping circles in Venn-like diagrams.

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The Need to Belong

The fundamental human need for close connections; unmet needs lead to various problems.

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Meeting the need to belong

Establishing and maintaining close connections requires interaction and communication with caring individuals.

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Benefits of a Partner's Support

Holding a partner's hand reduces the brains' alarm response, and acceptance and support help heal faster.

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Risks of Insufficient Intimacy

Feeling alone or lacking intimacy increases risk for health problems, impacting immune responses and mental health.

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Attachment Theory

Early relationships with caregivers shape an individual's emotional and relational patterns throughout life.

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Secure Attachment

Comfortable with intimacy, trust others, able to depend on and be depended on, and provide support to others.

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Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment

Characterized by fear of abandonment, constant need for reassurance, clinginess, and anxiousness.

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Avoidant Attachment

Difficulty with intimacy, self-reliant, and tend to distance themselves emotionally, avoiding closeness.

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Self-Esteem

Evaluations of skills and traits; high judgements equals high self-esteem, and low when we doubt ourselves.

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Sociometer

A subjective gauge measuring relationship quality; high when relationships are strong, low when rejected.

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Sexual Selection

The process by which certain traits increase an individual's chances of attracting a mate and reproducing.

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Intersexual Selection

The preference of one sex for certain traits in the opposite sex. (ex: colorful plumage).

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Intrasexual Selection

Competition among individuals of the same sex for access to mates involving physical contests or displays.

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Natural Selection

Traits improving survival and reproduction become more common in a specific environment.

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Adaptive Value

The measure of how a trait or behavior increases an organism's chances of survival and reproduction.

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Parental Investment

Differences in minimum obligatory parental effort between males and females

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Paternity Uncertainty

The evolutionary issue when the male cannot be 100% sure that the offspring is his

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Adult Attachment Styles

Kim Bartholomew categorized adult attachment into secure, preoccupied, fearful, and dismissing styles.

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Attachment Themes

Two themes that influence emotional connections: avoidance of intimacy and anxiety about abandonment.

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Study Notes

The Nature of Intimacy

  • Intimate partners possess in-depth personal and confidential knowledge about each other
  • Intimate partners share histories, desires, and feelings not revealed to most
  • The lives of intimate partners are intertwined
  • Actions of one partner affect the other's desires and actions
  • Interdependence is the degree of influence and need intimate partners have on each other. This is frequent, strong, diverse and enduring
  • Qualities that make close ties tolerable include caring, trust and responsiveness
  • Feeling that a partner recognizes, understands, and supports is a core ingredient for the best relationships
  • Close ties have mutuality with partners recognizing their connection, thinking of themselves as "us"
  • Intimate partners are committed with an expectation for the partnership to continue indefinitely
  • Intimate partners invest time, effort, and resources needed to achieve their goals

Inclusion of Others in the Self (IOS) Scale

  • IOS is a psychological scale measuring perceived closeness between individuals
  • Typically used in the context of relationships
  • The scale quantifies how people perceive their relationships with significant others like romantic partners, friends, and family
  • The IOS scale helps to investigate relationship closeness, intimacy, and relationship quality impact on psychological outcomes
  • The scale has Venn-like diagrams of pairs of circles with varying degrees of overlap
  • An individual chooses the diagram representing their relationship with another person
  • One circle in the diagram represents the self
  • The other circle represents the significant other
  • Greater circle overlap signifies a greater sense of inclusion and connection

The Need to Belong

  • Humans need to belong in close relationships
  • Problems arise if this need is unmet
  • A drive exists to establish and maintain close relationships with interaction and communication with those that care
  • Quality is more important than quantity in relationships
  • People in close connection with others are generally live happier, healthier, and longer lives
  • Holding a partner's hand reduces the brain's alarm in threatening situations
  • Pain reduces when looking at pictures of a partner
  • Wounds heal faster when support from others is received
  • Those without intimacy have higher risks of health problems, weaker immune systems and psychological problems
  • Elderly people have higher mortality rates after the loss of a spouse
  • Divorce increases the risk of early death
  • Fulfilling the need to belong is a matter of life and death
  • Well-being depends on satisfying the need to belong
  • Close connection with others is vital to survival

Heart Failure Study

  • Coyne et al. conducted a Heart-Failure study on male heart attack patients
  • The study explored marriage quality and its affects on recovery
  • The study tracked patient survival rates over a four-year period
  • Results showed 70% survival rate for men in happy marriages
  • Results showed 45% survival rate for men in unhappy marriages
  • Marriage happiness correlates to health outcomes and recovery

Evolutionary Basis

  • The need to belong originated in early humans
  • Loners were less likely to reproduce in a difficult environment
  • The tendency to form connections was evolutionary adaptive
  • Stable and affectionate connections increased the likelihood of children surviving and thriving
  • Human beings need social connections like oxygen, food, and water

Bowlby's Attachment Theory

  • Bowlby's Theory explains how early caregiver relationships shape lifelong emotional and relational patterns
  • Attachment styles reflect how people connect with others, especially in intimate relationships

Secure Attachment

  • Secure attachment means comfort with intimacy, trusting others, with dependency
  • Confident in relationships, can seek and provide support

Ambivalent/Anxious Attachment

  • Ambivalent/anxious attachment involves fear of abandonment, high insecurity, and need for reassurance
  • Behavior includes clinging, being overly dependent, and anxieties about the stability of the relationship for constant attention

Avoidant Attachment

  • Avoidant attachment includes difficulty with intimacy, self-reliance, and emotional distance
  • Behavior is avoiding closeness, suppressing feelings, and difficulty trusting or depending on others
  • These styles influence how individuals manage emotional connections and relationship dynamics
  • Kim Bartholomew proposed four attachment styles in adults

Secure Style (Adults)

  • It's easy to become emotionally close, comfortable with depending on others, and can be independent

Preoccupied Style (Adults)

  • Characterized by a desire for complete emotional intimacy, yet finding others reluctant to get as close
  • Uncomfortable without close relationships but worries about not being valued

Fearful Style (Adults)

  • People that avoid intimacy due to fears of rejection
  • Uncomfortable with closeness, finds it hard to trust others, and dependent due to fear of being hurt

Dismissing Style (Adults)

  • Thinks intimacy is not worth the trouble
  • Important to feel independent and self-sufficient, prefers not to depend on others

Attachment Themes

  • Underlying themes include avoidance of intimacy and anxiety about abandonment
  • These themes and attachment styles exist on a continuum, changing over time based on interpersonal experiences

Self-Esteem

  • Self-esteem comes from self-evaluation
  • Favorable judgements result in high self-esteem
  • Doubting oneself results in low self-esteem
  • Those with higher self-esteem are happier

Sociometer Theory

  • Self-esteem is a subjective gauge of relationship quality with others
  • Self-esteem acts like an internal monitor measuring how valued and accepted one feels by others
  • High self-esteem is related to stronger relationships and feeling accepted
  • Low self-esteem comes from perceived rejection or social exclusion
  • Social connections and status influence self-worth

Self-Esteem in Social Context

  • The sociometer serves the need to belong
  • Self-esteem tracks how well one is doing socially
  • Low self-esteem makes one find it hard to believe they are loved, undermining optimism about the relationship
  • Relationship sabotage may occur when the the partners' love is underestimated
  • Those with low self-esteem tend to overreact
  • High self-esteem results in feeling confident about partner's love and regard
  • Those with low self-esteem withdraw to protect themselves when things go wrong

Sexual Selection, Reproductiveness, and Adaptive Value

  • Natural selection is when traits improve survival and reproduction in a specific environment
  • Sexual selection, coined by Charles Darwin, happens when traits increase chances of attracting a mate/reproducing
  • Traits for success with sexual selection are not always beneficial for survival

Intersexual Selection

  • Intersexual selection is when one sex displays preferences for certain traits in the opposite sex
  • This can involve colorful plumage, shows of strength, good genes, and suitability as a mate

Intrasexual Selection

  • Intrasexual selection happens when there is competition among individuals of the same sex for access to mates
  • Physical contests, dominance, or other behaviors are used to outcompete rivals

Evolution

  • The key to evolution is reproduction and not survival of the fittest.
  • Adaptive value is a trait that increases an organism’s chances of surviving and reproducing in its specific environment
  • Traits with a high adaptive value are more likely to be passed on
  • Survival and reproduction improve an organism's fitness
  • Evolutionary psychology suggests that men and women differ according to reproductive dilemmas faced
  • A man can have sex with 100 different women and create 100 children, whilst, women has one child.
  • Parental investment is the time, energy, and resources one must provide to one's offspring to reproduce
  • Women choosing mates selectively can reproduce successfully
  • Men having more sex may reproduce more successfully
  • Women choose sexual partners carefully, choosing smarter, prestigious and more stable partners
  • Women are less interested than men in casual, uncommitted sex
  • Men have paternity uncertainty, and cannot be certain children are their own
  • Women know for sure if a child is theirs
  • Men are more preoccupied with their partner's infidelity than women.
  • Evolutionary perspective distinguishes between long and short-term mating strategies
  • Men prefer brief affairs; ready to have sex sooner
  • Men value physically attractive, young women for long-term
  • Women focus more on parental investment for long-term, sexy and alpha for short-term
  • We are social species that need each other
  • Relationships are complex and essential

Main Points

  • Intimate relationships involve: knowledge, interdependence, caring, trust, responsiveness, mutuality, and commitment
  • Humans maintain regular interaction with intimate partners and suffer the consequences when this need is not fulfilled
  • Cultural norms around relationships, economics, individualism all influence relationships
  • Children's interactions with their caregivers produce secure, preoccupied, fearful, which influence relationships throughout life
  • Men are dominant, women expressive, but a third are androgynous
  • Individual differences are usually subtle
  • Stable traits are openness, extraversion, agreeableness, and conscientiousness
  • Self-esteem comes from interactions with others that shapes intimacy
  • Lesbians and gays often experience more equality, and better communication in intimacy
  • Cultural norms influence inherited habits

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