Effective Pastoral Counseling
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The exercise of dividing a paper into three columns is meant to help individuals implement worldly love.

False

The third column in the exercise is for listing areas where individuals are already good.

False

The high points and low points record is a way to track individual progress in personal growth.

False

The biblical counselor recommends online resources like soundword.com for individuals to learn about relationships.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The first column in the exercise is for listing areas where individuals need to change.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The second column is for listing the benefits of implementing godly love.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Being tender-hearted is a characteristic of bad pastors.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A tender-hearted pastor is one who is unaffected by the emotions of others.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The exercise is only meant for individuals in romantic relationships.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor recommends recording high points and low points of a relationship on audio or video tapes.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The CEO type of personality makes a good shepherd.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Being empathetic towards a counselee is essential in building a strong relationship.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The phrase "tender-hearted" is literally translated from the Greek word "tender-bowled".

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

A good pastor focuses primarily on communicating biblical concepts to their counselee.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Being emotionally warm with a counselee is a sign of weakness.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Showing kindness and empathy towards a counselee can lead to facilitated responses.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

During pre-counseling, homework is always centered around the gospel.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor never gives the counselee a Bible during pre-counseling.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor's homework focuses on personal growth and understanding marriage biblically.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor's data gathering inventory forms are only for husbands.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor provides homework on how to be a good friend in a romantic relationship.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor's role concepts include understanding husband and wife roles.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor's homework includes 50 questions for husbands to ask themselves, but not for wives.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The counselor's homework is only focused on meeting a partner, not on personal growth.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor wants to know about a person's daily life to be able to help them.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor is driven by curiosity when trying to help people.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A biblical counselor only helps individuals in romantic relationships.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Ministering the word of God involves getting into the fine details of a person's life.

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor's primary goal is to communicate biblical concepts to their counselee.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A biblical counselor is only interested in dispensing the Bible and not in the specifics of a person's life.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor's approach is focused on understanding the big picture of a person's life.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

The biblical counselor's role is limited to providing general advice and not specific guidance.

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A good pastoral counselor should use sarcasm to connect with their counselees

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Facilitated responses in counseling encourage self-exploration and discovery

<p>True</p> Signup and view all the answers

A pastoral counselor should point out the counselee's sin immediately

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Counselees always know everything that's going on in their lives

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Ridicule is an effective way to build trust with a counselee

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A good counselor should focus primarily on communicating biblical concepts to their counselee

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Facilitated responses in counseling promote a condescending attitude

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

A pastoral counselor should be emotionally unaffected by the emotions of their counselee

<p>False</p> Signup and view all the answers

Study Notes

Effective Pastoral Counseling

  • A pastor must establish a connection with their counselee by being fully engaged and showing empathy through non-verbal means, such as maintaining eye contact and being tender-hearted.
  • Tender-heartedness involves being emotionally sensitive and warm, unlike a CEO type who is hardened and cold.
  • A counselor should avoid pushing aside emotional elements to focus solely on teaching biblical concepts, as this can lead to the counselee feeling unheard and unimportant.

Pre-Counseling Homework

  • Give counselees gospel-centered homework to complete before the counseling session, such as studying passages about the gospel or the Romans Road.
  • Provide resources like Jay Adams' books or Wayne Mack's materials on preparing for marriage and family.
  • Assign tasks that encourage interaction with the Bible, such as reading specific passages, highlighting important statements, and creating a plan to implement godly love.

Data Gathering Inventory Forms

  • Use forms to gather information on common areas of sin and conflict between husbands and wives, such as deep friendship inventory, role concepts, and understanding marriage biblically.
  • Assign exercises like defining and creating a plan to implement godly love based on 1 Corinthians 13:4-6, such as defining terms, identifying areas of failure, and listing steps to change.

High Points and Low Points Record

  • Have counselees record the high points and low points of their relationship, including good times and bad times, to help identify areas for improvement.
  • Use resources like audio or video recordings, online materials, and MP3 downloads to aid in the counseling process.

Facilitated Responses

  • Avoid using verbal behaviors like sarcasm, ridicule, or mockery, as these can drive counselees away and create a condescending attitude.
  • Encourage self-exploration, discovery, and understanding by creating a safe and non-judgmental environment for counselees to share their thoughts and feelings.

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Learn how pastoral counselors can establish a connection with their counselees through empathy and emotional sensitivity, and avoid common pitfalls in biblical counseling.

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