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What was Lucy's primary motivation for saying funny or outrageous things?
What was Lucy's primary motivation for saying funny or outrageous things?
- To be respected by her colleagues
- To practice her public speaking skills
- To get attention from her parents and siblings (correct)
- To impress her boss and get promoted
What did Lucy's boss think about her sharp tongue?
What did Lucy's boss think about her sharp tongue?
- It was a benefit in the workplace
- It was an asset in client meetings
- It was something to be ignored
- It was a liability and kept her out of client meetings (correct)
What is the difference between being blunt and being direct according to the passage?
What is the difference between being blunt and being direct according to the passage?
- Blunt is for personal use, direct is for professional use
- Blunt is being critical, direct is being constructive
- Blunt instruments are for smashing rocks, direct ones are for fine work (correct)
- Blunt is being honest, direct is being diplomatic
What is the recommended action when tempted to spout off?
What is the recommended action when tempted to spout off?
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What is the recommended way to deal with a situation when tempted to react?
What is the recommended way to deal with a situation when tempted to react?
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What was the underlying reason for Lucy's behavior of being blunt and outspoken?
What was the underlying reason for Lucy's behavior of being blunt and outspoken?
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How did Lucy's bluntness affect her interactions with others?
How did Lucy's bluntness affect her interactions with others?
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What is the recommended approach to being direct in communication, according to the passage?
What is the recommended approach to being direct in communication, according to the passage?
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What is the underlying message of the passage regarding communication?
What is the underlying message of the passage regarding communication?
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What is the ultimate goal of adopting a more direct and respectful approach to communication, according to the passage?
What is the ultimate goal of adopting a more direct and respectful approach to communication, according to the passage?
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Lucy became a drama queen to get away from her anxious feelings.
Lucy became a drama queen to get away from her anxious feelings.
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Lucy's mother thought her bluntness was a liability.
Lucy's mother thought her bluntness was a liability.
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Being direct and being blunt are interchangeable terms.
Being direct and being blunt are interchangeable terms.
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Lucy's bluntness helped her connect with her colleagues and gain their respect.
Lucy's bluntness helped her connect with her colleagues and gain their respect.
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The passage suggests that being blunt can sometimes be an effective way to communicate.
The passage suggests that being blunt can sometimes be an effective way to communicate.
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Study Notes
Bluntness vs. Directness
- Bluntness is a way to cope with feelings of inadequacy or low self-esteem, but it can be a liability in professional settings.
- Being blunt can be a cry for attention, but it can also push people away.
- Comedians use bluntness to entertain and make people laugh, but in a workplace, it can be seen as impolitic and hurtful.
The Case of Lucy
- Lucy, a young financial analyst, used bluntness to get attention from her colleagues and boss, but it backfired.
- She had developed the habit of being blunt in her childhood to get noticed by her parents and siblings.
- Lucy's bluntness was seen as a liability by her boss, who kept her out of client meetings and wrote her up for her behavior.
The Difference Between Bluntness and Directness
- Bluntness is like using a blunt instrument, whereas directness is like using a fine-edged tool.
- Directness requires skill and artistry, whereas bluntness can be seen as crude and careless.
- Being direct is about connecting with people and getting your point across, whereas being blunt is about getting attention or being critical.
Action Steps
- Before speaking out, count to three and consider whether what you have to say is constructive or attention-seeking.
- Ask yourself what you want to accomplish by being blunt and whether it will have the desired effect.
- Consider the boundaries of others and the impact of your words on them.
- Find a respected colleague and observe how they communicate effectively.
- Imagine a loving person coaching you to respond calmly and thoughtfully in a situation.
Bluntness vs. Directness
- Bluntness is a way to cope with feelings of inadequacy or low self-esteem, but it can be a liability in professional settings.
- Being blunt can be a cry for attention, but it can also push people away.
- Comedians use bluntness to entertain and make people laugh, but in a workplace, it can be seen as impolitic and hurtful.
The Case of Lucy
- Lucy, a young financial analyst, used bluntness to get attention from her colleagues and boss, but it backfired.
- She had developed the habit of being blunt in her childhood to get noticed by her parents and siblings.
- Lucy's bluntness was seen as a liability by her boss, who kept her out of client meetings and wrote her up for her behavior.
The Difference Between Bluntness and Directness
- Bluntness is like using a blunt instrument, whereas directness is like using a fine-edged tool.
- Directness requires skill and artistry, whereas bluntness can be seen as crude and careless.
- Being direct is about connecting with people and getting your point across, whereas being blunt is about getting attention or being critical.
Action Steps
- Before speaking out, count to three and consider whether what you have to say is constructive or attention-seeking.
- Ask yourself what you want to accomplish by being blunt and whether it will have the desired effect.
- Consider the boundaries of others and the impact of your words on them.
- Find a respected colleague and observe how they communicate effectively.
- Imagine a loving person coaching you to respond calmly and thoughtfully in a situation.
Bluntness vs. Directness
- Bluntness is a way to cope with feelings of inadequacy or low self-esteem, but it can be a liability in professional settings.
- Being blunt can be a cry for attention, but it can also push people away.
- Comedians use bluntness to entertain and make people laugh, but in a workplace, it can be seen as impolitic and hurtful.
The Case of Lucy
- Lucy, a young financial analyst, used bluntness to get attention from her colleagues and boss, but it backfired.
- She had developed the habit of being blunt in her childhood to get noticed by her parents and siblings.
- Lucy's bluntness was seen as a liability by her boss, who kept her out of client meetings and wrote her up for her behavior.
The Difference Between Bluntness and Directness
- Bluntness is like using a blunt instrument, whereas directness is like using a fine-edged tool.
- Directness requires skill and artistry, whereas bluntness can be seen as crude and careless.
- Being direct is about connecting with people and getting your point across, whereas being blunt is about getting attention or being critical.
Action Steps
- Before speaking out, count to three and consider whether what you have to say is constructive or attention-seeking.
- Ask yourself what you want to accomplish by being blunt and whether it will have the desired effect.
- Consider the boundaries of others and the impact of your words on them.
- Find a respected colleague and observe how they communicate effectively.
- Imagine a loving person coaching you to respond calmly and thoughtfully in a situation.
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