Personality Plus Ch 11
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What is considered the greatest strength of Peaceful Phlegmatics?

  • Their ability to take decisive action
  • Their ability to inspire others
  • Their lack of obvious weaknesses (correct)
  • Their outgoing nature

What is a primary problem associated with the Peaceful Phlegmatic temperament?

  • They often experience temper tantrums
  • They struggle with making decisions (correct)
  • They are overly enthusiastic
  • They frequently sink into deep depressions

How do Peaceful Phlegmatics generally respond to ambitious plans proposed by their partners?

  • They express a lack of interest (correct)
  • They often agree without hesitation
  • They become equally excited
  • They show excessive enthusiasm

Why are Powerful Cholerics often attracted to Peaceful Phlegmatics?

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What is a common misconception Peaceful Phlegmatics have about their behaviors?

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What underlying reason contributes to the procrastination of a Peaceful Phlegmatic?

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How do Peaceful Phlegmatics generally respond to motivation from others?

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In communication, what is a common trait of Peaceful Phlegmatics in relationships?

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What scenario illustrates the decision-making behavior of a Peaceful Phlegmatic?

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What might happen if a Peaceful Phlegmatic partner does not address underlying issues in a relationship?

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Which of the following best describes why Peaceful Phlegmatics may struggle with completing projects?

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How may the Peaceful Phlegmatic's behavior affect their partners in a relationship?

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What reaction do Peaceful Phlegmatics typically have to excitement or grand gestures?

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What is one common trait of a marriage between two Peaceful Phlegmatics?

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What behavior is typically associated with Peaceful Phlegmatics regarding social engagements?

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How do Peaceful Phlegmatics typically respond to prompts for change or excitement?

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In which scenario would a Peaceful Phlegmatic likely show unexpected excitement?

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What is a common misconception about Peaceful Phlegmatics in relationships?

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What issue is commonly faced by Peaceful Phlegmatics regarding responsibilities?

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What is a likely outcome of two Peaceful Phlegmatics making decisions together?

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Flashcards

Peaceful Phlegmatic's weakness

Peaceful Phlegmatics struggle to get enthusiastic about things, often finding plans uninteresting.

Peaceful Phlegmatic in Seminar

Peaceful Phlegmatics are often sleepy and unresponsive in seminars, making communication challenging.

Phlegmatic's hidden strengths/weaknesses

Peaceful Phlegmatics possess subtle strengths and weaknesses, often not as obvious as those of other temperaments, they may appear unenthusiastic or indecisive.

Impact on Dynamic Partners

A partner who lacks enthusiasm can negatively impact the other partner's creativity and enthusiasm, causing unhappiness.

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Attraction to Phlegmatic

Powerful Cholerics may be attracted to Peaceful Phlegmatics for their calm and detached demeanor, possibly seeking protection.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic procrastination

Peaceful Phlegmatics put off tasks due to a lack of desire rather than needing perfect conditions.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic motivation

Peaceful Phlegmatics need direct motivation and resent being pushed.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic communication

To avoid conflict, Peaceful Phlegmatics often avoid expressing their feelings.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic decision-making

Once a Peaceful Phlegmatic makes a decision, it is incredibly difficult to change their mind.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic and conflict

Their passive nature can mask a strong will, sometimes leading to unspoken conflict or sudden departure.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic behavior

They may be bewildered or seemingly confused but have a determined will, often evident in their actions, not words.

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Example of Peaceful Phlegmatic procrastination

Peaceful Phlegmatics might leave a gift partially finished, like a blue suit with straight pins instead of snaps.

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Peaceful Phlegmatic personality

A personality type characterized by a lack of enthusiasm and a tendency to avoid excitement or change. Often calm and reserved.

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Control by lack of enthusiasm

Peaceful Phlegmatics can subtly control situations by not getting enthusiastic. This disrupts others' expectations and can be a form of quiet control.

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Avoiding excitement

Peaceful Phlegmatics generally avoid situations requiring strong emotions or quick decisions. This is a core trait of this personality type.

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Lack of initiative

Peaceful Phlegmatics may show a reluctance to take the lead or initiate activities. This can be present in both personal and professional relationships

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Procrastination

A tendency to delay tasks or responsibilities, a common behavior among some Peaceful Phlegmatics. Putting things off can stem from a lack of enthusiasm.

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Resistance to change

Peaceful Phlegmatics often prefer familiar routines and may have difficulty adjusting to new situations. This makes them react negatively to change initiatives.

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Dull marriage/relationship

A marriage (or relationship) characterized by a lack of excitement and shared activities; can arise from both partners being Peaceful Phlegmatics.

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Solution: Introduce new activities

A method to help a Peaceful Phlegmatic partner experience excitement. Introducing change (even small ones) can help break the pattern of boredom.

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Study Notes

Peaceful Phlegmatic Temperament Strengths and Weaknesses

  • Strengths are subtle, weaknesses are often hidden
  • Avoids obvious displays of emotion (anger, sadness, indecisiveness)
  • Appears calm and agreeable, making conflict less likely
  • Can be difficult to communicate with due to quietness and lack of enthusiasm

Problems and Solutions

Problem: Lack of Enthusiasm

  • Solution: Cultivate enthusiasm, starting with small goals (e.g., once monthly).
  • May seem uninterested in partner's plans, potentially disappointing the partner.
  • Often unmoved by accomplishments of others or themselves.
  • Powerful Cholerics may struggle to understand or motivate them.

Problem: Resistance to Change

  • Solution: Embrace new experiences weekly.
  • May view change as unnecessary or difficult.
  • Often assumes others feel the same way, leading to monotonous routines.
  • Can be motivated by unexpected changes.

Problem: Apparent Laziness

  • Solution 1: Take greater responsibility for life's tasks.
  • May postpone tasks and avoid responsibility, often unconsciously.
  • Need encouragement to take action.
  • May take no action until everything is perfectly prepared, or may not start a project at all (like some Melancholy types).
  • Solution 2: Do tasks today; don't procrastinate.
  • Solution 3: Seek self-motivation.
  • May not be motivated if the task is not immediate.
  • May need external motivation (from a partner).
  • Can be motivated once someone else does some of the work.

Problem: Quiet Will of Iron

  • Solution: Open communication
  • May appear compliant but have strong, hidden opinions.
  • Often won't openly share feelings or express dissatisfaction, potentially leading to unresolved issues.
  • May express disagreement abruptly once a decision is made.

Problem: Wishy-Washy Decisions

  • Solution 1: Practice decision making (starting small).
  • Avoids decisions to avoid responsibility for outcomes.
  • May struggle with simple choices, appearing indecisive.
  • Can be pushed toward a choice (though this may cause resentment).
  • Solution 2: Learn to say no.
  • Can be pressured into doing things they don't want to due to desire to not hurt others.

Practical Tips and Advice

  • Peaceful Phlegmatics, even if bored, may not change.
  • Encourage regular attempts to do things, even if they do not seem motivated from the start.
  • Open communication is key to avoid built-up resentment.
  • Start with small, manageable goals.
  • Be patient and avoid pushing too hard.
  • Encourage small decisions first, then progress to more significant decisions.

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