Who You Are When No One's Looking Ch 8
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What describes the impact of sacrificial love as illustrated by the man's actions at the Vietnam Memorial?

  • It creates a sense of overwhelming joy.
  • It can evoke deep feelings of gratitude and grief. (correct)
  • It often leads to feelings of anger and frustration.
  • It results in a public display of celebration.

    • What was the main activity of the doctor mentioned in the passage?

  • Offering free medical treatments and companionship. (correct)
  • Hosting medical workshops for the homeless.
  • Conducting research on homelessness.
  • Promoting health awareness in suburban areas.

    • Which phrase encapsulates the biblical perspective on love as mentioned in John 3:16?

  • Love is primarily about personal happiness.
  • Love is about gaining recognition.
  • Love is demonstrated through sacrifice. (correct)
  • Love is limited to familial ties.

    • What does the author suggest is required when concerned for the well-being of others?

    <p>Self-sacrifice.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How did the author feel upon witnessing the doctor's actions with the homeless man?

    <p>Inspired to help others.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the primary aspect of sacrificial love as described in the content?

    <p>It requires giving up one's own needs for the sake of others.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    How does the worldly view of marriage differ from the biblical perspective?

    <p>The world emphasizes pleasure and minimal sacrifice, while biblical love focuses on serving and commitment.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which statement about sacrificial love in friendships is most accurate?

    <p>Christian friendships require significant investment of time and energy without expectations of return.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What characteristic is essential for a successful biblical marriage according to the content?

    <p>Out-serving and out-loving one another without power struggles.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    According to the content, what is a misconception promoted by modern culture regarding personal fulfillment?

    <p>Self-gratification leads to true happiness.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is the primary theme discussed in the content?

    <p>The necessity of sacrificial love in relationship building.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the chapter suggest is a common reaction among those who feel burned out from loving others?

    <p>They often withdraw from relationships and ministry.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    According to the content, how did David replenish his spiritual energy?

    <p>By turning to God in solitude and prayer.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What method does the content recommend for refueling spiritually?

    <p>Taking time for solitude and prayer.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is one consequence of continuously giving love without replenishing oneself?

    <p>It may result in feelings of numbness and anger.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Which biblical figure is mentioned as having found strength through prayer during a time of distress?

    <p>Jesus.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What does the content imply about the nature of sacrificial love?

    <p>It requires consistency and perseverance.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What did the father in the chapter do to exemplify sacrificial love?

    <p>He supported local families in need.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What is indicated as a necessary attitude when one feels depleted from loving others?

    <p>To slow down and seek spiritual renewal.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    What might happen if someone pursues love solely based on action without considering their feelings?

    <p>They will become emotionally drained and potentially angry.</p> Signup and view all the answers

    Study Notes

    Sacrificial Love

    • Sacrificial love involves selflessness and service to others, prioritizing their well-being over one's own.
    • It is exemplified by the doctor who treated the homeless man's infected feet, and the man who mourned at the Vietnam Memorial, expressing gratitude for his friend's sacrifice.
    • Biblical definition of love is giving, as shown through God sacrificing his Son for the world's salvation.
    • Sacrificial love requires giving up precious things, like time, energy, money, plans, and independence for the benefit of others.
    • It contradicts the prevailing cultural emphasis on self-gratification, encouraging individuals to prioritize personal gain and happiness.
    • Jesus encourages self-denial and service to others, emphasizing that true fulfillment comes through sacrifice.

    In Marriage

    • "Real" love in marriage involves a deep commitment to serve and support one's partner, rather than focusing on maximizing personal pleasure.
    • A biblical approach to marriage involves mutual sacrifice, where each partner sees the other's needs as more important than their own.
    • This contrasts with the world's view of marriage as a means of achieving personal fulfillment, which often leads to dissatisfaction and divorce.
    • In contrast, a biblical marriage is characterized by a contest of love and service, where each partner strives to out-love and out-bless the other.

    In Friendships

    • True Christian friendship involves mutual investment and sacrifice, prioritizing the well-being and support of each other.
    • This involves regular interaction, encouragement, counseling, challenges, and rebukes, recognizing that friendships are built on a foundation of shared sacrifice.
    • This stands in contrast to the world's view where friendships are often based on superficial similarities and mutual benefit, leaving individuals vulnerable when facing personal challenges.

    How to Maintain a Sacrificial Love

    • Spiritual Refueling:
      • Spend time alone with God to replenish spiritual energy and remember God's love.
      • Engage in practices like daily solitude, reading scripture, listening to Christian music, or prayer.
    • Emotional Refueling:
      • Acknowledge that emotional exhaustion can occur even with strong spiritual reserves.
      • Replenish emotional energy through relaxation and recreation.
      • Engage in activities that inspire you, such as reading, writing, being outdoors, or engaging in hobbies.
    • Physical Refueling:
      • Acknowledge that physical exhaustion hinders the ability to love others.
      • Maintain good physical reserves through proper diet, sufficient sleep, and regular exercise.
      • Address unhealthy dietary habits, prioritize sleep, and commit to regular physical activity.

    Summary

    • Sacrificial love is essential for flourishing relationships and a fulfilling life.
    • It requires a conscious commitment to serving others and prioritising their well-being.
    • To practice sacrificial love effectively, it is crucial to maintain spiritual, emotional, and physical reserves through intentional self-care and replenishment practices.

    Sailboat Owners

    • Some sailboat owners spend weekends at the marina, transferring their gear to their boat, sleeping on it, cleaning it, and then transferring everything back to their car, without ever setting sail.
    • Other sailboat owners drive to the marina, transfer their gear to their boat, sleep on the boat, and motor around the marina on Saturday.
    • They may tie up with other boats and drink, and fill up their gas tank, making it appear they've been on a sailing trip.
    • But some sailboat owners truly sail. They leave the marina, hoist their sails, and enjoy their time on the water.

    Sacrificial Love

    • The author suggests that sacrificial love is like true sailing - it requires effort and commitment.
    • Sacrificial love is often costly and demands giving more than one can imagine.
    • It requires "refueling" and can be tiring, but the rewards are plentiful.
    • The Bible mentions the return on investment for sacrificial love, a hundred-fold reward and eternal life.
    • The author claims that personal fulfillment is found in sacrifice, not self-gratification.
    • He encourages readers to "rev up their engine", "throw off their lines", and sail into the deep waters of loving others.
    • God promises to provide and guide those who choose to love sacrificially.
    • He will bless them with abundant life and reward their efforts.

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    Explore the concept of sacrificial love as it applies to marriage and relationships. This quiz delves into selflessness, service to others, and the biblical definition of love. Understand how prioritizing your partner's well-being can enhance commitment and fulfillment in a loving relationship.

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