40 Questions
The child in the story referred to her security blanket as 'bunny'.
False
The child's mother reached 'buggy level' before the father.
False
The child's projectile vomiting incident occurred during dinner.
False
The parents were relieved to find the child peacefully sleeping after the vomiting incident.
True
The child's mother was not irritated with the father's quick bonding with the child.
False
The child, Melissa, was already a mother when she had the projectile vomiting incident.
False
The story implies that grandparents are always supportive of new parents.
False
The father was excited to spend the entire night cleaning up after the vomiting incident.
False
According to the passage, a 14-month-old child cannot have a conscience.
False
The author believes that spanking a child in anger is always wrong.
False
The author's granddaughter, Abby, does not know that taking tissues out of a box is wrong.
False
Infant monkeys have a conscience like human children.
False
The author's household had strict rules about dress code.
True
The author's partner grew up in a household with strict dress code rules.
False
The author's granddaughter, Abby, is too young to understand right from wrong.
False
The author believes that family boundaries and parenting styles are always universally agreed upon.
False
When a person becomes a parent, their daily decision making remains unchanged.
False
The speaker of the passage is a grandfather.
True
A child's security blanket is a sign of insecurity.
False
Having children affects a person's life and responsibilities.
True
The speaker of the passage is currently in seminary.
True
Becoming a parent is a role adjustment that is always easy and cutesy.
False
The speaker's granddaughter is attached to a security blanket with a cat's head.
False
A child's behavior with a security blanket is an example of a childhood milestone.
True
Couples with children often experience a loss of freedom and independence.
True
Children's programs and athletic events do not affect parents' schedules.
False
New parents often experience a reduction in husband and wife privacy.
True
Parents should always allow their children to sleep in their room with them.
False
Couples with children often experience a significant change in their daily routines and responsibilities.
True
Parents' career changes and promotions are unaffected by having children.
False
Couples with children often prioritize their children's needs over their own relationship and intimacy.
True
Parents should not consider their children's schedules and needs when making plans.
False
Moving to a new community always means changing churches.
False
After having the first child, couples usually want to have more children.
False
The author's wife wanted to have a dozen kids.
False
The author and his wife had three girls.
False
The author's decision to stop having children was influenced by his wife's physical well-being after giving birth to twins.
True
New parents often experience a radical change in their social and economic conditions.
True
Couples often have a clear idea about family size before having their first child.
False
The author and his wife made decisions about family size based on personal opinions.
False
Study Notes
Parenting and Adjusting to New Roles
- The author shares a personal experience of holding his baby girl during a conference, where she grabbed his finger and traced her lips with it, indicating a special bond.
- The author's wife took two days to reach the same level of bonding with their baby, referred to as "buggy level".
Challenges of Parenting
- The author shares another experience of one of his kids having a world record in projectile vomiting, which required a lot of cleanup and effort.
- The author notes that parenting can be very demanding and requires adjustments to new roles.
Criticism from Grandparents and Spanking
- There is a difference between spanking in uncontrolled anger and spanking for the child's benefit, even if the parent is angry.
- The author mentions Christian psychologists who teach against spanking in anger, but the author believes that it is impossible to never spank in anger.
Conscience and Moral Development
- The author shares an example of his 14-month-old granddaughter, Abby, who has a conscience and knows right from wrong, despite being unable to say "forgive me" or "will you forgive me".
- Abby loves to take tissues out of a box and unload them, knowing it's wrong, but does it anyway and then apologizes.
Parenting Styles and Family Boundaries
- The author notes that there are differing views of parenting and family boundaries, citing the example of clothing at home.
- The author's wife grew up in a household where people ran around in their underwear, whereas the author grew up in a household where everyone was fully clothed outside of their bedrooms.
Adjusting to New Roles and Responsibilities
- The author mentions that establishing priorities and structuring life according to those priorities is crucial.
- With promotions and new jobs come greater responsibilities, which can affect daily decision-making and family life.
Grandparenting and Adjusting to New Roles
- The author, now a grandparent, shares experiences with his granddaughter and her security blanket, "buggy".
- The author notes that adjusting to new roles, whether as a parent or grandparent, brings its own set of challenges and responsibilities.
Adjusting to Physical, Social, and Economic Changes
- The author mentions that moving to a new community can mean changing churches, social circles, and economic conditions.
- The author notes that making decisions about family size, work, home, and community involvement can be affected by these changes.
Changes in Family Life and Schedule
- With kids, there is a loss of freedom and spontaneity, as parents must consider their children's needs and schedules.
- The author notes that couples must adjust to reduced husband and wife privacy, as well as changes in their daily routines and schedules.
Explore the joys and difficulties of parenthood through the author's personal stories of bonding with their baby and overcoming challenges like projectile vomiting.
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