40 Questions
According to Ephesians chapter four, God is not concerned with what is best for an individual's marriage.
False
The four rules of communication mentioned in Ephesians chapter four are only applicable to marriage relationships.
False
The 'put off and put on' passage in Ephesians chapter four starts from verse 25.
False
The Bible does not emphasize our responsibility to get rid of old habit patterns and ways of responding to one another.
False
The primary text being discussed is Ephesians chapter five beginning in verse 25.
False
The passage suggests that we should not be sincere in our desires to do things God's way.
False
The Greek infinitives in verse 22 are in the passive voice.
False
The assignment given by the pastor was to have a conversation with the husband every day after work.
False
The wife followed the pastor's assignment for a month.
False
The old self is being corrupted in accordance with the lust of deceit according to verse 22.
True
The Bible teaches that the question in Christian marriage is when do we have sex.
False
The pastor's advice led to a improved relationship between the couple.
True
The husband was initially enthusiastic about the pastor's assignment.
False
The pastor's approach to counseling focused on improving communication between the couple.
True
The wife's role in the relationship is to make sure the husband is absolutely fulfilled.
True
The pastor's approach is based on biblical principles.
True
The four rules of communication are to be honest, keep current, attack problems, and react.
False
A biblical and theological view of sexual relationships is not a critical issue in Christian marriage.
False
The four rules of communication are only meant to be followed by the father in the household.
False
Practicing the four rules of communication can radically change the home environment.
True
Sex, money, and in-laws are not common sources of conflict in marriage.
False
The mother is responsible for teaching the four rules of communication to the rest of the family.
False
The benefits of practicing the four rules of communication are limited to the relationships between parents and children.
False
Counselors never deal with issues related to God's design for marital union in counseling sessions.
False
In Christian marriage, each spouse has a stake in the other's body.
True
A Christian husband can do whatever he wants with his body without consulting his wife.
False
In Christian marriage, one spouse has authority over the other.
False
The Bible encourages husbands and wives to enjoy their spouses as a reward in life.
True
A Christian wife owns her body independently, without any responsibility to her husband.
False
Conflict resolution in Christian marriage involves prioritizing one's own needs over those of their spouse.
False
The Bible teaches that sexual relationships in Christian marriage should be equal and reciprocal.
True
Christian husbands and wives should prioritize their individual needs over those of their spouse in their daily lives.
False
In the Roman Catholic view, sex is not considered equal to marriage.
False
The biblical view of marriage is that it is primarily a sexual relationship.
False
The primary goal of sex within marriage is personal satisfaction.
False
A great marriage is solely dependent on great sex.
False
The Bible teaches that sex is the basis of marriage.
False
John Murray's book on divorce discusses the Roman Catholic view of marriage.
True
The Bible emphasizes the importance of personal self-discipline in maintaining a successful marriage.
True
Jesus' conversation with the woman at the well in John chapter 4 highlights the importance of unity in marriage beyond mere sex.
True
Study Notes
Effective Communication in Marriage
- In marriage counseling, it's essential to teach couples effective communication skills, involving both the father and mother in the process.
- The four rules of communication are: be honest, keep current, attack problems, not people, and act, don't react.
- These rules should be practiced daily in the household to live biblically and promote healthy relationships.
God's Design for Marital Union
- A biblical and theological view of sexual relationships in Christian marriage is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling marriage.
- The top three sources of conflict in marriage are sex, money, and in-laws.
- God defines what is best for a marriage, and couples must be sincere in their desires to do things His way.
Key Scripture and Context
- Ephesians 4:25-32 is the primary text that outlines four critical rules of communication in marriage.
- Understanding the context preceding this text, specifically Ephesians 4:17-24, is essential for effective communication.
The Importance of Putting Off the Old Self
- Ephesians 4:22-24 emphasizes the importance of putting off the old self, which is being corrupted by lust and deceit.
- This process involves laying aside old habit patterns and responding to one another in a new, biblical way.
Communication in Marriage
- To have a great relationship, a husband and wife should communicate effectively, ensuring each other's fulfillment.
- The question in Christian marriage is not when to have sex, but when not to have sex (1 Corinthians 7:3).
- Sex is an important part of marriage, but it does not equal marriage; unity in marriage goes beyond mere sex.
Biblical View of Marriage
- According to John 4, Jesus deals with the woman at the well, emphasizing that unity in marriage is more than just sexual relationships.
- The biblical view of marriage is that sex has a primary goal of satisfying one's spouse (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).
- In marriage, both partners have an equal ability to satisfy each other, and their bodies are no longer solely their own (1 Corinthians 7:4).
- This implies co-ownership, and both partners must be aggressive and fulfilling in their responsibility to satisfy each other.
This quiz focuses on effective communication skills in marriage, involving both partners, and explores God's design for marital union from a biblical perspective.
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