40 Questions
In a counseling session, people often avoid direct eye contact with their spouse.
False
One person explaining what the other person means is a sign of healthy communication in a relationship.
False
In a counseling session, the person who talks the most is often the one who initiates conversations.
False
When one person answers for the other in a counseling session, it's a sign of good communication.
False
In marriage counseling, the counselor focuses on the presentation problem rather than the underlying issue.
False
In a relationship, making excuses for one's behavior is a sign of taking responsibility.
False
Observing how people interact in a counseling session can reveal patterns of conflict resolution in their relationship.
True
In a counseling session, the counselor's role is to fix the problem immediately.
False
The wife in the counseling session would always encourage her husband to express his thoughts and opinions.
False
Couples who sweep their disagreements under the rug usually resolve their problems effectively.
False
Venting emotions during conflicts can lead to long-term resolutions.
False
Denying the existence of problems in a marriage can lead to positive change.
False
The husband in the counseling session was the one who always shut down his wife's opinions.
False
Marriage counseling aims to alleviate symptoms rather than address underlying issues.
False
Couples who communicate effectively never experience conflicts.
False
The therapist's primary goal is to take sides in the couple's conflict.
False
Teaching communication techniques can fundamentally change a person's behavior in a marriage.
False
Asking for confirmation in counseling is a sign of weakness.
False
In marriage counseling, focusing on external behavioral changes is enough to solve problems.
False
Generalities are useful in the counseling process.
False
The goal of marriage counseling is to polish external behaviors.
False
Repeating what the counselor says is an effective way to ensure understanding.
False
Humility is an important quality for a counselor to have.
True
Focusing on the presentation problem is enough to resolve conflicts in a relationship.
False
In marriage counseling, an individual's goal should be to change their spouse or partner.
False
A person should come to counseling to help their partner or spouse change.
False
Taking responsibility for one's actions and feelings is a key aspect of counseling.
True
In marriage counseling, figures of speech and metaphors are rarely used to help counselees understand key concepts.
False
Biblical forgiveness is a crucial aspect of resolving past conflicts in a marriage.
True
The counselor's role is to help individuals change their partners or spouses.
False
Couples who come to counseling should focus on changing their partner's behavior.
False
A counselor's primary role is to preach and teach in a counseling session.
False
The goal of counseling is to alleviate symptoms, rather than address underlying issues.
False
The past can be determinative in a marriage, meaning that it can dictate the course of the relationship.
False
Couples should focus on changing their relationship dynamics, rather than their own individual behaviors.
False
In marriage counseling, the counselor focuses solely on addressing the counselees' heart issues.
False
Using illustrations and analogies can help counselees remember key concepts in counseling sessions.
True
Personal growth and self-improvement are key aspects of the counseling process.
True
The husband and wife relationship can be compared to two people in a rowboat, where each person has an oar.
True
Instructional skills are not necessary in marriage counseling.
False
Study Notes
Observations in Marriage Counseling
- In counseling sessions, body language and seating arrangements can reveal underlying issues in the relationship, such as aggression, defensiveness, or avoidance.
- Couples' interactions can be telling, including:
- One partner dominating the conversation while the other remains quiet
- Constant excuse-making or justifications for one's behavior
- Implied accusations or blame-shifting
- One partner explaining or interpreting the other's words
- Ignoring or interrupting each other
- Counseling dynamics can also reveal patterns, such as:
- One partner answering for the other
- Constant corrections or clarifications
- Manipulation or coercion
- Withdrawal or retreat
Communication Patterns in Marriage
- Couples may have unhealthy communication patterns, such as:
- Sweeping problems under the rug
- Yelling and screaming, which may provide temporary emotional release but doesn't solve the problem
- Denying problems exist
- These patterns can hinder effective communication and deepen relationship issues.
Instructional Skills in Counseling
- A counselor's instructional skills are essential in helping couples understand and address their problems.
- Effective instructional skills involve:
- Using figures of speech, metaphors, and illustrations to explain complex concepts
- Breaking down abstract ideas into concrete, specific examples
- Encouraging humility and inviting correction
- Focusing on individual responsibility and change, rather than trying to change one's partner.
Analytical Skills in Counseling
- A counselor's analytical skills involve:
- Encouraging specificity and concreteness in couples' descriptions of their problems
- Seeking confirmation and clarification of understood issues
- Inviting correction and humility
- Identifying patterns and dynamics in the relationship.
Observe the dynamics of a counseling session, noting the seating arrangement, body language, and interaction patterns between couples. Identify aggressive behavior, excuses, and communication styles.
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