Five Years Ago: A Reflection

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How many years ago did the narrator realize her mother was changing her makeup routine after fights?

Five

What did the narrator's mother apply first after a fight?

  • Bandage
  • Eyeshadow
  • Concealer
  • Cream (correct)

What color eyeshadow did the narrator's mother apply?

  • Purple
  • Green (correct)
  • Brown
  • Black

The narrator's father always looked at her mother with love and affection.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the narrator's mother's name?

<p>Sofia</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother had a history of being abused by her husband.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does the narrator believe her father was?

<p>A monster (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother was trying to hide the evidence of the abuse from her husband, but her plan backfired because the narrator revealed her secret.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's mother tell her to commit to in order to protect her from further abuse?

<p>A lie</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother believed her husband was an abuser, she just decided to continue his relationship with him despite the abuse.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What kind of relationship did the narrator have with her boyfriend?

<p>Secret</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's mother say about the impact of the abuse on her life?

<p>It was her norm</p> Signup and view all the answers

Why did the narrator's mother get angry when she found out about the narrator's lie regarding her studies?

<p>Because she had to cover for the narrator</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the name of the narrator's boyfriend?

<p>Will</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's mother say about what she was getting the narrator for tutoring?

<p>A tutor</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother knew that the narrator's father would not stop abusing her even if he discovered her lie.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's mother warn her about if her father discovered the truth ?

<p>He would hurt her</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the name of the father?

<p>Dimitri</p> Signup and view all the answers

How long did it take the narrator to hide Dimitri from her father?

<p>Almost a year</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother knew the maid didn't like her and that she would tell her husband about the narrator's secret.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What was the name of the narrator's bracelet?

<p>Dimitri</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father found the bracelet under the coffee table.

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What did the narrator's father do to the narrator after discovering her secret?

<p>He slapped her</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father believed every lie she told him.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father think about the way she was hiding her secret from him?

<p>He was angry (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father and mother believed her excuse about studying for the test with Gia.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father say he would do if he found out about the true reason for the narrator's failing grade?

<p>He would hurt the narrator's mother</p> Signup and view all the answers

How did the narrator's mother react to her husband's discovery of her secret?

<p>She was scared (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother believed that the abuse would not stop even if he found out about her secret relationship.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator realized and accepted that the abuse would not stop even if her father discovered her secret, which made her question if the relationship with Will was worth it.

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The narrator's mother was worried about her, but her father was more concerned.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was relieved when her father said he was not mad but disappointed.

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The narrator's father showed signs of remorse for his actions.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father tell her to commit to, if she was going to lie?

<p>Her lie</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother was not worried when the narrator was hiding evidence of her relationship with Will.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father tell her about her relationship with Gia and the test?

<p>She was lucky her mother lied</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father say he would do if he discovered the truth about her relationship with Will?

<p>He would have to cover for the abuse he inflicted on her mother</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother's response to the threat of abuse from her husband, was to accept the situation.

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The narrator was scared but determined to keep her relationship with Will a secret from her father

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The narrator's mother was aware of the abuse and chose to help her daughter hide from her husband.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator didn't believe her boyfriend when he said that listening to her talk excited him.

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The narrator's boyfriend was truly happy to be in her life.

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The narrator is aware that her boyfriend won't be happy if she tells her father about them.

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The narrator's mother was excited about her to be with Will.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator wanted her boyfriend to be happy and supported her decision to tell her parents about them.

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The narrator's boyfriend believed that the abuse would not stop even if her father discovered the truth about her relationship with him.

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The narrator felt that her boyfriend was trying to manipulate her into telling her parents about their relationship.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator believed her boyfriend was being too 'caring'.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator could only think about her abusive relationship.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Her boyfriend was a good listener.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was happy about being the new senior editor.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was concerned about her parents' reaction to her relationship with Will.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend supported her decision to keep her relationship a secret.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator believed that her father's reaction to her relationship with Will would be positive.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend felt sympathetic to her fears.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father believed that his opinion about her relationship was very important.

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The narrator's father was against her relationship with Will because, he felt it was not a good match for her.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend tried to convince her to tell her parents about their relationship.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator felt that her father would understand her intentions.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father was unaware of her boyfriend's existence.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was looking forward to her dinner with her boyfriend.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend was understanding of her desire to keep her relationship a secret.

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The narrator was not very polite to her boyfriend.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend wasn't aware of the abuse the narrator had suffered.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father would understand and support her decision to move out.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was confident about her ability to move out on her own.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend had the same beliefs that her father had.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator didn't think about the future.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend was unaware of the abuse she had gone through.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was willing to accept the challenges that came with her relationship with Will.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend was not understanding of her fear.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father did not understand her decision to move out.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The main reason for the narrator's desire to be with Will was his wealth.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend was happy to be with her.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was grateful for her parents.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's mother was a loving mother.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What did the narrator's father do to the narrator when she was in his study?

<p>Slapped her</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father wanted her to be the best version of herself for her parents.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was happy to keep her relationship with Will a secret from her parents.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was aware of the dangers of her father's reaction.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's father wanted her to keep her relationship a secret from her parents.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator's boyfriend supported her desire to keep their relationship a secret.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was unsure about her decision to leave her family.

<p>True (A)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The narrator was not worried about her father's reaction to her decision to move out.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Flashcards

Abuse

A pattern of behavior used to control or harm another person, often seen in relationships.

Observer

Someone who watches and notices details around them.

Domestic violence

Abuse happening within a domestic setting, often between partners.

Concealing

Hiding something to prevent it from being seen or known.

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Hiding evidence

Keeping information or physical signs from being discovered.

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Disguise

To change appearance or character to conceal one's identity.

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Fear of discovery

The anxiety stemming from the possibility of being found out.

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Manipulation

Controlling or influencing someone in a devious way.

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Secrecy

The act of keeping something hidden or unknown.

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Regret

A feeling of sorrow or remorse for something done.

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Isolation

Being separated from others or feeling alone.

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Traditional values

Beliefs that are passed down and often dictate social norms.

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Repression

The act of suppressing thoughts or feelings.

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Identity

The characteristics, feelings, or beliefs that make a person who they are.

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Self-worth

The sense of one's own value or worthiness.

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Emotional scars

Lasting psychological effects from painful experiences.

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Family pressure

Expectations or demands from family members that can cause stress.

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Love versus fear

The conflict between affection and the fear of harm.

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Sustaining a lie

Continuing to maintain a falsehood over time.

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Consequences

The outcomes or effects that follow an action or decision.

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Coping mechanisms

Strategies used to manage stress or difficult emotions.

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Fear of intimacy

An aversion to getting close to others emotionally or physically.

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Rebellion

Resistance to authority or control.

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Relationship dynamics

The patterns of interaction between people in a relationship.

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Breaking free

The act of escaping from control or confinement.

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Societal expectations

The norms and values imposed by society on individuals.

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Emotional manipulation

Exploiting someone's emotional vulnerabilities for personal gain.

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Fear as a motivator

Using fear to drive actions or decisions.

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Anxiety

A feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something.

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Pretending

Acting as if something is true when it is not.

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Moral dilemma

A situation in which a difficult choice must be made between two conflicting moral principles.

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Study Notes

Five years ago

  • The narrator wasn't a talker but a feeler and observer

  • Their identity as an observer was forced upon them

  • They felt the energy shift in a room and observed their father's reactions

  • They noticed their mother's makeup routine changed after arguments, likely to cover bruises and hide any evidence of abuse

  • The mother applied cream to speed up the healing process of her bruises

  • Then applied green eyeshadow to cover any other marks of abuse

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