Get Out Of Your Own Way Ch: 33

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What is the function of the 'blood-brain' barrier in the human brain?

  • To regulate body temperature
  • To filter out toxins and let in necessary substances (correct)
  • To produce hormones
  • To stimulate muscle movement

What is a characteristic of someone who is thin-skinned?

  • They are overly critical of others
  • They take things too personally (correct)
  • They have high self-esteem
  • They are always prepared for difficult situations

What is one way to develop a thicker skin?

  • By seeking constant validation from others
  • By developing emotional boundaries (correct)
  • By becoming more aggressive in conflicts
  • By avoiding difficult situations altogether

What was one of Jane's strategies for dealing with difficult situations?

<p>She would take time to breathe and calm down before reacting (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is a key insight that can help someone develop a thicker skin?

<p>That shame belongs to the person who hurts us, but shame on us if we let it happen again (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the result of Jane's sensitivity in her professional life?

<p>It frequently gets in her way. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What does Jane's sensitivity enable her to do?

<p>To pick up on other people's feelings more quickly. (D)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the effect of criticism on Jane?

<p>It makes her feel very hurt and takes her a long time to recover. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the purpose of the analogy about skin in the passage?

<p>To illustrate the concept of sensitivity and its effects. (C)</p> Signup and view all the answers

What is the result of Jane's reaction to performance evaluations?

<p>Her boss is concerned about her mental stability. (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Permeable skin allows only water and air to flow in and out.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Being thin-skinned is a sign of emotional maturity.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Developing a thicker skin requires sacrificing one's empathy and perceptiveness.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

Jane's initial approach to dealing with performance reviews was to become aggressive and defensive.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

The phrase 'beauty is only skin deep' means that physical attractiveness is the most important quality in a person.

<p>False (B)</p> Signup and view all the answers

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Study Notes

Sensitivity and Emotional Boundaries

  • Jane, a public relations specialist, is openhearted, generous, and optimistic, but also very sensitive, which makes her empathetic towards others.
  • Her sensitivity can be both a strength and a weakness, making her prone to feeling hurt and taking a long time to recover when criticized or slighted.

The Consequences of Being Thin-Skinned

  • Being thin-skinned means taking things too personally and letting others' opinions affect one's self-worth.
  • This can lead to feeling badly after being criticized, and in extreme cases, may cause one to wonder about their mental stability.
  • Thin-skinned individuals may also be needy and lack emotional boundaries, making them vulnerable to difficult situations and people.

Biological and Psychological "Skins"

  • Biologically, skin is a membrane that can be impermeable, semi-permeable, or permeable.
  • Psychologically, a person's "skin" can be thick or thin, depending on their ability to cope with criticism and setbacks.
  • A thick-skinned person doesn't let criticism in, while a thin-skinned person lets it in and takes it too personally.

Developing Emotional Boundaries

  • To develop a thicker skin, one doesn't need to change who they are, but rather learn to set emotional boundaries.
  • This can be achieved by objectifying situations, checking in with oneself before reacting, and preparing for potential criticisms.
  • Developing emotional boundaries can lead to better relationships, increased self-awareness, and improved effectiveness in work.

Sensitivity and Emotional Boundaries

  • Jane, a public relations specialist, is openhearted, generous, and optimistic, but also very sensitive, which makes her empathetic towards others.
  • Her sensitivity can be both a strength and a weakness, making her prone to feeling hurt and taking a long time to recover when criticized or slighted.

The Consequences of Being Thin-Skinned

  • Being thin-skinned means taking things too personally and letting others' opinions affect one's self-worth.
  • This can lead to feeling badly after being criticized, and in extreme cases, may cause one to wonder about their mental stability.
  • Thin-skinned individuals may also be needy and lack emotional boundaries, making them vulnerable to difficult situations and people.

Biological and Psychological "Skins"

  • Biologically, skin is a membrane that can be impermeable, semi-permeable, or permeable.
  • Psychologically, a person's "skin" can be thick or thin, depending on their ability to cope with criticism and setbacks.
  • A thick-skinned person doesn't let criticism in, while a thin-skinned person lets it in and takes it too personally.

Developing Emotional Boundaries

  • To develop a thicker skin, one doesn't need to change who they are, but rather learn to set emotional boundaries.
  • This can be achieved by objectifying situations, checking in with oneself before reacting, and preparing for potential criticisms.
  • Developing emotional boundaries can lead to better relationships, increased self-awareness, and improved effectiveness in work.

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