Personality Plus Ch 11

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What is considered the greatest strength of Peaceful Phlegmatics?

Their ability to take decisive action

Their ability to inspire others

Their lack of obvious weaknesses (correct)

Their outgoing nature

What is a primary problem associated with the Peaceful Phlegmatic temperament?

They often experience temper tantrums

They struggle with making decisions (correct)

They are overly enthusiastic

They frequently sink into deep depressions

How do Peaceful Phlegmatics generally respond to ambitious plans proposed by their partners?

They express a lack of interest (correct)

They often agree without hesitation

They become equally excited

They show excessive enthusiasm

Why are Powerful Cholerics often attracted to Peaceful Phlegmatics?

Their soft and gentle spirit Signup and view all the answers

What is a common misconception Peaceful Phlegmatics have about their behaviors?

They believe they are not offensive Signup and view all the answers

What underlying reason contributes to the procrastination of a Peaceful Phlegmatic?

They tend to be lazy and prefer to delay decisions. Signup and view all the answers

How do Peaceful Phlegmatics generally respond to motivation from others?

They resent being pressured and may resist tasks even more. Signup and view all the answers

In communication, what is a common trait of Peaceful Phlegmatics in relationships?

They avoid confrontation but may have strong opinions. Signup and view all the answers

What scenario illustrates the decision-making behavior of a Peaceful Phlegmatic?

They give passive responses but do not necessarily agree. Signup and view all the answers

What might happen if a Peaceful Phlegmatic partner does not address underlying issues in a relationship?

They may suddenly leave without warning. Signup and view all the answers

Which of the following best describes why Peaceful Phlegmatics may struggle with completing projects?

They have many ideas but lack the drive to execute them. Signup and view all the answers

How may the Peaceful Phlegmatic's behavior affect their partners in a relationship?

Partners may become frustrated and feel neglected. Signup and view all the answers

What reaction do Peaceful Phlegmatics typically have to excitement or grand gestures?

They show apprehension and lack of excitement. Signup and view all the answers

What is one common trait of a marriage between two Peaceful Phlegmatics?

They experience boredom despite getting along well. Signup and view all the answers

What behavior is typically associated with Peaceful Phlegmatics regarding social engagements?

They often feel overwhelmed by decision-making. Signup and view all the answers

How do Peaceful Phlegmatics typically respond to prompts for change or excitement?

They resist change altogether. Signup and view all the answers

In which scenario would a Peaceful Phlegmatic likely show unexpected excitement?

Going grocery shopping for household items. Signup and view all the answers

What is a common misconception about Peaceful Phlegmatics in relationships?

They appear to be indifferent or lazy. Signup and view all the answers

What issue is commonly faced by Peaceful Phlegmatics regarding responsibilities?

They tend to procrastinate and avoid work. Signup and view all the answers

What is a likely outcome of two Peaceful Phlegmatics making decisions together?

They may end up not deciding on anything at all. Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Peaceful Phlegmatic Temperament Strengths and Weaknesses

Strengths are subtle, weaknesses are often hidden
Avoids obvious displays of emotion (anger, sadness, indecisiveness)
Appears calm and agreeable, making conflict less likely
Can be difficult to communicate with due to quietness and lack of enthusiasm

Problems and Solutions

Problem: Lack of Enthusiasm

Solution: Cultivate enthusiasm, starting with small goals (e.g., once monthly).
May seem uninterested in partner's plans, potentially disappointing the partner.
Often unmoved by accomplishments of others or themselves.
Powerful Cholerics may struggle to understand or motivate them.

Problem: Resistance to Change

Solution: Embrace new experiences weekly.
May view change as unnecessary or difficult.
Often assumes others feel the same way, leading to monotonous routines.
Can be motivated by unexpected changes.

Problem: Apparent Laziness

Solution 1: Take greater responsibility for life's tasks.
May postpone tasks and avoid responsibility, often unconsciously.
Need encouragement to take action.
May take no action until everything is perfectly prepared, or may not start a project at all (like some Melancholy types).
Solution 2: Do tasks today; don't procrastinate.
Solution 3: Seek self-motivation.
May not be motivated if the task is not immediate.
May need external motivation (from a partner).
Can be motivated once someone else does some of the work.

Problem: Quiet Will of Iron

Solution: Open communication
May appear compliant but have strong, hidden opinions.
Often won't openly share feelings or express dissatisfaction, potentially leading to unresolved issues.
May express disagreement abruptly once a decision is made.

Problem: Wishy-Washy Decisions

Solution 1: Practice decision making (starting small).
Avoids decisions to avoid responsibility for outcomes.
May struggle with simple choices, appearing indecisive.
Can be pushed toward a choice (though this may cause resentment).
Solution 2: Learn to say no.
Can be pressured into doing things they don't want to due to desire to not hurt others.

Practical Tips and Advice

Peaceful Phlegmatics, even if bored, may not change.
Encourage regular attempts to do things, even if they do not seem motivated from the start.
Open communication is key to avoid built-up resentment.
Start with small, manageable goals.
Be patient and avoid pushing too hard.
Encourage small decisions first, then progress to more significant decisions.

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