Narcissism and Relationship Dynamics

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What is a common reason for feeling unsafe in relationships?

Excessive praise from others

Desire for admiration

A strong sense of self-worth

Unresolved trauma (correct)

What is a necessary step for emotionally insecure individuals when entering relationships?

Seeking constant admiration

Avoiding vulnerability altogether

Engaging in self-protection

Being vulnerable with someone else (correct)

How is narcissism represented in the population?

Concentrated at the high end of the spectrum

Generally seen at an average score of 0

Uniformly distributed with no extremes

Normally distributed with most people near the middle (correct)

What does the Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI) measure?

Narcissistic traits Signup and view all the answers

What may be a characteristic of healthy individuals who score higher on the narcissism scale?

They are perceived as vain after initial charm Signup and view all the answers

What is a common misconception about narcissism?

It is a lack of self-esteem only Signup and view all the answers

What type of individuals score in the low to mid-teens on the Narcissistic Personality Inventory?

Average individuals in terms of narcissism Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT a trait associated with narcissistic individuals?

Emotional vulnerability Signup and view all the answers

What is a recommended initial approach when dealing with a narcissist?

Establish firm boundaries and emotionally distance yourself. Signup and view all the answers

Which characteristic is commonly associated with narcissistic leaders?

A focus on self-promotion rather than organizational goals. Signup and view all the answers

Why might arguing with a narcissist be ineffective?

Narcissists typically lack the ability to empathize. Signup and view all the answers

What can be a consequence of engaging with a narcissist?

Feeling manipulated and having diminished self-worth. Signup and view all the answers

What is a potential solution when dealing with a narcissistic family member?

Cutting ties may sometimes be necessary. Signup and view all the answers

What trait of narcissists may initially attract romantic partners?

Their charm and charisma. Signup and view all the answers

What is a critical weakness of narcissistic individuals in relationships?

Their deficit of empathy for partners. Signup and view all the answers

How should successes be approached when managing a narcissistic boss?

Align your successes with your boss’s interests. Signup and view all the answers

What type of bullying is characterized by the use of the internet and mobile phones?

Cyber-bullying Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is NOT a sign that a child may be being bullied?

Is thriving socially Signup and view all the answers

Which age group is most likely to experience the peak of bullying incidents?

Middle school students Signup and view all the answers

What is one of the four key elements of workplace bullying?

It is repeated and enduring Signup and view all the answers

What type of physical harm can bullying lead to if not addressed?

Physical and psychological distress Signup and view all the answers

What does the term 'power' refer to in the context of bullying?

Physical size or social status Signup and view all the answers

What proportion of children globally experiences bullying?

One in three Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following is associated with signs of workplace bullying?

Severe psychological trauma Signup and view all the answers

What role do dealbreakers play in the decision-making process within a relationship?

They represent strict criteria that must be avoided to maintain the relationship. Signup and view all the answers

During the relationship studies, what percentage of the participants chose to continue the relationship after encountering dealbreakers?

Most participants gave the relationship a chance despite dealbreakers. Signup and view all the answers

What was one example of a dealbreaker mentioned in the relationship studies?

Having a poor sense of humor. Signup and view all the answers

How did participants respond to negative information received as the relationship progressed?

They became increasingly likely to end the relationship. Signup and view all the answers

What was the first decision point centered around in the relationship simulations?

Attractiveness. Signup and view all the answers

What did researchers utilize to conduct their study on relationship decision points?

A Choose Your Own Adventure design. Signup and view all the answers

What impression do people typically form about a partner compared to their personality traits?

Physical features are formed immediately while personality traits emerge gradually. Signup and view all the answers

Why are imperfections in a partner considered inevitable?

No one is perfect, leading to unavoidable flaws in character. Signup and view all the answers

What is the most effective short-term treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)?

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Signup and view all the answers

What might be a consequence of withholding special treatment from patients with BPD?

Reactive worsening of symptoms Signup and view all the answers

Which aspect of therapy is specifically emphasized in DBT for treating BPD?

Validation and acceptance Signup and view all the answers

What is a primary characteristic that may make it difficult for a narcissistic individual to change?

A tendency to blame others for problems Signup and view all the answers

What is the most effective treatment for those suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)?

Psychodynamic Psychotherapy Signup and view all the answers

Which behavior may indicate a narcissistic individual has lost respect for their partner?

Rolling eyes and laughing when confronted Signup and view all the answers

What might a narcissistic individual do if they are motivated to change?

Begin to recognize the damage caused to loved ones Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following statements is true regarding the therapeutic approaches to BPD and NPD?

Individual therapy is more effective for treating both disorders Signup and view all the answers

What is generally the tipping point for ending a relationship based on accumulated bad information?

Between three and four pieces of bad information Signup and view all the answers

What happens when participants in the study had a longer list of dealbreakers?

They were quicker to end the relationship. Signup and view all the answers

What do people often do despite learning dealbreaker information that should disqualify a partner?

They continue the relationship. Signup and view all the answers

What is considered the most crucial ingredient for a happy relationship?

Establishing trust Signup and view all the answers

How does John Gottman conduct his research on couple interactions?

In a controlled apartment known as a 'love lab' Signup and view all the answers

What happens to most people in relationships as they accumulate dealbreakers?

They become more likely to settle in undesirable relationships. Signup and view all the answers

What did Stephen Covey claim about trust in relationships?

Trust is the glue of life. Signup and view all the answers

What is a significant outcome if trust is damaged in a relationship?

Repairing it is a necessary process. Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Gambling

Many people enjoy gambling (pokies, online betting, lottery tickets).
For some, gambling becomes a serious problem (problem gambling).
Problem gambling is characterized by an inability to control spending/time, leading to negative consequences in social, family, and work life.
Some forms of gambling are more likely to lead to problem gambling (e.g., electronic gaming machines, online sports betting).
Factors that increase risk include age (18-35 years), gender (men more likely than women), and other personal differences (impulsivity, mood issues, relationship problems, substance use problems).
Environmental factors (concentration of venues, online accessibility, advertising) increase risk.

Symptoms of Problem Gambling

Frequent thoughts about gambling.
Feeling irritable/restless when trying to stop gambling.
Gambling to escape problems or feel better.
Gambling more and more money to achieve feelings of excitement.
Arguments with family/friends related to gambling.
Relationship issues related to money/financial hardship.
Hiding/lying about gambling behaviors.
Difficulties at work/study related to gambling.
Unsuccessful attempts to stop gambling.
Difficulties resisting the urge to gamble.
Relying on others to resolve financial problems caused by gambling.
Legal issues related to debt or financial troubles.
Gambling to win back lost money.

Causes of Problem Gambling

There is no single cause for problem gambling. Several factors influence risk.
Demographics: People aged 18-35 years are most at risk, with men more likely to develop problems than women (especially younger males).
Personal differences: Impulsivity, mood disorders, relationship problems, and substance use problems increase risk.
Stressful life events (job loss, family problems, relationship breakdowns, economic crises).

Environmental Factors

Living or working in areas with concentrated gambling venues increases risk.
Online betting conditions, targeted advertising, increased access to gaming, and game design make informed choices difficult.

Treatment

Effective treatments for problem gambling include: cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), motivational interviewing (MI), and motivational enhancement therapy (MET).
These programs are delivered face-to-face or virtually.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps change unhelpful thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in relation to gambling.
CBT identifies and challenges problematic thoughts (e.g., superstitious beliefs).
CBT improves responses to stress and life difficulties, and how a person responds to triggers for gambling.
CBT is available in both face-to-face and internet-based formats.

Motivational Interviewing (MI)

MI strengthens an individual's motivation to change gambling behavior.
MI explores reasons for change and resolves uncertainty about the change.
MI uses strategies such as goal setting, plan development, and increases in confidence.

Motivational Enhancement Therapy (MET)

MET is based on MI principles.
It is a brief intervention with personalized feedback and assessment following an initial assessment.
Four sessions are typical. The first two focus are for assessment, feedback, and developing plans for behaviour change.
The last two assess the individual's progress and reinforce goals.

Anger

Anger is a common emotion ranging from mild annoyance to rage.
It is triggered by perceived wrongdoing, unfairness, or threats to well-being and social status.
Coping skills, available support, thoughts, and interpretations all influence feelings of anger.
Anger can be a healthy response when expressed assertively and respectfully.
Problem anger is frequent, intense, and long lasting, involving thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, and behaviors.
Thoughts can be irrational and exaggerated. People blame others more often than themselves when angry, focusing more on revenge and criticism.
Physical responses include increased heart rate, muscle tension, and a sensation of feeling hot. These responses affect mood, sleep, appetite, learning, and memory.
Behaviors associated with problem anger include aggression, violence, family/workplace violence, and harassment. Associated issues include road rage, assault, and substance use.
Causes of problem anger include memories of trauma and family/cultural factors (acceptable social and emotional reactions).
Risk factors can include fixed ways of thinking and expectations.
Anger can be a symptom of mental health disorders (oppositional defiant disorder, PTSD, and some personality disorders).
Treatment involves psychological interventions to address negative thoughts and behaviors.

What causes problem anger?

The way anger is experienced.
Anger-related memories
Family and cultural factors
Fixed ways of thinking
Pre-existing mental health issues such as Oppositional Defiant Disorder.

Treatment and strategies for dealing with anger

Addressing unhelpful thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to reduce anger.
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT): Modifies unhelpful thoughts and behaviors related to anger.
Relaxation skills training: Reduces physical tension related to anger.
Communication skills training: Improves conflict resolution and expressing feelings respectfully.
Family/relationship-based interventions: Improves family understanding of anger and its consequences.

Loneliness

Loneliness is a negative feeling that occurs when social relations don't meet expectations/needs or are in isolation.
It's different from being alone; a person can be alone but not feel lonely and surrounded by others.
Loneliness is related more to the quality than quantity of relationships. Individuals feel relationships do not meet their expectations and needs or are misunderstood.
Married Australians are least lonely, while those separated/divorced are more likely.
Loneliness is associated with worse physical and mental health. and higher anxiety about social interactions.

Bullying

Bullying is deliberate and repeated harm to someone else.
It can be physical or emotional.
Common in school, workplaces, and online (cyberbullying).
Cyberbullying involves spreading rumors, sending threats, sharing embarrassing images, and excluding people online.
Symptoms of bullying in children include getting hurt, experiencing nightmares, and refusing to go to school.
Symptoms of workplace bullying include psychological trauma, and economic distress.
Strategies for dealing with bullying include increasing supervision, clear rules and consequences, and teaching social skills.

Grief

Grief is a natural reaction to loss, influencing physical, emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and spiritual aspects of life.
This is true across a variety of losses like death, separation, serious injury, loss of a home, or a crisis.
People cope with grief in different ways and the intensity/duration can vary depending on individuals.
Grief can involve sadness, guilt, remorse, anxiety, loneliness, helplessness, shock, disbelief, and feelings of yearning or relief.
Cognitive changes during grief include confusion, difficulty concentrating, preoccupation with the loss, a loss of interest in enjoyable activities, and vivid dreams or nightmares.
Physical and behavioral responses can involve muscle tightness, tiredness, sleep disturbances, social withdrawal, appetite changes, restlessness, or avoiding locations/people related to the loss.
The process of grief differs for everyone, and there is no timetable for grief.
Complicated grief can involve negative thoughts about the fairness or unfairness of a situation leading to isolation, or prolonged feelings of sadness.

Overthinking

Overthinking is common but can be exhausting. Emotionally intelligent people often overthink due to a combination of self-analysis and vulnerability.
Overthinking may occur when a person reflects and assesses personal accountability, gaining insight through uncomfortable feelings and evolves.
Overthinking may occur due to a major life change and a need for reassessment of identity, including a feeling of vulnerability to loss.
A partner's behavior, such as denial of accountability, may further exacerbate the problem causing difficulty with managing thoughts, and feelings.

Trauma

Trauma is a distressing reaction to a frightening or distressing event. Events affect a person's ability to cope/function.
Reactions vary based on individuals and can range from distress from the immediate event to long term problems.
Reactions include physical, cognitive, behavioral, or emotional symptoms that can escalate.
Symptoms include: physical symptoms, such as excessive alertness, being easily startled; cognitive symptoms, such as intrusive thoughts; behavioral symptoms, like avoiding situations, and emotional symptoms, like anxiety and detachment.
Many people recover from trauma with adequate social support, but others experience chronic mental conditions PTSD, depression or drug problems.
There are several effective psychological treatments, and support is needed for people suffering more severe symptoms and distress.

Narcissism

Narcissists are characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy for others, a need for excessive admiration, and the belief that one is unique or deserving of special treatment.
Pathological narcissism is rare and causes significant friction in relationships.
Narcissists are typically viewed as more self-centered.
There is a growing perception that narcissism is increasing in younger people.
There may be benefits to some forms of narcissism, like mental toughness and high achievement, despite the potential for harm in relationships.

How Partners Commit Relationship Sabotage;

Defensiveness
Trust issues
Difficulty with communication
Fear of vulnerability
Unmet expectations of the partner

How to Handle a Narcissist;

Acknowledge your feelings and where behavior comes from.
Set emotional boundaries and maintain emotional distance.

Dealing with a Narcissistic Boss;

Manage expectations.
Align successes with the boss's goals.
Draw boundaries.
Avoid arguing.
Justify or explain yourself.

Success of Narcissists as Leaders;

High drive for power, attention, and affirmation.
Typically more concerned in self-promotion and suppressing opposition than goals.
Often lack empathy, leading to poor loyalty.

PTSD

PTSD is a disorder triggered by a traumatic event.
Symptoms may include: intrusive thoughts, nightmares, avoidance of places/situations; emotional numbness, and negative moods.
Trauma can be caused by violence, disasters, loss, abuse or being in dangerous situations.
Support from friends, family and other sources can help in treatment and recovery.

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